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Yes I've even been down that path in my past. I have been with single mothers who are EXCEPTIONAL when it comes to passion. Whether or not it's GENUINE or simply a MEANS TO MOVE IN will only be known AFTER you move her in.
[DISCLAIMER]
This IS NOT an attempt to DISCOURAGE any male if his intent is to have a single mother move in with him OR he give up his place and move in with a single mother because I KNOW that MANY of you WOULD DO IT ANYWAY.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
The intent of this post is to get you to see the REALITY that will occur IF you move a single mother in with you WITH THE INTENT of MAINTAINING that SAME LEVEL of PRIVACY and PASSION that the two of you may presently have if this is your situation.
[DON'T LET THE PASSION BE THE JUSTIFICATION FOR MOVING HER IN WITH YOU]
This has got to be one of the MOST STUPID decisions that I made as a young man.
The passion was off the charts and produced OUT OF BODY experiences and I just knew I had to have her LIVING WITH ME so that I could have that SPONTANEOUS access to HER PASSION and SHE FELT THE SAME.
[IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO HAVE THE SAME PASSION WITH CHILDREN AROUND]
Once I moved her and her 1 child in with me, the SPONTANEITY and PASSION had to be SUPPRESSED. We had to wait until the child when to sleep and we had to be VERY QUIET after the child went to sleep.
If was as if we were the children and the child was the parent due to us having to SNEAK in our PASSION from time to time. It became MORE FRUSTRATION that it because ENJOYABLE.
[HER LIFE WAS QUITE ENJOYABLE WITHOUT THE PASSION]
Although the passion was reduced, she APPEARED to accept the reduction AFTER moving in with me. I believe that was the case because:
- She no longer had to be concerned about paying rent
- She was comfortable because she was with a man and felt safe
- She now had a babysitter that she did not have to pay for services rendered
- She did not have to pay or contributed little to the expenses when the 3 of us went places
- She and her child had moved into a bigger place and she was not sharing a room with her child
- She was willing to accept that reduction IN TRADE for a comfortable living place for her and her child.
[WHAT EVENTUALLY HAPPENED]
They lived with me for about 6 months and that was about the most that I could take living with a female that I was physically attracted to, sexually enjoyed and was NOW LIMITED in receiving the pleasures that I EXPECTED TO CONTINUE.
[CONCLUSION]
If you are SERIOUSLY considering doing what I did, in my past, MAKE SURE that you realize that THINGS WON'T BE THE SAME and WON'T GET BETTER in the manner that you (not her) expects to.
Class is dismissed.
THERE ARE DECENT males that want to be RESPONSIBLE fathers and PARTICIPATE in the DEVELOPMENT of their child or children but those aren't the males that are being chosen MOST OF THE TIME.
IF those DECENT males are chosen, they are USUALLY treated with so much DISRESPECT after she has that child or children.
[NO RESPECT FOR MALES OR FEMALES]
I have NO RESPECT for any male or female that REDUCES those chances of a child's HEALTHY development due to their own SELFISH or STUPID behavior.
Those of you who have ready ANY of my posts regarding children know that I DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY nor DO I MAKE EXCUSES when it comes to a child or children's CHANCES at having a HEALTHY and HAPPY development.
[WHO REALLY DON'T CARE ABOUT THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE YET-TO-BE BORN CHILD OR CHILDREN]
ANY FEMALE who argues the point about THE FEMALE having TOTAL CONTROL over who SHE DECIDES to ALLOW to ejaculate inside of her AS WELL AS TOTAL CONTROL over WHAT HAPPENS to that SPERM after he has ejaculate in her IS NOT CONCERNED about yet-to-be born children and SHOULD BE AVOIDED when it comes to SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
ANY MALE who attempts to support or defend a FEMALE'S EXCUSE for GETTING KNOCKED UP is a SIMP and also IS NOT CONCERNED about yet-to-be born children.
[THEY ARE OUT THERE TO EXTRACT YOUR SPERM AND USE IT FOR THEIR BENEFIT]
NEVER TELL a female that you have a VASECTOMY if you get one. Just tell her that you ARE NOT INTERESTED in being a PARENT at this point in your life.
This is NOT A LIE or a DECEPTION because YOU DON'T have to PROCREATE in order to be a parent. You can ADOPT and be a parent but HER DUMB ASS is so focused on TRAPPING YOU, she can't see the forest for the trees.
Just think about THE LOOK on her face when she takes you to court for CHILD SUPPORT and you PRESENT THE JUDGE with PROOF of you INABILITY to produce children. THAT LOOK WILL BE PRICELESS.
[CONCLUSION]
This is something that MALES should SERIOUSLY consider BEFORE engaging in ANY SEXUAL activity with a female UNLESS HE has had a VASECTOMY and is INCAPABLE of producing sperm to be USED in HER ATTEMPTS to GET KNOCKED UP.
REMEMBER THIS POST and DON'T FORGET YOUR CONDOMS if you plan on engaging in SEXUAL activity this weekend or ANY TIME after reading this post.
Class is dismissed.
This is why MOST black groups need to stick to BUFFOONISH titles for their group and STOP the FALSE ADVERTISING.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all groups although I have found it MORE COMMON in the group classified as black when it comes to the BLACK female's being held accountable and responsible for HER NEGATIVE behavior.
This DOES NOT APPLY to the SENSIBLE black people that exist in these groups that are ATTEMPTING to do some good for all.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
NO GROUP (regardless of race, color, religion, etc.) seeking solutions about relationships within that group will ARRIVE AT SENSIBLE and INTELLIGENT SOLUTIONS without telling the truth about THE NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR of the females in that group.
[WHY DO I JUST SAY FEMALES]
Because it is SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE to be open and truthful about the negative behavior of MEN in ALL GROUPS.
The group that will ALWAYS FAIL to come to SENSIBLE solutions will be the group classified as BLACK people because BLACK males REFUSE to tell BLACK women the TRUTH about their Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Irresponsible behavior and HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE for it.
[MOST BLACK MALES ARE TOO BUSY KISSING ASS TRYING TO GET P*SSY]
If the MEN are to be the CATALYST for change for the improvement of ANY group, then the BLACK group (collectively speaking not individually) will continue to have MORE problems when it comes to the relations between the male and female at the LOWEST, DYSFUNCTIONAL level imaginable and possible.
[DO OTHER GROUPS HAVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS]
Of course they do but I believe (though observation and experience as one of those black me) that our group is the worst and IN DENIAL about it or just TOO IMMATURE to take this CRITICAL situation serious.
[WHAT'S THE SOLUTION]
DECENT black men need to ABANDON all attempts at trying to REASON with inconsiderate, uncooperative and financially irresponsible black females and seek consideration, cooperation and financially responsibility where ever he finds it.
[BUT THE BLACK RACE WILL BECOME EXTINCT]
That will NOT HAPPEN because there will be IRRESPONSIBLE black females INTENTIONALLY having babies for IRRESPONSIBLE and DEAD BEAT black males. The only impact that will occur is the LEVEL of QUALITY, HUMANITY, SENSIBILITY and RESPECT for themselves and other people will diminish.
If black men choose non-black women, as long as DECENT black men are pro-creating with DECENT non-black women, that will simply create a blending affect but BOTH his and her LEGACIES will continue through PROPER education.
[SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE FED UP AND HATE BLACK WOMEN]
Of course not because I apply LOGIC and COMMON SENSE to my thinking and behavior.
What I am FED UP with is STUPID PEOPLE and those are the ones that I AVOID regardless of color, race, etc.
[CONCLUSION]
There is NO CONCLUSION. As long as there is DENIAL and IMMATURE, PRETENTIOUS behavior, the DRAMA and STUPIDITY CONTINUES.
Class is dismissed.
By the SHAMING TACTIC attempts I get from WORTHLESS females and their SIMP SAVIORS.
[CONCLUSION]
NEVER ALLOW yourself to get BAITED into a MEANINGLESS, DEAD END discussion with WORTHLESS females or THEIR SIMP SUPPORTERS.
You will NEVER please ALL the people ALL the time but you CAN PLEASE ALL the SENSIBLE males and females MOST of the time.
Class is dismissed.
There is absolutely NO REASON why ANY dude (especially a young dude with career potential) should be ANGRY or DEPRESSED if a female rejects him.
[SHE JUST FREED UP TIME THAT WOULD BE WASTED CATERING TO AND SPENDING YOUR MONEY ON HER]
TIME is something that you CAN'T GET BACK and in many cases nowadays OPPORTUNITY is also something that DON'T COME BACK AROUND for you.
A female's rejection of you is YOUR HEAVENLY BLESSING in disguise and you should take FULL ADVANTAGE of the time NOT WASTED WITH HER and do something productive with it that will BENEFIT YOU and YOUR FUTURE.
[THERE ARE FEMALE EXCEPTIONS BUT NOT MANY]
If you are so LUCKY to come in contact with a female that will SPEND TIME with you MORALLY SUPPORTING and HELPING YOU (not financially) to achieve YOUR CAREER goals then by all means DO NOT BE STUPID and avoid her.
Most PRETTY females or females that LOOK GOOD (to you) will PLAY IMMATURE GAMES with you by SEXUALLY teasing you. These types are WORTHLESS in the short and long run because they are TIME KILLERS and FINANCIAL LIABILITIES.
[THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DUDES WAITING IN LINE TO CATER TO HER AND JUST MAYBE TAKE CARE OF HER "AFTER" SHE'S HAD ALL THE FUN THAT SHE WANTED TO HAVE AS A YOUNG WOMAN]
Never compete for a female because when YOU COMPETE, SHE WINS by having MULTIPLE OPTIONS.
[YOU WILL RUN ACROSS HER OR TYPES LIKE HER LATER IN LIFE]
MANY of these female types will eventually come in contact with a dude or two or three that they REJECTED early in life and will GLADLY want to give him the time of day. Why is she NOW being so AVAILABLE for him:
- She's had all the fun she can possibly have and now wants to settle down
- Gotten KNOCKED UP by one or several dudes that she PARTIED WITH or MARRIED and is NOW DIVORCED
- Gotten older and HER MARKETABLE VALUE (ability to attract the types of dudes SHE WANT) has dropped to a critical level and NOW she ONLY look desirable to YOUNG DUDES that just want to BANG HER.
[COMING SOON TO YOUR CITY OR NEIGHBORHOOD]
Ever wonder why you see MANY of these females in their late 30's and up moving to a new city?
Many of these female types have been so PARTIED OUT and TOSSED in the RECYCLED BIN that they MOVE to another CITY or NEIGHBORHOOD to AVOID seeing all the dudes that RAN GAME (on her), BANGED HER and DUMPED HER.
[CONCLUSION]
I'm not trying to tell you WHAT TO DO with your life. I'm just suggesting to you WHAT NOT TO DO with your life which is ALLOW some female's rejection to ANGER or DEPRESS you as opposed to MOTIVATE you to do BETTER for you WITHOUT HER.
Class is dismissed.
MOST MALES that are in relationships TODAY are in PROSTITUTE RELATIONSHIPS whether they accept it or remain in denial about it.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male's relationship where the female IS NOT putting forth as much effort to maintain their relationship and SEX is PRIMARILY a business transaction (sex in return for something promised or received) as opposed to SEX being an EXCHANGE of MUTUAL PLEASURE and FULFILLMENT'.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I don't have a problem if your mate (especially if she is your wife) is PROSTITUTING HERSELF (to you) and under the LAWS of MARRIAGE, she has the LEGAL RIGHT to PROSTITUTE HERSELF to you.
[STOP THINKING OF AND TREATING ALL WOMEN AS IF THEY WANT TO BE A PROSTITUTE]
NOT ALL WOMEN behave like prostitutes in relationship, JUST MOST OF THEM.
THERE IS ANOTHER OPTION that is available for you that is MORE BENEFICIAL to you and she's called a PARTNER.
THERE ARE women out there that WANT TO and WILL CONSISTENTLY FUNCTION as a PARTNER but MALES have to give women the OPPORTUNITY to ALLOW them to PROVE that they CAN BE a PARTNER in a relationship.
[WHAT IS A PARTNER]
A partner is someone that functions in the BEST INTEREST of the relationship rather than herself and WILL NOT INTENTIONALLY to things or expect things that will create stress, pressures or damage to the OTHER partner or relationship.
[WHO'S IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP]
Do you have a PARTNER that's WORKING WITH YOU or do you have a PROSTITUTE that YOU ARE WORKING FOR?
[IF YOU ARE HAPPY WITH A PROSTITUTE THEN BETTER YOU THAN ME]
SOME males are HAPPY with their mate or wife as their prostitute and who am I to tell them not to remain in that relationship.
[IF I WAS NOT HAPPY WITH "MY " PROSTITUTE I WOULD GET RID OF HER]
MOST males are NOT HAPPY with their mate or wife as their prostitute and those are the ones that I am say, "If it were me I would DUMP that Prostitute and get myself a PARTNER"
[IF I WOULD HAVE A PROSTITUTE THEN I WOULD ACT LIKE A PIMP AND PUT HER TO WORK MAKING MONEY FOR US AS OPPOSED TO ME SPENDING MY MONEY ON HER]
It's just that simple.
[CONCLUSION]
SIMPS can't be PIMPS so I suggest that you SIMP males don't even try it and just KEEP giving her money or spending your money on her and STOP COMPLAINING to us about what SHE IS NOT DOING FOR YOU.
Class is dismissed.
My sympathy NO LONGER goes out to these FAT or OBESE females in denial.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to the VERY, VERY FEW people with GLAND problems.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
My sympathy goes out to the CHILD or CHILDREN that will GENETICALLY and SOCIALLY (through poor diet and little to no consistent exercise) INHERIT the potential for diabetes that can lead to amputation, high blood pressure, etc. from FAT or OBESE females that won't do anything about it.
[CONCLUSION]
I really DON'T CARE if your FAT or OBESE feelings are hurt or YOU DON'T LIKE what I just stated because MY CONCERN has always been and will continue to be for the BENEFIT of that YET-TO-BE-BORN child.
I want you to SERIOUSLY give this some thought because this term in commonly used with MOST females when a male does something to BENEFIT HER or BENEFIT another female HOPING THAT WOULD HAPPEN TO HER.
I am willing to bet you that YOU DON'T HEAR that term used OFTEN unless IT BENEFITS FEMALES in a manner that REQUIRES your FINANCIAL or PHYSICAL support.
[SPECIAL NOTE]
"If you place any comment on any of my posts, you do so with FULL KNOWLEDGE that you are GIVING ME PERMISSION to USE YOUR comment(s) in part or totally along with YOUR name (without your photo) and without editing your comment(s) on ANY OTHER posts that I choose to create to make my point"
[END OF SPECIAL NOTE]
EVERY TIME I give a lecture, it's to make you LOGICALLY (not emotionally) ask yourself, "HOW IS THIS GOING TO BENEFIT ME if I do this for her"?
[QUESTIONS]
- WHY AREN'T YOU thinking and behaving in a manner that BENEFITS YOU when you are interacting with a female because THEY CERTAINLY DO?
- ARE YOU going to CONTINUE to SERVE and simply HOPE FOR BENEFITS?
- DO YOU really VALUE yourself THAT LITTLE?
[CONCLUSION]
From this point forward, I want you to FOLLOW THE BENEFITS trail and see IF it ends up with HER benefiting as well.
Class is dismissed.
This was told to me by several females on this site. Well, if I'm miserable I really feel sorry for MOST of their MISERABLE and SILENTLY SUFFERING husbands.
I had a very pleasant day today and I've done something that I usually NEVER do which is SHOW MY FACE on this video.
I hope you know that statement is BULL don't you? MOST males are simply SETTING themselves up to be used or WASTING their lives away agreeing with statements that MANY females make and ESPECIALLY that one.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to any female that is FINANCIALLY responsible for herself and HER child or children.
This DOES APPLY to any female that CLAIMS their child or children already has a father and don't need another daddy yet she EXPECTS some other man to be FINANCIALLY responsible if she is going to be with them.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Thanks Savvy Breedlove for tagging me. I read this female's comment and felt the need to create a post and share with decent males that REALLY NEED to see this.
[IS A FEMALE LIKE THIS RESPONSIBLE OR JUST BLOWING SMOKE]
The only way you will know IF she is RESPONSIBLE is to QUESTION her statement which MOST MALES will not do IF he has a personal interest in her.
MOST females would NEVER welcome what I have posted in that illustration because MOST of them are just BLOWING SMOKE.
[IF SHE HAS TO BE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HERSELF AND HER CHILD OR CHILDREN THEN WHY DOES SHE NEED YOU]
This is the MINDSET of MANY females. They EXPECT YOU to take care of them and THAT MAN'S child or children and if you don't then you are NOT A REAL MAN.
[ARE ALL FEMALES MINDSET THAT INCONSIDERATE OF YOU IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE WITH THEM]
Of course not. Just MOST of them and especially the American and non-American ones that have been corrupted by the media and other American females.
[DO NOT ASSUME THAT SHE WILL EXPECT YOU TO FINANCIALLY SUPPORT HER AND HER CHILD OR CHILDREN]
NEVER PRE-JUDGE a female based upon WHAT YOU THINK because that is EMOTIONAL and I always encourage males to APPLY LOGIC and base YOUR JUDGMENT upon how she behaves.
Allow her to SHOW HER CHARACTER through her CONSISTENT behavior.
If she EXPECTS you to financially support her and her child or children AND you are not doing so, YOU WILL KNOW soon enough because HER LOVING BEHAVIOR (if she ever displayed it) WILL DEFINITELY GO AWAY.
[ANY MATURE MALE SHOULD GIVE A CHILD OR CHILDREN PROPER ADVICE AND GUIDANCE IF HE HAS THE EXPERIENCE TO DO SO EVEN IF THE CHILD OR CHILDREN IS NOT HIS]
Financially supporting a child is the RESPONSIBILITY of the BIOLOGICAL father and mother and it SHOULD NOT be expected of any other male or female (if she's dating a male with a child or children).
[CONCLUSION]
BEING A SINGLE MOTHER, in this post, IS NOT THE ISSUE so STAY FOCUSED on the point that I am attempting to make here.
Expectations of YOU to assume the FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES of the child's father is the issue.
Class is dismissed.
Garlic, Cross, Holy Water or the Rays of the Sun will do nothing against these females that FOOLISHLY RUN THEIR MOUTHS or SAY STUPID THINGS in conversations or when they post comments on social sites.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to all females or all BLACK females since I've only had black females that made a request like that.
This DOES NOT APPLY to IDIOTS, MORONS or THIRSTY DUDES.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Remember this previous post? Well, this is not the first time that I've had a black female request or complain about HER NAME being used on a post.
Interesting enough, I have non-black females placing their comments on my posts and NONE OF THEM have requested that I remove their name when I use it to QUESTION or DISCREDIT their comments. I wonder why is that?
One black female actually got FACEBOOK to REMOVE one of my posts.
What's STUPID about this is that SHE MADE THE COMMENT and now DON'T WANT HER NAME associate with HER OWN COMMENT because I applied LOGIC to DISCREDIT IT.
I see that, from this point forward I will have to INCLUDE the following in my posts which will ELIMINATE MOST of the STUPID comments that I receive (smile):
"If you place any comment on any of my posts, you do so with FULL KNOWLEDGE that you are GIVING ME PERMISSION to USE YOUR comment(s) along with YOUR name (without your photo) and without editing your comment(s) on ANY OTHER posts that I choose to create to make my point"
[THEY AREN'T ACCUSTOMED TO AND CAN'T HANDLE LOGIC]
MANY (not all) females will RUN or GET OFFENDED when you QUESTION their statements or APPLY LOGIC to B their statements.
This female was BOLD enough to make her statements but when I applied logic to her comment "get her pregnant" (implying that the male gets the female pregnant) she REQUESTED that I REMOVE her name from the post.
[WHY WOULD ANYONE REQUEST THEIR NAME BEING REMOVED FROM STATEMENTS THEY FEEL IS CREDIBLE]
Well, instead of me ASSuming, simply ask them the NEXT TIME something like that happens that you are aware of.
[WHY DO THEY RESPOND IN SUCH AN IMMATURE MANNER]
They behave in that manner because the MAJORITY of males NEVER QUESTION their statements.
[WHY DON'T MALES QUESTION THEIR STATEMENTS]
MOST males are RAISED to simply ACCEPT whatever the female says and ESPECIALLY IF he is attracted to her in a personal way or just want sex from her.
[WHY DOES JAI DUVAL QUESTION THEIR STATEMENTS]
I DON'T VALUE them SEXUALLY because SEX IS TOO EASY to come by.
I place VALUE on a female's MATURITY and ability to speak and behave in a SENSIBLE, CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE manner.
[WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS]
I do this to attempt to get males to see HOW MUCH TIME they are WASTING with these IMMATURE FEMALES and one of the BEST WAYS to DISCREDIT their statements is WITH LOGIC.
[WHAT IF YOU DISCREDIT HER AND SHE CONTINUES TO TALK ABOUT IT OR COMMENT]
YOU are to STOP the MEANINGLESS back and forth conversation and walk away from her or STOP RESPONDING to her comments.
[DO YOU REALLY EXPECT ALL MALES TO DO THAT]
Of course not. MOST males are MENTALLY weak and will continue to engage her because of HIS DESIRE for her companionship or DESIRE for sex from her. I only expect 2 out of every 10 males that encounter situations like that to follow my lead.
[WHAT IF HER CONVERSATION OR POST COMMENTS MAKES SENSE]
Then ACCEPT without questioning her and continue the exchange because YOU just may LEARN SOMETHING from her.
[CONCLUSION]
I love it when these ILLOGICAL and IRRATIONAL females request that I remove their name because that tells me I AM DOING SOMETHING RIGHT.
If you VALUE YOUR TIME, I would suggest that you begin to APPLY LOGIC to your conversations with females.
Class is dismissed.
I get these questions ALL THE TIME from females and I am CONSISTENT with THE SAME RESPONSES ALL THE TIME.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to all females.
This DOES NOT APPLY to females that are RETARDS.
This DOES NOT APPLY to any female that is TAKEN AGAINST her will, DENIED any form of birth control, CONSTANTLY RAPED until the male (or males) EJACULATES INSIDE of her, FORCED to remain with her captors until SHE CONCEIVES, GET PREGNANT and GIVES BIRTH.
This DOES APPLY to all females that REFUSE to accept THEY CONTROL the conception and pregnancy phase.
This DOES NOT APPLY to IDIOTS, MORONS, SIMPS and males with NO AMBITIONS IN LIFE.
This DOES APPLY to any DECENT male that is concerned about HIS peace of mind and financial stability.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
There are 2 situations that exist within that question::
1. Men having sex with sexy, crazy females, and
2. Men getting them pregnant.
MOST females LOVE and WILL AGREE WITH my response to Situation 1 and MOST females (especially black females) ARGUE WITH and WILL NOT AGREE my response to Situation 2.
[CONCLUSION]
MOST females will NEVER accept RESPONSIBILITY for HER ACTIONS when it comes to pregnancy because YOU MAKE IT SO EASY to ALLOW HER to BLAME YOU.
ANY female, regardless of race, color, creed, religion, etc. that DOES NOT AGREE with my response to Situation 2 and DOES NOT FUNCTION in accordance with Options 1 and 4 in my illustration should be PLACED ON THE NO SEX list.
How much more PATHETIC is this going to get?
Class is dismissed.
I'm sure you have heard some female say that or talk about something similar to that. That statement ONLY APPLIES to YOUR money and NOT HER MONEY.
I don't know about you dudes but MY MONEY will ALWAYS be an issue to me when it comes to HOW I SPEND IT.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that does not want to set himself up to be FINANCIALLY DEVASTATED in the event of a divorce.
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are hardwired with that old-fashioned, out-dated tradition of THE MAN PAYS or THE MAN FINANCIALLY PROVIDES for the majority of the relationship expenses.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
My point here is that the everyday Joe that I represent has MUCH MORE to lose percentage wise than this billionaire or any other financially comfortable male which is why Joe should REQUIRE ANY FEMALE he is spending time with to SPEND HER own money on herself and NOT spend HIS MONEY on her.
[QUESTION]
If money is NOT such a big issue with females that make that statement PUBLICLY or PRIVATELY think that way, why don't they just LEAVE WITHOUT trying to get as much MONEY as they can during a DIVORCE?
[ANSWER]
THEY KNOW that money matters and that is why THEIR INTENT is to get as much UNEARNED money from you as possible on the way out.
[WELL WHAT ABOUT THE SEX SHE HAD WITH HIM]
Sex does not qualify as earning anything more than just sex AFTER the divorce.
For MANY of them, SEX during that relationship is simply a BARTERING SYSTEM (i.e., PROSTITUTION) and is used as a MEANS to get what she wants from him. If you want to PROVE if it's NOT a BARTERING SYSTEM, simply DO NOTHING for her BEFORE or AFTER the sex and OBSERVE her attitude and behavior with you.
Sex, for MANY of them, is ONLY ENJOYABLE if she has RECEIVED something BEFORE the sex or KNOWS she will RECEIVE something AFTER the sex.
If she feels she is due something because of having sex during the marriage, then they should make some arrangements to have sex on a scheduled basis AFTER the divorce is final UNTIL the number of SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS are met.
[HOW IS SHE GOING TO SURVIVE WITHOUT YOUR FINANCIAL SUPPORT]
That is HER PROBLEM and NOT YOUR PROBLEM so don't even be concerned about what is going to happen to her.
If she has any MARKETABLE value left in her that makes a FOOLISH man want to take care of her, she is going to do the same thing that she did with you which is FIND SOME DUDE to TAKE HER IN and SPEND HIS MONEY taking care of her.
[CONCLUSION]
I realize that at least 7 out of 10 dudes reading this WILL NOT LISTEN to me and will CONTINUE to function in that old fashioned, out-dated manner.
Don't be angry or come COMPLAINING to people, on Facebook or any other site about WHAT SHE DID TO YOU because YOU are ALLOWED it to happen to you.
I am attempting to REACH OUT to that 2 out of 10 dudes that WILL LISTEN and take my advice and that 1 out of 10 that's UNDECIDED on what to do with my advice.
In the end, THE CHOICE is up to you.
Class is dismissed.
I will ONLY use celebrity situations IF I see it's something that can occur to the everyday Joe like myself and others.
My focus on this incident is NOT on the act but rather on certain pieces of information that was stated in the article that occurred PRIOR TO THE ACT.
Am I saying the DEBT and STRESS caused the incident to occur? Absolutely not BUT I am giving you SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.
[DISCLAIMER]
This ONLY APPLIES to the everyday Joe that cannot afford to place themselves in a STRESSFUL financial position to get or keep a female.
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that LOVE spending money and stressing in order to IMPRESS, GET and KEEP a WORTHLESS female.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
MOST of you males will not take heed to this post and ALL females that are Inconsiderate of what STRESS is placed upon a man to SATISFY her selfishness can feel free to place your comments here as well.
[BE AWARE THAT THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF FEMALES OUT THERE]
DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU. An Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible female will SIT THERE and WATCH YOU WILLINGLY do damage to yourself mentally, physically and financially in order to PLEASE HER.
CARE ABOUT YOU. A Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible female CAN and WILL live at or below YOUR MEANS in order to make YOUR LIFE less stressful and more pleasant. She WILL manage money and contribute FAIRLY to the maintenance of that relationship.
[MOST OF YOUR FINANCIAL PROBLEMS WILL COME FROM TRYING TO PLEASE THE WRONG FEMALE]
WRONG FEMALE (for you). Whether it's something that YOU GET for yourself in order to LURE HER closer to you or MONEY YOU GIVE HER or MONEY YOU SPEND TO GET AND KEEP HER, it all benefits her and will eventually stress you.
RIGHT FEMALE (for you). The right female simply wants YOU to SPEND TIME getting to know her WITHOUT STRESSING YOU or HAVING UNREASONABLE EXPECTATIONS OF YOU and will be responsible for herself DURING THAT PROCESS.
[BE PREPARED FOR THE ULTIMATE SLAP IN THE FACE]
This is what MANY of those WORTHLESS females WILL SAY to you or TELL OTHERS about you AFTER you are financially STRESSED or BROKE:
"I didn't ask for you (him) to do that, you (he) did it because you (he) wanted to do it".
Isn't it IRONIC that she could have simply said NO DON'T DO ANY OF THAT because all I want to do is SPENT TIME with you getting to know you but 9 out of 10 will CHOOSE TO NOT SAY THAT?
Think about that possible slap in the face BEFORE you check to see WHAT'S IN YOUR WALLET in order to PLEASE HER.
[CONCLUSION]
NEVER place yourself in a position of mental, physical or financial STRESS because of a female you have a personal interest in because in the end SHE CAN up and LEAVE YOU and ALL THE STRESS that YOU CREATED for HER HAPPINESS. That is, if YOU DON'T kill her first and NO FEMALE is worth going to prison over.
Class is dismissed.
So what's LEFT in YOUR WALLET AFTER she's TRICKED YOU?
The more I listen to FEMALES and observe THEIR behavior, the more I realize how INCONSIDERATE MOST of them are when it comes to SHOWING CONSIDERATION for the man and HIS money.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that desires to have a PARTNER in his life as opposed to a FINANCIAL LIABILITY.
This DOES NOT APPLY to any male who LOVE TO PAY for the opportunity of females companionship.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Trying to CONVINCE females that think MEN LOVE TO PAY to be MORE CONSIDERATE of a male's financial responsibility to himself would be FUTILE. It would be IN HIS BEST INTEREST to simply GET RID OF HER.
[THE MINDSET OF WORKING FEMALES]
WORKING females should be more considerate of a man's finances due to the fact that THEY have financial responsibilities themselves.
I have NO RESPECT for WORKING females that would CONTINUE to think that AFTER explaining to them that THEY SHOULD BE financially responsible for themselves and NOT EXPECT to have a MAN to PAY FOR ACCESS, they would STILL EXPECT him to do so.
[THE MINDSET OF PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S]
I would EXPECT a Pay-Per-View Ho to SAY, "I see it as their way of buying access (pussy) and indicating they have a romantic (sexual) interest".
This is why I call ANY female that thinks like this a PAY-PER-VIEW HO and will CONTINUE to call them Ho's UNTIL their mindset changes.
[THE MINDSET OF INCONSIDERATE BITCHES]
I would EXPECT an Inconsiderate Bitch to THINK, "I see it as their way of buying access (to my time) even though I don't have a romantic (sexual) interest".
[THE MINDSET OF CONSIDERATE WOMEN]
THERE ARE women left out there that ARE CONSIDERATE, WILL PAY for THEMSELVES and WOULD BE INSULTED if you TREATED THEM as if they were PAY-PER-VIEW HO's expecting you to BUY ACCESS to them.
[CONCLUSION]
You have the RIGHT to BUY a Pay-Per-View Ho's time if that is YOUR CHOICE. If you do then make sure she's an AFFORDABLE HO and you DON'T EMOTIONALLY ATTACH yourself to her.
Just remember that IF that is HER MINDSET then THERE ARE other males waiting in line OFFERING to do the same thing so don't be SURPRISED or HURT if she JUGGLES between YOU and the OTHER CUSTOMERS or simply DUMP YOU for a BETTER OFFER because it's simply a BUSINESS TRANSACTION to them that BENEFITS THEM.
Class is dismissed.
Since I've been told that I am miserable and I DO THINK in the best interest of males FIRST.
I guess I will have to say DON'T BE MISERABLE LIKE ME:
- Don't take your time looking for a Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible woman
- Don't think about yourself and your happiness because what's important is that YOU FIND a woman and MAKE HER HAPPY
- You must SPEND YOUR MONEY on a woman in order to be happy because WHY SAVE it when she is there to RECEIVE it.
- Your life will be SO MISERABLE if you don't have a woman to ANSWER to and QUESTION where you are going or what you are doing
- You are supposed to have a woman in your life so that she can HELP YOU (spend YOUR money on her)
[MY LIFE IS SO INDECISIVE AND I NEED A WOMAN TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR ME]
I don't know WHERE TO GO with my free time. The beach, to a concert, driving down the coast, amusement park, dining, RELAXING at home, one of many piers, hanging out with one of my buddies, etc.
ALL OF THIS and just PAYING for one person? How BORING is that, right?
Yea, I really need ANY woman in my life RIGHT NOW to make my life fulfilled.
[CONCLUSION]
I guess I will simply REMAIN in my MISERABLE CONDITION and do the things that I want to do ALONE until I find a woman that is Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible (pays her own way) such that we can do MANY things together WITHOUT HER BEING a FINANCIAL BURDEN on me.
Class is dismissed.
Let me repeat, 8 out of every 10 American females are WORTHLESS as a friend or partner because friends and partners are Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible.
I am not here for a popularity contest or to kiss female's asses (like so many of you dudes), I am here to PROVIDE food for though that may CHANGE the way MALES think and behave in a manner that WILL BENEFIT THEM FIRST.
That change WILL ALLOW them to make BETTER CHOICES in females as a friend or as a partner.
[DON'T ARGUE MY POINTS WITH THEM, HAVE THEM PROVE THEY ARE WORTHY TO BE A FRIEND OR PARTNER]
The ONLY way a female can PROVE ME WRONG is though HER BEHAVIOR and NOT HER LOUD ASS MOUTH so PUT HER THROUGH THE TEST.
All she has to do is BE CONSISTENT in the 3 areas that I have mentioned and then she will QUALIFY as a potential friend or partner. Nothing else need to be said to her.
[GOOD NEWS FOR THOSE 8 AMERICAN FEMALES]
7 out of every 10 males are SIMPS and therefore you can CONTINUE to SIT ON YOUR ASS and EXPECT males to CHASE you, CATER to you, SPEND MONEY on you and TREAT you like a WANNA-BE queen.
[TO THE FEW CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE AND RESPONSIBLE AMERICAN WOMEN THAT ARE LEFT]
I truly feel sorry for you because those American PAY-PER-VIEW HO's and INCONSIDERATE BITCHES have practically RUINED most of your chances at having a healthy and happy relationship.
If you have a GOOD man then I suggest that you TREAT HIM with love and respect because IF NOT, sooner or later HE WILL read my posts and DUMP YOUR ASS.
[TO THE NON-AMERICAN WOMEN WITH DECENT MEN]
I suggest that YOU NOT ALLOW those American females to CONTAMINATE you because IF you do ALLOW it, my suggestion to that DECENT MALE is to TOSS YOUR ASS OUT in the street for the American females or Male dogs to have you.
Don't even think about getting him to pay for your transportation BACK HOME because if YOU ALLOW corruption into your relationship, he SHOULD NOT physically attack you NOR should he financially help you. He should simply GET RID OF YOU and get himself another woman.
[SO WHAT DOES JAI DUVAL DO WITH WHAT HE PREACH]
I practice what I preach and WHEN I get the type of woman that I want living with me, I WILL toss her ass out IF she allows herself to be corrupted and I WILL NOT give her one penny to GO BACK HOME because I DO NOT REWARD some female for trying to take advantage of or disrespecting me.
By the way (for the Ho's and Bitches that will comment), I am happy, at peace and financially stable so therefore I don't need nor will I accept ANY negative or stressful female into my life.
I can AND I am doing quite well WITHOUT one living with me UNTIL I get a Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible woman.
[CONCLUSION]
For the 2 out of 10 males that WILL NOT ALLOW any of those 8 females into their lives and that 1 out of 10 males that's UNDECIDED which way he is going to go, I will simply WISH YOU THE BEST and SUGGEST that YOU make a WISE choice.
Class is dismissed.
NO FEMALE is worth arguing with. If she CAN'T or REFUSE to communicate WITH ME in a MATURE and SENSIBLE manner then I WILL DUMP HER and move on whether there are CHILDREN, NO CHILDREN, MARRIED or NOT MARRIED because MY PEACE OF MIND COMES FIRST.
MOST of you are so ACCUSTOMED to these RATCHETS that you would think that a SENSIBLE female is a FANTASY.
Well that's only because of the TYPES of females YOU CHOOSE to associate with.
[LOOK OUTSIDE OF YOUR GROUP'S BOX]
Regardless of what your race, color, ethnic group is IF you have been disappointed with the attitude and behavior of the MAJORITY of females in YOUR group because they are INCONSIDERATE (of you), UNCOOPERATIVE (with you) and FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE (refuse to pay their own way when they are with you) then DUMP that group AS FAR AS SEEKING A MATE and try another group.
[SEEKING A PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE IS CALLED APPLYING COMMON SENSE]
Why should you CONTINUOUSLY attempt to ICE SKATE UPHILL? Only FOOLS constantly try the SAME GROUP over and over again EXPECTING different results.
MANY males have OPTED OUT of their own group and have found a CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE and FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE mate so WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
[IGNORE WHAT OTHERS IN YOUR GROUP SAY ABOUT YOUR DECISION]
This is YOUR LIFE and YOUR FUTURE. In most cases, those FEMALES that criticize your decision are probably females that:
- you are NOT INTERESTED IN
- you are NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO
- WOULD NOT BE Considerate, Cooperative or Financially Responsible WITH YOU so their CRITICISM should MEAN NOTHING to you
[CONCLUSION]
If you've tried SEVERAL TIMES and it's NOT WORKING TO YOUR BENEFIT then CHANGE the group and IMPROVE the quality of YOUR LIFE.
Class is dismissed.
PATERNITY LIES (Married Men Especially) "Are you AFRAID what she will do IF you want to know"?
[NOTE] I kinda rushed this video before the NBA playoffs but I felt this was necessary. Excuse the FEW typos or grammatical errors (if you find them)
[QUESTION]
How will you EVER know JUST HOW MANY females HAVE LIED IF YOU NEVER REQUIRE a DNA TEST to find out IF YOU ARE THE FATHER?
[LISTEN TO THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE COMMERCIALS AND MINDSET FOR FEMALES]
If it's ONE female that is a VICTIM to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, that is considered ONE FEMALE TOO MANY.
[WELL IT ONLY HAPPENS TO A SMALL PERCENTAGE OF MALES]
Only a small percentage? This shows you how MALES are DE-VALUED. So it's acceptable IF ONLY a small percentage of MALES LIVES ARE RUINED..
[CONCLUSION]
If males don't value themselves and ALLOW females to CLAIM THEM as the biological father, the numbers of FEMALE LIARS will surely INCREASE.
Now go SPEND TIME WITH and MONEY ON that child YOU HOPE is yours.
Class is dismissed.
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