REALITY CHECK: "RAPPERS: Many of You Have Been and Are Still Being MIND FUCKED"

I love you guys and ADMIRE the SACRIFICE, EFFORT and HOURS OF WORK you put into your music.  I have MAD RESPECT for you and USED TO BUY your CDs when you hit the streets selling them.

[YOU ARE A CULTURE THAT IS "BRILLIANT, FOCUSED AND FEARLESS" BUT MANY OF YOU ARE BEING MANIPULATED TO BEHAVE IN A "FOOLISH" MANNER]

I ADMIRE your NATURAL talent and greatly RESPECT your GET UP and GO DO FOR SELF.  Your mindset of NEVER SAYING NEVER is astounding and deserves a STANDING OVATION.  You have NO FEAR of the UNKNOWN or of ANYONE trying to STOP YOU.

With all that said and all the CONTROL YOU HAVE over YOUR CREATIVITY, why do you produces such GREAT BEATS and then down grade it with such FOOLISH LYRICS?

[WHY DID I STOP BUYING YOUR CDs ON THE STREET]

I purchased CDs from the first 5 guys that were on the street selling their product.  As I put them in my car and proceeded to play them, I did not get past the first minute before I stopped it, removed it from my player and TOSSED IT IN THE TRASH.

Much of what rappers produce have some GREAT BEATS but REGARDLESS of what MANY of you have been MIND FUCKED TO BELIEVE, much of YOUR LYRICS is FOUL GARBAGE which is why I tossed it in the trash.

[WHY DO YOU DESTROY YOUR BEATS WITH SUCH FOUL LYRICS]

You are TALENTED, CREATIVE and DETERMINED TO SUCCEED so "Why DUMB DOWN yourselves and others (with JUST AS MUCH potential) by CREATING and PERPETUATING SHIT" when you have the GENIUS and YOUNG AUDIENCE that will follow you PRACTICALLY ANYWHERE.

[YOU MAKE THE HOOD SO DON'T LET SOMEONE THAT DON'T HAVE THE HOOD'S BEST INTEREST DESTROY MINDS AND LIVES WITHIN THE HOOD WITH DESTRUCTIVE AND FUCKED UP LYRICS]

Yea I know that PEOPLE ARE HUNGRY for your music and THEY GOTTA EAT but let me tell you that YOUR BEAT is THEIR PLATE that holds the Soul Food (YOUR LYRICS) that YOU are feeding them.  

Stop ALLOWING YOURSELVES to be MIND FUCKED so that you put SHIT (self-destructive, irresponsible, dumb down lyrics) on YOUR FANS plate for THEM to eat.

[CONCLUSION]

Just as I say in my CLASSES, I can't make any of you do anything.  All I can do is provide information to ENCOURAGE YOU to do the BEST you can do WITHOUT doing harm to or taking away from someone else.

Peace, Respect, Love, Much Enlightenment and Much Career & Financial Success to all of you Rappers that are trying to UPLIFT the QUALITY of people's lives as opposed to EXPLOIT and DESTROY their lives for your own INCONSIDERATE and SELFISH greed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THE PROTOCOL: How to Properly Date a Black Female"

Dating a black female is quite easy AS LONG AS you follow protocol. There is a certain behavior that she has been RAISED and SOCIALIZED to expect. 

MOST BLACK females will be TOTALLY RESISTANT to change of ANY BEHAVIOR that DOES NOT IMMEDIATELY BENEFIT THEM.  If you don't follow the proper protocol she will IGNORE YOU and move on.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all decent, common, average Joe males out there that have a desire to date black females.

This DOES NOT APPLY to all black females but this DOES APPLY to about 95 percent of them that you will come in contact with that YOU have a personal interest in.  IF I AM WRONG, they will prove it with their CONSISTENT, RESPONSIBLE and UNSELFISH behavior.

This DOES NOT APPLY to JUST BLACK FEMALES but I was asked to post something about dating and ONLY REFERENCE black females.

This ASSUMES that she has SOME SORT of attraction to you (to be determined later) so SHE WILL ALLOW you to take her out on a date.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I don't see what the big fuss is about dating black females. They aren't the problem, YOU ARE. All you have to do is simply COOPERATE and follow the protocol below and she will more than GLADLY go on MULTIPLE dates with you.

[REQUIRED PROTOCOL]

EXPECTATIONS. You must EXPECT NOTHING from her but her giving you the opportunity to CATER to her and SPEND YOUR MONEY on her.

ASSUMPTIONS. You must get in your mind that she is a queen and is ENTITLED to SPECIAL TREATMENT. She has been raised and socially conditioned to think that she is a queen even though she:

1) HUSTLES men for money, FREE meals and FREE entertainment, 

2) lives at home, 

3) lives with a roommate, 

4) lives alone in an apartment, 

5) struggles with bills, 

6) got KNOCKED UP and is a single mother, 

7) rides public transportation, 

8) lives on public assistance, 

9) has a job (maybe) or 

10) a combination of these items.

DRESS TO IMPRESS. This is one of the MOST RIDICULOUS things that PRETENTIOUS black people and non-black people who "act like they are black" (another ridiculous phrase) who DON'T HAVE SHIT will expect. This BULLSHIT works so you must dress to impress her.

SMILE. If you have all of your teeth AND they are healthy looking you must smile as much as possible to make her feel comfortable and in control. If your TEETH are MISSING or NOT PERFECT, you better keep it to a SLIGHT GRIN.

CHIVALRY. You must NOT ALLOW her to do anything for herself. You must GO OUT OF YOUR WAY to let her see that you are there to PLEASE HER in every way possible.

DINING. This is the OPTIMUM DATE for her AND the more expensive the better (for her of course). It's in a location that SHE FEELS SAVE.  In a public place with plenty of people, plenty of light and JUST LIKE PIGEONS (that I refer to in my first book) they will NEVER REFUSE a FREE meal IF they feel they have CONTROL over the situation.  It's important that you DO EVERYTHING for her EXCEPT eat her food. 

KISS CONVERSATIONS.  Remember what I've ALWAYS stated about them when it comes to having a conversation which is, "KISS (Keep It Simple n Silly).  AVOID ANYTHING ANALYTICAL (don't want her to think too hard) or may be perceived by her as OFFENSIVE (any negative behavior about them EVEN IF it's TRUTH) so you won't risk your chances of her becoming CONFUSED or UNCOMFORTABLE and ruining the date.

LOOKING FOR YOUR QUEEN. It's very important that you tell her that YOU are looking for YOUR QUEEN. Even though neither of you will NEVER know what the fuck a life of royalty is, go ahead and tell her that NONSENSE anyway.

PHYSICAL CONTACT. You DO NOT TOUCH a queen UNLESS SHE ALLOWS you to do so. That is worldwide BLACK WOMAN protocol. Queens make contact with you WHEN they desire to do so and not the opposite. You are to WAIT until the queen decides to ALLOW you to touch her.

HER BODY. You must NOT (get caught) looking at her body. This is considered rude and especially IF she IS NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, SIMPLY WANT TO be in your company to KILL TIME and get a FREE DATE.

MONEY. ALWAYS PAY THE BILL and never, never ever mention money UNLESS you are talking about the money YOU will spend on her. They tend to get VERY OFFENDED if you mention ANYTHING about them being financially responsible for themselves and PAYING THEIR OWN WAY.

END OF FIRST DATE. The date MUST END at a time that THE QUEEN is comfortable with. Usually, IF you are a good COURT JESTER (i.e, ENTERTAINING enough), about 3 hours max is a good first EVENING date.  DO NOT ATTEMPT TO KISS the queen at the end of the date UNLESS she has given you some sort of DIRECT or INDIRECT indication that SHE wants a kiss from you.  You will know it by HER BODY LANGUAGE.

SECOND DATE INVITE. Remember that she BELIEVES that she is a queen so it's important that YOU LOWER your self worth and place more interest in her than she in you and ask her out on second date to keep HER self-esteem ABOVE yours. It is BENEATH a queen to INVITE because of the "Ghetto Hustler's Code" WHOMEVER INVITES PAYS.

[CONCLUSION]

If ANY MALE wants to ATTEMPT to prove me wrong, simply DO NOT APPLY the above protocol when dating any black female and see if you get a date or a second date. If you do, consider her to be in that rare 2 PERCENT category and KEEP HER.

If ANY FEMALE wants to ATTEMPT to prove me wrong, simply DO NOT EXPECT or REQUIRE a man to apply THE PROTOCOL to you and let's she what type of ATTITUDE you have afterwards.

Now that I've given you THE PROTOCOL, "Happy Dating". 

FOR THE RECORD:  "I stopped dating and having sex with black females YEARS AGO.  I will be POLITE and SOCIAL but that is it.  I am happy.  I have MORE MONEY to SPEND ON ME.  I have PEACE IN MY LIFE with NO DRAMA and I have NO REGRETS in making my decision.  I ONLY date women that ARE RESPONSIBLE, CONSIDERATE (of me) and PAY THEIR OWN WAY".

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "The 4 Basic Male Types"

Through TRIAL, ERROR and DISAPPOINTMENTS, I have EVOLVED into the man that I am today. I am a happy, satisfied, CERTIFIED ASSHOLE and proud of it.

ASSHOLE is what you are called when they CANNOT CONTROL or MANIPULATE you so which type are you?

T'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "FIX_HER_UPPERS: Let Them Do Bad By Themselves"

I know we've all heard it stated either to us or just out of their mouths about some other dude.  This post, like so many others that I've posted, HITS HOME which is why I AM SHARING WITH YOU.

[DISCLAIMER]

This IS NOT ABOUT HATING any female but rather LOVING YOURSELF, PROTECTING YOURSELF and ACCEPTING the part YOU PLAYED in YOUR DEMISE and DISAPPOINTMENTS and moving forward.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Yea, that's right.  I picked up (or taken in) a Fix_Her_Upper or two in my day BEFORE I learned my lesson.  They were COSTLY lessons but at least I was NOT THAT STUPID such that I RUINED MYSELF financially.  

I took FINANCIAL HITS but it was HITS that DID NOT CAUSE me any FINANCIAL STRESS just FINANCIAL LOSSES.

[EACH ONE MUST TEACH AT LEAST ONE]

I was VERY FOOLISH and I am NOT ASHAMED of saying so which is WHY I CARE about the NEXT DUDE.  Nothing STUPID that I have done in my attempt to get or keep a female is KEPT A SECRET or EMBARRASSING.

This is why I'm here to ENLIGHTEN YOU that NO MATTER how much YOU DO for a FEMALE IN NEED (and especially the more attractive ones), they will feel NO OBLIGATION to being or remaining in a relationship with you.

[DO NOT HAVE SYMPATHY "IF" SHE HAS A CHILD OR CHILDREN]

I'm sure SHE HAD PLEASURE while she was FUCKING HIM (not you) so let her EXPERIENCE THE PAIN as a result of HER POOR CHOICE in a man.

Those are NOT YOUR CHILDREN and therefore you have NO OBLIGATION to take care of them.  If SHE CHOSE a DEADBEAT to ejaculate inside of her then that is HER and the CHILDREN'S PROBLEM and NOT YOUR PROBLEM.

[YOU HAVE TO ADMIT TO YOURSELF IN ORDER TO MOVE FORWARD]

NEVER BLAME a female for YOUR CHOOSING to do what you did with or for her.

If you DON'T ACCEPT the FACT that YOU (like myself) was STUPID then YOU will BLAME HER and NEVER MAKE any CHANGES to YOUR BEHAVIOR.  
[CONCLUSION]

NOT EVERY FEMALE (only the majority of the ones that YOU will come in contact) has FUCKED UP THEIR LIFE and now looking for someone to HELP them out.

Like I've stated before, "If she NEEDS (looking for your help) YOU then GET AWAY from her.  If she WANTS (looking for your company) YOU then GET CLOSER to her".

REALITY CHECK: "COLLEGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY: But That Does Not Mean You Can't Learn a Trade or Skill"

UNFORTUNATELY, based upon the DUMB DOWN process of the MAJORITY of males over AT LEAST the past 20 years or so, MANY will not be capable of acquiring a DECENT job and if so will not be on that job for more than 3 years due to THEIR NOT TAKING LIFE SERIOUS.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males who are ACTIVELY SEEKING to better themselves because we all know that sometimes SHIT JUST HAPPENS.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

[FEMALES HAVE "THE SYSTEM" AND "OTHER FOOLS" TO CARE FOR THEM]

Even if MOST females NEVER get farther than ELEMENTARY SCHOOL, many will have the OPPORTUNITY to LIVE OFF THE SYSTEM and even better IF they GET KNOCKED UP and have a child or children.

Their OTHER OPTION (if they are physically appealing enough) is for some FOOL that has been SOCIALIZED to CARE FOR A FEMALE (regardless of how she got herself is such a DISMAL adn/or DEPENDENT state).

[HAVING A TRADE OR SKILL RATHER THAN A DEGREE DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU EMPLOYMENT]

What is does is place YOU in line IN FRONT of those DUMB ASSES that chose to NOT GET some sort of training or skills IF there are jobs available.

[IF YOU'RE "NOT" PIMPING THEN PUSSY IS WORTHLESS TO YOU]

A female's PUSSY only benefits her UNLESS you are a pimp.  If all else fails, she (not you) can USE HER PUSSY to trick or fuck her way into some sort of comfortable position.

[CONCLUSION]

I can't tell any of you guys what to do with your lives.  All I can do is INFORM you based upon MY EXPERIENCE and the TESTIMONIES of other guys.

The choice is yours.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN: You Are Programmed to Do More and Expect Much Less"

You guys should know ME BY NOW such that ANYTIME I see something that is NOT FOR YOUR BENEFIT, I will BRING IT TO CLASS and EXPOSE IT for you to see IF I CAN.

[MOST WOMEN ARE LAZY AND WORTHLESS IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE MEN MAKE THEM OR ALLOW THEM TO BE THAT WAY]

This is yet ANOTHER perfect example of why MANY of YOUR LIVES are STRUGGLING and/or FUCKED UP because YOU ARE being PROGRAMMED to please a woman and expect little (some PUSSY) to nothing in return.

[THIS IS ALL ABOUT HER AND NONE ABOUT YOU]

Look at all the things YOU have to do FOR THE CHANCE of seeing her naked. DON'T BE A FOOL getting tricked because all of this below DOES NOT GUARANTEE you seeing her naked and DEFINITELY does NOT GUARANTEE you having sex with her.

-  Love her

-  Die for her (then she simply replace that DEAD FOOL)

-  Take her to dinner

-  Miss the game for her

-  Buy her jewelry

-  Be interested in what she has to say 

All the above GUARANTEES is that YOU will SPEND lots of time and money on her and HER EXPECTATIONS of you to CONTINUE that behavior will increase.

[GO TO A STRIP CLUB OR GET A PROSTITUTE]

(Strip Club)  Common sense would dictate that if you want to "see a naked woman" and "drink some beer" that you should simply go to a strip club for entertainment because it will COST MUCH LESS MONEY and REQUIRE FAR LESS TIME AND EFFORT.

(Prostitute)  Be it a STREET prostitute or a CLOSET prostitute (female with a regular job), just pay her, have sex and go about your way UNTIL the next time you get horny.

[CONCLUSION]

ANY MALE that tells me I need to post something other than what I am posting FOR THE BENEFIT OF MAN has WILLINGLY SURRENDERED his backbone and bone to a female (or wish to do so) and is nothing but an EMASCULATED FOOL who's ADVICE is just as WORTHLESS as he is.

Class is dismissed.

ASK JAI DUVAL SESSION: "Why Don't Most Black Women Mistreat Other Men Like They Do Black Men"

When speaking of PERCENTAGES of all races, colors, ethnicity of men, THE BLACK MAN is the WEAKEST when it comes to DEMANDING respect, responsibility and cooperation from BLACK women.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to the very, very FEW considerate, responsible  AVAILABLE black women that DO EXIST that CANNOT BE FOUND.

UNGRATEFUL, SELFISH and INCONSIDERATE females come in ALL races, colors, ethnicity, etc. but the question was about BLACK women.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I'm sure that some or many of you black men reading this would like to KICK MY ASS for saying it WHICH PROVES NOTHING because AFTER you kick (or attempt to kick) my ass, your WEAK and SORRY ASS will go right to that BLACK woman and TAKE ALL THE SHIT she has to give you.

[BLACK MEN WILL ALWAYS BE ON THE BOTTOM]

When it comes to INTERACTION and RELATIONSHIPS with black women, BLACK MEN (generally speaking) will ALWAYS be on the bottom BELOW other men and NEVER get to at least the SAME LEVEL of RESPECT (or FEAR) from black women UNTIL he start RESPECTING HIMSELF and STOP ALLOWING black women to be so:

- DISRESPECTFUL (he is nothing but a provider), 

- LAZY (when it comes to what she does for him), 

- INCONSIDERATE (don't give a shit what happens to him as long as she gets what she wants) and 

- IRRESPONSIBLE (does not pay her own way and expects him solve whatever FUCK UPS that she creates) 

[WELL YOUR MOTHER IS A BLACK WOMAN]

Yes YOUR MOTHER IS BLACK but I'm sure YOU MOTHER is (or was if she is no longer living) NOT an INCONSIDERATE, TRIFLING bitch WITH YOU (as she is) so don't allow them to TRICK YOU with BULLSHIT like that.

[SOLUTION]

DO NOT COMMIT ANY ACT OF VIOLENCE against ANY black women.  

If they are disrespectful, lazy, inconsiderate and irresponsible towards you then LEAVE THEIR TRIFLING ASSES ALONE because there is a RAINBOW of options available if you would ABANDON TRADITION and OPEN YOUR MIND.

[CONCLUSION]

Don't take my word for it.  Take your time an OBSERVE or LISTEN to these PATHETIC black men BITCH, WHINE and COMPLAIN yet remain in that same circle of WORTHLESS women time and time again.

Think about this over the weekend.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "STOP Trying to Convince Her or Argue With Her About Being Considerate and Responsible When She Is With You"

All that is needed for this class is in the photo.  The only thing that is left for you to do IF YOU ENCOUNTER a female like this is to LEAVE HER ALONE.

[CLASS HOMEWORK]

When you meet a woman and BEFORE you decide you want to date her, YOU MUST ask her this question during your FIRST contact:

"Do you think of yourself as a CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE woman"?

This sets the FOUNDATION for labeling (i.e, judging as the idiots and morons say) her BASED SOLELY on COMPARING her behavior to her admittance of being considerate and responsible.

If she states that SHE IS considerate and responsible THEN AND ONLY THEN do you NOW tell her what those words mean from a behavioral perspective.

[BEHAVIORAL DEFINITIONS]

CONSIDERATE.  Thoughtful of you, your time and your money.

RESPONSIBLE.  Takes care of her own financial expenses and obligations which includes ENTERTAINMENT and DINING when she is with a man.

[CONCLUSION]

My classes aren't about whining, complaining or blaming but rather DOING.

If she states SHE IS considerate and responsible BUT does NOT BEHAVE in the BEHAVIORAL definitions described, SHE IS A LIAR and A HUSTLER and should be DUMPED IMMEDIATELY.

If you choose to remain in her company and FOOLISHLY attempt to convince her to RESPECT YOU by being CONSIDERATE (of you) and RESPONSIBLE (for herself), BLAME NO ONE but yourself for what WILL EVENTUALLY BE a disappointing experience.

Class is dismissed.

REALITY CHECK: "GET AWAY: You Don't Owe Them Shit"

STOP BELIEVING that you HAVE TO put up with such unloving, uncooperative, entitlement minded ATTITUDES from black women OR any woman. 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ALL MEN regardless of race, color, ethnicity, etc. who are simply DISSATISFIED in the types of women we have been interacting with and have decided to SENSIBLY LOOK ELSEWHERE.

BLACK WOMEN have the right to choose non-black men WITHOUT resistance or negative criticism from black men if that is their choice so black men GROW UP and LIVE WITH IT.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The reason that there is a black man and non-black women in the photo is because this request came from a black dude who requested that I reflect his believe and his situation.

[THIS IS NOT ABOUT HATE FOR YOU OR HURT IN US]

Many black women will say that YOU HATE THEM or YOU HAVE BEEN HURT because you NO LONGER WANT THEM.  In most cases, that is totally incorrect.

Many men (like myself) DO NOT hate them or have been hurt by them but are simply DISAPPOINTED in them and don't like THEIR ATTITUDE and BEHAVIOR so we have decided to SENSIBLY LOOK ELSEWHERE.

[MANY MALES ARE SIMPLY ACCUSTOMED TO SHIT SO THAT IS THEIR COMFORT ZONE]

There are males out there that DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ELSE but:

- shit attitudes, 

- confrontation and no cooperation,

- loud arguments then some FUCKING afterwards, 

- deadbeat females that don't pay their own way, 

- being placed on pussy timeouts and better not pout,

- having to put out and pay to have a female in his company,

- entitlement females that expect the world in order for a man to be with her,

- AND MUCH MORE.

This is what they come in contact with on a regular basis so this is what THEY BELIEVE they should have in their life.

[DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME]

Don't even ARGUE or DEBATE this with these types of black men (or any men) that IS ACCUSTOMED to the above and want to REMAIN in that dysfunctional, uncooperative environment.  

[THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS IF YOU OPEN YOUR EYES]

There is a RAINBOW of loving and cooperative women that want to be in a healthy relationship WITH YOU if you just LET GO OF THE SHIT YOU ARE DEALING WITH.

[BE AWARE OF CONTAMINATION]

THIS CAN APPLY to any woman of any race, color, etc. but I will use the black women as the example since this is what this post GENERALLY was about.

If, for example, you moved on to a non-black women you have to MAKE SURE that SHE DOES NOT possess the same attitude and behavior you are trying to get away from.

This typically will happen IF that non-black woman is close friends with those types of black women you are GETTING AWAY FROM.  She will, in most cases, will have been TURNED (or eventually WILL BE) by those black women into a non-black woman with the SAME ATTITUDE and BEHAVIOR of the black women you were getting away from.

Therefore, IF you are going non-black it is VERY IMPORTANT to know who her close and influential female friends are and IF they are the same type of black women you are getting away from then GET RID OF HER IMMEDIATELY and continue your search.

[CONCLUSION]

Leave those FEMALES ALONE and leave those dudes to WHERE THEY WANT TO BE.

MOVE ON to a happier, more peaceful and more productive place in your life with someone that will love you, show financial responsibility and WANT (not need) to be with YOU.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "How to Intelligently Communicate with a Black Female"

This post was shared because of a comment a black female made that I have now questioned which MOST of you males (especially black males) "won't do" or "are afraid to do" because you are SO THIRSTY FOR or SO WEAK FOR POON.

*** WARNING. If you are just looking for POON then DO NOT TRY THIS ***

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ANY female but since I was interacting with a black female regarding black people I directed it as such.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Males need to STOP the DUMB DOWN routine so he can HOPEFULLY get some POON, MATURE UP and communicate with females on a more INTELLECTUAL level as opposed to an IMMATURE level.

Learn how to do this and YOU WILL ELIMINATE at least 90% of the WORTHLESS females in your life because MOST of them WILL NOT want to engage in an INTELLECTUAL conversation. Their conversations are PRIMARILY about FEELING YOU OUT and MANIPULATING YOU for their benefit.

Take your time to read and clearly understand the communication below:

[Nzinga La'veq]

Dominant + Dominant = Double dominant. Only a foolish dominant would weaken their genes with a receesive gene.

[Jai Duval Nzinga]

Please define what dominant means to you since you used the word. Secondly, please CLEARLY explain to me how it would apply. Thanks in advance.

[Nzinga La'veq]

Dominant as STRONEGST. And this applies to this post, because for any Dominant gene, to "downplay" to the weaker gene is a downgrade. And seeing that you stated regardless of race, it wouldn't benefit any black male, to breed themselves weaker

[Jai Duval]

Nzinga. Can STRONGEST occupy the same brain with MOST INTELLIGENT THINKING and MOST SENSIBLE BEHAVING?

When I engage in dialogue (with my people), I attempt to apply intelligence and sensible thinking during it's exchange.

I find that MANY of our people seem to have a PROBLEM with being questioned when they make statements but I WILL ASSUME that YOU ARE NOT one of them and can RESPOND in an INTELLIGENT, CLEAR, MATURE and RATIONAL MANNER as oppose to UNINTELLIGENT, UNCLEAR, IMMATURE and IGNORANT manner.

So applying the above, would you please EXPLAIN to me what do the STRONGEST, since it obviously applies to us black people, actually do (A VERB) as opposed to just being AN ADJECTIVE (a word used to DESCRIBE a noun, pronoun, etc) and if that is the case why is WE THE STRONGEST:

- the least educated,

- economically the poorest,

- do something stupid like twerk,

- has the worst maintained communities,

- is so vulgar and disrespectful around out elderly people,

- has such a large number of FAT people with health issues,

- have the highest incarceration level for the strongest people,

- REFUSE to stop using that degrading and painful (to the elderly) N-WORD

- have such a high level of single mothers with children that have anger management problems,

- has such a large number of single mothers that CHOOSE deadbeat men to ejaculate inside of them,

I want to THANK YOU for your previous response and I am looking forward to your response to this comment.

Have a pleasant day!

REALITY CHECK: "BLACK HISTORY MONTH: Why Are Black Women Supposed To Be So Much Better than Any Other Race or Group of Women"?

[QUESTION]

So all a black woman has to do is EXIST, SIT ON HER "QUALIFIED" ASS and PARTICIPATE VERY LITTLE when she is with you and that makes her a PRIZE?

[CONCLUSION]

I will wait until BLACK HISTORY MONTH to talk about this.

REALITY CHECK: "FORGET POLITICAL CORRECTNESS: She Is What She Is"

Females are ALWAYS critiquing males from their head to their feet and EVERYTHING in between.

Here are just a FEW things that they will CRITIQUE males on:

- his height, 

- does he have a job,

-  what kind of job he have,

-  his income, 

-  the clothes that he wear, 

-  his car and whether or not he even have a car, 

-  where he lives, 

-  does he live alone, 

-  DOES HE HAVE CHILDREN, 

-  does he have a home, 

-  CAN HE MAKE HER CRY OUT "OH GOD" and "THANK YOU JESUS" AS SHE LOOKS AT HIM WITH TEARS IN HER EYES, etc. 

So why aren't we doing the same to them?

[CONCLUSION]

Let's begin OUR CRITIQUE with something VERY SIMPLE like HER SIZE and STOP telling her LIES, STOP FEEDING her and START telling her the TRUTH for HER HEALTH sake EVEN IF she does not want to hear it.

ASK JAI DUVAL SESSION: "What Would You Do If Your Girl Became Fat"?

I am NOT the politically correct person that CAVES IN to social pressures so without hesitation or a second thought, here is your answer.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT INCLUDE that RARE gland problem that may occur.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

FINAL REALITY CHECK: "My Legacy to Mankind and How to Remember Me"

Sooner or later we ALL gotta go and when I go I'm exiting with this final quote on my headstone that I have in my 2nd book.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "ABUSED EXCUSE AGAIN??: That Is Bullshit. Males Should No Longer Have Sympathy For An Abused Female's Poor Choices In Men"

I PERSONALLY HAVE NO SYMPATHY for a female that is in an ABUSIVE relationship UNLESS she is a MENTAL RETARD, a PARAPLEGIC or a CAPTIVE.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to the MENTALLY RETARDED because she may be INCAPABLE of making rational decisions when it comes to choosing a decent man.

This DOES NOT APPLY to PARAPLEGICS because you are physically INCAPABLE of movement.

This DOES NOT APPLY to CAPTIVES because you are BOUND and HELD AGAINST YOUR WILL and INCAPABLE of getting away.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Males have to STOP running to the rescue of these females that, in most cases, AVOIDED or IGNORED the decent, everyday Joe and CHOOSE the abusive types (players, pretty boys, thugs and financially well-to-do) that don't give a shit about them and will use and/or abuse them.

[LET DESTINY TAKE IT'S COURSE OR THEY WILL NEVER LEARN AND CHANGE]

I don't ENJOY seeing ANYONE abused and especially NOT the ones that DO NOT INVITE themselves into those types of situations.

[I HAVE BEEN ASKED FOR HELP OR SYMPATHY AND REFUSED THEM]

I've had females that I know want to come to me for protection (a place to temporarily hide and stay) when they are being abused and I flat out REFUSED to let them into my house for safety.

I've had females that want to talk to me about their abusive relationship and I have flat out REFUSED to listen to them.

[I LEARNED MY LESSON YEARS AGO THAT IF THEY "NEED YOU" STAY AWAY FROM THEM]

Females THESE DAYS feel NO OBLIGATION to a DECENT man that is supportive to them IN THEIR TIMES OF NEED and RESCUE THEM out of their dysfunctional and dismal situation.

They will CATER TO HIM while she is getting HERSELF back together but once she is back up on her feet and all is well WITH HER, her attitude and behavior will TURN AGAINST YOU.  

This WILL BE the attitude and behavior of at least 7 out of 10 females that YOU HELP that NEEDED YOU rather than WANTED YOU and you did not need any help.

[WARNING TO IDIOTS, MORONS AND DESPERATE MALES]

Saving, or attempting to save, these females will NOT GUARANTEE that they will REMAIN WITH YOU after you have done so.  As a matter of FACT, they did not VALUE YOU BEFORE and they WILL NOT VALUE YOU AFTER they get back on their feet.

[CONCLUSION]

I cannot tell you dudes what to do.  All I have done is showed you what I am doing and MY LIFE is happy, productive, prosperous and MOST IMPORTANTLY very manageable and PEACEFUL.

REALITY CHECK: "I'M DELUSIONAL: I've Had It Wrong All Of This Time"

I HAD REALLY BELIEVED that MOST of you guys WANTED BETTER for yourselves and your lives and just NEEDED A DIFFERENT WAY OF THINKING but I was wrong.

MOST of you WILL NEVER amount to more than a FOOLish male wasting his life away in PURSUIT OF PUSSY and won't realize he was a FOOL until he gets older, HIS VALUE will have diminished, HIS SUPPORT (parents) are gone and it will then be TOO LATE.

[QUESTION]

Are you one of these types of males?

[CONCLUSION]

MOST MALES are MENTALLY WEAKER than females and it is PROVEN by their RIDICULOUS behavior in his FUTILE attempt for her attention, sex or companionship WITHOUT EXPECTING or REQUIRING much (if anything) from her.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "NONSENSE PHRASE: You Are What You Attract"

This EXPLANATION is for RETARDS ONLY because they are incapable of sometimes understanding LOGIC and just may not know any better which is why they say it.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to IDIOTS and MORONS because no matter what I say or how rational and clear it's explained, you will NEVER ACCEPT IT.

This DOES NOT need to be EXPLAINED TO, DEBATED or ARGUED WITH people that APPLY logic and common sense to their thinking and behavior.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "Can You All Just Leave Him Alone"

The ONLY way that they will be happy (not content) is if you are catering to them REGARDLESS of how unsatisfied, miserable and/or how little you are receiving from them.

[FOLLOW UP TO A PREVIOUS POST]

I had to post this due to a couple of responses to my "Go Where You Are Wanted and Loved" post.  Although this is just two, trust me when I say that the MINDSET is the SAME for the MAJORITY of them whether they say it or now.

[DAMNED IF YOU DO AND DAMNED IF YOU DON'T]

Whether or not you remain with them is not the point because YOU WILL be damned either way.

-  IF YOU DO (with them).  They, as one of them has stated, are "hard to deal with" so that means YOU will be putting all sorts of effort to please her as well as putting up with all sorts of shit in the process.  You will be miserable and your life will be ruined.

-  IF YOU DON'T (remain with them).  If you go somewhere else (non-black female), you will be CONDEMNED, TALKED NEGATIVELY ABOUT and CONSIDERED WEAK for not putting up with a HARD TO DEAL WITH female.  You will be happy but you will be despised and hated.

[YOU HAVE TO DECIDE AND NOT LET THEM DECIDE FOR YOU]

THEY would say to "stay and take it (their hard to deal with attitudes and behavior) like a man" and I say "fuck that" but in the end IT'S YOU that have to make that decision for yourself and not them nor me.

[PAY "RATIONAL" ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY SAY]

Here are some of the phrases that I underlined in red:

FROM YAKAL BANATH:

-  "getting a white girl wont solve the issue it makes it worse"

-  "has to be willing to work with the woman on her changes"

-  "get you another nationality a cop out and its weak"

-  "they no gon do nothing but bring punishment on themselves from the most high"

FROM MASHIY BATH

-  "Sell your soul for rest and peace and quiet"

-  "white woman will suck a brother dry and ruin his life far quicker"

-  "we are hard to deal with, that is so true"

I would love to critique and respond to each of those phrases above but that would take up too much space here.  Maybe I will do my critiques on videos some day and post here or youtube.

[CONCLUSION]

MANY females will NEVER be happy for you AS LONG AS you are happy WITHOUT them so STOP trying to PLEASE THEM and simply PLEASE YOURSELF.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "When It Comes Right Down To Hustling? Size Don't Matter"

Short, tall, slender or overweight.  The MAJORITY of females MENTALITY are the same.  It's just that their EXPECTATIONS differ.

Are you READY to SPEND your MONEY on them?  Well, they certainly are so what are YOU going to do?

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "At Least 6 out of 10 Males Will End Up Disappointed and/or Their Lives Ruined or Destroyed"

ALL BECAUSE they chose to place HER HAPPINESS and EXPECTATIONS above HIS happiness, HIS prosperity and HIS future for the CHANCE at some PUSSY and/or COMPANIONSHIP.

[QUESTION]

Are you one of those 6 out of 10 or will be soon?

[CONCLUSION]

It's stated that, "There is a FOOL taken advantage of EVERYDAY".  Well I say, "There are AT LEAST 7 FOOLS taken advantage of EVERYDAY".

Class is dismissed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "His Dick Is Your Worst Enemy"

MANY males out there have NO RESPECT for another man's situation with a woman.

Therefore I am WARNING YOU that if he's YOUR BUDDY and YOU KNOW he's so THIRSTY that he will "do" or "try to do" some other man's woman OR a woman he is spending lots of time with, 

"What makes you think he WON'T DO (or try to do) your woman"?

IN ADDITION, these types are USUALLY not reliable when it comes to doing something of importance.  IF they have to choose between doing something IMPORTANT that you need help with OR chasing (or getting) some pussy, HE WILL ABANDON YOU (probably come with some LAME EXCUSE) and go after that pussy.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THE PEDESTAL: You Now Have To Earn That Right"

Just because she has a BIG ASS (for those of you that love big asses that may drop and turn diabetic), BIG TITS (that may eventually turn into long pancakes), a PUSSY (you are so thirsty for), SMILES AT YOU (so she can get something from you), A DEGREE (benefits her not you), A CAR and LIVE BY HERSELF (you know she will expect some financial help sooner or later), give the ILLUSION of being INDEPENDENT, IS or THINKS SHE IS PRETTY and NO CHILDREN does not mean she instantly gets placed ON A PEDESTAL.

[HOW IS ANY OF THAT "ADVERTISEMENT" GOING TO BENEFIT YOU (NOT YOUR DICK YOU MORONS)]

In MOST cases, ALL of the above is FALSE ADVERTISEMENT to BAIT YOU IN and once you are in MOST (up to 98%) of them WILL SWITCH and expect YOU to be RESPONSIBLE for HELPING them and TOLERATING their INCONSIDERATE attitude.

[CONCLUSION]

All I can ever do is provide you with information and the DECISION to APPLY is ALWAYS up to you.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "Speak Only When Spoken To"

Time for males to begin EXPECTING females to acknowledge them when in passing or when they meet (especially for the first time) because THIS SHOWS RESPECT for YOUR PRESENCE (not presents which I'm sure they would have preferred)

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all females that you do NOT already know.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

FEMALES have RECEIVED SO MUCH for SO LITTLE EFFORT on their parts and that INEQUALITY has to stop.

There is nothing more EFFECTIVE in sending a DIRECT MESSAGE to a female than letting her know SHE WILL BE IGNORED if she does NOT show you some respect by at least acknowledging your presence.

[WHY SHOULD FEMALES SPEAK FIRST]

MANY females are IRRITATED, OFFENDED and DEFENSIVE when a male they DON'T KNOW or NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO speak to them which I find to be quite IMMATURE and INCONSIDERATE when all she is doing by acknowledging him is BEING CONSIDERATE and POLITE. 

This is why WE (males) should LET THEM (females) make the first CONSIDERATE move by looking, smiling or speaking to us. After all, they say they want to be around a gentlemen so one of Jai Duval's interpretations of a gentlemen is:

"Ladies First" (since they love hearing that phrase when it benefits them)

[IF SHE SPEAKS FIRST THEN RECIPROCATE BUT "NO COMPLIMENTS"]

You should ONLY compliment a female IF she compliments you first AND she ONLY deserves to receive a compliment IF she has EARNED it. Giving UNEARNED compliments to a female ONLY INFLATES HER EGO and INCREASES her EXPECTATIONS from you and other males afterwards.

[CLASS ASSIGNMENT]

PRACTICE not looking directly at, not smiling at (do not put a frown on your face) and not speaking to FEMALES FIRST. If you have to wear sun glasses (not at night IDIOTS and MORONS) to conceal you looking at her then do so.

[CONCLUSION]

Females have to be SOCIALLY CONDITIONED (by you) to know that IF she does not put forth some sort of INITIAL effort towards you then she will NOT RECEIVE any attention from you and will simply be IGNORED.

Class is now dismissed.