Males MUST accept the FACT that DIVORCE IS REAL and MOST MARRIAGES (at least 60% in America) end up in divorce and the male is FINANCIALLY devastated. Therefore, just as SHE PREPARES herself for marriage, YOU MUST PREPARE yourself in the event of DIVORCE.
[COMPANIONSHIP VS MARRIAGE]
COMPANIONSHIP, to me, is more important than marriage because marriage is a LEGAL commitment where THE MAN USUALLY PAYS to get out of as opposed to companionship which is a HARMONIOUS commitment where THE MAN DOES NOT HAVE TO PAY to get out of.
YOU DON'T have to be married in order to be in a MUTUALLY happy and productive relationship.
[MOST FEMALES DON'T MENTALLY PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE TO BENEFIT THE MALE]
THE PROCESS that I speak of is quite foreign to MOST American females and that is because they have NOT been raised or taught to go through that process.
[FEMALES LOOK FOR WHAT BENEFITS THEM IN GETTING MARRIED]
Most females are conditioned to find a male that can DO FOR HER, make HER LIFE easier and FINANCIALLY PUNISH HIM if the marriage fails.
[MOST MALES DON'T PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE OR DIVORCE]
Most males simply CHOOSE their mate based upon PHYSICAL APPEARANCE or SEX and give no thought to WHAT HAPPENS during that marriage AFTER the honeymoon phase (i.e,, being cooperative and giving him sex in order to get him to marry her) or WHAT HAPPENS during the divorce phase (no legal papers signed BEFORE marriage to protect his assets or protect him financially).
[CONCLUSION]
Marriage CAN BE a good thing IF done properly and NOT emotionally. Marriage is NOT for everyone and some people can be in a happy, productive relationship WITHOUT getting married.
IF a woman feels that SHE MUST BE MARRIED in order to be happy, I would give SERIOUS thought about marrying her because she is probably IN LOVE with the thought of BEING MARRIED and NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU.
Class is dismissed.
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