IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "BLACK FEMALE RAGE: Why Are You Arguing or Debating With Her About Being Financially Responsible For Herself"

Obviously MANY of you dudes have NOTHING TO DO or NO OTHER AMBITIONS besides WASTING your time with these WORTHLESS females that REFUSE to be Considerate of you when it comes to HER being Financially Responsible when she is with you.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to ANY MENTALLY DYSFUNCTIONAL female (regardless of race, ethnicity, etc.)  because you are NOT RESPONSIBLE and INCAPABLE of remaining rational and calm at certain times and is prone to SUDDEN EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are ATTRACTED to that type of mentality and behavior.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

There is something SPECIAL (as in Education) about that Strong, Independent, Intelligent black female that RISES ABOVE the behavior of non-Black females when it comes to PERSONAL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY when with a man.

Time to STOP that STUPID or FOOLISH behavior ATTEMPTING to CONVINCE a female that DON'T GIVE A SHIT about you to be CONSIDERATE of you and YOUR financial obligations.

[SIMPS HAVE PROGRAMMED MOST FEMALES TO EXPECT BUT THE BLACK FEMALE HAS EVOLVED AND TAKEN IT TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL]

Most females are programmed to expect the man to financially provide and take care of her financially when dating and during marriage with LITTLE to NO financial contributions on her part UNLESS she chooses to do so which is usually very little.

For some UNKNOWN reason, a large majority of American Black females RELIGIOUSLY believe that SHE IS ENTITLED to having THE MAN is OBLIGATED when it comes to HER financial responsibility when SHE CHOOSES to obligate him.

[WHAT WILL BECOME OF THESE INCONSIDERATE, UNCOOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE BLACK FEMALES]

If you are smart, you will CEASE CONTACT and COMMUNICATION with them.

LEAVE THEM to the LOSERS, LIARS, HUSTLERS and ABUSIVE TYPES that know what to do with them with NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT.

[CONCLUSION]

There is a RAINBOW (other races, ethnicity, etc.) of women that exist that ARE CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE so you need to IMMEDIATELY STOP these debates or that begging and GET AWAY from THOSE LOSERS.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "TRUE LOVE: Is It Supposed To Come With a Price Tag"

I don't care if you disagree with what I am about to say, "TRUE LOVE does not come with a price and a Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible woman will NOT INCLUDE money spent on her or money spent to help her as part of HER relationship equation criteria".

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males with that OLD FASHIONED, OUT-DATED mentality who STILL THINK they are to be the primary or sole FINANCIAL provider.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males (many of you refer to them as Gentlemen but I call them SIMPS) that simply LOVE spending his money in order to BUY HIS WAY into having female companionship.

This DOES APPLY to all SENSIBLE males who are seeking a PARTNER that is Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible.

This DOES NOT APPLY to idiots, morons and SIMPS because you won't listen anyway.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I have heard FAR TOO MANY FEMALES make the comment:

"Why is money such an issue with you Jai Duval".  

My response to them have been CONSISTENT and this is what I tell them:

"Money is an issue to me because IT'S MY MONEY that you are expecting me to spend on you.  If you SPEND YOUR MONEY to pay your way when you are with me then money WILL NEVER be an issue with me". 

[CONCLUSION]

You will never know or simply may not want to know IF a woman truly loves you for you UNLESS you ELIMINATE MONEY from the equation and hold her responsible for financially providing for herself when she is in your company.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "YOU GOT PROBLEMS?: You Wish She Was None But She's At Least One"

I had a conversation last night with a buddy about his relationship which compelled me to post this for his benefit and any male that CHOOSES to go through this.  

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all of you whiners, complainers and FOOLS that choose to REMAIN IN your disappointing relationship as opposed to ABANDONING IT.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

After about 3 minutes of listening to him I told him, "I am NOT a VENTILATION SHAFT that you can COMPLAIN TO about your disappointing and miserable situation that YOU REFUSE to get out of.

[BEEN THERE, WENT THROUGH THAT AND WILL NEVER GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN]

There is a RATIONAL reason why I constantly encourage you dudes to set these STANDARDS OF BEHAVIOR below for ANY female you have a FRIEND or MATE interest in:

1.  Considerate (of you).  Her attitude and behavior does not impact you in a stressful or negative manner.

2.  Cooperative (with you).  She complies with your REASONABLE request that SHE IS CAPABLE of doing that does not do any harm to her and WILL NOT argue with you about MEANINGLESS things.

3.  Financially Responsible (for herself).  She pays for herself (if she has a job) and WILL NOT ALLOW you to treat her like a Pay-Per-View Ho such that you have to spend money on her or pay for her in order for you to SPEND TIME with her.

[MOST MALES WILL NEVER LISTEN TO ME]

I understand the CONSTANT bombardment of SIMP programming that is being done on a DAILY basis which is why I only EXPECT 2 out of every 10 males to take my advice.  The remaining 7 out of 10 are a waste of my time.

There is 1 out of every 10 males who are UNDECIDED if they are going to SIMP (for her) or DUMP HER.

[CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE WOMEN DO EXIST]

Most of you will NEVER HAVE ONE because you are TOO BUSY being SIMPS or FOOLS for these Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible ones.

[CONCLUSION]

I DON'T BASH females I EXPOSE females for their Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible behavior.

I am MORE CONCERNED about the DECENT males that choose those worthless female and RUIN their lives as a result of trying to get them and make them happy.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "ADOPTION IN TODAY'S TIMES: It's The Best Option For You In Most Cases"

I'm sure this post will be disagreed with by MOST males because you will read this and think EGOTISTICALLY and EMOTIONALLY (as you have been programmed) as opposed to thinking LOGICALLY and what may be in the BEST INTEREST of you and YOUR child.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to irresponsible, egotistical male sperm donors.

This DOES APPLY to all responsible males that have the desire to be a parent.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

It's been proven time and time again that 2 BIOLOGICAL parents DOES NOT GUARANTEE a healthy and happy development for a child or children nor does it GUARANTEE that the 2 BIOLOGICAL parents will remain together because of that child or children.

[WHAT DOES A 2 BIOLOGICAL PARENT SITUATION GUARANTEE]

It guarantees, in most cases in this country, that the male will be FINANCIALLY RAPED in the event that relationship with the BIOLOGICAL mother does not last.

[MANY MALES ARE MISERABLE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS BUT AFRAID TO LEAVE THEM]

Many males are AFRAID TO LEAVE their DYSFUNCTIONAL relationship if there is a child or children involved due to the THREAT OF or ACTUAL APPLICATION OF the UNFAIR child support practices that will be LEVIED UPON HIM.

[MANY MALES LIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICALLY UNHEALTHY LIVES DUE TO DEPRESSION IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP]

They are depressed because THEY KNOW the FINANCIAL consequences of leaving that relationship so they remain and INTERNALIZE which has the potential to create STRESS, ULCERS and other physical and emotional problems AS WELL AS the potential for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

[A WOMAN (JUST LIKE A MAN) CAN PROVIDE GUIDANCE WITHOUT BEING LEGALLY TIED TO THE CHILD IF SHE GENUINELY CARES ABOUT THE CHILD]

Most women will disagree with this post and would REFUSE to be with a man UNLESS she has LEGAL RIGHTS to the child because IT'S ABOUT HER, WHAT SHE CAN GET and PUNISHING YOU if there is a child and the relationship fails.

[ADOPTION RELIEVES YOU OF THOSE CONCERNS]

If she becomes Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible you simply TOSS HER ASS OUT (if she is living with you) or YOU LEAVE HER (if you are living with her) and YOU TAKE YOUR CHILD and YOUR MONEY with you.

[CONCLUSION]

MOST males will not agree with this UNTIL after a breakup or divorce has happened and HE GETS FINANCIALLY RAPED.

As always, my classes is there to provide you with a DIFFERENT way of think as opposed to how you are SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED to think.  In the end, you and only you can choose to APPLY or IGNORE what you read.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "MAN UP: Stop Assuming and Easily Giving and Start Putting the Pressure On Her to State What She Wants and Have Her Earn It"

MOST males will NEVER HAVE THE COURAGE to do this.  For those of you WITHOUT the courage, simply CONTINUE to SPEND, DO and HOPE for the best.

SOME males will need to BUILD UP THE COURAGE so that they will BE ABLE TO do this but UNFORTUNATELY at least HALF of you that build up the courage WILL NOT DO.

ONLY A FEW of you males already HAVE THE COURAGE and WILL DO this.

[WHY WOULD YOU BE HESITANT TO ASK THOSE 2 QUESTIONS]

All these questions do is PUT HER in a position that MOST (if not all) are RARELY placed in which is stating HER EXPECTATIONS from you as opposed to YOU FOOLISHLY ASSuming and DOING for her WITHOUT questioning her.

[HER RESPONSE WILL ESTABLISH "THE DIRECTION" YOU NEED TO BE AWARE OF BEFORE YOU BEGIN SPENDING MORE TIME WITH HER]

IF SHE LIE (which many of them will do) and says, "Oh , I don't want anything from you" then YOU MUST hold her to HER WORDS and give her nothing which means SHE PAYS for herself when you are SPENDING TIME WITH HER.

IF SHE STATES SHE WANT SOMETHING (which most, if not all, will not do), then SHE MUST answer Question #2 and this way YOU CAN DECIDE (at that point) to CONTINUE spending time (NOT MONEY) with her or DUMP HER and MOVE ON.

[CONCLUSION]

I will leave this to the COURAGEOUS males to do this and leave the COWARDS and SIMPS to their DISMAL fate.

Class is dismissed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THE EVOLUTION: Chris Rock and Robin Harris Told You About Them Years Ago"

I am simply charting what "has happened", "is happening" and what "will continue to happen" in the future.

[BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE ONLY GROUP WITH DYSFUNCTIONAL AND SELF-DISRESPECTING PEOPLE INSIDE OF THEIR GROUP]

Every group has it's number of dysfunctional and self-disrespecting people.  It's just that percentage wise, black people are WAY AHEAD of every other group and NO OTHER GROUP even comes close to that percentage of dysfunctional and self-disrespecting people.

[RACIAL SLURS]

NO OTHER GROUP is so PROUD to PUBLICLY used racial slurs that were used at them and call it TERMS OF ENDEARMENT or say IT DOESN'T MEAN THE SAME.

[THEY CANNOT BE HELPED AND WILL NOT CHANGE THEMSELVES]

You can do ALL THE HOPING, PRAYING and COMPLAINING that you want but THEY ARE HERE TO STAY, MULTIPLYING and NOT GOING ANYWHERE, 

[CONCLUSION]

You can be PART of the PROBLEM by aligning yourself with and behaving like them or you can be PART of the SOLUTION by not aligning yourself with and behaving like them.

It's comes down to YOUR DECISION.

REALITY CHECK: "MISSION IMPOSSIBLE REQUEST: For Most of You and I'm Only Expecting a Few to Comply"

I'm not on Facebook to make friends.  If I do so in the process then good but if not, I already have friends.

My purpose is to ATTEMPT to RAISE the INTELLECTUAL and MATURITY level of males who are doing STUPID things for WORTHLESS females that RUIN or DESTROY their lives.

This will place them in a better position to meet and accept WOMEN that are Considerate (of them), Cooperative (with them) and Financially Responsible (for themselves).

[I CAN'T HELP YOU IF YOU CHOOSE REMAIN AT A DISRESPECTFUL AND DUMB DOWN LEVEL]

I am also ATTEMPTING to LOWER the DUMB DOWN level that has occurred to such a HUGE NUMBER of males that they actually believe that DUMB DOWN is NORMAL BEHAVIOR.

[EVEN THE N-WORD LOVERS CAN FIND COMPANIONSHIP]

Fortunately, for those males who REFUSE to abandon the use of that word, THERE ARE PLENTY of females on that DUMB DOWN level so that is will be quite easy to find FEMALE COMPANIONSHIP.

[CONCLUSION]

I truly believe that I will be SUCCESSFUL with ONLY 2 out of every 10 males that read my posts, UNSUCCESSFUL with 7 out of every 10 males that read my posts and HOPEFULLY get that 1 UNDECIDED out of every 10 to choose to not be a part of that 7 out of every 10 group of males that REFUSE to STOP USING that word.

Only time will tell.

VIDEO CLASS TIME: "Name Something Men Don't Dare Say They Are Better At Than Women"

I will always give you something to THINK ABOUT in a manner that BENEFIT YOU. 

Take a seat and take notes. It's up to you as to whether or not YOU APPLY THEM.

REALITY CHECK: "REAL MEN AND REAL WOMEN: Responsible Men and Women Need to Avoid Them Whenever Possible"

Is this PRIMARILY a BLACK THING, an IMMATURE THING or a COMBINATION OF BOTH because I very seldom hear any other group say this UNLESS they are associating with CERTAIN black people that LOVE to use those terms.

REAL men and REAL women TALK while RESPONSIBLE men and women DO.

[CONCLUSION]

When I hear "real man, real woman, king or queen" come out of someone's mouth, I immediately shutdown MENTALLY, allow them to continue talking UNTIL I get the OPPORTUNITY to get as FAR AWAY from them as possible.

REALITY CHECK: "FAT AND OBESE MALES: That Is Not Sexy and There is No Such Thing as a Thick Male or Female"

You aren't BAT MAN.  You are FAT MAN but you can do something about it IF you want to.

Since there is such a POLITICAL SLAMMING of males like myself that "tell it like it is" when it comes to Fat and Obese females, I have decided to place my focus on Fat and Obese males that can HANDLE THE TRUTH about themselves.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ALL males that are Fat and Obese.

This DOES NOT APPLY to ANY male that has plans of an EARLY DEATH.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I no longer care about the POTENTIAL physical discomforts, sickness and early death can occur to females that call themselves Thick even though they are Fat and Obese.

[YOU HAD A PROBLEM WITH MY HONESTY THEN SO BE IT]

I will let the THIRSTY and DESPERATE males continue to LIE to you so that they can get what they want from you.

[FAT AND OBESE MALES YOUR ARE NOT SEXY YOU ARE UNHEALTHY]

Don't even think that YOUR FAT or OBESE body is sexy or cute.

Don't just DROP A TARP OVER YOUR BODY and think everything is alright because YOUR FAT now CAN'T BE SEEN.

Don't believe it when a Fat or Obese female calls you sexy because YOU WILL NOT do anything to lose that EXCESS weight.

Don't believe it when a non-Fat or non-Obese female calls you sexy because IN MOST CASES she's doing it to get something from you.

[CONCLUSION]

I am here to ATTEMPT to encourage you males to think and behave in a manner that BENEFITS YOU and a Fat or Obese body DOES NOT BENEFIT YOU.

STOP LISTENING to these LYING females that just want to get something from you.

Now change to a healthier diet, drink more water and get into a REGULAR exercise routing.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "Are You Prepared For What Will Eventually Happen"?

Awwww.. your Mommy and Daddy ain't there any more to look after your SORRY, LAZY and UNPREPARED ass and now you are CRYING?

Those aren't tears of SADNESS because they are gone.  Those are tears of worrying about WHO are you going to LIVE OFF OF NEXT. 

MOST females don't CONTRIBUTE EQUALLY FINANCIALLY when in a relationship nor do they TAKE CARE OF a MAN.  

They will LIVE OFF of the man for as long as they can or until they come in contact with what they believe to be a BETTER OPPORTUNITY.

[CONCLUSION]

You have to REMEMBER that there will ALWAYS be males that will take a female in AFTER she has PARTIED, HAD GOOD TIME and then messed their lives up or RUINED some other man's life by TAKING A FREE RIDE on his back UNTIL he hits rock bottom.

You, as a male, WILL NEVER have such opportunities KNOCKING AT YOUR DOOR if you mess your life up so DO WHAT'S BEST for you and YOUR FUTURE while you can.

If you do find that RARE female that is Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible (i.e., she pays her own way) then CHERISH HER and consider yourself to be LUCKY.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "HIGH MAINTENANCE WOMAN: There is Nothing Wrong With Being a High Maintenance Woman As Long As She Is Not Your Woman"

It does not matter whether she has a job or not.  When it comes to a relationship, MOST females EXPECT YOU to BEAR THE MAJORITY of the responsibility of MAINTAINING the relationship IF she is going to REMAIN WITH YOU.

[HIGH MAINTENANCE HAVE TOO PRIMARY AREAS OF CONCERN WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS]

I'm sure there are more than 2 areas but I believe the MOST important areas of focus are 1) Time and 2) Money.  For this post, I am going to focus on money.

[RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST]

When it comes to the Male, Female and Relationship, the relationship should be FIRST when it comes to finances.  There are 4 basic areas in a relationship that requires maintenance (if you are renting) and 7 basic areas (if you are a  homeowner).

These areas below should REQUIRE EQUAL contribution:

1.  FOOD.  You NEED to eat.

2.  RENT.  You NEED to live somewhere.

3.  UTILITIES.  You NEED electricity, water and power.

4.  MORTGAGE (home owner).  You NEED to live somewhere.

5.  INSURANCE (home owner).  You REQUIRED to have if you have a mortgage.

6.  TAXES (home owner).  You WILL PAY if you want to keep your home.

7.  SAVINGS (for unexpected expense).  Only a FOOL or a woman that lives with a FOOL that will pay for her don't prepare for the unexpected.

8.  ENTERTAINMENT.  You WANT enjoyment OUTSIDE of your residence then BOTH of you pay for it.

[IF SHE PLACES HERSELF FIRST, WHO DO YOU THINK WILL BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE RELATIONSHIP]

Only idiots and morons DON'T KNOW the answer to this.

[WHAT IS THE BENEFIT TO YOU IF YOU GET A WOMAN THAT DOES NOT EQUALLY CONTRIBUTE TO THE MAINTENANCE OF THE RELATIONSHIP FIRST]

None UNLESS your mentality is that YOU ARE the primary and/or sole provider and in that that case, THE BENEFIT is YOUR EGO being lifted or YOUR INSECURITY level being lowered TEMPORARILY.

[WHAT'S THE MOST BENEFICIAL CHOICE FOR THE EVERYDAY JOE THAT I REPRESENT]

I say go with a CONSIDERATE, SENSIBLE, FRUGAL woman that is PHYSICALLY FIT and has NATURAL beauty because SHE WILL NOT BE into:

- shopping when ever she sees the SALE advertisement and have NO JUSTIFICATION for spending other than it's on sale 

- weaves (especially those weaves that DO NOT resemble HER hair texture), 

- designer clothes, 

- long nails, 

- regularly scheduled trips to the beauty salon because she's TOO LAZY to do some of it herself,

- fine dining (which means expensive) as opposed to cooking at home MOST of the time.

[CONCLUSION]

If you LOVE a high maintenance woman then that is YOUR CHOICE.  I have no problem with YOUR CHOICE because it's YOUR MONEY and not mine that YOU are SPENDING ON HER.

JUST REMEMBER that HO'S ARE EASY TO FIND and THE REASON (in most cases) a high maintenance female is with you is because of YOU MAINTAINING HER and THE RELATIONSHIP so you better NOT EVER RUN OUT OF MONEY.

I simply want you to THINK about whether or not you want a PARTNER and COMFORT or a LIABILITY and STRESS BEFORE your next RELATIONSHIP.

Class is dismissed.

ASK JAI DUVAL SESSION: "GREAT JOB MOM: You Made Your Child Feel Very Proud The Day After Father's Day"

Are females that think like this that SELF ABSORBED, that STUPID or a combination of BOTH.  

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any female that FOOLISHLY thinks she can be the mother and father to a child or children.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

What??  Did you think that I was REALLY going to let this OPPORTUNITY pass me by?

Come on now?  You should know me better by now.  I've been waiting for this day :o).

Am I the ONLY ONE that think some of the children talk with their friends AFTER Father's Day and BRAG about what THEY DID with their father AS A FAMILY?

[CONCLUSION]

Hey mom(s), if this illustration don't open your SELFISH eyes then NOTHING WILL.

REMEMBER that MY CONCERN is for THE CHILD and NOT YOUR EGO.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "NEVER TRUST A FEMALE WITH YOUR SPERM: Florida Man Who Tricked Girlfriend into Taking Abortion Pill Sentenced to Nearly 14 Years in Prison"

This post is TOO IMPORTANT for you to ALLOW females and SIMPS to divert you because this message is to BENEFIT YOU.  

MANY females and SIMPS will ATTEMPT to DIVERT YOU into MEANINGLESS discussions that will BLAME the male and TAKE THE ATTENTION away from the female so DO NOT GET BAITED into those discussions with them.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males with NO AMBITION in life and simply want to WASTE in life away IN PRISON.

This DOES APPLY and should be SERIOUSLY CONSIDERED by every male that has AMBITIONS and PLANS for a happy and productive future.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is what can happen TO YOU or any male if you choose to NOT LISTEN to and NOT APPLY what I am attempting to ENLIGHTEN you about in my posts that is BENEFICIAL FOR YOU.

[QUESTION]

Who's to say that SHE didn't TRICK HIM by lying and saying SHE was on BIRTH CONTROL because they LIE all the time about that and ESPECIALLY since he was headed for a LUCRATIVE career?

[LET THIS BE A LESSON]

I don't know IF he intentionally DID NOT use a condom but let this be a lesson to the rest of you to ALWAYS wear a condom and NEVER LEAVE IT BEHIND for her to HAVE ACCESS TO YOUR SPERM.

[LET'S EXAMINE THIS SITUATION]

I am going to place several comments from the online article along with my responses:

COMMENT 1:  John Andrew Welden, 29, apologized Monday for his actions as a federal judge in Tampa handed down the 13 year, 8 month sentence. But his victim, former girlfriend Remee Jo Lee, demanded the judge show the calculating fiend “the same amount of mercy that he showed me during my pregnancy,” the Tampa Tribune reported.

RESPONSE 1:  Note that SHE is looked upon as a "victim" and he a "calculating fiend".  Tell me just HOW MANY females are publicized in the media as "calculating fiends" when they INTENTIONALLY get knocked up to trap a man or for FINANCIAL GAIN.

COMMENT 2:  “This wasn’t just a case to me,” Lee told the judge. “This was the death of my child.”

RESPONSE 2:  First understand this female was 27 years old and quite capable of having children at another time.

COMMENT 3:  Lee was ecstatic about becoming a mother, but Welden, who was working on a degree in sports medicine, wanted her to terminate the pregnancy.

RESPONSE 3:  Now who EXACTLY do you think had MORE TO GAIN from this pregnancy?  Her being a mother or him having a career in sports medicine.

COMMENT 4:  Welden and Lee, 27, had been romantically involved for nearly seven months when they learned last February that Lee was pregnant. The news, however, did not unite them.

RESPONSE 4:  Romantically involved for NEARLY seven months is a way to express (for the public) SHE was NOT just having SEX during that time.  If YOU were working on a degree with a PROMISING CAREER would her GETTING KNOCKED UP unite you?

COMMENT 5:  Lee was ecstatic about becoming a mother..

RESPONSE 5:  Of course she was because she would THEN be able to LEACH off of a man with a PROMISING and LUCRATIVE career in sports medicine.

COMMENT 6:  The judge ordered Welden to serve out his sentence at a low-security, federal prison camp and to pay nearly $30,000 in restitution to Lee, who told the court she bled for nearly a month after the forced abortion.

RESPONSE 6:  She is REWARDED and by the way "bled for nearly a month"?  You do know that IF you have ONLY a few drops of blood periodically that can TECHNICALLY apply to that statement so don't think this female BLED UNCONTROLLABLY for almost a month and had to have blood transfusions.

COMMENT 7:  Welden will spend three years on probation after his release.

RESPONSE 7:  Serving his FULL SENTENCE is not enough.  It has to be PERSONAL because the JUDGE is the one that does the sentencing.  If the judge is a male and married then he DEFINITELY is a SIMP which MANY married males are these days.

COMMENT 8:  “I don’t believe Mr. Welden’s an evil person, but he committed an evil act,” Judge Richard Al Lazzara said, “and he’s going to pay the consequences.”

RESPONSE 8:  Definitely DOUBLE STANDARDS because when/if a female does it, it's in HER best interest to do so.

[CONCLUSION]

You can FOOLISHLY DEBATE or ARGUE with females if you want but in the end IF you ejaculate INSIDE of their NOT SO SAFE deposit box, YOU PUT YOU LIFE AND YOUR FUTURE INTO HER HANDS.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "NATURAL BORN FUCK UP (NBFU): Many Males Should Have Been Aborted"

Many of you know how I feel about NOT giving a child the BEST OPPORTUNITY at a happy and healthy development and I will CONDEMN any male or female for doing so.

[I HAVE NO PROBLEM SLAMMING SINGLE MOTHERS OR SPERM DONORS]

It doesn't matter IF you are pregnant with child or depositing your sperm with the intent of impregnating her, IF either is NOT PREPARED to give that child what  he/she needs for a HEALTHY DEVELOPMENT which means 2 parents that are BOTH willing to put in the time, resources and finances to raise that child:

"BOTH of you are PREMEDITATED CHILD ABUSERS and FUCK UPS in my mind"

[CONCLUSION]

What??  So you think that I just SLAM FEMALES when it comes to children?

I am not going to say much in this post because I want to HEAR FROM YOU and especially those MALES that have the DESIRE or NEED to IMPREGNATE when you see a female that you find SEXUALLY attractive.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "INTELLECTUAL CHALLENGE: "Do Not Dumb Down To Her Level and Rid Yourself of Any Female That Is Doing This"

If I have to EXPLAIN this to you then just go ahead and KEEP THE HOOD RAT because the 2 of you must DESERVE EACH OTHER.

Class is dismissed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THEY MAKE CHOOSING VERY EASY: An Imitation or An Original"

Since there is such a HUGE difference between the Imitation and Original, there should be NO HESITATION choosing which type that you are attracted to if you DESIRE some form of COMPANIONSHIP.

BOTH the IMITATION and ORIGINAL are desired and wanted by males and the IMITATION seems to be wanted MORE by black males than any other group.

[TO THE FAT AND OBESE]

There are males (black males mostly) that desire you so there is NO REASON to be CONCERNED about having companionship.

[CONCLUSION]

I want to thank ALL of the Imitations, Fat and Obese females that have SHOWN US there are OPTIONS and I wish you well with the males that DESIRE you because it's obvious that YOU NEED ATTENTION and LOVE too.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "CELIBACY: During Dating Is The Way To Go"

The weekend is here and I'm sure you want to go out on a date or several dates.

After reading and understanding this post, males should be able to SAY YES to being CELIBATE as well as SUGGEST to her THAT THEY BE CELIBATE while dating UNTIL there is a COMMITTED agreement to DATE EXCLUSIVELY.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to Idiots and Morons because you won't comply.

This DOES NOT APPLY to MOST black males because you have NO DISCIPLINE and SEX is your HIGHEST PRIORITY and you primary reason for living.

This DOES NOT APPLY to SIMPS and THIRSTY dudes of ANY race, color, creed, etc because you are TOO WEAK to resist.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I can guarantee you that MOST females that you want to date WILL NOT BE CELIBATE (according to my terms and conditions) and MY WAY will be a very good test to determine HER INTENTIONS as well as HER CHARACTER.

[ARE YOU DATING FOR "ASS" OR "AN ASSET"]

If you are simply OUT THERE looking to SCORE ASS then there is NO NEED to read this post any further. Just go out there and PAY until you get one of them to GIVE THE ASS up to you.

[CONCLUSION]

REMEMBER that the two WORST THINGS that you can do to Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible females THAT BENEFIT YOU are:

1) Ignore them and

2) Not spend any of YOUR money on them.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "LIFE: Just One Fucking Thing After Another"

In today's SCARCE job market and DIFFICULT economic times, WASTING TIME and SPENDING MONEY for the sake of some RECYCLED PUSSY should be one of the last things you should be doing with your TIME and MONEY.

Think about this over the weekend because I really shouldn't have to say anything after you see my illustration.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "DUMP HER: If You Have To Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone For Her"

No Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible woman is going to WANT or HAVE you get out of YOUR COMFORT ZONE in order to spend time with her getting to know her.

[THAT OLD FASHIONED, OUT-DATED BEHAVIOR OF YOU DOING MOST OF THE EFFORT NO LONGER BENEFITS YOU]

The types of women that RESPONDED in a thoughtful and considerate manner to that old fashioned, out-dated behavior are either STILL MARRIED, PHYSICALLY UNDESIRABLE, NOW HAVE A PET AS A COMPANION or DEAD so you better CHANGE the way YOU think and behave or BE PREPARED for a whole lot of WASTED TIME, WASTED MONEY and DISAPPOINTMENTS.

[IF YOU HAVE A CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE AND FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE WOMAN CHERISH AND RESPECT HER]

Nothing needs to be place here UNLESS you are an IDIOT or MORON and if you are, I surely am not going to WASTE MY TIME putting something here for you.

[CONCLUSION]

There are some women that are Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible for themselves so RID YOURSELF of ANY FEMALE that does not behave in that manner so you can FREE YOURSELF to interact with a woman that is BENEFICIAL TO YOU.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "MORE GRADUATES: Life Will Be Rewarding If You Begin To Value You"

My classes are helping some males that REALIZE how little they have been valuing themselves and how much they have been valuing a female.  These males realize that there is MORE TO LIFE THAN SERVITUDE.

[STOP ENGAGING IN MEANINGLESS CONVERSATIONS OR ARGUMENTS]

STOP THAT SIMPING NOW.  There is NO NEED to try and CONVINCE a female to be CONSIDERATE of you.

If she is NOT being Considerate (of you), Cooperative (with you) and Financially Responsible (for herself) then DUMP HER and MOVE ON.

[HOW LONG WITH IT TAKE BEFORE YOU PLACE YOU AHEAD OF HER]

Most males REFUSE to see what I am trying to show them UNTIL they hit rock bottom or the female DUMPS THEM.  

Are you going to be one of those males that WASTE their life away DOING (for her) and HOPING (for better from her)?

[CONCLUSION]

As usual, I can't TELL YOU what to do.  All I can do is PROVIDE YOU with a way of thinking and behaving that will BENEFIT YOU without doing any harm to her.

Class is dismissed.

CLASS IS IN SESSION; "NEXT TIME CHOOSE WISELY: Stop Choosing Based On What You Were Told Looks Good To You and Start Choosing Based On What May Be Best For You"

The reason why MOST of you are STILL reading my posts is because of THE POOR CHOICE you made based upon what you were TOLD or PROGRAMMED to believe was best for you. 

In the end, you found out that YOUR CHOICE and BEHAVIOR with her was MOSTLY BEST FOR HER and DISAPPOINTING FOR YOU.

[STOP BLAMING HER AND START MAKING BETTER CHOICES]

YOU CHOSE to be with an Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible female based upon YOUR SELECTION CRITERIA.

It's time to CHANGE that criteria to a Considerate, Cooperative and Financially Responsible female that WILL BE MORE BENEFICIAL TO YOU.

There is to be NO MORE of this BLAMING, SHAMING or COMPLAINING ABOUT a female that YOU CHOSE TO BE WITH and simply DUMP HER and MOVE ON.

[YOU STILL WANT TO BE "THE PRIMARY OR SOLE FINANCIAL PROVIDER]"

Many males, for some FOOLISH reason, feel the need to PROVE HIS MANHOOD through HIS WALLET.  In that case and since IT'S YOUR MONEY, if:

-  HER NOT WORKING is what you want then so be it.

-  HER MONEY is HER MONEY to do as she pleases then so be it.

-  YOU HAVE the ability to PAY FOR IT ALL and choose to do so then so be it.

[TRUE LOVE WILL BE SHOWN DURING A BREAKUP OR DIVORCE]

JUST REMEMBER that if you are married for any duration of time that places her in a legal position to FINANCIALLY take at least half if there is a DIVORCE, LOVE FOR YOU is NOT what she will be WALKING AWAY from that relationship with 

[CONCLUSION]

All I can do is provide you will an ALTERNATIVE WAY of thinking that BENEFITS YOU and the CHOICE as to the direction you want to talk is SOLELY UP TO YOU.

Class is dismissed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "DOUBLE STANDARDS: Are Allowed If It Benefits Her"

This is a VERY COMMON statement that I will hear from MANY females and especially some SINGLE MOTHERS.

[DISCLAIMER]

This has NOTHING TO DO with BASHING single mothers.

This DOES NOT APPLY to all single mothers but for those who it DON'T APPLY TO we want you to PROVE IT by dating a man or being in a relationship with a man WITHOUT EXPECTING or ACCEPTING financial support from him.

This has EVERYTHING TO DO with their DOUBLE STANDARDS ATTITUDE when it comes to situations like this.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

maybe I will write more later but I'm sure this is enough to get you thinking

CLASS IS IN SESSION: "SINGLE MALES ONLY: How to Ruin Your Life in 6 Easy Steps"

The point in this post is NOT that marriage is bad for you IF you place yourself in a proper PROTECTIVE LEGAL position and make a WISE CHOICE in a female.  

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to EVERY SINGLE male that behaves in that I'M THE MAN, old fashioned, out-dated tradition when it comes to dating a female.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This post point out how SO MANY males have LITTLE to NO EXPECTATIONS from the female AND places even LESS RESPONSIBILITY on her while he is dating her and then COMPLAINS LATER about what SHE IS NOT DOING in the relationship.

[IF SHE TRULY CARES ABOUT YOU SHE WILL VOLUNTARILY CONTRIBUTE]

One way to determine if a female is GOOD FOR YOU while you are DATING her is if she voluntarily PAYS HER OWN WAY when it comes to spending money when the two of you are together.

[WHAT MESSAGE IS SHE SENDING WHEN SHE PAYS HER OWN WAY]

She is telling you:

-  I am NOT a dead beat

-  I want you to see that I AM a very responsible person

-  I want you to see that I can be a very responsible partner

-  I am aware that you have financial responsibilities just as I do

-  I care more about getting to know your character than getting you to spend your money on me

[DISAPPOINTED MARRIED MALES ONLY]

I have nothing to say to you because IN MOST CASES you will not do anything about your DISAPPOINTING and STRESSFUL marriage anyway EXCEPT simply get you a woman on the side UNTIL she finds, DIVORCE you and take HALF of what SHE DID NOT EARN or DESERVE TO HAVE.

[CONCLUSION]

If you want FAIR and EQUAL participation in your MARITAL or NON-MARITAL relationship, YOU MUST establish a certain RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR pattern from her while dating or PREPARE TO BEAR the MAJORITY of those responsibilities UNTIL DEATH or DIVORCE do you part.

Class is dismssed.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THE PROBLEM WAS NEVER THE P*SSY: The Problem Was Always The Life Support System Attached To The P*ssy".

If you pay MORE ATTENTION to the Life Support System and LESS ATTENTION to the P*ssy, you will make a better choice and YOUR LIFE will be MORE rewarding.

[WARNING:  HARD CORE, UNEDITED, IN YOUR FACE TRUTH]

This SHOULD NOT be view by those God Fearing, Scripture Quoting and Bible Toting Christian HYPOCRITES.

[END OF WARNING]

[CONCLUSION]

If you want to see her TRUE VALUE while dating her, REMOVE the p*ssy and YOU PAYING HER WAY from the DATING equation and DATE HER for 3 months to see just how CONSIDERATE, COOPERATIVE and FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE she will be with you.

Trust me when I say, "98% of them WON'T LAST for 3 month being Considerate, Cooperative and ESPECIALLY Financially Responsible for themselves and them you can simply MOVE ON to the NEXT ONE.

DOING TIME: "I'M A REPEAT OFFENDER: It's Just a Matter of Time Before It Happens Again and I'm Thrown Back in Jail"

I believe in PROMOTING what is in the BEST INTEREST of the DECENT males so that he can ELIMINATE those Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible females out of their lives.

If I get placed in jail I will expect males that BELIEVE in and PRACTICE what I post to continue to move FORWARD until I get out again and DON'T SIMP OUT because I am not available.

[CONCLUSION]

I stand by my words and WILL NOT back down, SIMP or compromise for ANY female, ANY SIMP or ANY SIMP organization.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "MOST BLACK TALK AND SOLUTIONS GROUPS: A Total Waste of Time Unless You Are Shucking, Jiving, Talking Shit, Quoting Love Poems, Quoting Bible Scriptures, Talking About How Great the Black Female Is and Not Speaking The Truth About the Negatives of Black Females That They Find Offensive"

I'm told that IF I can't be a part of the SOLUTION then I am part of the PROBLEM.

[DO MOST BLACK PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO REMAIN ON A PARTICULAR TOPIC]

Well, if you read this post and my PREVIOUS post, you will know that the answer is NO MOST OF THEM CAN'T and CAN EASILY be diverted ANYTIME you want them to.

[MY POINT WAS PROVEN WITH THESE 2 COMMENTS]

It was not difficult at all to get someone black to VALIDATE my point of PLACING MORE FOCUS on MEANINGLESS situations rather than CRITICAL situations.

Neither one of them even mentioned or addressed the FAT or OBESE point I was attempting to make.

[THE BLACK SOLUTION]

Don't say ANYTHING that is perceived as NEGATIVE about black females EVEN IF it's the TRUTH.

It's ACCEPTABLE to speak about the NEGATIVES of black males (which I totally agree with).

[THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE]

Which means YOU JUST MAY get your ass kicked out of (set free) OR your comment removed out of these black talk groups IF you address anything that THEY (usually the black females and the SIMP males) don't want to hear.

[CONCLUSION]

There will ALWAYS be CONCLUSIONS in MOST of those groups but never SOLUTIONS.

REALITY CHECK: "WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE: You Jump All On Top Of One and You Avoid The One That Really Matters?"

Now the photos on the left created SO MANY comments and concerns about the SURVIVAL of BLACK people JUST BECAUSE some black males decided to OPT OUT of dealing with Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible black females.

[QUESTIONS TO BLACK PEOPLE]

-  Do you call being FAT and OBESE surviving?

-  Do you call INCREASING your chances of diabetes, high blood pressure, physical aches, pains and discomforts due to all of that weight surviving?

-  Do you call AMPUTATIONS (due to diabetes) but I'm still alive surviving?

-  Do you call CREATING the next generation of possibly even FATTER and MORE OBESE children surviving?

[THE MIND, TIME AND ENERGY ARE A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE THAT YOU CAN'T GET BACK]

Here are just some of the TYPICAL comments that was posted regarding the opting out of black males:

-  He is a SELLOUT

-  He is a WEAK man

-  He wants a WEAK woman

-  He is a TRAITOR to his race

-  She just WANT HIS MONEY

-  He can't handle a STRONG woman

-  He wants a woman that will DO WHAT HE SAY

-  What's wrong with you because YO MOMMA is black

Here are just some COMMON comments that I have read regarding FAT and OBESE black females:

-  She's just THICK

-  She's just BIG BONED

-  She's got a PRETTY FACE

-  She looks CUTE IN THAT OUTFIT

-  She just need to LOSE A FEW POUNDS

-  God will take care of them and only God decides when he wants to come and TAKE THEM HOME with him.

[CORRECTION TO THE ILLUSTRATION]

"... So little attention on things that SHOULD NOT matter." should be "... So little attention on things that SHOULD matter."

[CONCLUSION]

PEOPLE get your priorities in order.

Class is dismissed.