I'm sure this post will be disagreed with by MOST males because you will read this and think EGOTISTICALLY and EMOTIONALLY (as you have been programmed) as opposed to thinking LOGICALLY and what may be in the BEST INTEREST of you and YOUR child.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to irresponsible, egotistical male sperm donors.
This DOES APPLY to all responsible males that have the desire to be a parent.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
It's been proven time and time again that 2 BIOLOGICAL parents DOES NOT GUARANTEE a healthy and happy development for a child or children nor does it GUARANTEE that the 2 BIOLOGICAL parents will remain together because of that child or children.
[WHAT DOES A 2 BIOLOGICAL PARENT SITUATION GUARANTEE]
It guarantees, in most cases in this country, that the male will be FINANCIALLY RAPED in the event that relationship with the BIOLOGICAL mother does not last.
[MANY MALES ARE MISERABLE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS BUT AFRAID TO LEAVE THEM]
Many males are AFRAID TO LEAVE their DYSFUNCTIONAL relationship if there is a child or children involved due to the THREAT OF or ACTUAL APPLICATION OF the UNFAIR child support practices that will be LEVIED UPON HIM.
[MANY MALES LIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICALLY UNHEALTHY LIVES DUE TO DEPRESSION IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP]
They are depressed because THEY KNOW the FINANCIAL consequences of leaving that relationship so they remain and INTERNALIZE which has the potential to create STRESS, ULCERS and other physical and emotional problems AS WELL AS the potential for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
[A WOMAN (JUST LIKE A MAN) CAN PROVIDE GUIDANCE WITHOUT BEING LEGALLY TIED TO THE CHILD IF SHE GENUINELY CARES ABOUT THE CHILD]
Most women will disagree with this post and would REFUSE to be with a man UNLESS she has LEGAL RIGHTS to the child because IT'S ABOUT HER, WHAT SHE CAN GET and PUNISHING YOU if there is a child and the relationship fails.
[ADOPTION RELIEVES YOU OF THOSE CONCERNS]
If she becomes Inconsiderate, Uncooperative and Financially Irresponsible you simply TOSS HER ASS OUT (if she is living with you) or YOU LEAVE HER (if you are living with her) and YOU TAKE YOUR CHILD and YOUR MONEY with you.
[CONCLUSION]
MOST males will not agree with this UNTIL after a breakup or divorce has happened and HE GETS FINANCIALLY RAPED.
As always, my classes is there to provide you with a DIFFERENT way of think as opposed to how you are SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED to think. In the end, you and only you can choose to APPLY or IGNORE what you read.
Class is dismissed.
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