Saturday, May 1, 2010

Should A Female Be Initially Labeled A H^ or B^tch?

Before I begin I must make some things clear for the EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE and those NOT CAPABLE of rationally processing information:

CLARIFICATION:

1. H^'s and B^TCHES DO EXIST,
2. NOT ALL females are H*s and B*tches,
3. This information can also apply to males as well,
4. This is to be applied ONLY to those who's BEHAVIOR reflect such,
5. IF YOUR behavior reflects the information and you don't like it then CHANGE your behavior or ACCEPT the label given to you.
6. MOST MALES LIE about being genuine when it comes to paying for dining or event dates and says that he just want to have a lady's in his company AND wanting nothing in return. They want SERVICE for their compensation. That service can range from EXCLUSIVE TIME to SEX and many things in between. If females believe I'm lying simply tell the male that's compensating you that you are a) dating other males, b) having sex with another or other males and/or c) you won't be exclusive with him or you WON'T EVER have sex with him. MOST FEMALES won't say any of it because they don't want to stop receiving the UN-OBLIGATED benefits and they love the CONTROL GAME.

DEFINITIONS (based SOLELY upon behavior and NOT ASSumption):

H^ - One that EXPECTS/REQUIRES compensation (i.e., money, paying their way, favors, material things, etc.) or you absorbing all expenses incurred while spending time with her in exchange for her time and, in most cases, will not spend time with you UNLESS you do so. What happens with that time depends upon the H^, how well the H^ is compensated and if the H^ has an attraction to the compensator.

B^tch - One that EXPECTS/REQUIRES compensation (i.e., money, paying their way, favors, material things, etc.) or you absorbing all expenses incurred in exchange for her time with VERY LITTLE OR NO INTENT of giving him nothing more that what SHE chooses to give him if anything at all but the time to GIVE AGAIN TO HER the next time.

Lady - One that may ACCEPT but NOT EXPECT compensation (i.e., money, paying their way, favors, material things, etc.) or you absorbing all expenses incurred while spending time with her in exchange for her time. One that CAN and WILL spend time with a male WITHOUT compensation from him and will pay her own way WITHOUT ATTITUDE if necessary. What happens with that time will depend upon MUTUAL CONSENT.

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Now that I've gotten that out of the way let me proceed. My response is that NO female SHOULD NOT be initially labeled a H^, B^tch or Lady. Whatever happened to judging females based upon their own merits or behavior? To place a label on a female IN ADVANCE would be quite unfair to her and quite immature of the male. For ANY MALE to ASSume a female is a H^ or B^tch WITHOUT her behavior reflecting such or just because she has NO PERSONAL interest in him would be quite a PATHETIC and IMMATURE male in my opinion.

Females have no problem with being labeled a lady even though their behavior will have not yet been proven to or their present behavior does not warrant such a title. I personally simply refer to them as females UNTIL their behavior places them in one of the three categories. The label females DOES NOT place her in the gutter, IS NOT disrespectful and DOES NOT prematurely place her on a pedestal. I believe such a title as lady has to be EARNED and not freely given.

IN ALL FAIRNESS, a male should have no problem NOT being place on a pedestal as well UNTIL he has proven to EARN such. That earning of such label should be based upon how POLITE and RESPECTFUL he is as opposed to his monetary and material contributions. RESPECT should have nothing to do with money or material things but sadly enough, for many, it does.

FINAL NOTES:

Males SHOULD NOT pursue or put up with a H^ or B^tch because there is another option available IF he takes the time to screen them out. If males want to PURSUE something they should pursue something of more value such as their careers and use that time to develop themselves as opposed to being Captain "Save A H^" or "Save a B^tch". Once a male begins to value himself as opposed to valuing H^'s and B^tches more than himself, he will then begin to ELIMINATE WASTE (i.e., H^'s and B^tches) and start valuing in investing time in and with LADIES.

As I have always stated, there are some LOVING, INDEPENDENT and DECENT LADIES out there such that NO MALE should waste his time, resources or finances on females that treat them in an INCONSIDERATE and UNLOVING manner. If you do then YOU are a FOOLish male and deserve any pain and suffering your receive.