REALITY CHECK: "THANKS BUT NO THANKS: I Wasn't Good Enough For You Then and You Are Worthless To Me Now"

I'm sure that I was not the ONLY DUDE that listened to females talk or complain about some dude that was no good, a cheater or abusive but SHE NEVER SAID, "I left him THE FIRST TIME it happened".

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to myself and any other dude that has been there before.

This DOES NOT APPLY to any female that was ABDUCTED AGAINST HER WILL and subjected to cheating or abusive behavior by some STRANGER.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Males need to STOP ALLOWING females to whine and complain to them about some dude that SHE WILLINGLY CHOSE to be with is (or has) cheated, mistreated or abused her.

[DON'T BE UPSET WITH HER "IF YOU" WERE THAT DUDE SHE IGNORED]

If you happen to, for whatever reason, come in contact with her again, this is where YOU SHOW MATURITY by NOT GETTING ANGRY at her but rather THANKING HER (with a big smile on your face) FOR IGNORING YOU.

[FEMALES DO NOT LIKE SEEING A DUDE DO GOOD THAT THEY IGNORED IF THEIR LIFE IS "FUCKED UP"]

They won't show their SELFISH ENVY but trust me they are and especially IF your life has been successful after she ignored you AND you won't NOW let her into your life.

[QUESTION]

How many of you guys will let a female SETTLE FOR YOU (in her mind) because she DIDN'T GET the dude(s) she wanted AFTER she's been:

- FUCKING dude(s) with disappointing results

- CATERING TO dude(s) with disappointing results

- KNOCKED UP by dude(s) with disappointing results

- ABUSED SEVERAL TIMES by dude(s) with disappointing results

[DON'T BE STUPID CAUSE YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER NOW]

If you have been doing well WITHOUT HER, why change that dynamic and take a RISK of damaging, destroying or SURRENDERING what you have worked and sacrifice for JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO NOW BE WITH  YOU.

[MY CONFESSION]

Many years ago I was that DECENT dude that experienced all 4 types described in the question above and yes, EVEN AFTER all of their DISAPPOINTMENT and ABUSE, they eventually went right back to that SAME DUDE or that SAME TYPE of dude AFTER getting her head and physical ailments repaired by SPENDING TIME WITH ME.

[YOUR FUTURE IS "AHEAD" OF YOU "NOT BEHIND" YOU]

THERE ARE WOMEN that you have NOT YET MET that WILL BE a far better choice than that ABUSED, BATTERED and TOSSED IN THE RECYCLE BIN ONE in your face whining and complaining THAT IGNORED YOU.

MAKE SURE you APPLY LOGIC and/or PAST EXPERIENCE in your decision making and LEAVE EMOTION OUT of the equation.

[CONCLUSION]

Learn from my FOOLISH mistakes and DO NOT ALLOW some female INTO YOUR LIFE that DE-VALUED and IGNORED YOU that IS NOW IN or WAS PREVIOUSLY IN an abusive relationship.

Just as SHE is NOW attempting to SETTLE FOR YOU, make sure that you DO NOT SETTLE FOR HER.