Jai Duval's Interview with "E. Lane Simmons" a Self Proclaimed IEB (Inconsiderate Entitlement Bitch)

I want to first thank Ms. Simmons for this WONDERFUL and INFORMATIVE interview.  I did have the ability to respond to her in an inconsiderate, selfish and IMMATURE manner as she did but since I'm attempting to encourage the decent males to function in a LOGICAL manner that will BENEFIT THEM, I am going to take a logical and more MATURE path.

Instead of STUPID responses, which I'm sure THE BITCH is ACCUSTOMED TO, WOULD APPRECIATE and WOULD ENJOY which is why she commented in the manner she did, I will CRITIQUE her responses so you can see how SHE VALIDATES my position of LEAVING THESE TYPES (especially the African American females) to the Players, Pretty Boys, Thugs and Financially Well-To-Do that choose to do whatever with them and ASSOCIATE ONLY with RESPECTFUL women that will function in an INTELLIGENT and RESPECTFUL manner.

Here are HER COMMENTS and MY CRITIQUE:

[E. Lane Simmons] 

Well I think I am very attractive, and no I don't give my pussy away, lmao! 

[MY CRITIQUE]

There is something to be said about females that are (or think) they are attractive and possess that ENTITLEMENT MINDSET. Obviously THIS IS the mindset of a Ho. Ho's are the ONLY ONES that don't see sex as simply a mutually pleasing experience. With them it's business and if they aren't COMPENSATED (in some form or another), sex is not an option. Her NOT PAYING and INSISTING on him paying for her time is simply a Ho selling her time. What they do later depends on the Ho.

[E. Lane Simmons] 

Right now no one gets it. But a lot of women out there just giving it away just to be giving it has fucked up the dating game.

[MY CRITIQUE] 

This is a VERY IMMATURE statement. Dating GAMES are played by immature adults and once you recognize that you should leave that person alone. Mature adults know how to SIMPLY state their interest and if it's mutual they simply start dating each other to find out if a FRIENDSHIP or RELATIONSHIP can be developed.

[E. Lane Simmons] 

I agree. And, I play to win that is why I don't give losers no pussy, lmao! Dating to me is to get to know someone to see if I want to fuck you and be exclusive. I don't date for free meals or shit like that. Cause what ever you paying for I can pay for myself. 

[MY CRITIQUE]

Admittance of IMMATURITY by "playing". Her impression of dating is QUITE SHALLOW since, to her, it's about seeing if you want to FUCK someone. I guess she is the MALE version of a dog since males are considered dogs IF they were to make a statement like "dating to see if you want to fuck her". I guess SHE QUALIFIES as being referred to as a male dog (i.e. bitch) in that case.

Her statement is quite common, "What ever you paying for I can pay for myself". Notice SHE CAN pay for herself but SHE DON'T pay. This shows TOTAL inconsiderate for valuing a male just for his company.

[E. Lane Simmons]  

I don't date. Does that answer your question, lol. But if I was dating, no I would not be paying. But that's me and how I was raised. And if a ninja can't get down with that, then he just can't. But never had any problems.

[MY CRITIQUE] 

Again, PROOF of her ability to do something (i.e., pay her own way) yet she REFUSES to do so BECAUSE she was RAISED to be INCONSIDERATE (expecting him to pay when she can), A BITCH (i.e., date to see if she want to fuck) and A HO (i.e., have them pay for her if they want to date her).

[E. Lane Simmons]  

LOL. I work and I am paid very well. I don't ask a dude to pay for nothing I can not afford to pay or obtain myself. But yeah dudes who don't like to pay and want me to pay my own way, they get the ninja please hand. If I am going to do all that then what the fuck I need you for. I believe in men being the head of the household and carrying their weight. A lot of pussified ninjas getting away with a lot of shit, cause some females scared to be alone or they going to be alone.

[MY CRITIQUE]

She makes the money yet she ASKS a dude to pay for her. She CAN PAY for herself yet (again) she ASKS the dude to pay for her. If she is going to do ALL THAT (i.e., simply be responsible and pay for herself), then why should she be around a man SHE DOES NOT value for more than the MONEY HE SPENDS. 

BIG CONTRADICTION. She believes in MEN carrying their own way yet SHE DOES NOT believe in carrying her own weight (i.e., responsibilities).

[E. Lane Simmons] 

I can treat you like a man when you act like the pussy between my legs, lmao! Which most men these days do, cot damn mitches.

[MY CRITIQUE]

Very little RESPECT for decent men that EXPECT her to be RESPONSIBLE FOR JUST HERSELF.

[TO SUM THE ABOVE UP]

I could have WRONGLY labeled her but I chose labels that FIT her words and admitted behavior.

I could have engaged in a SENSELESS back and forth chat FOR HER ENTERTAINMENT but I chose to simply ALLOW HER to SHOW ME the type of person she ACTUALLY is which I CONCLUDED (not ASSumed) based SOLELY on what SHE STATED.

[RECOMMENDATION]

Put as much DISTANCE between FEMALES like this that you can because THERE ARE considerate, responsible, MATURE and respectful WOMEN out there that DO EXIST that may be difficult to find but is TRULY WORTH THE WAIT it takes to find her.

Females like this DO NOT DESERVE the decent, common, respectful, average Joe male. 

[CONCLUSION]

IF this is the type of female that YOU are ATTRACTED TO and DESIRE then by all means you have that right. All I can do is provide you with information. In the end, the choice is up to you.

This INTERVIEW is now over and OPEN for feedback. Feel free to express yourself in what ever manner you choose to.

TAKE A POSITION: You Are Either With Them or Against Them

SILENCE or EXCUSES will no longer be acceptable when pointing out Ho's and Bitches to so-called good women. Whether we see you do it or not, IF you remain silent, make excuses for or AVOID publicly DENOUNCING these Ho's and Bitches, WE WILL consider you to be a CLOSET Ho or Bitch that just has NOT YET been caught.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ALL females that CLAIM to be a woman of quality or a woman worthy of having a decent man.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The decent, average Joe males have too often ALLOWED females that CLAIM to be man-loving, responsible and/or good women to:

- Remain silent,

- Straddle the fence, or

- Excuse the thinking and behavior of Ho's and Bitches.

THOSE DAYS of us accepting YOU in that manner ARE OVER FOR YOU.

[WE WILL DEFINE A GOOD WOMAN AND NOT YOU]

When YOU define what a good woman is, that description is something that works to YOUR "immediate and long term" BENEFIT and NOT OUR BENEFIT. 

We will NO LONGER ACCEPT your description of what a good woman is. You can do so IF you INTEND on developing a relationship with another female but YOU WILL NOT describe what a good woman is FOR US.

[JAI DUVAL'S DESCRIPTION OF A GOOD WOMAN]

I consider myself to be just another average Joe as well as represent the voice of MANY decent, common, average Joe males. This is the BARE MINIMUM of what a good woman SHOULD BE which is Chapter 5 in my first book "How to Identify and Avoid a No Good Skeezer":

1. She is emotionally healthy and free from past relationships.

2. She is seeking companionship to enhance her happiness and not to make her happy. 

3. She is responsible and will not expect you to rescue her from drama or debt she creates.

4. She can sensibly communicate when angry and will not become a public embarrassment.

5. She comes to you first with personal issues or disagreements that the two of you may have.

6. She is happy being in a relationship with you without expecting you to entertain her all the time.

7. She can be content at home and does not have to run the streets in order to be happy.

8. She accepts you and does not try to change you.

[JAI DUVAL'S DESCRIPTION OF A HO AND BITCH]

I will speak for myself and other males can agree, if they choose so, that these are the mentality and behavioral description of Ho's and Bitches:

1. HO. This one has that PAY-PER-VIEW attitude. She is scrappy and competitive but will be very co-operative if you provide the finances required to spend time with her. She periodically will put up resistance but all you have to do is pull out that cash or credit card and she will cease the resistance and cater to your needs. They sell their time and what is done with it is negotiable which may NOT include sex if that’s what you were thinking. There are two basic sub-classes, affordable and overpriced. Of course overpriced depend solely upon your financial status so pay close attention and choose wisely.

2. BITCH. This one has that ENTITLEMENT attitude and will go toe-to-toe, trade blows with you and knock your DUMB ASS out if you don’t keep your guards up and protect yourself. She is masterful in the ring. She expects you to spend money as well as cater to her. She expects you to expect nothing more than to be grateful that she has allowed you the opportunity to serve her when she (not you) wants service.

[CONCLUSION]

This change MUST BE INCORPORATED and applied to all females. If not, these CLOSET Ho's and Bitches will CONTINUE to be a DIVERSION in our quest for happiness, prosperity and PEACE OF MIND.

Class is dismissed.

REALITY CHECK: My T-Shirt Is Worth a Thousand Words

There are females out there that think they are so good looking OR have a certain type of job/career that it makes them feel as if they are ABOVE us Joe's and find it to be INSULTING if we look at them for more than a QUICK glance.

[DISCLAIMER]

This t-shirt IS FOR any Joe that has gotten that RUDE FROWN just because we took the time to ACKNOWLEDGE the female's existence by looking at her.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is for all the common, average Joe males (like myself) that no longer allow rude responses by females to disappoint them. 

[FACT]

An EGOTISTICAL and IMMATURE female will consider it to be RUDE and somewhat DISRESPECTFUL if a male SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO looks at her for more than a BRIEF glance.

A GROUNDED and MATURE female will consider it to be a COMPLIMENT if a male SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO looks at her for more than a BRIEF glance.

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

You will not be considered attractive in the eyes of every female that sees you looking at her. With that said, that does not mean that SHE has to react in such an immature, disrespectful and rude manner although MANY of them do.

[WHAT SHOULD BE YOUR REACTION]

1. Nothing when she RUDELY responds in that manner. Just continue walking away from her.

2. Since my t-shirt is worth a thousand words, you would not have to say a thing, IF YOU WERE WEARING IT, when she frowns at you for simply acknowledging her existence by "looking at her". My t-shirt would speak LOUDLY and CLEARLY for you WITHOUT you saying one word to her.

[CONCLUSION]

NEVER ALLOW a rude female to disrupt YOUR happiness and peace of mind.

BAD ADVICE: Losers Accept and Winners Reject

If you accept someone's advice OR simply decide to TOLERATE someone's inconsiderate and disrespectful attitude towards you thinking (or hoping) it will eventually improve FOR YOU then YOU ARE A FOOL.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to males that are in a relationship that HE KNOWS he is not being treated in the same manner he is treating her and should DUMP HER and move on.

This CAN APPLY to females in the same situation.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Many people will advise you to REMAIN in a miserable, uncooperative relationship simply because THEY ARE in a similar type of relationship OR they are delusional when it comes to TODAY'S RELATIONSHIPS.

[WHY ALLOW A FEMALE OR WEAK ASS MALE TALK YOU INTO STAYING]

FEMALES: Relationships, NOWADAYS, primarily benefits the female and that is why they are so PRO-RELATIONSHIP and LESS SENSITIVE to what benefits you. UNLESS you are a close family member or friend, they will not be as interested when you are explaining your situation to them.

MALES: Many males are simply WEAK and BEATEN DOWN males that are in love with the idea AND need to be in a relationship NO MATTER HOW FUCKED UP it is for him. In his mind, it's all about having that companion and accepting whatever attitude and behavior that comes with her.

[RELATIONSHIP CANNOT GUARANTEE YOU HAPPINESS]

You have to PLACE MORE VALUE IN SELF as opposed to placing move value into her and her companionship with you. ONLY YOU can guarantee you happiness and MANY times that happiness means DISSOLVING THAT RELATIONSHIP and moving on.

[YOU CAN LIE TO US BUT NOT TO YOURSELF]

STOP the pretentious behavior to please the public and have an HONEST talk with yourself. ONLY YOU know what's good for you. SETTLING for the purpose of a PUBLIC IMAGE or for COMPANIONSHIP is not worth it. 

You know, based upon what YOU ARE receiving versus what YOU SHOULD BE receiving, whether or not you need to ABANDON that RELATIONSHIP.

[DO YOU THINK THAT LITTLE OF YOURSELF]

Who has programmed you to think SO LITTLE of yourself that you willingly tolerate someone female's inconsiderate and disrespectful attitude and behavior in exchange for her companionship?

[SHE WILL EVENTUALLY LEAVE YOU IF SHE GET OTHER OPTIONS]

Whether you accept it or not, MOST of those types of females will LEAVE YOU and move on to a BIGGER FOOL or someone SHE THINKS is THE ONE (which is usually a Player, Pretty Boy or Thug with a BETTER GAME than hers).

[SHE IS NOT YOUR ONLY OPTION]

There are WOMEN out there that can respect and appreciate you BUT you will never have the opportunity to meet one of them as long as you remain where you are so:

1. STOP taking advice that DOES NOT benefit you,
2. GROW A PAIR OF BALLS and do what's best for you, and 
3. IMMEDIATELY take back control of your life and DUMB THAT BITCH.

[CONCLUSION]

All I can do is provide information in this class for you to consider applying. In the end, it's up to you to decide how you want YOUR LIFE to be.

Class is dismissed.

Beware of those FixHerUppers

I can NOT express this one enough to you LONELY, WEAK and DESPERATE males out there to "Leave those TROUBLED females alone".  SO MANY males have ruined their lives getting personally involved with what I call FixHerUppers. FixHerUppers are unstable females that are riddled with emotional, financial and physical problems. 

 

 
[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that feel the need to come to the assistance of a female in need THINKING she will be obligated to pay him back or commit to a relationship with him afterwards.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The common, average Joe male foolishly believes if he comes to the aid of a female he has a PERSONAL interest in that it will secure a relationship with her and eventually make his life better having her around. 

[FACT]

The truth of the matter is that in most cases it will not improve his lifestyle but rather bring a burden into his lifestyle and improve the quality of her life while she dumps her responsibilities, burdens and attitude onto him.
[HER BODY, HER LIFE, HER CHOICE, HER RESPONSIBILITY]

After all, SHE CHOSE to IRRESPONSIBLY spend her money and get into financial trouble as well as SHE WILLINGLY CHOSE to be with that (or those) types of ABUSIVE males that got her in that trouble-some position to begin with.

[RESPONSE]

Never reduce your quality of life by allowing a trouble-some female into your personal life and don’t allow her or her problems to move in with you. If you are going to allow her into your social life then do so at an emotional distance. Being social is fine as long as you are in control, not getting emotionally involved, not paying her way or helping her with her financial responsibilities.
The moment that you begin to lose control or foolishly think of giving up that control; it’s time to toss in the towel and get out of that ring.

[REASON]

You, in most cases, are simply a means to putting an end to her burdens and responsibilities. She will generally cater to you or allow you to spend time with her in order to get you to bring her into your comfortable lifestyle. Once she’s gotten in and you have relaxed she will place her burdens and responsibilities on you and probably cut back or quit doing the things she did initially to trick you into making that stupid decision.

Once you have relieved her burdens you will no longer be of any use to her and she will either take total control of your life or dump you and move on. That move is usually to an ex or someone that she has been seeing while with you. If she had not been seeing anyone she will move on to be available to have multiple men cater to her until THE ONE she will submit to comes along that she knew all along DEFINITELY WASN'T YOU.

[WARNING]

There is a very good chance that FixHerUpper will be sweet and cooperative while she is in the process of getting herself back together because SHE NEEDS YOU.

There is ALSO an even better chance that she will become UNCOOPERATIVE or even LEAVE YOU AFTERWARDS because she NO LONGER NEEDS YOU.

[CONCLUSION]

NEVER get involved with a female because SHE NEEDS YOU.  Only get involved with a female that HAS HERSELF TOGETHER and SHE WANTS YOU.

As usual, all I can do is provide you with information in these classes and you have to decide for yourself.

Class is dismissed.


 

Be Aware of the Holy "Hustler"

This is one of the Skeezers that I placed in my first book, "How to Identify and Avoid a No Good Skeezer". 

Her MANIPULATIVE ABILITIES and DISTORTED USE of RELIGION are the tools of her trade and THE CHURCH is where she finds her EASIEST VICTIMS.

[DISCLAIMER]

This IS NOT ABOUT religion.

This IS ABOUT any female HYPOCRITE that USES RELIGION to manipulate and take advantage of a man.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

No place is sacred to the holy hustler.  As a matter of fact, those so-called sacred places are where she does her best work.  They know what to wear and how to look in order to LURE males into her plan of having them financially support her and give her that which SHE DESIRES.

In my book, I have documented 13 types of females that males who seek peace, happiness, prosperity and UNNECESSARY stress in their lives should AVOID once they are discovered.  There is no legitimate reason why any good man should waste his time with these types.  The holy hustler is simply 1 of the 13 that I have in my book.

[HOLY HUSTLER]

She is the hypocritical and psychologically disturbed twin sister of Ms Holy Roller.  She speaks of herself as being prominent in her church and community.  She claims that she is a very spiritual person and will present a model image to the members in her church and community to conceal her other personality. 

The other personality is a coldhearted hustler and user of any man that she can take advantage of.  She worships material items, cash and the desire of a lavish lifestyle by way of the bible and is quite skilled in using the GOD GAME to acquire cash, assets, favors, etc., from men, and use that same  GOD GAME to keep good men at a safe, non-sexual but manipulative distance all “In The Name of HER Lord and Savior JESUS CHRIST.”

[APPEARANCE]

Many of them WILL LURE you with their looks.  It will be:

- their HAIR,

- their round BOOTY,

- their FACIAL beauty,

- a slight exposure of CLEAVAGE (just enough to temp you but not enough to offend Jesus),

- ALONG WITH carrying a bible and/or wearing a cross necklace.

[EXTREME WARNING]

DO NOT ASSUME THIS SKEEZER is innocent and mean you no harm.  This one is VERY GOOD at DECEPTION and males tend to DROP THEIR GUARDS when in her presence and especially when meeting her in the church.

[CONCLUSION]

Now that I have INFORMED some of you as well as OFFENDED you bible toting and scripture quoting Holy Hustler HYPOCRITES that are in this class......

Class is dismissed.

MEN GROW UP: It's Called Personal Preference If She Does Not Want You

I hear far too often males complaining about females of their ethnicity, race, color or however you want to term it dating or being in relationships with males other than those that look like them. Why would you want someone that don't want you?
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male, regardless of ethnicity, race, color, etc. that thinks and behaves in this manner.

This DOES APPLY to any male that desires to get OUT of his ethnic box and try someone different.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

YOU DO NOT NEED many females. YOU DO NOT NEED a few females. ALL YOU NEED is ONE female that is considerate, responsible, respectable, MATURE, pays her own way AND has a GENUINE interest to be YOUR MATE if that is what you are desiring.

[WHAT SHOULD MATTER TO YOU]

It SHOULD NOT matter if a female does not VALUE YOU enough to have a personal, genuine interest in you. What SHOULD matter is if YOU VALUE YOURSELF enough to simply move on to females that DO VALUE YOU for the person that you are.

[STOP THE IMMATURE BEHAVIOR]

Males need to simply ACCEPT it when they see a female of THEIR ethnicity with a male that is NOT of their ethnicity and STOP this IMMATURE criticism and name calling JUST BECAUSE she has decided to "try" or "commit to" a different flavor.

[IMPORTANT QUESTION and COMMENT]

Q. Why does it matter to you who she wants to be with IF it's definitely not you or NO ONE in your ethnic group?

C. Many females NEED TO BE away from you because of their inconsiderate attitude and behavior. You should be THANKFUL that she is NOT with you as opposed to angry or disturbed that she is with someone else.

[IT'S HER RIGHT TO WANT WHO SHE WANTS]

Regardless of it's outcome, if she can find a male that will DO FOR HER what YOU REFUSE to do for her (even if he's COMPLYING with her ENTITLEMENT expectations and putting up with HER INCONSIDERATE and SELFISH attitude), then it's HIS BED that he is going to lie in and NOT YOURS.

[USE YOUR TIME TO BENEFIT YOU]

There's a RAINBOW of options available for you, when it comes to females, that are out there so INSTEAD of wasting time "talking negatively about" or "name calling" a female that has NO PERSONAL INTEREST in you, why not use that time INTERACTING with females that:

- DO APPRECIATE YOU for you, 

- DO have a personal interest in you,

- ARE responsible and considerate of you,

- Will WORK WITH YOU and not against you, 

- ARE NOT PAY-PER-VIEW HO's that EXPECT YOU to pay their way to spend time with you. 

[RESPECT THAT OTHER MAN]

That would be the MATURE thing to do. DO NOT display hatred towards some male YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW because he was selected and not you. Remember, for the most part, it's the female that decides and males are simply SALESMEN advertising:

- The Contents of THEIR WALLETS,

- Their Ability to UNQUESTIONABLY OBEY, or 

- The Contents of THEIR GOOD CHARACTER.

She decides which male she wants DEPENDING upon HER character and what SHE considers value to her. Many are MATERIALISTICALLY motivated, many are CONTROLLING and want a man that will UNQUESTIONABLY OBEY her and a few of them are CONSIDERATE and are GOOD CHARACTER motivated. There is NOTHING you can do to CHANGE what SHE VALUES.

[CONCLUSION]

This particular class is all about RESPECT for SELF and RESPECT for THE MAN SHE CHOSE and has nothing to do with her. She DID NOT CARE for you so why should you care about WHAT EVER happens to her. Give serious thought to this class the NEXT TIME you see a female of YOUR ETHNICITY with a male not of your ethnicity.

Class is dismissed.