Why Don’t the Courts Mandate that the Female Provide the Male with the Lifestyle he was Accustomed to after a Divorce?

Most males "out-dated" way of thinking and behaving DURING the dating phase and THROUGHOUT the marriage is the reason why they get GANG RAPED during the divorce process by HER ATTORNEY and the court system.

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This DOES APPLY to all males that are foolish enough to STILL APPLY those OUT-DATED methods when it comes to dating and marriage where it's THE MAN's RESPONSIBILITY.

This DOES APPLY to all males that STILL BELIEVE that the female is NOT supposed to FULLY PARTICIPATE in the dating process and in marriage.

This DOES APPLY to all males who are STUPID ENOUGH to STILL believe that a FEMALE's MONEY IS HER MONEY to do with as she pleases and he is to be the financial provider of MOST of the expenses that are encountered during the dating phase and the marriage.

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[Excerpt from My Book "Rules of Engagement]

[CONCERN #1]

Why do you think the courts mandate that many males provide their ex wives or long time cohabit partners a lifestyle that she has been accustomed to, after a termination of their relationship? 

Do you think that she should provide him with that lifestyle he had been accustomed to AFTER the DIVORCE is final?

[ANSWER]

Most females do provide him that lifestyle he was accustomed to during that relationship and after it is final even if it is not a court mandate. 

Most of them PROVIDE NOTHING CONSISTENT during that relationship other than stress and SPENDING HIS MONEY while expecting him to pay the bill.  That’s the lifestyle that he is accustomed to during the relationship and that is what he is going to get afterwards which is stress and her spending his money the court will mandate that he provide her.

If she is 40 or older she will typically be spending his money on or giving his money to a younger man.  The younger man is primarily interested in money and sex from her.  He knows that she is an easy target and the vast majority of them are now dating younger men and spending their ex’s money on them. 

MALES BRING THAT PAIN UPON THEMSELVES due to that old traditional way of thinking that ALL females are precious, need to be taken care of, need to be protected and would or could not do him any harm.  He should REQUIRE THAT SHE CONSISTENTLY PARTICIPATE during the dating and marriage both physically, emotionally and financially beyond the token and inconsistent deeds HE will ALLOW HER TO CHOOSE what to do.

If males are going to continue to think in that out-dated and foolish manner then they shouldn’t complain when she, her attorney and the courts PSYCHOLOGICALLY and FINANCIALLY GANG RAPE him during the divorce process.

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[CONCLUSION]

This is one of the reasons why I wrote my books.  My books were written to assist in restoring the  "DIGNITY and HIGH LEVEL of SELF-ESTEEM" of the decent, common, average Joe male who SACRIFICES and DESTROYS his life for the benefit of a female.

That SELF DE-VALUING thinking and behavior MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY.