tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post7396694028103361120..comments2023-05-15T08:22:07.945-07:00Comments on Jai Duval's Continuing Education: The 3A's - Attractive, Abused and/or Alonejduvalserieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006591542746964588noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-5407231088223821802010-09-23T09:41:41.013-07:002010-09-23T09:41:41.013-07:00Mr Duval, I was told about your blogsite by a male...Mr Duval, I was told about your blogsite by a male friend of mine. I consider myself to be an average looking hispanic woman that genuinely desires a loving relationship. I love the way you delivered this message. Those types of women cross all color lines. If a woman does not agree with this then she is inconsiderate and what you refer to as a skeezer. Me and my girlfriends simply call them lazy ass bitches. I will refer your site to all of my other friends.Mariananoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-65907758797800687722010-02-10T08:03:58.261-08:002010-02-10T08:03:58.261-08:00jduval you are that little a-hole hiding inside of...jduval you are that little a-hole hiding inside of that big a-hole. you think you are an expert on what very attractive women are supposed to look like. i am big beautiful woman and get more than my share of men approaching me so what's your problem? don't you know that every woman is God's creation and beautiful in their own special way? you need to get a life and stop being so evil.Barbara S.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-76775449044429251732010-02-09T16:14:06.419-08:002010-02-09T16:14:06.419-08:00It completely amuses me when females can wave that...It completely amuses me when females can wave that intelligent, strong and independent FLAG in the face of males they have NO PERSONAL interest in yet they will wave that victim or distress FLAG and claim to have been abused in relationships they willingly (not forcefully) entered into. Did I fail to mention abused for several years in some cases? <br /><br />Why don't they leave AFTER the first alleged domestic abuse incident? I will excuse those that are PHYSICALLY held against their will but don't apply that low self-esteem crap as the reason they did not leave. They have enough high self-esteem to reject the average joe and send him on his way so I don't buy the victim story. In my opinion, the majority of them are VICTIMS of their own POOR CHOICES in men and their POOR CHOICE to remain after the first alleged attack.jduvalserieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04006591542746964588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-30176698693444498352010-02-09T15:33:48.404-08:002010-02-09T15:33:48.404-08:00This is a very interesting topic and one that is c...This is a very interesting topic and one that is close to my heart. I am one of those 40+ very attractive females that grew tire of being in and out of relationships with men like the ultimate player. Yes, I did the choosing but I expected those men to treat me with dignity and respect in a manner that I had been accustomed to. It wasn't about money although all of the men were well established financially. I would have just as well been comfortable with one of your average joe's had they approached me but none of them did. What do you think a woman is supposed to do when a man makes such substantial offers to her? Even a not so attractive woman would give in to those offers.<br /><br />All of that drama is behind me now. I guess you can say that I have tranformed as a result of my experiences. I am in love and very satisfied with the mate that I have now which is just as attractive as I am. Yes, my mate is another woman and I have no plans on ever getting involved with a man again.Ms Found True Lovenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-74451651945555263772010-02-09T14:38:27.147-08:002010-02-09T14:38:27.147-08:00Ms Very Attractive and Satisfied based upon your h...Ms Very Attractive and Satisfied based upon your height and weight you are one of those mental very attractive women that Mr Duval spoke of. You confirmed it by saying you consider yourself to be very attractive. It's not for you to validate. <br /><br />I don't raise those women's expectations, they come with those expectations and I simply go with the flow until I'm ready to move on to the next one. Those women can choose to not have those unreasonable expectations from a man and simply choose the warmth of his company but they don't. <br /><br />Men like myself simply used those unfair and unreasonable expectations against them. If they don't bring it that way, they don't get used.The Ultimate Playernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-67052781593582588052010-02-09T14:10:58.227-08:002010-02-09T14:10:58.227-08:00Mr Ultimate Player you are just one poor excuse of...Mr Ultimate Player you are just one poor excuse of a man. I would not give you the time of day. It's men like you that raise these women's expectations and then let them down with false promises. You are simply a cancer that corrupts the beauty of a relationship. If you ever have a daughter, she will pay for the things you are doing to these women.<br /><br />Mr J Duval I find your blog extremely insulting to women. I am 5'7", 175 lbs, long hair, light complexioned and consider myself to be very attractive and my husband feels the same way. Did you hear what I said? My husband and not some low life like the ultimate player. He pursued me for 2 years before I decided to allow him to propose to me. The problem is women settle for what they don't want in a mate and then regret it later.Ms Very Attractive and Satisfiednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-72627472175882306312010-02-09T13:18:28.020-08:002010-02-09T13:18:28.020-08:00I feel sorry for foolish average joe. His problem...I feel sorry for foolish average joe. His problem is no game. I have a history of dealing with those types of women since my younger days as a youth. I am 35 years old, average looking, never married and have my share of those very attractive women. I would not even standout in a crowd if you saw me. My strength is game. I know what those very attractive women want and I make them believe they are going to get it. Those types of women have been severly spoiled to a point of addiction. I hear them speak negatively of the average joe even when I am dating them. They talk about the places they've gone to and things they have experienced all at some fools expense. I have no respect for those bitches and that's what they are. At least if they were ho's they would give those men what they want since those men are putting out the money. I've had some of those bitches boast about how well average guys treat them and they have no intention on giving them what they want. Their response is that they deserve to be treated special.<br /><br />To all you guys out there I will leave you with this. The more attractive they are the more you have to run game on them because if you don't you will surely end up like foolish average joe and they will come running to me afterwards.The Ultimate Playernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7268883243845373514.post-29144468922393797772010-02-09T13:04:12.897-08:002010-02-09T13:04:12.897-08:00Whoa! Now that's telling it like it is. I wi...Whoa! Now that's telling it like it is. I wish you had posted this about 4 months ago. A female friend of mine read this blog and immediately contacted me. I am one of those joe's that met this 43 year old, very attractive, divorced mother of 2 in October 2009. I mean this woman could compete with Halle Berry in the looks category. I felt that God had sent one of his angels to me. Little did I know that angel was an emotional and financial disaster. I should have known better when she initially started talking to me about the lavish lifestyle she had been living in her last relationship. Needless to say I was stupid and was doing more looking than listening. I fell for her beauty hook, line and sinker and was doing everything that I could to please her. She complained about her abusive relationship and that she had tolerated him for 12 years. By the way, none of those years did she hold down a job but was simply a kept woman having babies and living that upgraded lifestyle you spoke of.<br /><br />We would go to simple places to dine and she would always talk about the lavish places her ex would take her. Trust me, if any joe would hear her talk and had feelings for a woman like that it would literally crush him knowing that he could not compete. I tried to step up to the lifestyle she was accustomed to that she was not paying for and it stressed me financially. I was taking care of her and her children and she decided that she could not down-grade her lifestyle. Well, she's gone and I'm stuck with expenses while trying to please and keep her. I have learned my lesson and will read more of your blogs. Keep up the good work!Foolish Average Joenoreply@blogger.com