CLASS IS IN SESSION: "STAY AT HOME MATE: Think Sensibly and Think Twice Before Agreeing to a Situation Like That"

MANY of you (males and females) may not like this post because it MAY cause you to take a MORE SERIOUS and REALISTIC look at your situation but of course you should know that YOUR ANTI-JAI DUVAL opinion has NEVER STOPPED ME BEFORE.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males on PUBLIC ASSISTANCE.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males who CAN AFFORD to financially support a mate WITHOUT it REDUCING his quality of life.

This DOES NOT APPLY to any female WHO IS NOT reducing some man's quality of life or creating FINANCIAL discomforts due to her living with him.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Economic times are HARD for MOST but especially males whether you agree with me or not.

Now add to that a female that comes along WITH EXPECTATIONS and CAN'T or REFUSE TO contribute financially to maintain the relationship she's in with you.

[LOVE DON'T PAY BILLS UNLESS SHE IS A PROSTITUTE]

A prostitute can NEGOTIATE with the bill collector or exchange sex for compensation with some dude who WILL PAY that bill for her.

No matter how much she GENUINELY love you, you have look at that situation from a REALISTIC perspective and not a LONELY, DESPERATE or HORNY perspective.  If you don't think so, when the bills come in simply send it back with a LOVE NOTE and see if they accept that note as partial or full payment.

[CONTROL THE FLOOR OR TOSS HER OUT THE DOOR]

You should NEVER ALLOW any female to BOSS YOU around or DISRESPECTFULLY DICTATE to you whether she is working or is not working.  

MANY females WILL expect to live a lifestyle of a 2 income couple even though SHE is not working and living at  home.

REMEMBER that SHE HAS to LIVE BELOW your means (I'm speaking to the average, everyday Joe) and a basic lifestyle IF she is NOT contributing financially.  This SHOULD NOT be something that YOU ALLOW HER to attempt to negotiate.

If SHE CAN'T or REFUSE to accept it......  then DUMP HER.

[IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH]

Put your PENIS in your pants and SERIOUSLY look at what happens when/if sickness occurs.  

Does she have health coverage or dental plan?  Can you AFFORD to pay the EXTRA that it will cost to place her on your coverage plan and NOT disrupt YOUR comfort?

[CAN YOU ACCEPT A DISRUPTION "DOWNWARD" IN YOUR LIFESTYLE]

Many males just LOVE having access to that female when he gets home but FAIL to realize the ADDED COST AND STRESS that CAN come with having someone there that CAN'T or REFUSE contribute in a manner that will CONTINUE to SUSTAIN life as it was before her.

[CONCLUSION]

This, IN NO WAY, is an attempt at DISCOURAGING (a situation like that) or DIMINISHING (the VALUE of GENUINE LOVE) that she man have for you.

THIS IS trying to simply get you to take a REALISTIC and MORE MATURE as opposed to an IMMATURE and CAREFREE look at what you may be getting yourself into in a situation like that.

REMEMBER that SHE can ALWAYS simply WALK AWAY and LEAVE YOU WITH the EMOTIONAL or FINANCIAL STRESS caused while WITH YOU and WALK INTO the life of the next man JUST LIKE SHE DID WITH YOU.

In the end, the choice and the consequences will be a part of YOUR LIFE not mine.

Class is dismissed.