[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any decent male that has worked and sacrificed to obtain peace of mind and financial comfort (not necessarily wealth) in his life.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
MANY of us have IGNORED those PROBLEMS that comes with a PROBLEM PLAGUED female simply because:
- We were HORNY,
- She was PRETTY (in our eyes)
- She had a BIG ASS or BIG BOOBS,
- We were LONELY and DESPERATE for companionship,
- We were TOLD that we HAVE TO HAVE female companionship,
- We had an IMMATURE, UNCONTROLLABLE THIRST for a female or females,
- We THOUGHT that RESCUING HER would SECURE HER companionship with us.
[HER PROBLEMS DON'T GO AWAY THEY SIMPLY GO TO YOU]
You did the REAL MAN thing and NOW SHE'S RELAXED and HAPPY and YOU ARE STRESSED and MISERABLE.
[YOU THINK THAT ONCE YOU HELP HER WITH THOSE PROBLEMS THAT SHE WON'T CREATE MORE PROBLEMS]
Never think that once YOU resolve HER PROBLEMS that none of those types of problems will NOT APPEAR AGAIN. Chances are that SHE, due to her mindset and PREVIOUS lifestyle, will eventually create more problems because SHE KNOWS that YOU will be there to SOLVE THEM.
[SIT DOWN AND THINK ABOUT THESE 3 VERY IMPORTANT QUESTIONS]
Do you really think that SHE would want to be with you IF:
- You DID NOT help her with HER problems,
- She DID NOT have those problems to begin with, or
- What do YOU THINK will happen AFTER you have HELPED her with her problems and SHE DON'T NEED YOU ANYMORE.
[DOUBLE STANDARDS IN RAISING AND EXPECTATIONS BETWEEN THE MALE AND FEMALE]
MOST (not all) males are RAISED to BE A MAN, SHUT UP and GET THEMSELVES out of the PROBLEMS they have gotten themselves into.
MOST (not all) females are RAISED to BE VICTIMS, CRY OUT and EXPECT some male to HELP THEM GET OUT of the PROBLEMS they have gotten themselves into.
[NOT ALL FEMALES HAVE MADE POOR CHOICES AND ARE NOW PROBLEM PLAGUED]
There are a FEW females left (and that number is RAPIDLY diminishing) that have made MATURE and RESPONSIBLE choices in their lives but YOU WILL NEVER come in contact with one of them if you are WASTING your life away with a PROBLEM PLAGUED female.
[CONCLUSION]
Since I've been there and FOOLISHLY done that, I can speak about what I've gone through and WILL NEVER go through again.
I CAN'T TELL YOU what to do. I CAN TELL YOU what I NOW DO when I come in contact with NEEDY or PROBLEM PLAGUED females, I AVOID THEM.
Give this post some SERIOUS thought and enjoy your weekend.
Class is dismissed.
Jai Duval you are the typical ass hole that complains about everything when it comes to women. I wouldn't be surprised if you eventually turn gay just because women reject you. That is, if you aren't already gay.
ReplyDeleteMen are supposed to be responsible for women. That is what God planned so how dare you go against God's plan.
I am married and I have a real man and yes I had 2 children before he met me and he accepted them as his own and is raising them with me because their dead beat dads chose to abandon me.
You are contributing to the destruction of relationships and marriages in particular and should be ashamed of yourself.
I totally despise sorry men like you but as a Christian woman I have to forgive your mental sickness and hatred for women and just pray for you.