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I truly understand that we can think and behave differently and that most of us are not all alike but WHY WOULD YOU accept someone if their "difference is disrespectful"?
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[DISCLAIMER]
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This does not apply to anyone who is MENTALLY INCAPABLE of making rational and mature decisions.
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[END OF DISCLAIMER]
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I am the type of person that demands 1) respect and 2) responsible behavior if you interact with me or I will have nothing to do with you.
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[YOU CAN MAKE EXCUSES FOR SOMEONE'S DISRESPECTFUL AND IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOU IF YOU WISH]
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For many, the primary source of your stress and unrest are INTERNAL.
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It's with the people that are "supposed to be" considered as family members but based upon my definition, they simply function as:
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"inconsiderate, irresponsible and disrespectful blood relatives"
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[DO YOU HAVE RESPECTFUL AND RESPONSIBLE STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO HOW PEOPLE ARE TO BEHAVE WITH YOU]
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The reason why MOST of you have INTERNAL problems is because YOU DON'T require them to behave in a respectful and responsible manner with you.
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[NO ONE IS EXEMPT FROM DISRESPECTING ME]
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I have experienced those examples and I will be the first to admit that #1 came from my own ADULT daughter after me getting her started in her adult life. Those things will not be stated so don't be so STUPID as to ask.
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When those similar words came out of her mouth, I was done with her permanently and performed her "last rites" mentally. In other words, "I buried her and will NEVER resurrect her again".
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This is how serious I take people respecting me and if I will do it to her, you know that I will not accept it from anyone else.
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[DISRESPECTFUL AND IRRESPONSIBLE PEOPLE HAVE STANDARDS TOO]
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I can't speak for anyone else here. Each person needs to determine IF they have ANY STANDARDS of behavior and if so, what are they?
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Disrespectful and irresponsible people have disrespectful and irresponsible standards which is why they are so HAPPY and COMFORTABLE around each other.
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[CONCLUSION]
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Do you have any standards or do you accept ANY type of disrespectful or irresponsible behavior towards you JUST BECAUSE they are considered to be family.
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There are "so-called" family members that I have placed in the blood relative category that I don't care if I never see them again because ACCEPT IT OR NOT, they truly DON'T GIVE A SHIT about me and I'm just fine with that.
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Eventually you have to decide if "you want a LARGE group of disrespectful and irresponsible people around you" or "you want a SMALL group of respectful and responsible people around you".
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I will leave that decision to each of you because I have told you mine.
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Class is dismissed.
Males must put an end to that so-call traditional dating because if you take a logical look at it, it has nothing to do with getting to know your character..
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[TIME TO "MATURE UP" AND GET SERIOUS]
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Leave the dating GAME to IMMATURE males that love playing that game.
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[DISCLAIMER]
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If you are in search of female company or pussy, then you can leave this class because this will not apply to you.
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If you are in search of a woman with good character (i.e., considerate and responsible) whether she be an acquaintance, friend or partner, then this class is for you and I suggest that you apply it.
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[CONSIDERATE WOMEN DATE AND INCONSIDERATE FEMALES HUSTLE]
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Considerate women will pay their own way because they want to let the man know that she's interested in the CONTENTS OF HIS CHARACTER and NOT THE CONTENTS OF HIS WALLET.
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Inconsiderate females expect men to pay for them because they are interested in the CONTENTS OF HIS WALLET and NOT THE CONTENTS OF HIS CHARACTER.
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[CONCLUSION]
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If a man is considerate and responsible, then he should expect the same from ANY female he dates to determine if she is of the same character.
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Class is dismissed.
After reading this, I find that all the time and effort I put into these classes to help DECENT males is worth it cause I love stories with a happy ending. like emoticon
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[CONCLUSION]
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I truly feel that even though what I am doing is NOT LIKED by most females, NOT APPLIED by most males or SEEN ONLY AS ENTERTAINMENT by both of them, as long as it will benefit a few i am satisfied.
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There is nothing else that I can say to add to this except to humbly thank him and wish him well in his future journey.
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Class is dismissed.
As a young naive man leaving home at the age of 24 from a little country town in the south with a country (i.e., openly trusting) mentality and moving to Los Angeles with $150, a college degree and a car, I had that SOS (Smell Of Stupid) so strong that all the female dogs (i.e., bitches) could smell it.
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[YES THE INEVITABLE OCCURRED TO ME SEVERAL TIMES]
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Back then I was FINANCIALLY beaten like a "Pinata at a birthday party".
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I have no shame in saying it because I want you to know this is the reason why I am so passionate in my attempts to enlighten and educate you.
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In coming out of a little country town in the south, I only interacted on a personal level with black females and those where the ones that taught me NUMEROUS HARD LESSONS about life.
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Yea, I was fucked up emotionally and financially and especially financially since I was working as an engineer and making a very good salary.
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The only way that I did not get fucked was in the ass.
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[BITTER AT FIRST AT "ALL" FEMALES UNTIL I DIVERSIFIED MY PORTFOLIO TO OUTSIDE OF THAT BLACK BOX]
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Once I began to look outside of that black box, I realized that all females were not hustling bitches as it pertains to me. With NON-BLACK females, I was TREATED WITH RESPECT as opposed to being TREATED LIKE AN ATM.
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Now I can't speak for any other man of any other race, color or ethnicity BECAUSE I'M SURE YOU HAVE HAD YOUR SHARE OF EXPERIENCES AS WELL but I can for myself and those non-black female experiences changed my entire outlook on females.
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[DO I HAVE ANYTHING AGAINST BLACK FEMALES]
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Of course not because that would be stupid and immature.
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I was thinking stupid and immaturely during that time while I was BEING PLAYED back and forth but that anger against all black females ended a long time ago after I matured past that point.
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[I SIMPLY APPLIED LOGIC TO THEIR BEHAVIOR TOWARDS ME AND MY INTERACTION WITH THEM MOVING FORWARD]
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Once I accepted their entitlement mindset and inconsiderate behavior, I STOPPED BECOMING BITTER and STARTED BECOMING SMARTER which means I DID NOT TRY TO PLAY THEIR GAME. I SIMPLY AVOIDED THEM on a personal level.
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I had to simply ACCEPT the FACT that their ENTITLEMENT mindset and INCONSIDERATE behavior is what other males allowed but was not for me.
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[DON'T BE MAD AT ME CAUSE THERE ARE PLENTY OF KINGS LOOKING FOR YOU]
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I do function with black females on a social level and will be polite, respectful and courteous to any that are the same to me but I have no intent on sifting through that 98% SHIT in that cesspool to find 1 UNICORN out of the 2% of UNICORNS that are in there.
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[CONCLUSION]
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So now is anyone else prepared to CALL OUT those numbers that apply to them as I have? By the way, I'm sure NONE of you will admit to #3.
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Class is dismissed.
If you CLEARLY explain what comes with EQUALITY to a female, 98% of STRAIGHT females will not want it because with equality comes TOTAL RESPONSIBILITY for herself, TOTAL ACCOUNTABILITY for her actions and NO SPECIAL PRIVILEGES because she's a female.
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[WHY DO MALES ARGUE FEMINISM OR EQUALITY WITH FEMALES ON A PERSONAL LEVEL]
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Feminism or equality ON A PERSONAL LEVEL should never be debated with a female or group of females. Feminism or equality ON A LEGAL LEVEL is totally different and should only be debated in the courts.
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Males do so because they (just to mention a few):
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- are socially programmed to,
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- insecure and feel the need to control
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- they don't realize the benefits of giving her equality
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- believe it or not, MANY MALES are just plain STUPID.
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[SMART MALES DO NOT DEBATE A FEMALE'S EQUALITY. THEY SUPPORT HER RIGHTS TO HAVE IT ON A PERSONAL LEVEL]
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Smart men realize that not arguing against a female being treated equally means that he does not have to be responsible for her which frees up his time and money for himself.
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[ONCE SHE ACCEPTS ONE OF THE TWO OPTIONS, HE MUST ALSO STICK TO THEM]
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It's called respecting HER choice and he not behaving in a manner that's contradicts HER choice.
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Males have a tendency themselves to not comply with those options due to their own socialized programming and weaknesses for a female.
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Males must remain steadfast when it comes to HER OPTION CHOICE and not SIMPishly waver.
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[CONCLUSION]
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I realize that MOST males will not adhere to my suggestion of the 2 options.
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I've continuously stated that only 2 out of every 10 males (max) will function in a SMART manner, take my classes and apply them because THEY WILL benefit him.
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The other 8 out of 10 males will SIMPly come in to my class as a STUPID man seeking ways to entertain females hoping to be accepted by them.
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The choice is yours. Which will you be? Smart or Stupid.
Don't hold your breath or become delusional thinking that a female will ever be HONEST and tell you her true intentions.
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[CONCLUSION]
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I would have more respect for them if they were honest although I would still never want them. I guess that's why they will NOT TELL that to SMART men.
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This is why I am constantly saying, "Protect Yourself At All Times".
There are standards that I NOW live by that benefits me and WILL DIE BY. I will NEVER again be in a disappointing, one-sided, miserable relationship.
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[MALES NEED POSITIVE MOTIVATION THAT BENEFITS THEM]
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Males don't get enough POSITIVE motivation that benefit themselves. They are CONSTANTLY bombarded with media that places him in a beggar's or servitude position.
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I've learned through discomforts, disappointments and financial losses to develop standards that BENEFIT ME when it comes to interacting with females as acquaintances, friends or a mate.
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[WHAT GOOD ARE STANDARDS IF YOU DON'T COMPLY WITH THEM]
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Far too many men have standards that either DON'T BENEFIT THEM (getting pussy is not a benefit although FOOLS seem to think so), or standards that THEY DON'T ADHERE TO once they are in the company of a female they are attracted to and ALLOWS HIM to spend time with her.
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[QUESTIONS]
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- Do you have any standards?
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- Are they beneficial to you FIRST?
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- Do you stick to those standards or did like me IN THE PAST and elected to FOOLISHLY NOT apply them for a female you desired?
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- What happened to you IF you had such standards and decided to not apply them to that female?
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[CONCLUSION]
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If YOU CHOOSE to take care of and financially support a 1) CAPABLE of working just like you, 2) CAPABLE of sacrificing just like you, 3) CAPABLE of saving money rather than spending just like you, 4) CAPABLE of maintaining peace of mind just like you FEMALE that WON'T DO just like you, then that's YOUR CHOICE and accept the consequences that comes with it.
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I have got to SHUT DOWN and STOP POSTING so that I can complete my works this month but sometimes there shit that I just have to REMIND you of.
