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You dated and eventually hooked up and VERY SELDOM (if any) did you REQUIRE her to FINANCIALLY CONTRIBUTE.
Now that she is TIRED of your GENEROUS ASS, have OTHER offers and is about to LEAVE YOU, you are mad and want her to just WALK AWAY without taking what she DID NOT EARN?
So you CAN'T LEGALLY STOP HER from FINANCIALLY TAKING what you DID NOT REQUIRE her to contribute to and so NOW YOUR STUPID ASS is MAD AT HER?
[WHAT WILL SHE DO AFTER THE EXCITEMENT DIES DOWN OR YOU CAN'T CONTINUE TO EXCITE AND ENTERTAIN HER AT HER PACE]
It's quite simple, "You started off at a pace to GET HER that YOU COULD NOT COMFORTABLY SUSTAIN to KEEP HER and NOW SHE EXPECTS (like a little spoiled child) for you to CONTINUE AT THAT PACE or she will throw a TANTRUM, place you on PUSSY TIMEOUT and possibly SEEK that ATTENTION from one of the MANY other males that has been trying to hit on her UNLESS you have a woman that:
"Looks like a MUD DUCK that no other man wants to EVEN FUCK".
[CONCLUSION]
This is why I encourage males to MAKE SURE that she is FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE for herself because when (if) it ends (at least 60% of the time it does), there is NOTHING you can do to GET BACK any of what you have FREELY given her.
That way when she's ready to go, simply GIVE HER what SHE HAS PAID FOR and move on to the NEXT ONE WITHOUT anger or feelings of being FINANCIALLY taken advantage of.
Class is dismissed.
What is a "white, brown, yellow, red or black" FAMILY NOWADAYS in this FUCKED UP country called America?
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that has met with FRUSTRATION and DISAPPOINTMENT with females WITHIN his own group.
This DOES NOT APPLY to any male that is just looking for PUSSY from females OUTSIDE of his group. Remain and get all the PUSSY you can.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
This post was created based upon the following post below that I have copied and pasted here:
"Being a Black man who doesn't date inter-racially because he wants a Black family and yet realizing that 90% of Black females today are unfit to be wife material due to 50% being single mothers (due to nasty sex habits), 50% having herpes (due to nasty sex habits), and 80% being overweight/obese due to nasty eating habits".
[SPECIAL MESSAGE TO BLACK MEN WHO LOVE BLACK WOMEN AND DON'T WANT TO STOP SEARCHING FOR THAT NEEDLE IN A HAYSTACK]
We, who choose to look elsewhere, WILL NOT condemn you for remaining but DON'T CONDEMN us if we choose to NOT REMAIN and tolerate attitudes and behaviors that ARE NOT BENEFICIAL to our happiness and peace of mind.
[MANY MALES SIMPLY WILL NEVER CHANGE AND THAT'S THEIR CHOICE]
MANY of you (regardless of race, color, etc.) would rather SIFT through SHIT (i.e. INCONSIDERATE, UNCOOPERATIVE and IRRESPONSIBLE females) or live with SHIT (married or non-married) in your own race, color, ethnicity or whatever term is politically correct these days AS OPPOSED TO opening your minds and seeking HAPPINESS, PEACE OF MIND and a reasonable amount of FINANCIAL COMFORT elsewhere.
There is NOTHING that can been said to you to get you to CHANGE YOUR MIND so go ahead and DEAL WITH IT.
[MALES THAT TRULY ARE SEEKING HAPPINESS AND PEACE OF MIND]
I am here to tell you to STOP wasting your TIME because time is something that you CAN'T RECOVER and START looking outside of your GROUP (to simply consolidate those other terms above) for that happiness and peace.
[IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR JUST PUSSY THEN REMAIN WITHIN YOUR OWN GROUP]
THIRSTY DUDES should simply REMAIN where they are and continue with the FEMALES they are dealing with INSIDE of their own group and NOT GIVE decent males a BAD IMAGE to those DECENT FEMALES outside of his group.
[CONCLUSION]
I leave it up to EACH OF YOU to come to YOUR OWN CONCLUSION because YOU are the ones that will have to INTERACT WITH HER.
You must remember that all of the HYPE about a woman going to college, getting a degree and getting a great paying job was ALL FOR HER and NOT YOU.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that feel the need to PROVE THEIR MANHOOD through THEIR WALLETS.
This DOES APPLY to males that desire to MINIMIZE the financial stress in his life and have a woman that will SHARE the financial expenses rather than ADD a financial BURDEN and LIABILITY to his life.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
HER MONEY will NEVER BE your money UNLESS you are making at least 5 times as much as she is. That way SHE KNOWS she will GET BACK HERS and MUCH MORE in return.
That whole concept did not include a man in the equation. This was for HER and HER FAMILY (i.e., single mothers).
[IF SHE HAS TO GET OUT THERE AND WORK THEN WHY DOES SHE NEED YOU]
That was (and still is) the mentality of the FEMINIST which MOST of the American, Working females have today that have a good paying job. In other words, IF I have to get out there and work and financially contribute then YOU are NOT A REAL MAN and therefore "I can do BAD by myself".
[A WOMAN WAS NOT MEANT TO WORK AND PROVIDE IF SHE HAS A MAN]
That's the prevailing mentality of the American female and non-American females that think in that manner and ONLY VALUE a man for what HE can PROVIDE FOR, DO FOR or GIVE TO her.
[THE MORE MONEY THEY MAKE THE MORE MONEY THEY SPEND ON THEMSELVES]
Very FEW females that have a WELL PAYING job WILL NOT be financially stressed and over-extended because they are RAISED and SOCIALLY CONDITIONED TO SPEND, SPEND, SPEND cause THEY KNOW that YOU are RAISED to RESCUE them and HELP PAY or TOTALLY PAY that debt they create SPENDING ON THEMSELVES and NOT ON YOU.
[DON'T YOU WANT A WOMAN WITH A DEGREE AND A WELL PAYING JOB]
I have been there, done that and found ALL of them (I don't say all too often) to be COMPLETELY VALUELESS to me when it comes to FINANCIALLY contributing FAIRLY during dating or in a relationship.
Well paid women with degrees have HIGH EXPECTATIONS that they expect you to fulfill or pay for AFTER they have fulfilled those expectations themselves through THEIR CREDIT CARDS.
[KEEP IT SIMPLE IF YOU WANT TO TRULY BE HAPPY]
I would RATHER HAVE a woman that is FRUGAL, basic, a DECENT PAYING job and the desire to live in a healthy, happy and MUTUALLY participating relationship. A woman that will CONTRIBUTE what little she makes as opposed to some DEGREE'D, HIGH PAYING female that CONTRIBUTES very little that she makes.
[CONCLUSION]
This is the direction that I take and what the rest of you do is SOLELY up to you but I would suggest that you DEFINITELY choose wisely as opposed to choose someone that simply LOOKS GOOD ON PAPER and LOOKS GOOD TO YOUR FAMILY and FRIENDS.
Class is dismissed.
Too many dudes are out there GOING OVERBOARD (to get or please a female) or GOING SADISTIC (because she rejected him) and BOTH are TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ANY dude that has a personal interest in a female.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I've been on the SIMP side and in the end it was NOT WORTH IT TO ME although it BENEFITED HER.
I almost went SADISTIC but at the last moment realized that it WAS NOT in MY BEST INTEREST so I simply DUMPED HER and moved on which was the BEST DECISION that I could have made FOR ME.
[SIMP]
NO FEMALE, let me repeat NO FEMALE, is worth going out of your way for. All that you should do is present yourself in a respectable, mature manner and state your DESIRE to spend time with (not money on) her getting to know her.
IF she is a CONSIDERATE (for you), COOPERATIVE (with you) and RESPONSIBLE (financially for herself) woman, that is all that you have to initially do.
[SADISTIC]
NO FEMALE, let me repeat NO FEMALE, is worth getting yourself in trouble with the law or with other people.
If she REFUSE to respond in a thoughtful and mature manner then BE MATURE about it and simply WALK AWAY FROM HER.
[CONCLUSION]
If you place MORE VALUE in you and LESS VALUE in her then YOU WILL NOT behave in EITHER (simp or sadist) manner. Instead, YOU will have JUST AS MUCH requirements of her to PUT FORTH JUST AS MUCH EFFORT into getting to know you as you will put into getting to know her.
If you REQUIRE LITTLE (from her) then, in most cases, YOU WILL RECEIVE LITTLE to NOTHING (from her) in return for YOUR EFFORTS. It's just that simple AND SHE KNOWS IT.
Class is dismissed.
Whether their looks are BELOW AVERAGE, AVERAGE, ATTRACTIVE, VERY ATTRACTIVE or PRETTY, FEMALES LOVE PLAYING GAMES that THEY can CONTROL and BENEFIT from.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all females UNTIL proven otherwise by her behavior.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I'm sure we have ALL heard females say, "I don't like playing games". Well that is simply BULLSHIT (for the majority of them). The most common game they play is what I call, the ADMISSION FEE game.
[WHAT IS THE ADMISSION FEE GAME]
It's quite simple, "If you want to spend time with her, you have to pay the admission fee in order to spend time with her which is PAYING FOR the cost of the date so she don't have to pay her own way or PAY HER for the time she spends with you".
[OTHER COMMON GAMES]
They also love to play the "Tease Him and Make Him Pursue Me" or "Make Him Pay and Wait" game.
[ONLINE SOCIAL SITES ARE GAME CENTRAL FOR MOST FEMALES]
These sites are their PRIMARILY means to keep their GAME going and INCREASE their chances of WINNING by picking up FOOLS (not friends) WITH BENEFITS until THE ONE comes along which USUALLY is just a BETTER PLAYER than she is so she EVENTUALLY GETS PLAYED by him.
[THE PRETTY/VERY ATTRACTIVE GAME PLAYER AND ONLINE SITES]
I've been on enough of these site and experienced enough to know a few things:
1 - The pretty/very attractive females WILL NOT be on these sites,
2 - IF those pretty/very attractive females are on these sites they are seeking financially well-to-do males that will cater to their desires which most males can't afford to sustain,
3 - IF you are so lucky to catch one of those pretty/very attractive females chances are she:
- has children or children at home and need help,
- don't have children but is financially over-extended and need help,
- has been abused physically, emotionally and/or financially by a male (or males) SHE WILLINGLY CHOSE and is looking for help UNTIL she gets back on her feet and will dump your NICE, average joe AZZ afterwards,
- her marketable value has diminished (and probably still is diminishing) due to changes in her physical appearance because of age, having children, stress (that she typically brings upon herself and later blames the male), weight gain, etc. or e) a combination of all of them.
[FEMALES PLAY MORE AND GET MORE OPPORTUNITIES THAN MALES]
Females (especially on these sites) WILL BE JUGGLING multiple males so DON'T EVER THINK you will be the only one UNLESS you are EXACTLY what she wants or she ISN'T getting the attention and types she EXPECTED to receive from other males.
[GAMES TO MOST FEMALES IS LIKE CRACK TO A CRACK HEAD]
Once they get a taste of the ATTENTION they can receive from playing these GAMES, MOST females will CONTINUE to play to GAUGE their LEVEL OF DESIRABILITY from other men and especially if she gets angry with her man for whatever reason.
[CONCLUSION]
FEMALES LOVE GAMES that THEY CAN CONTROL and BENEFIT FROM.
Class is dismissed.
Every male has HIS personal preference when it comes to PHYSICAL appearance and should be RESPECTED and NOT QUESTIONED WHY or NEGATIVELY CRITICIZED.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to THIRSTY dudes because MOST (if not all) don't really care about hygiene. All they care about is PUSSY.
This DOES APPLY to females of ALL races but this example is BEST PRESENTED when referring to women classified and black.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
MOST females have a problem with REJECTION or NOT BEING CONSIDERED DESIRABLE. Well, MANY of us have a LEGITIMATE REASON for NOT DESIRING THEM.
[3 LEGITIMATE REASONS FOR A LACK OF DESIRE]
Here are 3 legitimate reasons based upon POTENTIAL HYGIENE PROBLEMS.
1. WEAVE/TRACKS. In her attempt to EMULATE someone else's look, she takes the risk of accumulating germs, bacteria, etc. from the LACK of regular cleansing of her hair and scalp.
2. LONG FINGERNAILS. I don't know what the fuck she's attempting to EMULATE other than someone with the INABILITY to PROPERLY clean her pussy or wipe her ass AFTER taking a shit.
3. FAT. Besides potential INTERNAL HEALTH issues, there is the OUTER areas to consider when maintaining cleanliness that WILL accumulate sweat and bacteria which COULD lead to infections if not PROPERLY VENTILATED which WILL BE obstructed with all of that FAT and MAY possibly be difficult to reach during the cleaning process.
[THIS IS JUST OUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE AND NO PERSONAL ATTACK SO DON'T GET OFFENDED]
Just as MANY of you don't want us for YOUR REASONS, it's the same with MANY of us.
1. LONG HAIR. Just like SOME MALES love short hair, OTHER MALES love long hair THAT IS GROWN NOT PURCHASED. If we want someone with long hair then the SENSIBLE thing to do is to get someone who GROWS THEIR OWN and that way they can WASH IT on a regular basis WITHOUT THE CONCERN of damaging or destroying THEIR WEAVE or TRACKS or having to PURCHASE more hair.
2. LONG FINGERNAILS. We have NO DESIRE for long fingernails. We see NO FUNCTIONAL PURPOSE for them and only see it as YOUR ATTEMPT to COMPETE for OUR attention and POSSIBLE BENEFITS if we like it.
3. FAT. Many of us have NO DESIRE for FAT (i.e., thick, BBW, obese, etc.) females PERIOD and it would be a WASTE of our time and yours for us to SPEND TIME WITH YOU PRETENDING that we do.
[CONCLUSION]
For those females WHO ARE NOW OFFENDED or ANGRY, remember that this is OUR PERCEPTION of what WE THINK is GOOD HYGIENE and NO PERSONAL ATTACK on you.
I have CONSTANTLY encouraged males to QUESTION what comes out of ANY female's mouth and ESPECIALLY a black female because they are accustomed to saying SHIT that makes ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE but because YOUR THIRSTY ASS is weak for and want pussy, you don't question her.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ANY female WITH A CHILD (not children because the post is about 1 child) that can JUSTIFY more than $7K (per month for child support), ITEMIZE THE COSTS and will STATE HER MONTHLY SALARY.
This DOES NOT APPLY to THIRSTY dudes because you will accept anything she says JUST FOR THE CHANCE of getting some PUSSY.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
This MORE THAN $7k A MONTH statement made by this EVERYDAY female who's just like the rest of us EVERYDAY people makes about AS MUCH SENSE as my previous post about a housewife's worth of approximately $135K annually so just as I posted about that, I am posting about this "way more than $7K" statement.
[THIRSTY, STUPID AND WEAK MALES CONTRIBUTE TO A FEMALE'S STUPIDITY]
To NOT QUESTION what a female says that MAKES NO SENSE is allowing her to DUMB HERSELF DOWN to a point that SHE REALLY THINKS that DUMB SHIT she is saying IS REALLY INTELLIGENT.
[CONCLUSION]
Never allow a female of ANY race (but especially a black female) to say something IF it makes no LOGICAL sense WITHOUT questioning her.
For MOST males, COMFORT WILL ALWAYS be measured by the AMOUNT of PUSSY they can get from ONE or MULTIPLE females. If so, this post is DEFINITELY NOT FOR YOU.
When it's all said and done, MANY males will realize TOO LATE IN LIFE that their reason for DISAPPOINTMENT and FAILURE will be due to the TIME and MONEY WASTED with the COMPANY THEY KEPT.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male who seeks success in the form of financial comfort (i.e., able to comfortably pay bills) and peace of mind (i.e., little to no stress).
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that believe they can CHASE PUSSY and ACQUIRE FINANCIAL COMFORT and PEACE in their life because IT IS NOT POSSIBLE for BOTH to exist in your life AT THE SAME TIME.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
If you take a SERIOUS look at the company you keep (like I did), you will find that MOST of them are emotionally damaged, financially stressed, unreliable and/or irresponsible.
These are NORMAL conditions for most people and so normal such that IF you are NOT experiencing and living in the same manner you are looked upon as LYING about your condition or considered to be ABNORMAL.
I, Jai Duval, am an ABNORMAL individual because I have NO ISSUES in my life.
[EVERYBODY HAS ISSUES]
This is what MOST will say because THEY HAVE issues (i.e., problems) in their lives and CAN'T IMAGINE ANYONE not being in the same state as they are.
I have RESPONSIBILITIES and I REFUSE to allow ISSUES into my life.
When I am approached with issues (i.e., problematic people), I resolve the problem at that time and if the problem can't be resolved at that time, I get rid of the problematic person IMMEDIATELY because I VALUE ME.
[THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ISSUES AND RESPONSIBILITIES]
- ISSUES. More commonly seen as problems, is something MOST create due to THEIR POOR CHOICE in what they do or the company they keep. Issues (i.e., problems) CAN BE AVOIDED if you make better choices.
- RESPONSIBILITIES. Something ALL people will have IF they expect to take care of themselves. There is no way to avoid responsibilities UNLESS you place (or plan to place) YOUR responsibilities on someone else's shoulders.
[MY THREE FOR ONE PLAN WORKS FOR ME]
My three for one plan INCREASE your chances of financial comfort and peace in your life IF you apply it properly.
- 3 PLATONIC FEMALE FRIENDS. These are for SOCIAL INTERACTION ONLY which has nothing to do with PHYSICAL APPEAL because social interaction with the opposite sex is a HEALTHY thing to do. These friends have NO EXPECTATIONS of you spending YOUR MONEY on them and YOU have NO EXPECTATION of having sex with them when you do things together.
- 4 RELIABLE MALE FRIENDS. Males that are THIRSTY for females or pussy are VERY UNRELIABLE and SHOULD NOT be considered for this core element. These are for BONDING and ASSISTANCE when you need to get something done that you CAN'T DO alone. Most males are UNRELIABLE when they have a selfish and inconsiderate female in their lives so this core MAY be difficult to maintain.
- 1 CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE, RESPONSIBLE FEMALE MATE. Now this will be your MOST IMPORTANT and MOST DIFFICULT core element to acquire. MOST females are TIME BANDITS, inconsiderate, uncooperative, selfish, irresponsible and behave like a spoiled child when it comes to being in a relationship. This core element can contribute to financial comfort and peace of mind as well as cause you to destroy your financial comfort and peace of mind so it's very important that you CHOOSE WISELY.
[CONCLUSION]
You have to decide if YOU want to be a part of the NORMAL MAJORITY (i.e., overwhelmed with issues and/or problematic people) or the ABNORMAL MINORITY (i.e., financial comfort and peace of mind).
My 3-4-1 Plan (if applied properly) can assist you in achieving that financial comfort and peace of mind.
Class is dismissed.
Regardless of what females will say, "If they are employed and earning a good salary, MOST ARE financially OVER-EXTENDED and will place or expect to place that stress in your lap IF you want to be in a relationship with one of them.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all females YOU have an interest in developing a long-lasting, satisfying and MUTUALLY beneficial relationship with.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
These is NOTHING WORSE for a man than a woman who is CAPABLE of contributing and VERY UNCOOPERATIVE in doing so which places MOST (if not all) of the STRESS and BURDEN upon him.
[THEY MORE THEY EARN, THE MORE THEY WILL SPEND]
There are VERY, VERY FEW of those types that WILL NOT BE financially stressed OR not EXPECT YOU to spend YOUR MONEY on them (treating them or helping them with their responsibilities) even though they are QUITE CAPABLE of doing for self.
[EXPECT LITTLE TO NO CONSISTENT HELP IF LIVING WITH THEM]
Choose WISELY and DO NOT EXPECT any american minded female to CONTRIBUTE FAIRLY to a relationship WITH YOU even if they are PHYSICALLY and FINANCIALLY CAPABLE of doing so.
[MOST AMERICAN FEMALES HAVE EVOLVED INTO "RELATIONSHIP" DEFECTS]
The PROOF is in the PUTTING IN THE EFFORT (financial and physical) to maintain a healthy, happy and minimally STRESSED relationship and household.
ADVERTISING herself as being strong, educated and having a good job DON'T MEAN SHIT if all of that ADVERTISED abilities IS NOT APPLIED to the relationship AS OPPOSED TO SELFISHLY APPLIED TO HER.
[CONCLUSION]
CHOOSE WISELY or accept the consequences of YOUR poor choice.
I DON'T DATE and DON'T HATE black women because they are black. I simply STOPPED DATING THEM, NEVER HATED THEM and just I STARTED placing MORE VALUE IN ME, MY PEACE OF MIND and MY HAPPINESS as opposed to DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES to make HER/THEM HAPPY.
I simply NO LONGER have ANY PERSONAL DESIRE for them because the ones that I was ATTRACTED TO were INCONSIDERATE, UNCOOPERATIVE and IRRESPONSIBLE when it came to THEIR PERSONAL INTERACTION WITH ME.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ALL males REGARDLESS of race, color, ethnicity, religion, etc. that are SEEKING happiness, cooperation and a loving woman as a mate.
This DOES NOT APPLY to ANY male that is just looking for PUSSY.
This DOES NOT APPLY to JUST black women because I'm sure MANY non-black dudes are having the SAME ISSUE with non-black women. I am simply stating MY CASE and the FACT that NON-BLACK women were ALWAYS considerate, cooperative and responsible when interacting me.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Dudes when it comes to YOUR happiness, peace of mind and someone GENUINELY LOVING YOU, race in not important.
What is important her CONSIDERATE (for you), COOPERATION (with you) and RESPONSIBILITY (for herself).
[AVOIDING BLACK WOMEN OR ANY TYPE OF WOMEN REGARDLESS OF RACE THAT IS NOT CONSIDERATE OF YOU IS "INTELLIGENT" THINKING]
Far too many of you dudes are ATTEMPTING TO GO or REMAINING where you ARE NOT WANTED or where you are EXPECTED TO GO ABOVE AND BEYOND just to have a CERTAIN female in your company.
[WHY TERRENCE HOWARD]
I used Terrence Howard because of what he stated in the Essence interview regarding HIS ATTEMPTS and FAILURE to get with black women.
[TO THE IDIOTS AND MORONS]
Don't tell me he could have gotten types OTHER THAN the Gabrielle or Haley type because THEY ARE in his PROFESSIONAL class type.
[TO THE EVERYDAY PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S AND INCONSIDERATE BITCHES]
Don't try to say what the idiots and morons have stated because MOST OF YOUR TRIFLING ASSES do not even consider the everyday dude UNLESS he is PRESENTLY making MORE MONEY than you or HAS POTENTIAL to make MUCH MORE money as you (i.e., in school for medicine, law, athletics, entertainment, etc).
[WHAT'S MY POINT]
My point is VERY CLEAR. Never allow society or others to DICTATE who you should be with and ESPECIALLY IF that person GENUINELY loves you which is PROVEN BY her showing CONSIDERATION (for you), COOPERATION (with you) and being RESPONSIBLE (for herself) when she is DATING YOU.
[CONCLUSION]
NO FEMALE is WORTH CHASING. If she shows you NO initial interest AND DOES NOT PUT FORTH just as much effort (contacting you) and finance (pay her own way) when getting to know YOUR CHARACTER (i.e., dating) then DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY.
Who says a mother is BETTER at raising a child? That OBVIOUSLY is not true based upon the LARGE NUMBER of single mothers who's sons (incarcerated, involved in criminal activity, etc.) and daughters (inconsiderate, irresponsible and KNOCKED UP by some dead beat, etc.) are ALL OUT OF CONTROL and running rampant with little to no respect for themselves and for others.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any RESPONSIBLE male that is CONSIDERING parenthood.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
It's so AMUSING to me (nowadays) how males FEEL the NEED to have what HE THINKS is a reproductive copy of himself although MANY of them ARE NOT the biological fathers.
[MOST MALES ARE PUSSIES AND AFRAID TO REQUEST A DNA TEST]
The reason why MOST males NEVER KNOW if the child is REALLY HIS is because he is afraid to get the child tested and MORE IMPORTANTLY the female knows that HE DARE NOT insult her by requesting it to be done.
[IT ONLY TAKE A FEW MINUTES FOR HIM TO EJACULATE INSIDE OF HER]
Don't ever think that it takes a SERIES of fucking around on her part for her to CONCEIVE by some other man. It can be as quick as a LUNCH BREAK, a passionate moment AFTER WORK or a WEEKEND away WITH THE GIRLS and weeks later she comes to YOU and say, "Baby, we gonna have a baby".
[BEING A FATHER/PARENT IS NOT ABOUT YOU BUT RATHER THE CHILD]
Too many of you dudes seem to think YOU HAVE to have some female BIOLOGICALLY and/or LEGALLY connected to YOUR CHILD or CHILDREN in order to be seen as a father/parent.
ANY MAN can be a father/parent WITHOUT having a female LEGALLY in a position to MANIPULATE HIM or THREATEN TO EXTORT MONEY after a divorce or separation.
The IMPORTANT factor is the LOVE and PROPER PARENTING you give your child and NOT IF YOU HAVE A WOMAN in your life that's capable of legally CASTRATING YOU if you don't CATER TO HER in a manner she chooses.
[YOUR CHILD, YOUR MONEY]
The advantage of being a parent WITHOUT the potential FINANCIAL EXTORTION is that IF whatever relationship you have DISSOLVES and she is NOT the legal parent then YOU TAKE your child and your money and move on.
[SINGLE MOTHERS DO IT ALL THE TIME]
If they can do it then why can't you? They will date men UNTIL they find the appropriate one that BENEFITS THEM. If one don't work, they simply move on to another WITH THEIR CHILD and NO FINANCIAL OBLIGATION to that man she was in a short-term, long-term or marriage relationship with.
[A CHILD NEEDS LOVE AND GUIDANCE RATHER THAN BEING IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP]
Nothing much can or should be stated about this because UNLESS you are an IDIOT or MORON you should know what I am talking about.
[CONCLUSION]
If you VALUE your life, your money, your peace of mind AND want to be a loving, responsible parent, I suggest that you STRONGLY consider this post.
Class is dismissed.
This post is to be applied WITHOUT debate or argument because those 3 behaviors are something that SHE IS CAPABLE of doing but simply CHOOSES to NOT DO with or for you IF she is not doing it.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to all black women because there are a FEW of them left that are CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE and RESPONSIBLE (but not too many).
This DOES NOT APPLY to black women who are RETARDS because we understand your INABILITY to CONSISTENTLY COMPREHEND.
This DOES APPLY to any black woman who behaves in a manner that does not add to the quality of your life as opposed to taking away from the quality of your life.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Do not allow BLACK HISTORY month to go away WITHOUT YOU contributing to it IF a female you are spending time with or trying to spend time with is a WASTE, LIABILITY and DEADBEAT.
[3 KEY CONSISTENT BEHAVIORS]
I say that they are a WASTE and NO GOOD for a HEALTHY relationship based upon 3 key CONSISTENT behaviors that seem to be missing in 7 out of 8 black women TODAY:
1) CONSIDERATION FOR YOU. Her attitude and behavior and how it brings stress or peace and impacts your life in a negative or positive manner.
2) COOPERATION WITH YOU. Her willingness to be reasonable and work with you as opposed to being argumentative, selfish and work against you for no legitimate reason at all.
3) RESPONSIBILITY FOR HERSELF. Her accepting the fact that she (not you) is responsible for maintaining her lifestyle, paying her bills, managing her money maturely and paying her way when she is in your company.
[CONCLUSION]
Don't just accept MY WORD for it. Take those 3 behaviors above and COMPARE it to ANY black female that you have a personal interest in.
REMEMBER that the key is CONSISTENT (not occasional) BEHAVIOR and if all that she is offering is PUSSY or the ILLUSION of getting pussy, DUMP HER.
Time for BLACK males to STOP behaving like PUSSIES being AFRAID to CHALLENGE these black women's statements IN HOPES OF getting some pussy or companionship.
STOP buying into the politically correct BULLSHIT of black women standing in your face and saying:
"I am a (or we are some) strong, independent, intelligent black woman"
STOP accepting what they say WITHOUT QUESTION. If they CLAIM TO BE IT then MAKE THEM PROVE IT.
Hate is a pretty harsh word. I DON'T HATE any black woman although I will say that I am VERY DISAPPOINTED in black women WHEN IT COMES TO INTERACTION WITH ME and ESPECIALLY those WORKING black women.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ME and MY personal experiences.
This DOES NOT APPLY to males with LOW SELF-ESTEEM.
This DOES APPLY ONLY to those WORKING black women.
This CAN APPLY to ANY working woman REGARDLESS of race, color, etc.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
At least 98% of WORKING black women have a BIG ISSUE with being CONSISTENTLY considerate (of the man) and responsible (financially for herself by paying her own way) when it comes to HER INTERACTION with a man.
I decided to date only WORKING women because women WITHOUT A JOB typically will have NO entertainment MONEY.
As MOST black women and ESPECIALLY those that have a job would say:
"I'm not taking care of a grown ass man".
Well, I feel the same about grown ass WORKING women. I am NOT financially supporting their INCONSIDERATE and IRRESPONSIBLE asses.
[NEWS FLASH FOR THE IDIOTS AND MORONS]
If YOU CREATE an EXPENSE then YOU should PAY for it.
Any social event (i.e., dining, movies, concerts, trips, etc) that REQUIRES payment should be paid by the individual that wants to enjoy that event.
[DON'T BELIEVE THE "FALSE ADVERTISEMENT"]
MANY of these INCONSIDERATE females will say, "I pay my bills". Well if that were the case then those social events that THEY ATTEND with a man IS A BILL and don't give us that BULLSHIT of "Who Ever Invites Should Pay".
[WHO EVER INVITES SHOULD PAY IS "BULLSHIT" AND THEY KNOW IT]
Just how many times do you ACTUALLY believe that THEY INVITE?
I'm sure that out of 20 (for purposes of simplicity) dates that women have gone on, MOST of them have invited MAYBE 3 times.
Out of those 3 times they have probably paid 0.5 times (which includes tip). So that's 0.5 times out of 20 THEY will have come out of THEIR pockets.
[SO WHEN DO THEY PAY THEIR OWN WAY]
That is ONE OF the EASIEST question I have ever had presented to me.
"THEY PAY their own way IF they see some sort of VALUE in YOU".
[WHAT KIND OF VALUE ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT]
Value can range from YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE, YOUR COMPANY all the way to YOUR WALLET and LIFESTYLE that they find VERY, VERY ATTRACTIVE.
[CONCLUSION]
I feel that it would be a WASTE FOR ME to spend my time trying to seek that 2% of black women that WOULD BE considerate (of me) and responsible (pay their own way).
I would prefer to NOT WASTE time in that WASTE of 98% of black women who WOULD NOT be considerate of me OR pay their own way with me.
By the time I would MAYBE find one of the 2%, I would be too emotionally and financially FUCKED UP from sifting through that 98% PILE OF SHIT to be of ANY GOOD to a CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE black woman that belongs in that RARE 2% GROUP.
I realize that many of you (especially black males) REFUSE to see beyond a BIG ASS and TOLERATE all the SHIT that comes with it because that is what YOU VALUE in life so this post means nothing to you.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ALL males but for some UNEXPLAINED reason, black males are the MAJORITY when it comes to situations like this.
This DOES NOT APPLY to male who consider themselves to be PLAYERS, BROKE ASS PRETTY BOYS and THUGS because it's all about THE NUMBERS for you.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
ARE YOU going to CONTINUE to FOOLISHLY ATTEMPT to ICE SKATE UPHILL with INCONSIDERATE and UNCOOPERATIVE females?
For the BLACK males seeking BIG ASSES and WEAVES, fortunately for you, there is a MULTITUDE of females that fit the profile that is available for you.
COOPERATIVE, RESPONSIBLE and LOVING women are getting harder and harder to find and ESPECIALLY one that is not a MEDICAL ALERT just waiting to happen because of her LACK of discipline when it comes to HER WEIGHT.
[DUDE, IS A BIG ASS REALLY THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU]
It's amusing to me how so many BLACK males will waste their time, money and life away CHASING, ONLINE LOOKING AT and WORSHIPING big asses.
[MOST THIRSTY, POOR AND FINANCIALLY STRUGGLING MEN HAVE POOR SELECTION CRITERIA WHEN IT COMES TO A FEMALE]
Does her ability to be considerate (of you) and responsible (for herself) have ANYTHING to do with your selection process?
If you are basing your SELECTION (which the majority of black males do) on a BIG ASS and a WANNA LOOK LIKE SOMEONE ELSE (but obviously don't) WEAVE wearing female then I wish you all the potential STRESS, SUFFERING and DISAPPOINTMENT that may occur since you REFUSE to listen to logic.
[CONCLUSION]
DO NOT ALLOW YOUR MIND to be LOCKED into a SOCIAL or CULTURAL box to PLEASE OTHERS or to NOT OFFEND OTHERS.
OPEN YOUR MIND to a RAINBOW of LOVING and COOPERATIVE options that are AVAILABLE for you IF you are disappointed and seek peace, happiness and prosperity in your life OR continue to BE DISAPPOINTED and BLAME NO ONE BUT YOURSELF for doing so.
I'm sure so many of you have heard females say, "I've got a degree, a great career/job, live alone and I'm very independent" and I totally agree with them UNTIL it comes to INTERACTION or RELATIONSHIP with a man.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that is seeking contentment, peace-of-mind and productivity in his relationship.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
If you are dating a so-called qualified female, seeking a relationship and she is NOT being, considerate, responsible and cooperative WITH YOU then she is WORTHLESS to you and in a MUTUALLY cooperative relationship.
[WHO IS MS. QUALIFIED]
She is TYPICALLY the PRETTY or VERY ATTRACTIVE and HIGHLY VISIBLE woman with the degree and professional career or no degree, works in a professional environment and is well-paid.
She dresses trendy, has a new or almost new automobile and POSSIBLY lives on her own. I would say live with another qualified woman but usually those bitches simply can't get along with ANY woman so they go solo until they find a man doing FAR BETTER (financially) and MOVE IN with them.
MOST qualified women WILL BE financially over-extended AND emotionally stressed out due to THEIR immature and irresponsible choices in financial management and selection of people they interact with.
[WHO IS MS. UNQUALIFIED]
She has no degree, a regular job. Dresses in a very conservative manner and is VERY FRUGAL when it comes to spending her money or EXPECTING YOU to SPEND YOUR MONEY on her".
MOST unqualified women (based upon my definition) WILL BE low keyed, financially comfortable AND emotionally healthy due to THEIR mature and responsible choices in financial management and selection of people they interact with.
[FORMULA FOR SUCCESS]
When you look at being QUALIFIED or UNQUALIFIED for a relationship WITH YOU, as defined by this american society, the BOTTOM LINE come down to "HOW COOPERATIVE and CONSIDERATE is she WITH YOU"?
FORMULA #1
Qualified + Inconsiderate + Uncooperative = Disappointment (for you not her)
FORMULA #2
Unqualified + Considerate + Cooperative = Satisfaction (for both of you)
[CONCLUSION]
I can't make choices for you. I can only provide you with information to think about BEFORE you make your choices.
Class is dismissed so enjoy your weekend.
With all the HATE (from Pay-Per-View Ho's and Inconsiderate Bitches) and NEGATIVE CRITICISM (from males that are servants to those Ho's and Bitches), the email from this YOUNG male makes my efforts well worth continuing to find others out there to REPROGRAM in a manner that BENEFITS THEM FIRST.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all males who are fathers or intend to be fathers REGARDLESS of race, color, religion, ethnicity or economic status.
This DOES APPLY to all mothers and father who GENUINELY care about the fate of their son(s) when it comes to manhood and interacting with females.
This DOES NOT APPLY to fathers who have ALLOWED their son's mother to BUST HIS BALLS and are PROVIDING THAT ROLE MODEL for their son(s) to follow.
This WILL MEAN NOTHING to females who have or is programming their sons to SERVE females and potentially RUIN his life.
This WILL MEAN NOTHING to males who have sons and are just PUSSIES to the ball busting, inconsiderate female that CONTROL their lives.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I will get right to it. This impressive letter is from a young male that is 16 years old and in the 10th grade. Simply read the email below because NOTHING ELSE (by me) need to be stated before you read HIS email.
[THE EMAIL]
Grade: 10
Age: 16
Dear Mr. Duval,
Your book basically has saved my life forever. “Dear Hunting Season” is one of the best things I have ever read in my life. It got me out of a bad relationship and will keep me out of more to come. In about December 2013 I had a girlfriend I was going out with for about 4-5 weeks. I decided to buy her something. But before I could give her the gift she had changed. She started acting funny. So I returned the gift and got a refund. About two weeks after we broke up she contacted me talking about I miss you and I want you back but this was after I told her I had bought something for her. I told her I didn’t want a relationship but we could be friends and if she didn’t want that I would understand because she was not the girl I thought she was. We continued to stay friends but she never got that gift.
Today at school my friends came up to me saying that they wanted to introduce me to a girl so I wouldn’t have to spend Valentine’s Day alone. I explained to the girl, “I can’t talk to anybody until after February 15.” She said, “That’s fine; I don’t have a problem with it but I really wanted to be your valentine.” I said, “There’s no way that is going to happen.” Even though she was cute I couldn’t bring myself to accept her offer. It’s still Dear Hunting Season. She’ll find a Sucker Man.
In January I was talking to a girl on Facebook. Just out of the blue she asked, “Do you want to be my Valentine?” I asked, “Why out of the blue?” She said, “I want someone to buy me flowers and buy me some chocolate.” This seemed like one of the situations where I had to bring up Dear Hunting Season to her. I said, “First of all, your approach is all wrong. You don’t just tell a guy you want to be his valentine. Second of all, no thank you. It’s Dear Hunting Season. I don’t do Valentine’s Day so find someone else who will buy you gifts and flowers.” She said, “It’s cool. But I wanted you to be my Valentine.” Unless she was already my girlfriend for a year, no. I stepped away from that one.
You changed my life forever. I read your book at school to the boys and say, “This is something you don’t want.” I showed them the Dear Hunting chapter. They said, “I’m a sucker man! I’m somebody’s dear already.”
[ARE YOU GOING TO THROW YOUR SON(S) OUT THERE TO BE VICTIMIZED BY THESE PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S AND INCONSIDERATE BITCHES]
I do realize that there is NO HOPE for most of you ADULT males. YOU WILL continue to CATER TO (foolishly be their servant), KISS ASS (disrespect yourself) and SPEND MONEY ON (not have them pay their own way) inconsiderate WORKING females HOPING for the best.
Is that kind of BEHAVIOR the example that you want YOUR SON(S) to follow? Do you REALLY want him to BE TOMORROW as YOU ARE TODAY?
What are you going to say to your son AFTER he gets VICTIMIZED and HIS LIFE is ruined because YOU DID NOTHING to prevent it?
[CONCLUSION]
YOU HAVE a FATHERLY RESPONSIBILITY to PROTECT and PREPARE your son(s) from what will be young, WELL TRAINED, soon-to-be MAN-USING Ho's and Bitches.
They are being PROGRAMMED and TRAINED, as YOUNG GIRLS, to have UNREASONABLE EXPECTATIONS and TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE of your sons lack of preparation EVEN IF YOU chose to REMAIN in YOUR PATHETIC STATE.
DON'T let YOUR SON(S) down.
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