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I have read lots of comments on Facebook and came to the LOGICAL conclusion that MANY (not a few) males are just too mentally fucked up when it comes to women and need to avoid them until they bring closure.
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[THERE ARE THOSE THAT HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX PERIOD AND GOOD WOMEN NEED TO RECOGNIZE AND AVOID THEM]
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GOOD WOMEN need to realize that THEY CAN'T FIX these types of males and should leave them to the HOS and BITCHES that deserve them.
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These types of males are NOT WORTHY of a good woman and will never be worthy for whatever their reasons are as again LEAVE THEM ALONE.
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[REJECTION (NOT INTERESTED IN YOU) IS NOT HER INSULTING YOU]
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Far too many of you will get upset or feel insulted if a female has no mutual interest in you but there is nothing wrong with that.
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You must see her rejection as a good thing because now you don't have to waste your time with someone who does not feel the same interest as you.
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[YOU GET DISAPPOINTED OR ANGRY AT HER REJECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE PLACING MORE VALUE IN HER THAN IN YOURSELF]
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If you PLACED LESS VALUE in her and MOVE VALUE in you, then you would see that rejection as nothing more than a FAILED attempt at her.
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[DO NOT BE STUPID AND CONTINUE TO SHOW INTEREST]
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They know if they have a PHYSICAL interest in you THE MOMENT they lay eyes on you.so don't get caught up in THEIR GAME of chase.
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If she rejects you, move on because any further efforts WOULD BE STUPID.
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[CONCLUSION]
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THE POINT of this class is NOT ABOUT HER GAME but rather ABOUT YOUR UNRESOLVED ISSUES such that YOU CAN'T ACCEPT HER REJECTION.
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Although YOUR EGO won't allow you to accept this, "Females have the right to accept or reject you just as you have the right to accept or reject them".
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If YOUR EGO can't accept rejection, I suggest that you go to the store and STOCK UP on a few boxes of snickers smile emoticon.
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Class is dismissed.
Cornelius J. Jackson made a comment that I needed to present as a class.
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[NOTE TO EVERY MALE THAT IS IN A NON-MARITAL OR MARITAL RELATIONSHIP]
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If you don't like what I've stated BECAUSE your mate or wife's SEXUAL behavior is WHORISH, then THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM NOT MINE.
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Try NOT ALLOWING her WHORISH BEHAVIOR and requiring her to be JUST AS financially responsible for herself as you are for you in that relationship and see just how much of a SEXUALLY loving mate/wife you have that will give you UNPAID FOR SEX.
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[SOME PRETEND AND HOPE IT WILL BE BUT I ACCEPT THE FACTS OF REALITY]
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I am NO LONGER one of those males that will PRETEND something is a certain way with a female BECAUSE I AM in a relationship with her and HOPE it gets better or she changes with time and lots of effort on my part.
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I now see relationships for what they are based SOLELY upon her behavior.
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[TWO IMPORTANT COMMENTS THAT REQUIRE MY RESPONSE]
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COMMENT 1: I'm pretty sure those of us who met our girlfriends, who are in relationships, or married, didn't consider our significant others to BE whores.
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RESPONSE 1: He is correct. I would say practically NONE of them considered their significant others to be whores but I never stated that they would consider their others to be whores. I AM SAYING they are whores based upon THEIR JUSTIFICATION (many times) for having sex with them.
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COMMENT 2: Now after we divorced or broke up with them we might have a different view of them.
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RESPONSE 2: This would be an EMOTIONAL response IF that view was not placing them in the category of whore. It would be STUPID to call her your SIGNIFICANT OTHER while you are with her then have a different view (ASSuming you may label her a whore or even bitch) after a divorce or break up UNLESS you DIVORCED or BROKE UP with her THE FIRST TIME she behaved in that manner that cause the divorce or break up.
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[MY POINT TO RESPONSE 2]
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Just as I call women STUPID for remaining in unhealthy, dysfunctional relationships then calling the man a dog, cheater, abuser, deadbeat, etc. AFTER the relationship is over, THE SAME APPLIES TO MEN.
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YOU ARE JUST AS STUPID AS SHE so don't bad mouth the female IF you remained after finding out, BLAME YOUR STUPID ASS for remaining.
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[CONCLUSION]
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As I've stated time and time again, "I don't care if I don't have any friends of Facebook. I am here to tell the truth and reflect reality.
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I am here to enlighten in order to improve one's quality of life and make wiser choices in a acquaintances, friends or companion that will BENEFIT THEM without harming others.
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Class is dismissed.
I truly understand that we can think and behave differently and that most of us are not all alike but WHY WOULD YOU accept someone if their "difference is disrespectful"?
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[DISCLAIMER]
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This does not apply to anyone who is MENTALLY INCAPABLE of making rational and mature decisions.
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[END OF DISCLAIMER]
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I am the type of person that demands 1) respect and 2) responsible behavior if you interact with me or I will have nothing to do with you.
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[YOU CAN MAKE EXCUSES FOR SOMEONE'S DISRESPECTFUL AND IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOU IF YOU WISH]
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For many, the primary source of your stress and unrest are INTERNAL.
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It's with the people that are "supposed to be" considered as family members but based upon my definition, they simply function as:
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"inconsiderate, irresponsible and disrespectful blood relatives"
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[DO YOU HAVE RESPECTFUL AND RESPONSIBLE STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO HOW PEOPLE ARE TO BEHAVE WITH YOU]
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The reason why MOST of you have INTERNAL problems is because YOU DON'T require them to behave in a respectful and responsible manner with you.
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[NO ONE IS EXEMPT FROM DISRESPECTING ME]
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I have experienced those examples and I will be the first to admit that #1 came from my own ADULT daughter after me getting her started in her adult life. Those things will not be stated so don't be so STUPID as to ask.
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When those similar words came out of her mouth, I was done with her permanently and performed her "last rites" mentally. In other words, "I buried her and will NEVER resurrect her again".
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This is how serious I take people respecting me and if I will do it to her, you know that I will not accept it from anyone else.
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[DISRESPECTFUL AND IRRESPONSIBLE PEOPLE HAVE STANDARDS TOO]
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I can't speak for anyone else here. Each person needs to determine IF they have ANY STANDARDS of behavior and if so, what are they?
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Disrespectful and irresponsible people have disrespectful and irresponsible standards which is why they are so HAPPY and COMFORTABLE around each other.
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[CONCLUSION]
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Do you have any standards or do you accept ANY type of disrespectful or irresponsible behavior towards you JUST BECAUSE they are considered to be family.
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There are "so-called" family members that I have placed in the blood relative category that I don't care if I never see them again because ACCEPT IT OR NOT, they truly DON'T GIVE A SHIT about me and I'm just fine with that.
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Eventually you have to decide if "you want a LARGE group of disrespectful and irresponsible people around you" or "you want a SMALL group of respectful and responsible people around you".
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I will leave that decision to each of you because I have told you mine.
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Class is dismissed.
Males must put an end to that so-call traditional dating because if you take a logical look at it, it has nothing to do with getting to know your character..
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[TIME TO "MATURE UP" AND GET SERIOUS]
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Leave the dating GAME to IMMATURE males that love playing that game.
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[DISCLAIMER]
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If you are in search of female company or pussy, then you can leave this class because this will not apply to you.
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If you are in search of a woman with good character (i.e., considerate and responsible) whether she be an acquaintance, friend or partner, then this class is for you and I suggest that you apply it.
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[CONSIDERATE WOMEN DATE AND INCONSIDERATE FEMALES HUSTLE]
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Considerate women will pay their own way because they want to let the man know that she's interested in the CONTENTS OF HIS CHARACTER and NOT THE CONTENTS OF HIS WALLET.
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Inconsiderate females expect men to pay for them because they are interested in the CONTENTS OF HIS WALLET and NOT THE CONTENTS OF HIS CHARACTER.
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[CONCLUSION]
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If a man is considerate and responsible, then he should expect the same from ANY female he dates to determine if she is of the same character.
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Class is dismissed.
