Paying For Dates Pays Off For The Guy She Wants Which Is Not You

I don't know how many times I have to tell guys to STOP PAYING for these dates and let these WOMEN pay for themselves because these guys are PAYING for something that some other guy is getting FOR FREE.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all males that are PAYING for dates and EXPECTING sex, commitment or BOTH from a female.

This DOES NOT APPLY to females that PUBLICLY state they are INCAPABLE of providing for themselves and NEED a MAN'S MONEY to survive.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that seek to partially or totally FINANCIALLY support and care for a female.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

As I have ALWAYS stated, my posts represent the EVERYDAY Joe and not the high dollar guy living a LAVISH lifestyle.

If a woman likes you, values you and IS NOT a Pay-Per-View Ho, she will NOT EXPECT you to pay for her in order to spend time with her, have sex with her OR have a commitment from her.

[WHAT IF SHE CAN'T PAY FOR HERSELF]

If she CAN'T PAY for herself then:

1. SHE NEEDS to stay her ass at home and develop some skills that will allow her to earn a living.

2. SHE is a POOR PROSPECT when it comes to getting into a committed relationship.

[FEMALES THAT CAN'T PAY FOR THEMSELVES AND STILL HAVE EXPECTATIONS]

These types of females need to STOP being a BEGGAR, HUSTLER, DEPENDENT and/or DEADBEAT and START improving the quality of their life so they can be an ASSET to a man and in a relationship as opposed to a:

1. Hustler,

2. Pay-Per-View Ho, or

3. Dead Beat and Financial LIABILITY

[WHAT IF SHE WANTS TO BE SIMPLY A HOUSEWIFE]

If she wants to be a housewife then I recommend that YOU PLAN ahead for such a situation with these thoughts (as a minimum):

1. Even if she wants to be a housewife SHE NEEDS to have some MARKETABLE skills and KEEP THEM UPDATED in the event something happens to you that prevents you from TEMPORARILY working again so she can GET HER ASS TO WORK in the meantime UNTIL you can get back to work IF you will be able to go back to work

2. She needs to WORK, EARN an income and SAVE ALL of that money IN A JOINT ACCOUNT that requires MUTUAL SIGNATURES to withdraw (for the relationship not for her) for at least 5 years BEFORE you decide to accept her NOT WORKING

3. She needs to ACCEPT living off of ONE INCOME means DOWNSIZING HER lifestyle expectations and living a SIMPLIFIED life as opposed to YOU getting a second job in order to meet with her SELFISH expectations.

[WHY DOES SHE NEED TO WORK FIRST BEFORE BECOMING A HOUSEWIFE]

If she works first AND is a thoughtful, considerate woman then she will APPRECIATE and RESPECT the man working and earning a living to provide for BOTH of them.  That way, she will be less selfish and more cooperative when it comes to SACRIFICING in order to live a REASONABLY comfortable lifestyle on one income.

[WHAT ABOUT THE CAREER WOMEN THAT HAVE JOBS AND STILL EXPECT A MAN TO FINANCIALLY SUPPORT THEM]

Forget about them because THEY DON'T GIVE A SHIT about you OR they are programmed to RELY ON YOU even though they are capable. Either way does not benefit you so leave them alone. 

[CONCLUSION]

Many of you won't listen to me and will continue to FEED and LIQUEFY these females so that the males that DON'T CATER to them THAT THESE FEMALES DO WANT will benefit from YOUR FOOLISH BEHAVIOR.

All I can do it provide these classes and YOU have to decide IF you are going to APPLY THEM for YOUR BENEFIT.

Class is dismissed.