Thursday, July 31, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "HOW TO RUIN YOUR FUTURE IN 6 EASY WAYS: Start Thinking About What Behavior Benefits You and What Behavior Does Not Benefit You"

I used to try and encourage females to think about THEIR BEHAVIOR but MOST of them don't care about THEIR BEHAVIOR because THEY KNOW that YOU WILL come to their rescue if/when they need help.


[I NO LONGER TRY TO GET FEMALES TO BE MORE CONSIDERATE OF YOU]

Yeas ago, after my first book, I attempted to get females to see how inconsiderate and financially irresponsible MANY females were but I was met with OPPOSITION, CRITICISM and DISBELIEF by most of them. 

At that point, I decided to STOP getting them to see the SELFISHNESS of their ways because to do that and ASK them to change their attitude and behavior would mean THEM NOT RECEIVING the FREEBIES they have been receiving from the male's FOOLISH ATTEMPTS to get her companionship.

[IT'S FAR EASIER TO GET THE GIVER THAT'S NOT FAIRLY RECEIVING TO CHANGE THEIR WAYS]

At some point in time, the giver WILL BECOME FRUSTRATED in that one-way exchange and that is when I have my BEST CHANCE of getting HIM to think about CHANGING HIS BEHAVIOR as well as HIS CHOICE IN FEMALE company.

[QUESTION]

Is YOUR LIFE reflected in my illustration?  If so, ARE YOU READY for change in a manner that BEST BENEFITS YOU?

[CONCLUSION]

All I can do is ATTEMPT to get you to TAKE AN HONEST LOOK AT SELF and the CHOICE as to whether or not you want to change is up to you.

Class is dismissed.

Sunday, July 27, 2014

YOUTH "MENTAL" TRAINING CAMP: "Give Me a Young Impressionable Mind and I Will Strengthen It and Teach Him How to Value Himself First"

I had to post this information that came to me from a 16 year old 10 grader who's aunt introduced him to my blog site.


[THE YOUTH IS THE FUTURE]

I need to reach out to the youth who have NOT HAD as much PROGRAMMING and CONDITIONING as MOST of you males.  Yes they have been PARTIALLY programmed through the MEDIA and SIMP male relatives or fathers but I truly believe that THERE IS STILL HOPE TO SAVE MOST OF THEM.

[MOST ADULT MALES OR HOPELESS CASES]

I truly believe that MOST, if not all, of my efforts are being WASTED on MOST male adults and ESPECIALLY those that are in marital or non-marital relationships regardless of race, color, ethnic or economic background.

If you doubt it, just take a look at what MOST of them are posting right here on Facebook.  Do you think what they are posting is going to BENEFIT many of these YOUNG minds or CORRUPT them in a negative way.

Here are just a few poor examples that GOING NO WHERE MALES will display to the young impressionable minds:

- Complaining about worthless females yet REMAINING with them

- Wasting time EXCHANGING insulting or meaningless comments with them

- Telling them they are Kings and they need to find themselves their Queen 

- Giving them STRATEGIES on how to get them or get sex from them

- Being a gentleman or ladies man in order to entertain them to get what he want

- Posting NONSENSE about worthless females yet providing no solutions and by the way, the BEST SOLUTION is to simply LEAVE THOSE TYPES ALONE

There are the BEHAVIOR and ADVICE from IMMATURE and FOOLISH males that, in most cases, will end up LIVING OFF OF someone else.

[CONCLUSION]

As usual, I don't give a shit if any female or male don't like this post because MY CONCERN is for the young males and not those OLD FOOLS.

"You can build their bodies but let me HELP build their minds or they shall WILLINGLY give up SOME or ALL of what they WORK and SACRIFICE for to a female"  - Jai Duval

Saturday, July 26, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "CONSIDERATE WOMAN: Men Must Show Them Love, Respect and Cherish Them Because They Are Few and Those Numbers Are Rapidly Diminishing"

I constantly hear females complain that all I do is say negative things about women.



[FOR PUBLIC RECORD SO YOU CAN "RUN AND TELL THAT"]

Don't ever forget that I first and foremost REPRESENT the COMMON, EVERYDAY Joe and what's best for him WITHOUT doing harm to himself or to others.

I DON'T say negative things about women.  I DO say negative things about inconsiderate, uncooperative and financially irresponsible females (i.e., Bitches and Hos) because THEY BEHAVE in a negative manner AS IT APPLIES TO MALES.

[INCONSIDERATE BITCHES USE YOU AND SCANDALOUS HOS WORK AT GETTING WHAT YOU HAVE EARNED]

INCONSIDERATE BITCHES.  They work just like you but THEIR money is supposed to be for THEIR maintenance and enjoyment while YOUR money is supposed to be for THE RELATIONSHIP'S maintenance and THEIR enjoyment.

SCANDALOUS HOS.  Be it legal extortion (i.e., intentionally getting knocked up to receive child support), marrying you to collect VAGINAmony (i.e., alimony) or marrying with you LEGALLY long enough to later COLLECT HALF of your pension, YOU MUST CHOOSE your mate with YOUR BRAINS and NOT YOUR DICKS.

[SERIOUS MESSAGE TO CONSIDERATE WOMEN]

YOU MUST SEPARATE YOURSELVES FROM THESE BITCHES AND HOS or we DECENT MEN will consider you to be one of them and ABANDON YOU as well.

[CONCLUSION]

Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible women are to be loved, cherished, honored and PRESERVED because they are ENTITLED to it based upon their CONSISTENT and UNSELFISH behavior.

Class is dismissed.

Friday, July 25, 2014

STUPID PEOPLE: "TIME FOR A BREAK: This speaks for itself"

Sometimes I have to take a break away from reading STUPID posts and STUPID comments so I will take this weekend to do just that.


[STUPID PEOPLE ARE NOT DELUSIONAL, THEY JUST DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER]

I guess some people have been STUPID for so long, they think stupid is normal and normal is stupid.

[CONCLUSION]

STUPID IS the MAJORITY nowadays and Facebook is the MOTHER OF ALL MEANS to DISPLAY just how STUPID so many people are.

There is NOTHING you can do to RAISE the INTELLECTUAL LEVEL of stupid people.  The only thing you can do is AVOID THEM COMPLETELY or LIMIT YOUR CONTACT or YOU WILL eventually DUMB DOWN to their level.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "IS HER COMFORT YOUR DISCOMFORT?: Is It Really Worth It Just To Have Her as a Companion?"

Take some time to think about YOUR PURPOSE in life.  Were you pro-created in order to SACRIFICE YOUR LIFE and YOUR WORTH for a female's comfort?  


[PLACE YOUR LIFE ON HOLD]

Are you going to ALLOW some female into your life that places YOUR comfort and YOUR development ON HOLD while YOU make HER LIFE comfortable?

[DON'T WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE TOO OLD OR TOO BROKE TO ENJOY YOUR LIFE]

Many males will FOOLISHLY place their lives on hold to TAKE CARE OF and PROVIDE FOR the well-being of some female and/or HER (not his) children.

MANY TIMES the lifestyle that HE HAD (before her) will be reduced while her lifestyle while have been INCREASED DUE TO HIS EFFORTS for her or them.

[WHERE ARE THE BENEFITS FOR YOU]

Many times YOU will have sacrificed time, resources and finances to LATER FIND OUT that SHE and/or HER CHILDREN will not be there for you AFTER the children are grown and SHE NO LONGER NEEDS YOU.

[QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF]

If you are truly concerned about you, there are important questions that you must ask yourself:

-  "Is this the lifestyle that I had planned for myself"?

-  "Is this the ONLY type of woman that exists out there"?

-  "Is this the ONLY type of woman that I'm capable of having"?

-  "Is going through all of this for her and/or them really worth it"?

[CONCLUSION]

Is ANY female TRULY worth that kind of sacrifice?  Only you can answer for you.

As usual, I simply ATTEMPT to give you something to ponder that WILL HAVE a HUGE IMPACT on your life.  You have to decide IF that impact is BENEFICIAL or NON-BENEFICIAL for you.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "LOVE HER OR LEAVE HER: I Simply Expose Them and Let You Decide What to Do"

NOT ALL females are Pay-Per-View Ho's but you won't know that IF you don't know what a Pay-Per-View Ho is.  This illustration CLEARLY describe who she is.



[MANY MALES FALL IN LOVE AND MARRY PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S]

Many males NEED a Pay-Per-View Ho in order to VALIDATE his manhood.  

He does not feel confident enough or value himself enough to think that HIS CHARACTER and/or APPEARANCE should be more than enough for a female to have a PERSONAL INTEREST in him.

Hey, if your wife is a Pay-Per-View Ho and YOU LIKE IT then I LOVE IT.

[PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S GOTTA EAT AND LIVE TOO]

I'm not knocking Pay-Per-View Ho's.  I'm simply describing their ATTITUDE and BEHAVIOR.  Some of my good female FRIENDS are Pay-Per-View Ho's.  I don't care because I have NO PERSONAL interest in them.

[PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S HAVE A FUNCTION IN SOCIETY TOO]

Pay-Per-View Ho's were created for the MARRIED man who's frustrated and denied by his wife, for the COMMITTED man who's not married but frustrated and denied by his mate and the SINGLE man that's not in a relationship and can't get sex.

[TRUE PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S MAKE GOOD MATES AND WIVES].

True Pay-Per-View Ho's (if she commits to just you) can give you one of the MOST SATISFYING relationships that you will ever have.  Oh I left something out, "True Pay-Per-View Ho's make good mates and wives AS LONG AS you are paying her".

[YOU HAVE OTHER OPTIONS BESIDES PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S BUT THOSE OPTIONS ARE FEW AND RAPIDLY DIMINISHING]

Believe it or not, it's not an URBAN LEGEND, THERE ARE considerate, cooperative and financially responsible (pay their own way) women out there but those numbers are RAPIDLY DIMINISHING so if that is what you want, DO NOT HESITATE.

[CONCLUSION]

Don't hate them.  Get your money's worth then find a better BARGAIN (younger, cost less and put out more) and DUMP the Pay-Per-View Ho that you have.

Never feel bad or give second thought IF you get a BETTER BARGAIN and DUMP HER because in most cases IF that Pay-Per-View Ho finds a BETTER PRICE, she probably WILL DUMP YOU FIRST.

Class is dismissed.

Thursday, July 24, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "MARRIAGE: If She Has More To Gain Than Lose In A Divorce, Then Don't Marry Her"

If ANY woman WILL SIGN AWAY her rights to RECEIVE ANY financial compensation she did not FINANCIALLY CONTRIBUTE TO during that marriage in the event of a divorce (child support not included), then SHE IS MARRIAGE MATERIAL.


Males MUST accept the FACT that DIVORCE IS REAL and MOST MARRIAGES (at least 60% in America) end up in divorce and the male is FINANCIALLY devastated.  Therefore, just as SHE PREPARES herself for marriage, YOU MUST PREPARE yourself in the event of DIVORCE.

[COMPANIONSHIP VS MARRIAGE]

COMPANIONSHIP, to me, is more important than marriage because marriage is a LEGAL commitment where THE MAN USUALLY PAYS to get out of as opposed to companionship which is a HARMONIOUS commitment where THE MAN DOES NOT HAVE TO PAY to get out of.

YOU DON'T have to be married in order to be in a MUTUALLY happy and productive relationship.

[MOST FEMALES DON'T MENTALLY PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE TO BENEFIT THE MALE]

THE PROCESS that I speak of is quite foreign to MOST American females and that is because they have NOT been raised or taught to go through that process.

[FEMALES LOOK FOR WHAT BENEFITS THEM IN GETTING MARRIED]

Most females are conditioned to find a male that can DO FOR HER, make HER LIFE easier and FINANCIALLY PUNISH HIM if the marriage fails.

[MOST MALES DON'T PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE OR DIVORCE]

Most males simply CHOOSE their mate based upon PHYSICAL APPEARANCE or SEX and give no thought to WHAT HAPPENS during that marriage AFTER the honeymoon phase (i.e,, being cooperative and giving him sex in order to get him to marry her) or WHAT HAPPENS during the divorce phase (no legal papers signed BEFORE marriage to protect his assets or protect him financially).

[CONCLUSION]

Marriage CAN BE a good thing IF done properly and NOT emotionally.  Marriage is NOT for everyone and some people can be in a happy, productive relationship WITHOUT getting married.

IF a woman feels that SHE MUST BE MARRIED in order to be happy, I would give SERIOUS thought about marrying her because she is probably IN LOVE with the thought of BEING MARRIED and NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Class is dismissed.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "THEY SAY: Once You Go Black You Don't Go Back"

In all FAIRNESS, others have said, "Once you LEAVE black you DON'T WANT to go back".



[DISCLAIMER]

I DON'T GIVE A SHIT if you get upset at this post.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

MANY dudes are simply FRUSTRATED and DISAPPOINTED and have THOUGHTS of opting out of a certain type of female while others in the same state FOOLISHLY remain.

Believe it or not, SOME MALES are genuinely seeking a considerate, cooperative and financially responsible woman as a mate and ARE UNSUCCESSFUL due to the female type they are selecting.

On the other hand, MANY MALES are just THIRSTY DOGS looking for sex where ever they can get it.

Are you GENUINE or THIRSTY?

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to THIRSTY, DOGGISH males simply looking for sex.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

If you are frustrated, disappointed with the type you have been selecting and are genuinely seeking a LOVING mate then your FIRST STEP should be to GET RID OF those types you are currently with BEFORE you CHANGE your criteria and begin your search.

[TRUE DOGS GOTTA EAT TOO AND THEY LOVE DRAMA]

Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible females DESERVE those doggish males that are out there and those doggish males should FEAST ON them.

These dogs SHOULD LIMIT themselves to those WORTHLESS females, although they won't, and leave the WORTHWHILE (considerate, cooperative and financially responsible) females to DECENT (not wanna-be player or true dog) males.

[WANNA-BE'S NEED TO SIMPLY GROW UP]

MANY of you DECENT dudes are simply PRETENDERS out there TALKING SHIT with these PSYCHOLOGICALLY DAMAGED dogs or DEADBEAT dudes that are going to REMAIN at the bottom of life's hierarchy and will KEEP YOUR DUMB ASS down there too. 

Besides TALKING SHIT (which is useless), what skills do you have and what are you doing to IMPROVE them and keep them UPDATED?

[WISE WOMEN WILL AVOID DOGS AND DEADBEATS]

A wise woman is a good woman but YOUR DUMB ASS will never know IF you continue to ASSOCIATE YOURSELF with OTHER DUMB ASSES and DOGS.

[CONCLUSION]

There is a RAINBOW of options available for you IF you are FRUSTRATED and DISAPPOINTED but until you LET GO and MOVE ON, you will NEVER KNOW.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "DOUBLE STANDARDS: Females Want Equal Pay But Most Don't Want To Be Responsible (Pay Equally) For Themselves"

This is one of the MOST OBVIOUS examples of an Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible female that DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU.


[QUESTION]

What do you think MOST females would do if they get paid the SAME WAGES as males cross the board?  

[ANSWER]

THEY WILL simply have MORE MONEY to spend on THEMSELVES and STILL EXPECT you (the males) to spend YOUR MONEY ON THEM or to MAINTAIN THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

[YOU SHOULD NOT BE PAYING FOR A WORKING WOMAN YOU ARE DATING OR IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH]

One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES a male will make is to WASTE his time and money on an Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible WORKING female.  

She works just like you so why are you spending YOUR time with and YOUR money on that INCONSIDERATE DEADBEAT?

[YOUR DATING AND RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A DEMOCRACY WITH HER, IT'S A DICTATORSHIP THAT BENEFITS HER AND NOT YOU]

ANY WORKING FEMALE that disapproves with this post or refuses to be financially responsible for herself should be IMMEDIATELY DUMPED whether you are in a relationship with her or just dating her.

[CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE WOMEN]

There are NO DEBATES (as to why), ARGUMENTS (against paying) or BAD ATTITUDE (after paying) and simply COOPERATION when it comes to a woman that has a GENUINE INTEREST in becoming a PLATONIC FRIEND or POTENTIAL MATE.

[CONCLUSION]

The NUMBER of Considerate (of you), Cooperative (with you) and Financially Responsible (pay her own way when with you) are RAPIDLY DIMINISHING.

The longer you WASTE time and money on these Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible DEADBEATS, the fewer YOUR CHANCES are that you will meet a QUALITY WOMAN.

If ANY MALE wants to argue against this post, go right ahead.

Class is dismissed.

Monday, July 21, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "NEVER EVER DO THIS: Never Surrender Your Balls, Backbone, Dignity and Finances for Female Companionship"

Far too many males have done this and ALL of them eventually REGRET doing it.



I'm sure that "maybe" your mom, some other females in your family, your EMASCULATED dad or OTHER EMASCULATED married or single males may have told you that YOU MUST DO WHATEVER it takes to get her and keep her happy.

[THAT BEHAVIOR ONLY BENEFITS HER]

Once you FOOLISHLY give it up, you will NEVER get it back from her.  the ONLY thing that you should be giving a female is TIME and the OPPORTUNITY for her to prove if she is a CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE and FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE female.

[CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE FEMALES]

These types of females WILL NOT EXPECT or REQUIRE you to do something so STUPID.

They should EXPECT and REQUIRE the same thing from you that I encourage you to expect and require of them which is TIME and OPPORTUNITY to prove if you are a considerate, cooperative and financially responsible male.

[WHAT SHOULD DECENT, SENSIBLE MALES DO]

I encourage DECENT, SENSIBLE males to:

- REQUIRE a woman he has a personal interest in as a FUTURE mate, partner and wife to DISPLAY her ability to be CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE and FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE (pay her own way) when she is with him. Otherwise, if he is just LOOKING FOR SEX then pay for everything and HOPE she gives it up

- ONLY RESPECT women who carry themselves in a respectable manner

- ONLY GIVE COMPLIMENTS regarding a female's appearance to YOUR WOMAN and NOT other women or the woman you are dating

- ALWAYS GIVE COMPLIMENTS to ANY female that does some sort of WORK be it personally, socially or professionially

I don't try to REACH OUT to those males that DON'T RESPECT a woman's ability to be INDEPENDENT. I simply avoid those males.

[CONCLUSION]

Formulate your own conclusions and make your own decisions on this one because "I HAVE WARNED YOU".

Class is dismissed.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "QUALITY OF LIFE: Has Yours Remained The Same or Increased Since You've Met Her"?

Those everyday, working Joe males WITH VERY LOW TO NO STANDARDS or EXPECTATIONS will consider quality in a female to be simply having her in his company and hoping to eventually get some sex.



[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males with NO AMBITION, LOW SELF-ESTEEM that will exchange his PHYSICAL and FINANCIAL comfort simply for female company.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Most of us are NOT IMMUNE to STUPID and SELF-DESTRUCTIVE behavior due to the DAILY DOSE of female propaganda in the media PROGRAMMING us to believe that SHE COMES FIRST and MUST BE HAPPY FIRST in order for us to be happy.

[WE MUST CHANGE THE PROGRAMMING FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE NEXT GROUP OF YOUNG MALES COMING UP BEFORE THEY REACH ADULTHOOD]

They say EXPERIENCE is the best teacher but in many of these cases IF you don't give them some sort of INSTRUCTION MANUAL, you take the risk of ONE BAD EXPERIENCE ruining their lives forever or at least 18 years (child support) or more.

[MOST ADULT MALES ARE LOST AND WON'T CHANGE]

I have stated this before and will continue to do so UNTIL I see a change in behavior,  at least 7 out of every 10 males WILL NOT CHANGE their behavior and CONTINUE to cater in a manner that is NOT BENEFICIAL to them even though they think so.

[YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY UNLESS YOU MAKE HER HAPPY FIRST]

Any male that thinks like this is an IDIOT, MORON, SIMP or a combination of them all.

Any female that thinks like this is simply an INCONSIDERATE BITCH and you should get as far away from her as possible and NEVER come in contact again.

This mentality has damaged and even destroyed some males lives EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY and FINANCIALLY.

[CAREFULLY READ THE CHART AND COMPARE YOUR PAST OR PRESENT SITUATION]

Take your time.  Be honest with yourself because no one is near you and ask:

-  Was this my life on that chart?

-  Is this NOW my life on that chart?

-  Is she contributing other than occasional sex and her company?

-  Is she ADDING/MULTIPLYING or SUBTRACTING/DIVIDING in this relationship?

-  What is my PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL and FINANCIAL status since I've been with her?

EXCEPT FOR the sex, all of the above questions should be asked about female FRIENDS or COMPANION.

[WHAT ABOUT YOUR SON, SONS OR ANY OTHER YOUNG MALES IN YOUR FAMILY?  WHAT KIND OF EXAMPLE ARE YOU BEING FOR THEM TO FOLLOW]

Are you being a player, a fool, a SIMP or a person that VALUES HIMSELF FIRST without doing harm or taking advantage of any male or female in the process?

[CONCLUSION]

There is very little that I can say to ASSIST YOU in making a wiser choice in women other than the illustration and text in this post.  The FINAL DECISION is going to be UP TO YOU.

Class is dismissed.

Saturday, July 19, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "CONSIDER YOUR FUTURE: Quit While You Are Not Too Far Behind"

Far too many of you dudes REMAIN TOO LONG with these inconsiderate (of you), uncooperative (with you) and financially irresponsible (don't pay their way) females.



I am NOT ASHAMED of the STUPID things that I have done in my past.  I share them to HOPEFULLY PREVENT many of you from DOING THE SAME THING.

[DISCLOSURE]

This DOES NOT APPLY to players, wanna-be players, idiots, morons, fools or SIMPS.

This DOES APPLY to all males that are in relationships with inconsiderate, uncooperative and financially irresponsible females and try to debate or argue with them as to why they don't EQUALLY participate in that dysfunctional relationship.

[END OF DISCLOSURE]

Hey, I'm not picking on you because I used to be one of you.  I did some REALLY STUPID SHIT early in life because I did not know any better and I was SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED to behave in that manner.

[DEEP DISH SOCIAL PROGRAMMING]

Believe it or not, I was SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED SO DEEP that I actually MADE MYSELF believe that I was FORTUNATE just to have a woman and do whatever it takes to MAKE HER HAPPY.  

I'm sure SOME of you WERE the same way and MANY of you ARE STILL behaving the same way.

That programming was SO DEEP that when those DYSFUNCTIONAL relationships (yep, I said those which means more than one for the IDIOTS and MORONS reading and did not catch that) were over, I FELT SO EMPTY and DEPRESSED because she was gone and was NO LONGER THERE for me to CONTINUE TO SERVE HER and MAKE HER HAPPY.

[I DEVELOPED MY OWN 3 STEP RECOVERY PROCESS]

This recovery process is a result of my FOOLISH and UNSUCCESSFUL attempts (many more than one) at getting female companionship:

Step 1.  ACCEPTANCE.  You must HONESTLY ACCEPT the FACT that YOU CHOSE to be in and remain in that dysfunctional relationship with her and that at ANY TIME you could have terminated it and moved on.

Step 2.  EVALUATE and IDENTIFY.  You must TAKE TIME to RATIONALLY evaluate your behavior, her behavior, that dysfunctional relationship and IDENTIFY exactly WHY is it that YOU CHOSE her and YOU CHOSE to REMAIN in that dysfunctional relationship WITH HER.

Step 3.  CORRECTIVE ACTION.  You must then take the necessary corrective action to MAKE SURE that you NEVER, EVER REPEAT that same type of SELF DESTRUCTIVE behavior again.

[POST RECOVERY PHASE]

After recovery, I set out to RECOUP my financial LOSES since lost time was something can never be recovered.  It took a few years to pay off debt incurred MAKING HER HAPPY and HELPING HER WITH HER BILLS but perseverance, patience and wisdom (from my past experiences) paid off for me:

[I RECOVERED AND SURPASSED MY EXPECTATIONS]

I GOT to this comfortable, peaceful and happy stage in life through SACRIFICE and HARD WORK.  

I DID NOT GET to this comfortable peaceful and happy stage in life by:

- DATING multiple women and having them PAY FOR ME while I SAVED MY MONEY and figured out who I wanted to commit to

- COMMIT to ONE WOMAN and have her HELP ME with MY BILLS

- MOVE IN to HER HOME and save even more of my money

- GET MARRIED and have my wife pay most of the bills while I save most of my money or spend my money on minor expenses

- DIVORCE my wife and get at least HAVE of what exists in that marriage and MAYBE even HER HOUSE and CHILD SUPPORT if there are children.

- DATE NOT MARRY ANOTHER MAN OR MULTIPLE MEN so that the child support payments continue.

[IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE FOR ME]

At least I was NOT STUPID enough to EJACULATE inside of these females and ALLOW them to ATTEMPT to use my sperm to GET KNOCKED UP so therefore I simply lost what I refer to as OPERATING EXPENSES while in those relationships.

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

My point is to ATTEMPT to get you to NOT GO down my path because MOST of you would NEVER RECOVER.

DO NOT EJACULATE INSIDE of any female and place your future in her hands.

DO NOT REMAIN in an a disappointing and unfulfilled relationship due to an inconsiderate, uncooperative and financially irresponsible female. 

THE LONGER YOU REMAIN in that unsatisfying relationship, the MORE CHANCES she has to GET KNOCKED UP and cause you even more misery.

[MY INTENT IS "NOT" TO FLAUNT BUT RATHER TO INSPIRE]

You have to CHOOSE what is of value to you.  I prefer a comfortable home that I can come to that is peaceful and a toy (car) of my choosing.

Others may choose to own a business, choose to travel or choose whatever.  The bottom line is that YOUR HAPPINESS, FINANCIAL COMFORT and PEACE OF MIND should be what YOU INVEST in that gives you a positive return (i.e., happiness, financial comfort and peace of mind).

[ARE YOU SACRIFICING YOUR HAPPINESS, DOING MORE FOR HER, SHE DOING LESS FOR YOU AND YOU ARE STRESSED AND/OR FRUSTRATED]

MOST FEMALES (at your level) will NEVER SACRIFICE and FINANCIALLY INVEST in a relationship with you in a considerate, cooperative and financially responsible manner.

MOST FEMALES (as well as many of you) expect you to bear the majority of the RESPONSIBILITIES during dating and a committed relationship.

[BELIEVE IT OR NOT, A FEW DECENT WOMEN STILL DO EXIST]

THERE ARE a FEW considerate, cooperative and financially responsible females remaining but those NUMBERS are RAPIDLY DIMINISHING

The ONLY WAY that you should FEEL COMFORTABLE with a female you have a personal, long-term interest in is IF:

- she puts forth JUST AS MUCH time, effort and finances as you during the dating and committed relationship.

- PROVE HERSELF WORTHY by being CONSISTENTLY considerate, cooperative and financially responsible WITH YOU while dating AND in a committed relationship (marital or non-marital).

[CONCLUSION]

I am NO MORE or NO LESS than any other EVERYDAY, WORKING guy that I represent.  If I can do it, so can you.

I can ONLY attempt to encourage males to think of the short-term and long-term IMPACT to themselves BEFORE they go beyond just conversations with females.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "WORTHLESS FRAUDS: Most Females Claim To Be Strong, Intelligent and Independent Because Most Males Don't Have The Balls To Require Them To Consistently Prove It"

I DIRECTLY BLAME males for the LAZY behavior of PHYSICALLY CAPABLE females and FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE behavior of WORKING females. 



[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males seeking to BUY sex or BUY their way into a relationship.

This DOES APPLY to males seeking to EXTEND their life, peace and prosperity with a considerate, cooperative and financially responsible woman.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

MALES ALLOW the female to be inconsiderate and irresponsible when it comes to SPENDING TIME with him or being in a relationship with him.

[FEMALES NEED NOT ENGAGE IN MEANINGLESS DIALOGUE WITH ME]

Save the meaningless dialogue or excuses for the SIMPS or FOOLISH males that will ENJOY exchanging comments with you.

[MALES YOU CREATED THESE INCONSIDERATE AND WORTHLESS CREATURES]

NO PHYSICALLY CAPABLE and WORKING female should be EXCUSED from behaving in a considerate and responsible manner ALTHOUGH there are MANY of you MALE FOOLS that will allow it in hopes of COMPANIONSHIP or SEX.

[ALL PHYSICALLY CAPABLE AND WORKING FEMALES ARE TO BE AVOIDED  OR ABANDONED IF THEY DISPLAY INCONSIDERATE OR IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOU OR ANY MALE]

You cannot fix, change or rehabilitate these MENTALLY CORRUPTED types of females.  They are DAMAGED BEYOND REPAIR and there is NO KNOWN FIX that exist.

I only expect 2 out of every 10 males to  comply with this because the MAJORITY of them are FOOLISHLY THIRSTY (for companionship) or WEAK (for sex) and will ignore what should be done.

[SOLUTION TO THIS "EXPONENTIALLY" GROWING PROBLEM]

REMOVE HER out of YOUR LIFE and REPLACE HER with a Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible woman.

[CONCLUSION]

This class does not need any further instructions so either DO IT or STOP COMPLAINING and ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "STUPID DUDES: Don't Dumb Down To Their Level"

STUPID is POPULAR and MORE COMMON nowadays and STUPID DUDES will always exist but that does not mean YOU have to be one of them.



[DISCLAIMER]

IF the behavior fits, then this DOES APPLY TO YOU.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

So many dudes have been STUPID for so long or their PRIMARY group of people they interact with is so STUPID that they actually believe that STUPID IS NORMAL and NORMAL IS STUPID.  There is nothing that can be done to help them.

[SENSIBLE COMMENTS CAN BE RATIONALLY EXPLAINED BUT STUPID COMMENTS CAN'T BE]

DO NOT CONTRIBUTE to or ENGAGE IN their stupid conversations because EVENTUALLY you will slowly become just as DUMB DOWN as they are.

[STUPID DUDES DON'T WANT TO CHANGE THEMSELVES THEY WANT TO CHANGE YOU]

STUPID dudes don't want to change because they are comfortable and happy behaving in a STUPID manner.  What they WANT, NEED and DESIRE is to have MORE stupid people around them.

[MY CLASSES ARE NOT FOR STUPID DUDES]

Every time I see a dude putting STUPID comments on my posts the first thing that I do is QUESTION them to CLEARLY EXPLAIN themselves and put their pieces together.  

MOST of them will BACK OFF and MANY of them will ATTEMPT to divert away from their STUPID comment.

When I see their STUPID posts on other pages I simply SMH. 

[STOP ENABLING AND SUPPORTING STUPIDITY]

I realize that MANY OF YOU reading this will CONTINUE to support stupid thinking and behavior because that's the PRIMARY ESSENCE of your life. 

I never accept STUPID comments but if the people reading them are STUPID then what they read is SENSIBLE to them and they don't question it, they simply click the "like" button instead.  This simply adds fuel to the fire of stupidity.

[CONCLUSION]

There is a CLEAR difference between SENSIBLE and STUPID behavior.  If you don't know the difference, I will NOT be wasting my time attempting to explain it to you.

STUPID DUDES are going nowhere in life and NEED COMPANY so they will try to KEEP YOU at that same DEAD END, DUMB DOWN level with them.

Class is dismissed so go do something SENSIBLE this weekend.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "JAI DUVAL 7:23 - For As He Thinketh, So Is He"

Some males will NEVER progress so STOP wasting your time CLOWNING with them or ATTEMPTING to divert them away from THEIR priority.  



[WORDS OF ADVICE]

-  Maintain AS LITTLE contact and communication as possible.  

-  LEAVE THEM to what they value.  

-  DON'T ALLOW them to PULL YOU into THEIR IMMATURE WORLD.

[CONCLUSION]

Still wonder why MANY of a certain group will NEVER amount to much?

If you don't UNDERSTAND this SIMPLE illustration, you are hopeless.

Saturday, July 12, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "LONG DISTANCE TRICKS: How to Weed Out Most of Them"

None of my methods are 100% effective in weeding out WORTHLESS and INCONSIDERATE females.

MY METHODS will surely be FAR BETTER TO PROTECT YOU than most of the PROPAGANDA that exist to GET YOU to foolishly cater to these worthless and inconsiderate females in a manner that DOES NOT BENEFIT YOU.


[TRAVEL NOTE]

When I state "pay half", that means to IMMEDIATELY REFUND you (in cash) half of the cost of the airfare ONCE YOU have ARRIVED.  You will be responsible for the INITIAL purchase of the airfare.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ANY female regardless of race, color, ethnic, economic, religious or educational background.

This DOES NOT APPLY to the IMMATURE, to idiots, to fools, to morons and DEFINITELY not to SIMPS.

This DOES NOT APPLY to thirsty dudes desperate in their attempts to BUY SEX

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I saw the image in this post and I did not know if THAT SITUATION was true and so thought very little of it.  Then I started to reflect on my on PAST situations and realized, "Hey, there are dudes out there that NEED GUIDANCE in dealing with situations like this that DO EXIST".

[THE TRICKS ARE TRICKING EVEN HARDER THESE DAYS WITH THE HELP OF ONLINE SITES]

Yea, years ago I got tricked and TRICKED HARD by an EXPERIENCED online, long  distance trick and I am NOT ASHAMED of admitting it.  

That experience propelled me to write my first book in 2005 titled, "THE GOOD MAN'S SURVIVAL GUIDE:  How to Identify and Avoid a No Good Skeezer".

[THE MORE SOCIAL SITES THE MERRIER FOR ONLINE TRICKS]

IF she's on ONE SITE, then chances are that SHE IS on MULTIPLE SITES.

Don't be surprised, angry or hurt to find out that a female YOU HAVE an interest in and are COMMUNICATING WITH is on MULTIPLE dating sites because these sites are QUITE BENEFICIAL for them and INCREASES their TRICKING SUCCESS.

[ALL FEMALES ON THESE SOCIAL SITES ARE "NOT TRICKS"]

I USUALLY NEVER put all females in a category but this is one of those RARE times that I will do so.

ASSUME that ALL FEMALES on these social sites (especially the dating sites) are TRICKS LOOKING FOR A FREE RIDE until they prove themselves to not be such.

[CONCLUSION]

It's is HER RESPONSIBILITY to prove that she is considerate, cooperative and financially responsible through HER BEHAVIOR with you and you should NEVER ASSUME she will EVENTUALLY be such if you are and continue to be considerate (to), cooperative (with) and financially responsible (for her).

BLAME NO ONE but yourself IF you choose to NOT LISTEN TO, NOT APPLY my advice and GET TRICKED because THERE ARE quality women out there that are not tricks.

Class is dismissed.

Friday, July 11, 2014

DATE SPONGERS: "Time To Weed Them Out and Get Rid of Them"

Males should NEVER NEGOTIATE EQUAL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY with a capable female because:

"FEMALES DON'T NEGOTIATE EQUAL RIGHTS, THEY DEMAND IT".



[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to SIMPS.

This DOES NOT APPLY to THIRSTY males.

This DOES NOT APPLY to Single, Married or In Non-Marital Relationship males that trying to BUY SEX.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are RAISED to spend his money on WORKING and CAPABLE females.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I only expect 2 out of every 10 males reading this to AGREE and APPLY this when money is involved when he is in the company of a female.

[DATE SPONGERS]

These females BELONG in that inconsiderate, uncooperative and financially irresponsible category of females that YOU SHOULD ELIMINATE out of your life completely.

These female types HAVE NO RESPECT for you and your financial responsibilities so you SHOULD NOT RESPECT them in any form.

[THEY WANT EQUAL RIGHTS THEN ONLY GIVE IT IF THEY ACCEPT EQUALITY RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES AND ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR BEHAVIOR]

As I have stated before, there should be NO COMPROMISE when it comes to a female being FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE for herself WHEN she has the ability to do so.

STOP ENABLING that DATE SPONGER MENTALITY by paying their way for the opportunity to spend time with them.

[HOW LOW IS YOUR SELF-ESTEEM OR HOW LITTLE VALUE DO YOU PLACE ON YOUR COMPANY AND TIME]

Why are YOU PAYING for the opportunity to SPEND TIME with any female.

I can't and won't WASTE my time with SIMPS or males RAISED to ASSUME the responsibility for some WORKING, GROWN ASS woman.  If you want a Pay-Per-View female then by all means go right ahead because IT'S YOUR MONEY.

[CONCLUSION]

If she REFUSE to accept the RESPONSIBILITY and ACCOUNTABILITY that comes with EQUAL RIGHTS then GET RID OF HER.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "WALK AWAY FROM HER: You Should Never Try To Convince, In Any Manner, A Female To Be Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible"

The more of my posts you read and my classes you attend, you will begin to PUT MORE VALUE IN YOU and PUT MORE RESPONSIBILITY and ACCOUNTABILITY ON THEM.


This is 2014 so why are you NOT making females more RESPONSIBLE for themselves and more ACCOUNTABLE for their behavior.

[GET YOUR MINDS OUT OF THAT PRE-FEMINIST ERA]

Females, nowadays, have even more opportunities at jobs than males and therefore have the ability to EARN an income.  Why are you still behaving like this is the pre-feminist era where female were NOT ALLOWED to work, NOT ALLOWED to earn an income, NOT ALLOWED to make speak out and NOT ALLOWED to determine their fate.

[IF SHE IS INCONSIDERATE, UNCOOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE SHE DOES NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU OR SHE IS LIVING WITH AN OUT-DATED BEHAVIOR THAT DON'T BENEFIT YOU]

Either way, it's NOT GOOD for you so when you come in contact with females of this type simply WALK AWAY from them.

[ALL FEMALES ARE NOT INCONSIDERATE, UNCOOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE, JUST MOST OF THEM]

It's important to know that IF you do come in contact with a considerate, cooperative and financially responsible female then CHERISH HER as a friend or a mate because THEY ARE RARE these days.

[CONCLUSION]

Remember that I am attempting to get you to CHANGE your way of thinking and behavior in a manner that WILL BENEFIT YOU without taking advantage of or doing any harm to any female.  If they can't accept that change in you then DUMP THEM.

Class is dismissed.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "CAN'T CONTROL YOUR THIRST FOR SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP?: Then They Will Control Your Life and Your Future"

What I'm about to say about males is PATHETIC but I will say it anyway. 


When it comes to MOST SINGLE and MARRIED males interacting with females in the areas of sex and companionship:

- 7 out of every 10 males will end up LOSERS or SIMPS,

- 1 out of every 10 will be UNDECIDED in their decision, and

- 2 out of every 10 males will be SUCCESSFUL and have CONTROL over their lives and their future.

[CONSIDERATE AND COOPERATIVE WOMEN DON'T TRY TO CONTROL OR MANIPULATE YOU]

If you have female friends or woman in your life that is considerate of you, those female friends WILL NOT try to use their friendship in a manner to SELFISHLY manipulate you and YOUR WOMAN will not use companionship or sex in a manner to SELFISHLY manipulate you.

[CONCLUSION]

Don't take my word for it. Look at the males in your family and/or your close friends. Once you are finished and without making any EXCUSES:

"TAKE AN HONEST AND CLOSE LOOK AT YOURSELF"

Class is dismissed.

Monday, July 7, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "WRONG CLASS: My Classes Are Not For Whining, Complaining, Bashing or Immature (Clown-like) Behavior"

If you are here to whine, complain, bash or clown then you have CHOSEN or been REFERRED TO the wrong class.



[DISCLAIMER]

These classes ARE FOR mature males that are seeking to IMPROVE the QUALITY SELECTION of females in their lives when it comes to interacting and/or having females as a FRIEND or COMPANION.

These classes ARE NOT FOR immature males, players, wanna-be players or SIMPS

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

These classes are about YOU CHANGING YOUR THINKING and BEHAVIOR in a manner that will BENEFIT YOU without:

- doing harm to,

- foolishly doing for,

- talking advantage of, 

- being taken advantage of by, 

ANY females in your past, present or future.

[CONCLUSION]

If you are here to clown, whine, complain or bash females, you should LEAVE NOW.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

MENTALLY STRONG MALES ONLY: "Single or Married SIMPS Not Allowed"

STAND YOUR GROUND: Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible Women Welcomed Only Because We Do Not Negotiate With Inconsiderate, Uncooperative or Financially Irresponsible females.


The SIMP EPIDEMIC has GONE VIRAL and the number of Single and Married SIMPS are growing. Are you MENTALLY prepared? Don't allow yourself to get SIMPlified.

Still in production. I want to make sure the material is CLEAR and ON POINT before putting them online for purchase because I know Inconsiderate, Uncooperative or Financially Irresponsible females will be looking for contradictions.

Friday, July 4, 2014

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "MAN UP AND GET OUT: Dump That Trash Because There Are Better Women Available And You Deserve Much Better Than Her"

MANY males are simply ACCUSTOMED TO RECYCLED TRASH and DON'T REALIZE HOW BAD they have it because they've NEVER HAD IT ANY BETTER.


  
[YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU LET GO]

I'm here to tell you that IF this is YOUR LIFE and YOUR RELATIONSHIP that their is far better opportunities available for you BUT you will never know or never have the opportunity to HAVE BETTER as long as YOUR REMAIN where you are.

[DON'T TRY TO GET QUALITY BEFORE DUMPING THE TRASH]

This is the biggest mistake a male will make in his decision to look for another woman WHILE he is STRESSING HIMSELF with a worthless woman.

YOU MUST rid yourself of that trash so you can be physically and mentally FREE to interact and engage with considerate, cooperative and responsible women.

[ONE MAN'S TRASH IS "NOT" ANOTHER MAN'S TREASURE]

That's a lie that was put out by TRASHY women to con DECENT dudes into taking them in and helping them out.  No matter what ANYONE says:

"One man's trash is simply another man's RECYCLED trash". 

[CONCLUSION]

If you STAY, there's no need to PRAY for things TO GET BETTER because IT WON'T get any better for you FOOL".

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "MAKE HER HAPPY?: Were You Raised or Socially Programmed to Believe That You Were Supposed To Make Her Happy In Order To Be Happy In a Relationship With Her"

If I have to live like this IN A RELATIONSHIP, then I DO NOT HAVE a considerate mate and partner. 



What I would have is a selfish, inconsiderate and unreasonable female and I would DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY.

[WHY DO MALES BEHAVE LIKE THIS AND ACCEPT THIS]

They are raised as young boys by OBSERVING their SIMP dads behave in that manner (if he was in the home) or by SIMP males that his SINGLE MOTHER dated.

They ACTUALLY BELIEVE that this is what they are supposed to do as a man IF they want to have a woman in their life as a companion.

[IF SHE NEEDS YOU TO MAKE HER HAPPY SHE IS A LIABILITY YOU WILL REGRET HAVING LATER ON]

These types of females are the WORST types to have as a FRIEND or a MATE because of the following: 

-  INSECURE.  Will occupy most, if not all, of your FREE time which prevents you from doing anything productive or entertaining WITHOUT her.

-  CONTROLLING.  Your behavior is usually MANIPULATED by her and your whereabouts are constantly UNDER A MICROSCOPE

[MANY MALES FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE IN RELATIONSHIPS IF SHE DOES NOT APPEAR TO BE HAPPY]

MOST of these types of males end up FINANCIALLY DEVASTATED (spent most if not all of his money trying to keep her happy), STRESSED OUT (due to concerns of her being happy or over working himself for her) or CHEATED ON (by her and USUALLY with another man who SHE CAN'T CONTROL and really DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER).


[QUESTIONS]

You should take the time to HONESTLY evaluate your past and present behavior with a female and ask yourself:

-  Was this ever YOUR past behavior?  

-  Are you PRESENTLY behaving in this manner?

-  If you are, will you CONTINUE to behave in this manner AFTER reading this post?

[GET A WOMAN THAT IS SELF-SUFFICIENT AND ALREADY HAPPY]

NO MAN needs to be with a female that HE NEEDS TO MAKE HAPPY in order to be happy, be with her or have peace in his relationship with her.

[CONCLUSION]

MANY of you males reading this ARE IN relationships like this whether you admit it to me or yourself.  If you THINK this is HEALTHY for you (which it is not) then by all means CONTINUE that behavior until YOU BREAK, SHE CHEATS ON YOU or SHE DUMPS YOU.

Class is dismissed