You must remember that all of the HYPE about a woman going to college, getting a degree and getting a great paying job was ALL FOR HER and NOT YOU.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that feel the need to PROVE THEIR MANHOOD through THEIR WALLETS.
This DOES APPLY to males that desire to MINIMIZE the financial stress in his life and have a woman that will SHARE the financial expenses rather than ADD a financial BURDEN and LIABILITY to his life.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
HER MONEY will NEVER BE your money UNLESS you are making at least 5 times as much as she is. That way SHE KNOWS she will GET BACK HERS and MUCH MORE in return.
That whole concept did not include a man in the equation. This was for HER and HER FAMILY (i.e., single mothers).
[IF SHE HAS TO GET OUT THERE AND WORK THEN WHY DOES SHE NEED YOU]
That was (and still is) the mentality of the FEMINIST which MOST of the American, Working females have today that have a good paying job. In other words, IF I have to get out there and work and financially contribute then YOU are NOT A REAL MAN and therefore "I can do BAD by myself".
[A WOMAN WAS NOT MEANT TO WORK AND PROVIDE IF SHE HAS A MAN]
That's the prevailing mentality of the American female and non-American females that think in that manner and ONLY VALUE a man for what HE can PROVIDE FOR, DO FOR or GIVE TO her.
[THE MORE MONEY THEY MAKE THE MORE MONEY THEY SPEND ON THEMSELVES]
Very FEW females that have a WELL PAYING job WILL NOT be financially stressed and over-extended because they are RAISED and SOCIALLY CONDITIONED TO SPEND, SPEND, SPEND cause THEY KNOW that YOU are RAISED to RESCUE them and HELP PAY or TOTALLY PAY that debt they create SPENDING ON THEMSELVES and NOT ON YOU.
[DON'T YOU WANT A WOMAN WITH A DEGREE AND A WELL PAYING JOB]
I have been there, done that and found ALL of them (I don't say all too often) to be COMPLETELY VALUELESS to me when it comes to FINANCIALLY contributing FAIRLY during dating or in a relationship.
Well paid women with degrees have HIGH EXPECTATIONS that they expect you to fulfill or pay for AFTER they have fulfilled those expectations themselves through THEIR CREDIT CARDS.
[KEEP IT SIMPLE IF YOU WANT TO TRULY BE HAPPY]
I would RATHER HAVE a woman that is FRUGAL, basic, a DECENT PAYING job and the desire to live in a healthy, happy and MUTUALLY participating relationship. A woman that will CONTRIBUTE what little she makes as opposed to some DEGREE'D, HIGH PAYING female that CONTRIBUTES very little that she makes.
[CONCLUSION]
This is the direction that I take and what the rest of you do is SOLELY up to you but I would suggest that you DEFINITELY choose wisely as opposed to choose someone that simply LOOKS GOOD ON PAPER and LOOKS GOOD TO YOUR FAMILY and FRIENDS.
Class is dismissed.
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