FINAL CALL IN 2013: "Do Not Bring That N*gga Behavior and Association With N*ggas into 2014"

This will be my LAST USE of that word (in any form) because I believe it to be DISGUSTING and DISRESPECTFUL to the people who SUFFERED and DIED due to the UNCIVILIZED and HATRED behavior APPLIED to people classified as BLACK people. 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to anyone who uses that word or behave in that manner.

IF ANYONE DOES NOT LIKE this post or get offended, SIMPLY REMOVE ME from your friends list.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I ONLY used this word to make a point and now my point has been made.

[N*GGAS BE LIKE POSTS ARE NOT ACCEPTED]

Those posts are NOT USED to encourage people to STOP the use of the word or behavior.  It's used as ENTERTAINMENT between n*ggas and people who CLAIM to not be n*ggas.

[ARE YOU AS STUPID, CHILDISH, IRRESPONSIBLE, DISRESPECTFUL, SELF-DESTRUCTIVE AND UNCIVILIZED AS THE MEDIA CONTINUES TO STATE]

You may not be but N*GGAS definitely are.

[N*GGA BEHAVIOR IS A CHOICE AND NOT A BIRTH RIGHT]

You have chosen to speak and behave in that manner BUT you can change because it's a STATE OF MIND that produces a certain type of behavior.

[WHERE IS YOUR COMPASSION]

MANY of "you people" (yea, I said it that way) have no compassion for those who have SUFFERED and are STILL SUFFERING because of that word so you use it PROUDLY like INSENSITIVE fool THEY expect you to be.

[CONCLUSION]

ANYONE who is on my friend list that USE the N-WORD or POST the use of the N-WORD by someone else WILL BE REMOVED from my list UNLESS you are using the word in the manner that I have done so to ENCOURAGE OTHERS to stop the use of that word and that type of behavior.

REALITY CHECK: "2014 ECONOMIC PLAN: Personal Financial Responsibility a Requirement"

Thanks to FEMINISM and EQUAL OPPORTUNITY for EMPLOYMENT, CHIVALRY (as far as spending money on a female) SHOULD BE DEAD NOW and in 2014.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all decent, everyday Joe males that are striving to MINIMIZE their level of UNNECESSARY financial stress, spending and debt.

This DOES NOT APPLY to females that PUBLICLY announce themselves to be DEPENDENT and INCAPABLE of financially providing for themselves and NEED a man's money in order to survive.

This DOES NOT APPLY to females classified as RETARDED because we understand and accept that they are MENTALLY incapable of caring for themselves.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that believe they are supposed to be the PRIMARY provider in a household.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

2014 is NOT predicted to be FINANCIALLY STABLE FOR MANY so why are you going to FOOLishly CONTINUE to SPEND your money and especially on a female just to be in her company.  

When MOST females get in trouble financially due to their own POOR PLANNING or IRRESPONSIBLE SPENDING, there are plenty of FOOLS out there waiting to BAIL THEM OUT.   If you are going to be one of those who have SPENT YOUR MONEY or BAILED THEM OUT and can NO LONGER PAY, don't expect them to stay".

[AVOID MALES THAT EASILY AND VOLUNTARILY SPEND THEIR MONEY]

MANY males were RAISED to believe they are SUPPOSED to be the primary provider in a household EVEN IF the female has a job.  In his mind, her money is to be used WHEN NEEDED and otherwise she has the OPTION to provide as little as she wants or simply use HER MONEY to do with as she pleases to make herself happy.

MANY of those same males that are out there wining, dining and entertaining females AT HIS EXPENSE will attempt to get you to do the same thing and just may criticize you for not doing as he is doing so the time spent with them should be held to an ABSOLUTE MINIMUM or they should be AVOIDED as well.

[CONCLUSION]

ANY female (with or without) a job that will EXPECT or REQUIRE you to pay her way during these DIFFICULT and UNCERTAIN economic times or help her financially with HER BILLS that SHE CREATED does not have a GENUINE interest in you and should be AVOIDED TOTALLY.

If you have been spending on females in 2013 and continue to do so in 2014, BLAME NO ONE (not even her or them) if the bottom falls out for you (i.e., you lose your job) or you are faced with a financial NEED and NONE OF THEM are there to financially HELP YOU.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "Many Males Will Choose to Remain and Complain in 2014"

You should AVOID these types of WEAK dudes as well because they are also a WASTE of your time.

You are ONLY as STRONG as the WEAKEST LINK.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "Don't Ask Me For Shit"

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT REQUIRE any additional words

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "DRY BEGGING: Prepare Yourselves Mentally"

Alright so MAYBE that was NOT my last post but I could not resist preparing this for WEAK males to WARN THEM of what they will be faced with.

MANY females will SPEND and expect males to help them out with THEIR financial HARDSHIP that THEY CREATED.  

[DEFINITION]

DRY BEGGING.  This is when the female just HAPPEN TO MENTION (yea right) to a male about her financial problems but DO NOT DIRECTLY ask him to help her out.

[DON'T BE TRICKED BY THAT TRICK]

Females KNOW WHO to dry beg to and who not to.  

They ONLY dry beg (i.e., talk about her financial hardship) to WEAK MALE THEY KNOW WANT HER SO BAD that he will see this as an OPEN opportunity to BUY his way into COMPANIONSHIP with her.

[BEEN THERE, DONE THAT AND WILL "NEVER" DO IT AGAIN]

I've been that weak male, sucker, simp or whatever term that fits the behavior nowadays.  I am not too embarrassed to mention it because IF it helps some of you to PREPARE TO AVOID what I did then I will have done a GOOD THING for MANKIND.

[HOW HAVE I PREPARED MYSELF SINCE MY RECOVERY]

Believe it or not, EVERY YEAR I PRINT and keep these dollars as a REMINDER of the STUPID THING that I did in my past.  WHENEVER I hear a female talk about her financial hardship or situation, I immediately volunteer my INSPIRATIONAL assistance by offering to provide a $100 no strings attached GIFT.

If she accepts my offer to help her, I simply give her a $100 bill as a REMINDER to BE MORE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE next time.

FINAL POST FOR 2013: "May Your Transition into 2014 Be A Pleasant and Successful One"

Although I will be providing comments to other people's posts, this is my LAST POST for the year 2013.  My material is designed in a manner that BENEFITS MALES FIRST WITHOUT taking advantage of or doing harm to ANY female.

MOST FEMALES are inconsiderate, extremely selfish and DO NOT LIKE being placed in any position other than FIRST which means IF you are with a female LIKE THAT, you will NEVER come first which means you can NEVER receive anything or any happiness UNLESS she receives it FIRST or AT THE SAME TIME you are receiving anything or any happiness.

[DISCLAIMER]

These CLASSES DO NOT provide information on how to be a Player

These CLASSES WILL REDUCE the number of females that you interact with because MOST of them ARE WORTHLESS TO YOU any way

These ARE NOT CLASSES to assist you in a MORE SUCCESSFUL means of getting PUSSY

These CLASSES WILL SHOW YOU WAYS of identifying Attention Ho's, Pay-Per-View Ho's and Inconsiderate, Entitlement Minded Bitches then the choice of wanting to REMAIN in their company is TOTALLY up to you.

These ARE CLASSES to assist you in THINKING and BEHAVING in a manner that WILL BENEFIT YOU as opposed to DEFINITELY benefiting her and MAYBE benefiting you (some of the time)

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

HOPEFULLY I have inspired MANY of you to reconsider or get out of your present non-beneficial and dysfunctional situations as well as reconsider how you determine your choices in females that you want to interact with.

You can continue down the OLD PATH of hard labor, minimal rewards and maximum disappointments FOR HER BENEFIT or you can journey down MY PATH of maximum personal rewards (not pussy) and minimal disappointments FOR YOUR BENEFIT.

The rest of you I can only wish that your eventual pain and disappointment that YOU WILL RECEIVE from her while catering to her is held to a minimum BEFORE she drains you (emotionally and financially) and then decide to DUMP YOU and MOVE ON to who SHE FEELS is BETTER FOR HER.

[CONCLUSION]

I will see those of you who have the BALLS and BACKBONE to attend CLASS next year.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "YOU EARNED IT SO GO ENJOY IT: Be Good To Yourself and Stop Waiting Until She Has Time For You"

Males have to GET RID OF that mentality where he believes he cannot go enjoy himself UNLESS he has a female at his side. 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all males that can afford to get away and enjoy their lives.


[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Getting away ALONE or with buddies allows you the opportunity to ENJOY YOURSELF, MEET NEW PEOPLE and NOT BE EXPECTED to spend money on some INCONSIDERATE FEMALE that CAN AFFORD to pay her own way but REFUSES TO DO SO which will make YOUR GETAWAY so much MORE ENJOYABLE.

That is how you enjoy YOUR LIFE and get to meet other people as opposed to wasting your time and money on some entitlement minded, pay my way, think she's all that female because she's cute, pretty (or think she's pretty) or had sex with you and NOW wants to behave like a PROSTITUTE EXPECTING MORE in return other than the SEX EXCHANGED between the two of you.

[DON'T WAIT ON A FEMALE TO ENJOY YOURSELF]

Females will ALWAYS HAVE OFFERS FROM OTHER MALES to spend his money on them taking them places and doing things with them. 

You have to learned to NOT WAIT on ANY female but rather take advantage of pleasant opportunities WHENEVER you can afford to do so because opportunities and a long life ARE NOT GUARANTEED for anyone. 

If you wait on her to have the time and opportunity, she WILL EXPECT YOU to bear the majority (if not all) of the costs involved.

If MOST females get the OPPORTUNITY to do something that she enjoys without you SHE WILL DO IT EVEN IF IT CAUSES FINANCIAL STRESS later on so why aren't you thinking and doing the same.  Remember one of my rules state: 

"Think LIKE a Female, Not FOR a Female".

[THEY ENJOY THE GOOD TIMES NOT AND EXPECT YOU TO HELP LATER WITH THE FINANCIAL HARD TIMES]

MOST of them will be EXPECTING YOU (in one way or another) to HELP them WITH THAT BILL that THEY HAVE that THEY ENJOYED (without you) which comes in the form of:

-  Taking them out and paying for it (i.e., dinner, clubs, movies, concerts, etc.) since they can't afford to

-  Helping them with cell, cable, satellite, rent, utility or credit card bills, etc.

REMEMBER:  MOST of them THINK like Ho's so IF she has SEX with you, consider the SEX as payment in full for what YOU LOANED HER.

[PLANNING, SAVING AND ENJOYING YOU]

You can ALWAYS AFFORD to do pleasant things FOR YOU if you save your money and plan it properly.  

Very few females will PLAN, SAVE and want to go places or do something WITH YOU if they have to PAY THEIR OWN WAY.  That is why I say:

"Put off what you would DO FOR HER TODAY so that you can DO FOR YOU TOMORROW".

[SHE PAYS WHEN THE GIRLS GO OUT SO WHY NOT WITH YOU]

You will RARELY hear females DISCUSS who's paying when they go out.  It's understood that EACH of them are PAYING THEIR OWN WAY and that is REGARDLESS of which one of them do the inviting.

YOU ARE NOT RESPECTED or VALUED as a person.  You are looked upon as a PROVIDER of her NEEDS or DESIRES and therefore IF you want the PLEASURE of her company (I did not say sex, just company), YOU WILL HAVE TO BEAR ALL COSTS during that time.

[CONCLUSION]

I have learned that when a female has the FINANCES and OPPORTUNITY to travel, she WILL NOT want to travel with you UNLESS YOU ARE PAYING. 

MOST feel that IF they have to pay, they DON'T NEED to go with you and would rather go with a bunch of females so that she (and they) can receive as much ATTENTION, FREEBIES and do as much FLIRTING and what ever else they can get away with THAT WILL NOT BE REPORTED.

STOP putting THEIR ENJOYMENT FIRST and START putting YOUR ENJOYMENT FIRST just as MOST of them do for themselves.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "WELCOME BACK: Return of the Class Dropouts"

I don't attempt to FORCE anyone to read or apply my information.  I don't even get angry at you if you say my information is USELESS.

I DON'T CLAIM to KNOW IT ALL but what I do know PROTECTS ME because I've been there, done those STUPID things, paid a HANDSOME price to learn my lesson and I am simply attempting to HELP GUYS eliminate or minimize the DISAPPOINTMENTS and LOSSES they will go through in that "Ring of Life" while engaging in interaction with THE WRONG female types.

[CONCLUSION]

The UP SIDE to it all is that even though YOU THINK you know better, MY INFORMATION will be here FOR YOU AFTER she's had her way with you  MOVE ON to who SHE THINKS is better.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "THE MYTH: Men Are Intimidated By A Woman's Independence"

There is ONLY ONE RESPONSE necessary and REQUIRES NO DISCUSSION.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any female that uses that statement in any form or fashion.

This DOES NOT APPLY to any female that publicly states that SHE IS INCAPABLE of caring for herself and NEED a man's money to survive so RESPECT HER for being honest and PAY HER WAY IF you desire.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is one of my SHORTEST posts ever because this REQUIRES a female that uses that statement to PUT UP or SHUT UP.

DO NOT BE STUPID and engage in a discussion or debate about this.

[CONCLUSION]

ANY FEMALE that uses that statement on you and do no pay her own way HAS NO RESPECT FOR or PERSONAL INTEREST IN YOU so WALK AWAY FROM HER.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "WORTHLESS FEMALES: Easy To Recognize But You FOOLishly Ignore The Signs"

MOST of us have done it and some of us (like myself) did it more than once UNTIL I got to the point where I decided that enough was enough.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that have IGNORED the obvious simply because YOU WANTED HER SO BADLY.

This DOES NOT APPLY to considerate, responsible, man-loving women that ACTIVELY participate and contribute to dating and relationships.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

There should be NO EMBARRASSMENT in admitting that YOU CAUSED yourself MOST of the pain, disappointment and financial loss when it came to your interaction and involvement with a female you were attracted to.

[MOST FEMALES DO NOT NOW AND WILL NEVER CARE ABOUT OR RESPECT THE DECENT MALE]

MOST FEMALES, if you observe them closely enough, have that spoiled, irresponsible, child-like mentality and will BORE EASILY which is why THEY are ALWAYS STRESSING YOU OUT to entertain them or bail them out of some situation THEY GOT THEMSELVES INTO.

The MAJORITY of females in the USA and MANY females in other countries have been EVOLVING into what I call PAY-PER-VIEW HOS and their sisters knows as "Inconsiderate, Selfish, Entitlement Minded, Scamming BITCHES".

[MOST MALES WERE PROGRAMMED FOR SELF DESTRUCTION BEFORE THEY EVEN REALIZED IT]

The MAJORITY of us males (as young boys) were BEING PROGRAMMED for SELF DESTRUCTION by being RAISED to eventually provide and protect those EVOLVING Ho's and Bitches.

The males that WERE NOT DAMAGED were those ABUSIVE male types that DID NOT GIVE A SHIT about a female and though of them ONLY in a manner of WHAT CAN THESE Ho's and Bitches do for me (i.e., Pimps, Players, Pretty Boys, Thugs, etc.).

[WHAT TO DO "AFTER" YOU'VE EXPERIENCED THAT DOWNFALL AND "TRULY" READY TO PICK YOURSELF BACK UP]

I mentioned a "3 Step Plan" on the back of my first book which is easy for ANY male to do ONCE he's really decided he's had enough and want to change for the better.

Step 1.  Admit to yourself that YOU (not her) are the BLAME for what happened to you.  (EXTREMELY IMPORTANT:  If you don't ACCEPT THE BLAME FOR YOUR CHOICE you will continue to behave in the same manner thinking it's someone else's fault and therefore YOU don't have to make any changes).

Step 2.  Take some time to CLEARLY understand what you did and why you did it.

Step 3.  Take whatever means necessary to RID YOURSELF of that mindset and behavior to make sure that you NEVER EVER REPEAT that SAME BEHAVIOR again no matter who she is or how good (you think) she looks.

[CONCLUSION]

NO FEMALE is beyond scrutiny or expectations and should NOT BE ALLOWED to simply lay on her ass and RECEIVE in a relationship.  

There SHOULD BE EXPECTATIONS of just as much participation and responsibility in dating and relationships as YOU ARE EXPECTED to do and IF SHE DON'T DO then you must GET RID OF HER.

If YOU CHOOSE to do practically everything for her or give practically everything to her then BLAME NO ONE (not even her) for the PAIN, DISAPPOINTMENT and FINANCIAL LOSS that will eventually occur.

YES "IT IS" JUST THAT COMPLICATED: "Does That 5% Even Exist"?

I would say that at least 95% of the females you come in contact with ARE NOT beneficial to a male in a dating or committed (non-marital or marital) relationship.

[DISCLAIMER]

There are none.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of what THE MAJORITY is in this country.  

If that 5% does exist and are AVAILABLE, where are you because OUR INQUIRING MINDS would certainly like to know who and where you are.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "2014 IS COMING: What Will It Be Like For You"?

Just as I encourage males to THINK and BEHAVE for THEIR BENEFIT FIRST when it comes to engaging in interaction with females, ONE VERY important factor remains IF he is to TRULY free himself from frustration and disappointment.  

BEWARE of ADVICE from THIRST and/or WEAK males.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that seek support and advice from other males.

This DOES NOT APPLY to the VERY FEW males that are LUCKY enough to have that RARE sensible, man-loving, cooperative, non-entitlement minded, unselfish WOMAN in his life.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

As I've stated before, ONLY 2 out of every 10 males will FREE THEMSELVES from a WORTHLESS, NAGGING, LAZY, ENTITLEMENT MINDED female and the remaining 8 were born and raised to be SERVANT PUSSIES (i.e., doing anything it takes to get and keep a female happy with NO REQUIREMENTS from her to do the same).

This means that there are 8 out of every 10 males that WILL give you BAD ADVICE and ENCOURAGE YOU to REMAIN in that situation as well as DO MORE to keep her from complaining to KEEP HER HAPPY.

[YOU NEED A "MENTALLY" STRONG AND "EXPERIENCED" CORNER MAN]

EVERY DUDE needs a corner man or men (including myself) to keep each other focused.  Corner men are there to WATCH you while you are in that RING OF LIFE and give you GOOD ADVICE in order for YOU (not her) to be successful in that ring.

There are even times when your corner man will ADVISE YOU to toss in the towel (i.e., DUMP HER), MINIMIZE your losses and MOVE ON even though YOU MAY THINK you are winning in that ring but you are SO FAR BEHIND in points that it's FOOLISH to CONTINUE to GET YOUR ASS WHIPPED.

YOUR corner man (unlike you) is NOT EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED so he can provide you will advice to PROTECT YOU during those times when YOUR emotional level RISES ABOVE your rational level.

[GET RID OF THAT OUT-DATED MENTALITY OR OUT-DATED CORNER MAN]

It is said that MANY MALES think that in order to be happy (with a woman), he had to make sure that SHE IS HAPPY FIRST.  Well, that simply means that HE IS living with an inconsiderate, selfish female because she WILL NOT ACCEPT him being happy IF she is not HAPPY FIRST.

[CONCLUSION]

I can only provide you with MY EXPERIENCES and WISDOM and in the end it's YOU that have to CHOOSE the path you are going to follow.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "STOP TALKING AND START LEAVING: 2014 Has Got To Be Better For You"

MOST males (8 out of every 10) are nothing but pathetic, whining little BITCHES when it comes to their problem(s) with a female that THEY have CONTROL over.  

Instead of simply LEAVING, they choose to remain and SECRETLY (without her knowing) get with other males and complain about their situation.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "STOP CREATING LAZY EFFORTLESS DEADBEATS: Expect More Participation Out of Her or Move On To The Next One"

When are you MALES going to start placing MOVE VALUE IN YOU and EXPECTING MORE EFFORT out of her or SIMPLY MOVE ON to the next one?

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that is putting for time, effort and finances in an attempt to spend time getting to know a female.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males with LOW SELF-ESTEEM or RETARDS because I understand your INABILITY to value self and expect more from a female.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males who have been RAISED or PROGRAMMED to believe that THE MAN is supposed to PURSUE (like some dog) the female and PROVE HIS WORTHINESS in order for her to accept him.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Other than HER ALLOWING YOU the opportunity to continue doing more to please a her in hopes of getting some RECYCLED PUSSY or having her commit to a ONE-SIDED RELATIONSHIP that YOU have CREATED during the dating phase, what else is happening between the two of you?  What is she doing?

[FEMALES ARE QUITE CAPABLE AND DO PUT FORTH EFFORT]

Don't UNDER ESTIMATE the ability of a female because they have SACRIFICED and done some of the MOST STUPID SHIT for the WRONG types of males yet they will do LITTLE to NOTHING when it comes to you.

[WHY DO THEY NOT PUT FORTH THE EFFORT FOR YOU]

Any female that DON'T put forth just as much effort in you simply DO NOT VALUE YOU (for whatever her reasons are) and SHOULD BE AVOIDED.

[FEMALES ARE NOT IGNORANT ALTHOUGH THEY MAKE STUPID CHOICES AND DO STUPID THINGS]

Females CAN SENSE a decent, respectable dude when they see one.  They ALSO know IF you have a PERSONAL INTEREST in getting to know them.  

If you are a DECENT LOOKING dude along with HER sensing you are a RESPECTABLE dude and she IGNORES YOU then decent and respectable IS NOT what she is attracted to. 

They GENERALLY value and are attracted to the ABUSIVE and DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THEM males that usually are the:

-  Males ALREADY in a relationship (marital or non-marital)

-  Players, 

-  Pretty Boys, 

-  Thugs and 

-  Financially Well-To-Do males 

Because those types EXCITE THEM, are A CHALLENGE and are NOT BORING to them which shows you how IMMATURE those types of females are.

[CONCLUSION]

THERE ARE WOMEN (although EXTREMELY FEW in numbers) out there that WILL PUT FORTH just as much effort as you so leave those LAZY, EFFORTLESS DEADBEATS alone.

DECENT, everyday Joe Males need to start requiring MUCH MORE participation out of females and place MUCH MORE VALUE in themselves and ANY FEMALE that DOES NOT put forth just as much effort into him SHOULD BE AVOIDED. 

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "GENETICALLY DEFECTIVE MUTANTS: Coming In 2014 To Your Stores, Malls, Movie Theaters and Communities"

They are REPRODUCING and trying to ASSIMILATE. Their behavior is quite OBVIOUS and CANNOT BE ALTERED or STOPPED so the best thing that you can do is AVOID CONTACT and DON'T GIVE THEM ANY ATTENTION.

These MUTANTS are not a part of the X-Men MUTANTS and they are NOT FILMING a dance video for a movie scene.  These are GENETIC DEFECTS that will CONTAMINATE and DESTROY whatever or whomever they come in contact with so AVOID THEM AT ALL COSTS.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "Feminism Out and Equality In"

MANY of you males WILL NOT LIKE this post but I AM NOT HERE TO KISS YOUR ASSES either.  

I am not here to CONTRIBUTE to FOOLishness but rather ATTEMPT to introduce some COMMON SENSE thinking and behavior that SAVE YOU TIME and BENEFIT YOU.

I have to SERIOUSLY question ANY male that WASTES his time and energy arguing or debating FEMINISM with a female or group of female THAT IS NOT BEING DONE IN THE COURTS.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that is constantly arguing or discussing FEMINISM with a female or females that is NOT in a courtroom setting.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I find it UTTERLY RIDICULOUS and sometimes quite IMMATURE when I see males here engaged in arguments, discussions or name calling when it comes to the FEMINISM topic.  This is a MEANINGLESS argument or discussion (outside of the courtroom) and he will have a better chance of ICE SKATING UPHILL.

[QUESTION]

Are you MALES getting some JOY or ORGASMIC response from doing so?

[I WILL "NOT" BACK DOWN FROM THIS STATEMENT]

ANY MALE, let me repeat, ANY MALE that wastes his time arguing or debating feminism with a female (outside of the court system) DOES NOT have issues with feminism.  HE either (in my opinion):

-  VERY LONELY and has NOTHING ELSE to do with his time, or

-  HAS UNRESOLVED emotional and/or psychological ISSUES WITH FEMALES 

BECAUSE there are MORE BENEFICIAL things that he can be and should be doing with is time.

[SOLUTION]

ANY female that wants to argue or discuss FEMINISM should be given 2 options:

OPTION 1 (Packaged Deal - I'm sure you are familiar with that term)

-  EQUAL RIGHTS (to opportunities).  She should receive just as much rights to opportunities as ANY MALE just AS LONGS AS she is QUALIFIED and CAN DO what is required WITHOUT ANY ASSISTANCE (unless that assistance REQUIRES multiple individuals)

-  EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY.  She SHALL BE responsible for providing for self anything that SHE NEEDS or DESIRES without the assistance from a male.  She SHALL also be accountable for her decisions and actions WITHOUT pulling out the GENDER CARD (she is an EMOTIONAL creature) which will be SURRENDERED upon receiving equal rights and responsibilities.

OPTION 2

-  DECLARE YOUR STATUS as a helpless, dependent individual that is INCAPABLE of caring for self and REQUIRES the physical and financial (especially) assistance of a male in order to survive and then (respectfully)  GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN.

[CONCLUSION]

THIS IS ALL that is necessary when discussing INDEPENDENCE or FEMINISM with a female.  ANY MALE that wastes HIS time on that feminism issue (other than in the courts) is a FOOLish male.

ASK JAI DUVAL SESSION: "I've Heard That The Women Mature Much Earlier Than The Men. Why Is That So"?

This is a VERY GOOD question and a VERY COMMON statement MANY females will make from time to time in order to make themselves APPEAR to be MORE MATURE than males and MANY males ALLOW them to do so WITHOUT QUESTIONING THEM.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY and SHOULD BE APPLIED to any female that make such statements WITHOUT being MORE SPECIFIC or PROVING THEIR STATEMENTS with EVIDENCE.

IF YOU are trying to GET PUSSY from her then I suggest that YOU AGREE with her or give her a SILLY, IMMATURE answer that DOES NOT CHALLENGE her statement or question.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

There is absolutely NO PROBLEM with a female making a statement or asking a male a question because, in most cases, they have been raised, taught and PROGRAMMED to speak their mind or question males about anything.

[SO WHAT IS THE PROBLEM]

The problem is when MOST males simply ALLOW her to makes statements or ask questions, they DO NOT REQUIRE her to:

1.  Be more specific with that statement or question

2.  Prove her point with that statement or question

3.  Explain how her statement or question RELATES to what they are talking about

[HOW TO INTELLIGENTLY RESPOND TO HER "MATURITY" QUESTION]

The response to that question REQUIRES the use of INTELLIGENCE and therefore I would respond in this manner:

That is a very good question but before I respond to that question, you need to be MORE SPECIFIC in what areas of maturity you are speaking of because I find the areas of maturity below BY MOST FEMALES to be quite IMMATURE:

FINANCIALLY IMMATURE.  They foolishly spend money or use a credit card and end up financially over-extended and have to juggle and struggle with paying bills IF they can't get some male to BAIL THEM OUT.

SEXUALLY IMMATURE.  They IGNORE requiring BOTH partners to use birth control.  They ALLOW some dude to EJACULATE INSIDE of them.  THEY DO NOT attempt to use the EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTIVE to prevent conception AFTER ejaculation inside of them.  THEY USE his sperm in an ATTEMPT to CONCEIVE and GET KNOCKED UP as a single female and HAVE A CHILD when they are NOT PREPARED to do so.

BEHAVIORALLY IMMATURE.  They are envious of other females and waste time gossiping about MEANINGLESS things or other females that they envy.

MATE SELECTION IMMATURE.  They will ALLOW ABUSIVE MALES (i.e., the players, pretty boys, thugs and financially well-to-do males) into their lives that DON'T GIVE A SHIT about them BECAUSE they are FUN, UNPREDICTABLE and EXCITING and they will IGNORE and AVOID the decent, everyday Joe male that THEY FEEL is PREDICTABLE and BORING that would be a better companion.

So in light of the area I have IDENTIFIED and EXPLAINED, will you now do the same for me and IDENTIFY and EXPLAIN CLEARLY those areas you are speaking of where females MATURE EARLIER than males?

[WHAT WILL BE MOST FEMALES REACTION TO AN INTELLIGENT RESPONSE]

I have found that these 4 responses below are the MOST COMMON responses you will receive:

1.  Get upset

2.  Get uncomfortable

3.  Withdraw her statement or question

4.  Withdraw herself from his presence (and maybe not talk to or see him again)

[CONCLUSION]

STOP ALLOWING yourselves to be DUMB DOWN for the chance of getting RECYCLED PUSSY and REQUIRE FEMALES to raise THEIR MATURITY and INTELLECTUAL level when interacting with you OR DUMP ANY FEMALE that REFUSES to do so.

As always, my posts are there to ATTEMPT to get males to FUNCTION in a manner that BENEFITS THEM FIRST without taking from or doing harm to the female he interacts with.

IT IS THAT COMPLICATED THIS TIME: "GLOBAL REQUEST: I Am Still Waiting For The Numbers To Start Coming In"

I am still looking for GLOBAL evidence that a male's life CAN BE RUINED if he DOES NOT ATTEMPT to get or DOES NOT HAVE a female in his life. 

This was ORIGINALLY posted on December 6, 2013 and so far that number is "0".

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all females and males that CLAIM or THINKS that a man NEEDS to have a female in his life.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

With all the CLAIMS that a male's life IS NOT COMPLETE without a woman in it AND the OVERLY PUBLICIZED PROPAGANDA about a female's WORTH (i.e. STRONG, INTELLIGENT, UNSELFISH, CARING, LOVING and SUPPORTIVE), why are males still unattached?

Males NOT IN relationships should realize how IMPORTANT the female is (advertised to be) towards the COMPLETENESS of his life and should be PUTTING FORTH MORE EFFORT in order to have one in his life, RIGHT??

[HOW DO YOU DISCREDIT THEM CAUSE YOU WILL "NEVER" SHUT THEM UP]

Just tell them to PROOF with LOGIC and EVIDENCE that they CONTRIBUTED to a man's life NOT BEING RUINED or DIMINISHED by being with him.

HIM not ruining HIS LIFE does not mean it happened JUST BECAUSE you laid down next to him, you did not argue with him OR you gave him some OCCASIONAL pussy.[WHY AREN'T THE FEMALES GIVING ME NUMBERS "WITH PROOF" OF MALE'S LIVES BEING RUINED TO SUPPORT "THEIR IMPORTANCE" IN A MALE'S LIFE]

Where are all of these FEMALES who claim (to name just a few):

-  Behind every successful man there is a woman

-  A woman COMPLETES a man and gives his life purpose

-  Women are the FOUNDATION that holds the relationship together

Since there are SO MANY males NOT IN a committed marital or non-marital relationship:

"The numbers of LIVES RUINED should be AT LEAST in the tens of thousands for those males that DO NOT ATTEMPT TO GET or DO NOT HAVE a woman in his life".

[CONCLUSION]

THE LACK OF EVIDENCE and the TOTAL leads me to believe that YOU DO NOT have to SETTLE for a female but rather WAIT UNTIL you get a CONSIDERATE, RESPONSIBLE female that VALUES YOUR CHARACTER, RESPECTS YOU and PAYS HER OWN WAY.

I simply am asking the question and I will leave all of you to formulate YOUR OWN conclusion based upon THE REPORTED NUMBERS.

REALITY CHECK: "It All Begins With The Proper Mindset"

This speaks for itself.  Nothing else need to be stated.  If she can't or refuse to accept something as SIMPLE, CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE as that..... 

 

DUMP HER.

 



IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "TIME FOR SOME MALE BASHING: Do You Control You or Does She Control You"

BOTH of these males place themselves FIRST and THINK "LIKE" FEMALES as opposed to THINK "FOR THE BENEFIT OF" FEMALES so they use what they got to GET WHAT THEY WANT as well as CONTROL THEIR LIVES in the process.

MOST males will ALWAYS be a failure because of his PROGRAMMED THIRST for a female which causes him to PLACE HER and HER INCONSIDERATE DESIRES far above ANY productive goals or desires he "may" have.

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

[DISCLAIMER]

THE ROLES of those two males can be reversed.

CHASING or GETTING PUSSY is not a productive goal or desire.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The FEW males, percentage wise, that don't give a shit how these childish, inconsiderate, selfish and ENTITLEMENT MINDED females feel are the guys that WILL BE SUCCESSFUL in life if they have a sensible plan and stick to it.

MALES, percentage wise, that are programmed to believe that HE is supposed to pursue a female and do what it takes to GET and KEEP HER HAPPY are the males who will MOST LIKELY always struggle in life and end up bouncing around from friend to friend or relative to relative when it comes to having a place to stay.

[MOST MALES BEHAVING LIKE THIS (ESPECIALLY BLACK MALES) WILL STRUGGLE AND BE LOSERS IN LIFE]

Most of you males reading this place too much importance on females and their happiness.

[MALES THIRSTY FOR BIG ASSES SHOULD NOT BE RELIED UPON FOR ANYTHING OF IMPORTANCE]

I'm sure that MANY of you BIG ASS WORSHIPERS may get DEFENSIVE and would love to kick my ass for saying this.

A BIG ASS is usually the WEAKNESS of MOST (not all) BLACK MALES and usually those males are the ones who's GREATEST ACCOMPLISHMENT in life is:

-  Chasing Meaningless Pussy

-  Being a Sperm Donor (not a father) or

-  Being a Big Time Wanna-Be Player with nothing to show in life when he gets beyond 40 years old.

It's a PROVEN FACT that a female with a BIG ASS can EASILY DISTRACT most black males with very little effort.  I see it happen all the time.  Now toss a WEAVE on her head and he has SURRENDERED ALL OF HIMSELF, HIS EFFORTS AND ATTENTION TO HER.

MOST (not all) BLACK MALES that place so much importance on a BIG ASS usually (not always) are the ones CHASING PUSSY rather PURSUING GOALS to better THEIR future.

MOST BLACK MALES place too much importance on a BIG ASS which is why MOST BLACK MALES that have a THIRST for a big ass cannot be TRUSTED or RELIED UPON for anything OTHER THAN getting together to "talk about", "complain about" or "watch BIG ASSES".  Yea I said it!!!!

[IS IT WRONG TO HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO A FEMALE WITH A BIG ASS]

Of course not because we all have our personal preferences.  It's just that MOST BLACK MALES seem to have NO DISCIPLINE and NO CONTROL around females with big asses which is why I would not expect ANY RELIABILITY or DISCIPLINE from them for ANYTHING that is of REAL IMPORTANCE.

[CONCLUSION]

MOST FEMALES nowadays are simply selfish, inconsiderate and possess that entitlement mindset so if a male places MORE importance on what HER WANTS rather than what HIS NEEDS, HIS LIFE will be a MISERABLE, STRESSFUL, DISAPPOINTING and UP HILL climb.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "Males Are Programmed To Be Tolerant For The Female's Benefit"

IT'S NOT COMPLICATED 101: "You Are Not Obligated To Provide For Or Help Her JUST BECAUSE She Is The Mother Of Your Child"

This is VERY IMPORTANT so I will THINK ABOUT THIS and TAKE MY TIME to complete this when time permits.

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "PUT UP OR SHUT UP: I Don't Dislike Or Hate Black Females"

It seems as if IT'S MORE about what a man says RATHER THAN what he does. Why is there a problem when a man SAYS HE does not want a certain type of female and in this case it's a HUGE PROBLEM when he says he does not want a black female?

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT MEAN that those types ONLY APPLY to black females but in this case I'm addressing black females.

This DOES APPLY to anyone who has a problem with a man NOT WANTING to associate with or NOT WANTING to have a particular type of female in his life.

This PRIMARILY APPLY to the black females that consider themselves to be STRONG, INTELLIGENT, EDUCATED and INDEPENDENT that also have a job.

This DOES NOT APPLY to the black females that PUBLICLY PROCLAIM they are INCAPABLE of caring for themselves and are IN NEED of a man's MENTAL, PHYSICAL and FINANCIAL assistance.

This DOES NOT APPLY to female RETARDS because you have a LEGITIMATE reason for behaving the way that you do.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I was asked BY A FRIEND to apply my wisdom and experience and post something regarding the problems he has when coming in contact with MOST black females so I am COMPLYING.

[WHERE ARE THESE SO-CALLED QUALITY BLACK WOMEN]

This NEED NOT be a lengthy discussion.  All females have to do is STEP UP TO THE PLATE and LET THEIR ACTIONS speak for them rather than their LOUD MOUTHS.

MOST of the females REGARDLESS OF COLOR you come in contact with will posses one or many of those problems shown in the photo.  THE EXCEPTION being THE QUEEN which is RESERVED (for some unknown reason) for black females ONLY.

[VERY FEW SINGLE AND AVAILABLE "WORKING" BLACK FEMALES EXIST THAT ARE "NOT" PROBLEMATIC AND "NOT" A DEPENDENT]

The key word is FEW which means some of them do exist but they are RARE and EXTREMELY hard to find.

MOST OF THE FEW AVAILABLE ones that do exist USUALLY have no interest in the decent, everyday Joe and EVENTUALLY will CHOOSE a Player, Pretty Boy, Thug or Wealthy Man who has NO GENUINE interest in her which is certainly HER RIGHT to do so.

[DON'T GET UPSET JUST PROVE ME TO BE WRONG]

Find us these women that DO NOT FIT the descriptions in the photo and we will GLADLY spend time getting to know them WITHOUT taking advantage of them and WITHOUT disrespecting them.

[CONCLUSION]

Nothing else need to be stated so, "PUT UP OR SHUT UP".

IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "The 10 Most Common Places To Find N*ggas"

Although I DESPISE that word and behavior, I will be CONSTANTLY promoting this the ENTIRE month of December 2013:

"Leave N*GGAS and THAT WORD behind BEFORE transitioning into 2014"

The reason why YOU DON'T ABANDON IT is because VERY FEW will ENCOURAGE YOU do to so.