Don't Waste Your Time With Someone's Else's Lemon

I had to post this based upon a conversation I  had this past weekend with a friend of mine.  He was EMOTIONALLY "Stuck on Stupid" for a female that was EMOTIONALLY "Stuck on Stupid" for her ex.

[DISCLAIMER]

This SHOULD BE APPLIED by any male that has a personal interest in a female that WAS in a previous relationship.

This SHOULD BE APPLIED by any male that is beginning to EMOTIONALLY connect with any female.

This DOES NOT APPLY to all single mothers that are described below but certainly a HIGH percentage of them.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I've been there, done that so I am QUALIFIED to speak to this which is why I placed this in my first book, "How to Identify and Avoid a No Good Skeezer".  There are females out there that are NOT SKEEZERS but still are of NO USE to any man EXCEPT the man SHE ALLOWED to damage her and have her NOW, "Emotionally Stuck on Stupid" for him NOT YOU.

There is a certain thinking and behavior that is PROGRAMMED into many males upon coming in contact with a female:

- He SEES,
- He LIKES,
- He DOES things for her, and
- He HOPES (and sometimes PRAYS) that she will want him as he wants her.

[WHAT IS THE VEHICLE LEMON LAW]

Lemon laws cover only substantial defects, meaning defects that substantially impair the use, value, or safety of the vehicle.

[WHAT IS A FEMALE LEMON]

A female that is emotionally “STUCK ON STUPID” because they are attracted to and won’t let go of their Ex.  These DEFECTS are dysfunctional and substantially damaged females that impair YOUR productivity and has LITTLE TO NO value in a meaningful and mutually loving relationship.

[******SINGLE MOTHER ALERT******]

MANY single mothers with children 7 years old or younger are POTENTIAL LEMONS for recall UNLESS the biological FATHER IS DEAD.  Many of them STILL HAVE those emotional desires to JOIN she, the child or children and THEIR biological father  together as a FAMILY UNIT.

[WHAT WILL THE LEMON ALLOW YOU TO DO]

They will ALLOW YOU to:

- Help them with THEIR BILLS,
- Take them out and SPEND MONEY on them,
- FIX THINGS and run errands for and with them,
- SPEND TIME with them when they GET BORED,
- Place you in that PERMANENT PLATONIC friend category,
- Be there for them when they want to JUST TALK at you (about their Ex many times)

[WHAT WILL A LEMON NOT DO TO YOU]

They will NOT (in most cases):

- Get EMOTIONALLY CLOSE
- Engage in SEXUAL ACTIVITY
- BE AVAILABLE if her ex wants her

[CAN YOU REPAIR A LEMON]

Absolutely not.  Just like ONLY the automobile manufacturer is TRULY capable of repairing THEIR lemons, the ONLY one capable of repairing HER is the ORIGINATOR of the damage which is her ex because ONLY he knows how the damage was caused.

[WHAT SHOULD YOU DO AFTER DISCOVERING SHE IS A LEMON]

No matter how difficult it may be for you, the best thing that YOU can do for YOU is to IMMEDIATELY DUMP her and move on.

[WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU BEGIN TO HAVE FEELINGS FOR A FEMALE]

As I have stated in my book, you have to POP the BIG QUESTION to her:

"Since I am beginning to have feelings for you, I need to know if there is ANY person or thing that you are STILL emotionally attached to in such a manner that it will HINDER OUR CHANCES of getting to know each other on a PERSONAL level".

It's important that YOU ASK this question EVEN IF SHE LIES to you.  Reason being, you would rather have her lie to you than you lie to yourself.

[CONCLUSION]

Remember that my interest is to INFORM males of females and situations that ARE NOT in their best interest to engage in so that it KEEPS THEM FREE to meet and interact with QUALITY and EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE women.