IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "YOU EARNED IT SO GO ENJOY IT: Be Good To Yourself and Stop Waiting Until She Has Time For You"

Males have to GET RID OF that mentality where he believes he cannot go enjoy himself UNLESS he has a female at his side. 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all males that can afford to get away and enjoy their lives.


[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Getting away ALONE or with buddies allows you the opportunity to ENJOY YOURSELF, MEET NEW PEOPLE and NOT BE EXPECTED to spend money on some INCONSIDERATE FEMALE that CAN AFFORD to pay her own way but REFUSES TO DO SO which will make YOUR GETAWAY so much MORE ENJOYABLE.

That is how you enjoy YOUR LIFE and get to meet other people as opposed to wasting your time and money on some entitlement minded, pay my way, think she's all that female because she's cute, pretty (or think she's pretty) or had sex with you and NOW wants to behave like a PROSTITUTE EXPECTING MORE in return other than the SEX EXCHANGED between the two of you.

[DON'T WAIT ON A FEMALE TO ENJOY YOURSELF]

Females will ALWAYS HAVE OFFERS FROM OTHER MALES to spend his money on them taking them places and doing things with them. 

You have to learned to NOT WAIT on ANY female but rather take advantage of pleasant opportunities WHENEVER you can afford to do so because opportunities and a long life ARE NOT GUARANTEED for anyone. 

If you wait on her to have the time and opportunity, she WILL EXPECT YOU to bear the majority (if not all) of the costs involved.

If MOST females get the OPPORTUNITY to do something that she enjoys without you SHE WILL DO IT EVEN IF IT CAUSES FINANCIAL STRESS later on so why aren't you thinking and doing the same.  Remember one of my rules state: 

"Think LIKE a Female, Not FOR a Female".

[THEY ENJOY THE GOOD TIMES NOT AND EXPECT YOU TO HELP LATER WITH THE FINANCIAL HARD TIMES]

MOST of them will be EXPECTING YOU (in one way or another) to HELP them WITH THAT BILL that THEY HAVE that THEY ENJOYED (without you) which comes in the form of:

-  Taking them out and paying for it (i.e., dinner, clubs, movies, concerts, etc.) since they can't afford to

-  Helping them with cell, cable, satellite, rent, utility or credit card bills, etc.

REMEMBER:  MOST of them THINK like Ho's so IF she has SEX with you, consider the SEX as payment in full for what YOU LOANED HER.

[PLANNING, SAVING AND ENJOYING YOU]

You can ALWAYS AFFORD to do pleasant things FOR YOU if you save your money and plan it properly.  

Very few females will PLAN, SAVE and want to go places or do something WITH YOU if they have to PAY THEIR OWN WAY.  That is why I say:

"Put off what you would DO FOR HER TODAY so that you can DO FOR YOU TOMORROW".

[SHE PAYS WHEN THE GIRLS GO OUT SO WHY NOT WITH YOU]

You will RARELY hear females DISCUSS who's paying when they go out.  It's understood that EACH of them are PAYING THEIR OWN WAY and that is REGARDLESS of which one of them do the inviting.

YOU ARE NOT RESPECTED or VALUED as a person.  You are looked upon as a PROVIDER of her NEEDS or DESIRES and therefore IF you want the PLEASURE of her company (I did not say sex, just company), YOU WILL HAVE TO BEAR ALL COSTS during that time.

[CONCLUSION]

I have learned that when a female has the FINANCES and OPPORTUNITY to travel, she WILL NOT want to travel with you UNLESS YOU ARE PAYING. 

MOST feel that IF they have to pay, they DON'T NEED to go with you and would rather go with a bunch of females so that she (and they) can receive as much ATTENTION, FREEBIES and do as much FLIRTING and what ever else they can get away with THAT WILL NOT BE REPORTED.

STOP putting THEIR ENJOYMENT FIRST and START putting YOUR ENJOYMENT FIRST just as MOST of them do for themselves.