MEN GROW UP: It's Called Personal Preference If She Does Not Want You

I hear far too often males complaining about females of their ethnicity, race, color or however you want to term it dating or being in relationships with males other than those that look like them. Why would you want someone that don't want you?
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male, regardless of ethnicity, race, color, etc. that thinks and behaves in this manner.

This DOES APPLY to any male that desires to get OUT of his ethnic box and try someone different.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

YOU DO NOT NEED many females. YOU DO NOT NEED a few females. ALL YOU NEED is ONE female that is considerate, responsible, respectable, MATURE, pays her own way AND has a GENUINE interest to be YOUR MATE if that is what you are desiring.

[WHAT SHOULD MATTER TO YOU]

It SHOULD NOT matter if a female does not VALUE YOU enough to have a personal, genuine interest in you. What SHOULD matter is if YOU VALUE YOURSELF enough to simply move on to females that DO VALUE YOU for the person that you are.

[STOP THE IMMATURE BEHAVIOR]

Males need to simply ACCEPT it when they see a female of THEIR ethnicity with a male that is NOT of their ethnicity and STOP this IMMATURE criticism and name calling JUST BECAUSE she has decided to "try" or "commit to" a different flavor.

[IMPORTANT QUESTION and COMMENT]

Q. Why does it matter to you who she wants to be with IF it's definitely not you or NO ONE in your ethnic group?

C. Many females NEED TO BE away from you because of their inconsiderate attitude and behavior. You should be THANKFUL that she is NOT with you as opposed to angry or disturbed that she is with someone else.

[IT'S HER RIGHT TO WANT WHO SHE WANTS]

Regardless of it's outcome, if she can find a male that will DO FOR HER what YOU REFUSE to do for her (even if he's COMPLYING with her ENTITLEMENT expectations and putting up with HER INCONSIDERATE and SELFISH attitude), then it's HIS BED that he is going to lie in and NOT YOURS.

[USE YOUR TIME TO BENEFIT YOU]

There's a RAINBOW of options available for you, when it comes to females, that are out there so INSTEAD of wasting time "talking negatively about" or "name calling" a female that has NO PERSONAL INTEREST in you, why not use that time INTERACTING with females that:

- DO APPRECIATE YOU for you, 

- DO have a personal interest in you,

- ARE responsible and considerate of you,

- Will WORK WITH YOU and not against you, 

- ARE NOT PAY-PER-VIEW HO's that EXPECT YOU to pay their way to spend time with you. 

[RESPECT THAT OTHER MAN]

That would be the MATURE thing to do. DO NOT display hatred towards some male YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW because he was selected and not you. Remember, for the most part, it's the female that decides and males are simply SALESMEN advertising:

- The Contents of THEIR WALLETS,

- Their Ability to UNQUESTIONABLY OBEY, or 

- The Contents of THEIR GOOD CHARACTER.

She decides which male she wants DEPENDING upon HER character and what SHE considers value to her. Many are MATERIALISTICALLY motivated, many are CONTROLLING and want a man that will UNQUESTIONABLY OBEY her and a few of them are CONSIDERATE and are GOOD CHARACTER motivated. There is NOTHING you can do to CHANGE what SHE VALUES.

[CONCLUSION]

This particular class is all about RESPECT for SELF and RESPECT for THE MAN SHE CHOSE and has nothing to do with her. She DID NOT CARE for you so why should you care about WHAT EVER happens to her. Give serious thought to this class the NEXT TIME you see a female of YOUR ETHNICITY with a male not of your ethnicity.

Class is dismissed.