BE AWARE OF THE MANIPULATOR: Ms. "Selectively" Independent

I am hearing so much talk from females today as to how they are so STRONG, INDEPENDENT and DON'T NEED a man to do for them yet MOST of them that say that HAVE A JOB and STILL REFUSE to consistently PAY THEIR OWN WAY when in the company of a man AND expect him to do certain things for her JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN. Well, the following post resulted after a discussion I had with a few guys.
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to all women.

This DOES APPLY to all women who are doing or attempting to do this.

This DOES NOT APPLY to considerate and responsible women.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

In having that discussion mentioned above, a question was presented to me.

[QUESTION] 

Are females becoming stronger and more independent?

[ANSWER]

If she claims to be strong then let her prove it by doing her own heavy lifting or if she claims to be independent let her prove it by paying her own way in life and especially when she is with you. It’s just that simple.

[WHAT'S SO IMPRESSIVE ABOUT BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF]

There is nothing impressive about a female waving her independence flag. After she leaves home she is SUPPOSED to be independent just like any male. That’s not called being independent. That’s called GROWING UP and being personally responsible for yourself as ALL adults should do. So what’s the big deal?

[THE FEMINIST MOVEMENT]

The FEMINIST MOVEMENT has given females the RIGHT to equality and independence which I totally support AND this system is giving them the OPPORTUNITY to do so. 

[EQUALITY AND INDEPENDENCE DOES NOT APPLY WHEN BEING WITH YOU]

Why do the majority of them practice it in all areas except for when it comes to being with you? It’s because many don’t respect you. If they wave that flag in your face, make them practice it and hold them accountable. 

[THEY CARRY TWO FLAGS SO BE PREPARED FOR "THE SWITCH" WHEN IT'S BENEFICIAL TO THEM]

When situations arise that they can’t or don’t want to accept responsibility or consequences for their actions they choose to lower that independence flag, raise the distress (SOS) flag and pretend to be helpless so they can carelessly toss their RESPONSIBILITIES on you.

[WHY PLACE THEIR RESPONSIBILITY ON YOU]

It’s because YOU ALLOW IT and ACCEPT that believe in those old, out-dated rules about men are suppose to come to any female’s rescue regardless of how she irresponsibly got herself in that situation.

[IS THE PROBLEM THEM OR IS IT YOU COMPLYING WITH THEM]

Males should NOT be asking are females becoming stronger and more independent. They should ask, “Why are they becoming weaker and allowing females to toss that:

1. INDEPENDENT (You Can't Tell Me What To Do So Get Out My Face) flag, or

2. SOS (You Are Supposed To Help Me Because I'm a Woman) flag

WHENEVER EITHER OF THEM BENEFITS THEM.

[THERE ARE 3 OPTIONS YOU NEED TO GIVE THEM]

These are the options you need to give females and ONLY ALLOW them to choose one of them:

1. INDEPENDENT. You are on your own. You do for self. You take care of self. You get yourself out of trouble. You PAY when you want to get something done that you can't do JUST LIKE WE DO.

2. CO-OPERATIVE. You will put forth AS MUCH time, resources and finances as you can just as I will do.

3. DEPENDENT. I will FAIRLY and REASONABLY take care of us BUT you will DO AS I SAY. 

[CONCLUSION]

DO NOT ALLOW yourself to be manipulated.

DO NOT ALLOW any other options to exist when interacting with a female other than the above. To do so would be DETRIMENTAL to you and BENEFICIAL to her.

Class is dismissed.