I don't doubt that there are some GOOD WOMEN outside of America that will GENUINELY LOVE YOU but my question to you is, "Good For What"?
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[HAVE YOU GIVEN YOUR DECISION TO TAKE HER A "REALITY CHECK"]
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Whether men want to accept it or not, MOST MEN get caught up on the THIRSTY excitement of PUSSY BEING IN THEIR BED EVERY NIGHT and TOTALLY IGNORE how living with her impacts the rest of his life.
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I said PUSSY because that is the PRIMARY WAY how men that think with their DICK see her.
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No matter how much she GENUINELY loves you, the reality is that she is COMING TO AMERICA which means that is going to ADD TO THE COST of LIVING EXPENSES whether you want to accept it or not.
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[ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO FINANCIALLY PROVIDE FOR HER?]
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If you are the type of man that believes YOU ARE supposed to FINANCIALLY PROVIDE for your woman then YOU CAN STOP HERE.
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[WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR STANDARD OF LIVING WITH HER MOVING IN WITH YOU]
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No matter how much a woman GENUINELY loves you, there are 3 possible end results to having your NEW FOUND LOVE move in with you.
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REDUCTION. She has NO MARKETABLE SKILLS so you have to cut back on your lifestyle of living spontaneously and doing things or purchasing things because she can't contribute financially to allow you to sustain how it was before she entered into your life.
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SUSTAIN. She has COMMON LABORER SKILLS (i.e., housekeeping, caregiver, etc.) so she will earn just enough to assist with groceries and maybe utilities which means YOU CAN'T PERIODICALLY live spontaneously and do things or purchase things like you used to do because NOW you have to MULTIPLY YOUR COSTS by a factor of 2 which impacts you financially.
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ENHANCE. She has CERTIFIED MARKETABLE SKILLS (i.e., nurse, accounting, computers, law, etc.) so she will earn more than enough to financially contribute and allow the two of you to PERIODICALLY live spontaneously and do things or purchase things WITHOUT causing a financial impact to you.
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[CONCLUSION]
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Through all of the STUPID choices that I've made using emotion and all of the time and finances lost, I've learned to NOW based my choices upon LOGIC and WHAT'S BEST FOR ME without doing harm to others.
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No matter how genuine, sweet or loving she may be, you have to logically ask yourself, "How will bringing her into my life FINANCIALLY impact me"?
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This class IS NOT an attempt to TELL YOU WHAT TO DO. This class IS an attempt to get you to THINK ABOUT the IMPACT TO YOU before you do it.
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Class is dismissed.
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