JAI DUVAL'S CONTINUING EDUCATION: "VALENTINE'S DAY: It's Not The Thought That Counts. It's What You Bought That Counts"

Accept it or not, when it comes to love there is "possibility" and "reality".
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[WE MEN BETTER START ACCEPTING THE "REALITY" BECAUSE THE POSSIBILITY IS VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE]
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The POSSIBILITY of receiving GENUINE love from from a woman is so rare that it is not even worth believing it will occur which is why men need to accept the REALITY  of love and that IT RARELY EXIST in 98% of non-marital and marital relationships.
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[HER PERCEPTION OF LOVE IS BASED UPON A REWARD SYSTEM]
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Most women's perception of love is NOT what they do but rather what you do for her in order for you to be considered WORTHY to be with her.
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- PAYING FOR COMPANY.  Spend money on her and do things for her to make HER LIFE easier, more enjoyable and she will reward him by NOT LEAVING HIM.
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- PAYING FOR PEACE.  Most men in non-marital and marital relationships are SIMPly giving her money and gifts so that she will NOT GIVE HIM HELL in that relationship
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- PAYING FOR OCCASIONAL SEX.  I said occasional because the REALITY of the situation is that HE GETS sex only when SHE WANT SEX or based upon a SEXUAL REWARD SYSTEM she has HOUSE TRAINED HIM for.
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- SEASONAL SEX.  Some times he will get LUCKY and receive sex just because of the season and the fact SHE KNOWS that other women are having and talking about their sex lives so she does it to feel included.  
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I could go on but I'm sure that you see my point in all of the above.
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[MALES HAVE BEEN MENTALLY PREPARED TO BE HOUSE TRAINED]
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This occurs as a young boy through observation of: 
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1) their dad's behavior at home, 
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2) some other man (or men) their mother is/was with, 
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3) other males in his family or 
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4) males outside of his family. 
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Once he gets into a non-marital or marital relationship, it's not a matter of IF IT WILL HAPPEN, it's a matter of WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN AND HOW.
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[EACH WOMAN HAS HER OWN PLAN TO HOUSE TRAIN HER MAN]
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Because MOST females are so UNPREDICTABLE, the SPECIFIC house trained behavior can't be taught at home since each female will have her own manner in which she wants to train him.
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[QUESTION TO MEN IN NON-MARITAL AND MARITAL RELATIONSHIPS]
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Would you CARE TO SHARE with the class just how you have been TRAINED BY HER to behave when it comes to 
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1) keeping her from leaving you and 
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2) her rewarding you sexually
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I didn't think you would say but I thought I would ask all of you anyway.
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[CONCLUSION]
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I am not condemning men for being HOUSE TRAINED and if it works for them (or they think it does) then so be it.  It's their life and not mine.
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Hope you've PAID ENOUGH to GET REWARDED on Valentine's Day.
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Class is dismissed.