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I try to give guys information that will BENEFIT them. I try to get guys to FOCUS on themselves and SPEND TIME doing what will benefit them rather than WASTE TIME being concerned about what others do that have NO IMPACT on their life.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that will look at those 2 photos on the top row and get upset, disturbed, angered, etc.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
FORGET ABOUT the other couple color combinations (black, yellow, red, brown, white), it's something SPECIAL about the black and white combination that PEOPLE need to get over and MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS.
WHATEVER your reasons are fellas, you have GOT TO LET GO of them.
So as long as you are with YOUR OWN KIND or YOUR OWN PEOPLE (whatever the fuck that means NOWADAYS), it's acceptable whether you are UNHAPPY, MISERABLE, DISAPPOINTED, FRUSTRATED or BEATING THE FUCK out of the other person or GETTING YOUR ASS BEAT.
[SO WHAT IS THESE GUYS PROBLEM]
I believe that MOST guys that have a problem with the photo in the top row are typically (does not mean all):
- Not living a PRODUCTIVE life
- Without a woman in THEIR personal life
- Without the woman THEY WANT in their personal life
- Very UNHAPPY and DESPERATELY want but can't get a woman in their personal life
- HORNY and CAN'T GET ANY PUSSY which makes them VERY FRUSTRATED and ENVIOUS, or
- The MUTHA-FUCKA simply has MENTAL DISORDERS (i.e., he is CRAZY) and NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP
[QUESTIONS TO GUYS]
- Why are you so concerned about them?
- What are YOU doing with YOUR TIME besides FRUSTRATING YOURSELVES by putting YOUR NOSE in someone else's business?
[CONCLUSION]
The time and mental energy you WASTE being disturbed about something like this could be applied to doing something PRODUCTIVE that will BENEFIT YOU.
I know this won't sit well with MOST of you and it may upset MANY of you for me asking since I should not DARE to question statements like these and DISRUPT your FANTASY moment but WTF.
The 3 types of G's that causes many people to choose mates are:
- GOD (or so we claim such)
- GREED (the money or lifestyle UPGRADE is just too great to resist)
- GENITALS (I'm horny)
[DISCLAIMER]
This is NOT about anyone's religious or non-religious beliefs.
This is about the POPULAR GOD SENT expression that is so often used when someone DESPERATELY wants to feel they have found THE ONE.
OF COURSE this DOES APPLY to males as well.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I find it to be AN ABSOLUTE JOKE when so many males and females use the GOD SENT expression when they CLAIM to have been sent THE ONE. After that HEAVENLY MIRACLE has turned into a HELLISH SITUATION, I usually hear the EXCUSE, "God sent him/her to me for a season", "God sent him/her to me to teach me a lesson" or "God brought us together to create this beautiful child (or children)".
[THAT MYSTICAL VOICE]
If it was God's voice urging you on to that maital relationship, would God urge you on to a temporary situation that would eventually lead you to emotional trauma, physical abuse, separation and ultimate divorce?
Would God be so cruel and vicious to set you up, have a child or children and then divorce (for those who claim God sent that person) which is BAD for the children created during that marriage?
DID GOD instruct you to NOT engage in sex before marriage yet, in that same breath, TOLD YOU to NOT spend time with them if they DON'T spend money on you PRIOR TO MARRIAGE?
DID GOD tell you to keep YOUR LEGS CLOSED but make sure the other person keeps THEIR WALLET/PURSE OPEN to YOUR selfish attitude and inconsiderate desires?
DID GOD instruct you to NOT judge him/her buy the CONTENT OF THEIR CHARACTER but rather by the CONTENTS IN THEIR WALLET/PURSE?
[LUST, DESPERATION, STUPIDITY and/or LIFESTYLE UPGRADE]
Since we all (excluding those that are mentally incapable) have the ability to make MATURE choices in our lives I believe that the PRIMARY driving force for the GOD SENT expression is based upon lust, desperation, stupidity and/or lifestyle upgrade.
- LUST - You are PHYSICALLY attracted and SEXUALLY motivated.
- DESPERATION - You want so badly to have a relationship with THAT PERSON as YOUR mate due to loneliness, society's pressure or family/friends pressure.
- STUPIDITY - You KNOW that relationship is not good for you but you enter into it anyway.
- LIFESTYLE UPGRADE - You want what HE/SHE has to make YOUR life better and more appealing.
QUESTION FOR THE FEMALES:
IF YOU CLAIM that God has sent him/her to you after you have found THE ONE, which EXCUSE will you use IF your relationship with that God sent person and YOU don't last?
- GOD sent him/her to me for a season
- GOD sent him/her to me to teach me a lesson
- GOD brought us together to create this beautiful child (or children)
Since I am out of touch in the RELATIONSHIP EXCUSE department, are there any NEW excuses that are out there that I need to know about?
[CONCLUSION]
Can we simply AGREE that YOU made a choice based upon what YOU thought would benefit YOU, ENJOYED some (or all) of that time while it lasted and if didn't last it was based upon YOUR choice and not God bringing someone PLEASANTLY IN and UNPLEASANTLY OUT of YOUR life?
Can we simply AGREE that God DID NOT make you reject, avoid or turn away from that decent, GOOD PERSON who just happened to be the everyday, average person who probably would have given YOU more LOVE, HAPPINESS and SPIRITUAL PEACE-OF-MIND than you could have ever imagined instead of the one YOU FOOLISHLY selected?
YOU CHOSE to reject, avoid, turn away from that decent person who would have really loved you in a genuine, non-materialistic (that means not trying to impress you with things or money) way.
As I said in the beginning, this may upset many of you but TRUTH and REALITY of YOUR poor choices in a mate, that DON'T LAST, is embarrassing to many and an EXTREMELY difficult pill to swallow.
If males would spend just 50% of the time they spend WASTING IT chasing PUSSY, giving females UNEARNED COMPLIMENTS, sitting on their ass using the computer ONLY to look at female's photos on Facebook and click the "like" button on those photos and INSTEAD use that time to BETTER THEMSELVES, life would be MORE REWARDING for them (NOT HER).
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all the whining, complaining, blaming males that are DISSATISFIED with their situation yet they CONTINUE to do those things that BENEFIT HER and HINDER himself.
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that have NO AMBITION in life OTHER THAN wasting their life and time PLEASING or ATTEMPTING TO PLEASE a female or females.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Let me be the first to say here that THERE ARE a large number of dudes that WILL ONLY ADVANCE in life as far as THEIR DICKS or THEIR BULLSHIT TALKING can take them.
[WHAT IS YOUR LIFE ABOUT]
LIFE, as an adult, is something that SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLY ENJOYED but SHOULD NOT BE FOOLISHLY TAKEN FOR GRANTED and PLAYED WITH but it seems MANY males feel the NEED to NOT GROW UP and continuously PLAY WITH LIFE.
Life can REWARD YOU if you live responsibly as well as SEVERELY PUNISH YOU.
[LIFE CAN BE THE ULTIMATE HEARTLESS PUNISHER]
Males that PLAY WITH LIFE can look forward to BRUTAL, LOGICAL and INSENSITIVE response:
1. BRUTAL. Give me the opportunity and I will beat your ass down.
2. LOGICAL. You only do this so you only get that in return.
3. INSENSITIVE. I don't give a shit about your feelings and I don't accept excuses. It's ONLY what you do (or have done) that matters.
[CONCLUSION]
If you choose to play with life by WASTING YOUR TIME and MONEY on these WORTHLESS female being their ENTERTAINER (i.e., clown), FINANCIAL PROVIDER (i.e., fool) and you end up LATER IN LIFE with NOTHING TO SHOW but some good, fun times (in your mind) to talk about, BLAME NO ONE but you because MOST (if not all) of those females that you wasted your time and money on WILL BE with someone else or alone doing quite well with the MONEY THEY SAVED while being with YOUR PLAYFUL ASS.
This post resulted from a FB post where this female is supposed to have caught her man cheating with another female. There were comments from females that basically stated, "YOU CAUGHT HIM cheating so you are allowed to BEAT HIS ASS".
[DISCLAIMER]
This post DOES NOT encourage or condone this type of behavior from either gender.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
MY POINT in creating this post is to simply show you how MANY females will react when a situation like this occurs. This shows you how ONE-SIDED the opinions of MANY females are when it comes to THE CONSEQUENCES a male SHOULD FACE or that are ACCEPTABLE if found to be unfaithful to his mate.
[IF YOU SET THE CONSEQUENCES BE PREPARED FOR IT TO IMPACT YOU OR OTHER FEMALES IN THE SAME MANNER]
We will NOT allow females to establish DOUBLE-STANDARDS of treatment for the SAME type of behavior. If females PENALIZE men for some sort of behavior, men SHOULD PENALIZE them in that same manner IF the behavior is the same.
Females are out-raged when it comes to DOMESTIC ABUSE being APPLIED TO THEM but it seems to be some sort of ENJOYABLE ENTERTAINMENT when the SAME occurs to men.
[THE EMOTION "EXCUSE" CARD HAS JUST BE VOIDED]
STOP ALLOWING females to do IRRESPONSIBLE and INAPPROPRIATE things then use the EMOTION EXCUSE CARD. For example:
1. She gets angry for any PHYSICALLY UNPROVOKED REASON so she SLAPS or PUHCHES him.
2. She gets angry at him for something he DID NOT DO for her that she FELT he should have and she VERBALLY ABUSES him.
3. She gets angry at him for something she FEELS (but can't prove) he has done WRONG so she IGNORES HIM in the relationship
Are females supposed to be EXCUSED for their CHEATING behavior? There are a few common areas that females ATTEMPT to use or MALES ALLOW them to use the EMOTION EXCUSE CARD. There are more but I like to use "The Big 3" in my examples.
1. IF she FEELS the man she with IS NOT treating her in the manner SHE EXPECTS to be treated. This DOES NOT MEAN that he is mistreating her. This simply means that she is IMMATURE, SPOILED, SELFISH and wants (NOT NEED) what she wants REGARDLESS.
2. IF she STILL have an UNCONTROLLABLE emotional attachment to the father of her child or children such that SHE ALLOWS herself to cheat with him.
3. IF she FEELS that she is NOT getting enough ATTENTION from the man she is with.
[CONCLUSION]
I will leave that up to each individual reading this.
I was told about this group so I decided to go to their page and READ some of what was posted and the comments. This group is DEFINITELY for males that want to SPEND or are SPENDING TIME and MONEY making sure BLACK females are happy.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to ANY males that think and behave like me.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Why do I NO LONGER have a desire to INVOLVE myself with a black female on a PERSONAL, INTIMATE relationship level and ONLY on a social, courteous and RESPECTABLE (if she respects me) level?
MOST of these female types have been (and still are being) CONDITIONED to expect TOO MUCH WORK out of a man in order for him to be with her.
By the way, this means ANY female (regardless of race, color, etc.) that expects that much work out of me but for some reason MOST (at least 85%) of BLACK females are totally UNREASONABLE and AVOID (or develop a BAD attitude) discussing this matter where as MANY of the others will at least sit down and discuss it.
This is one of the VERY REASONS why black women think and behave in the manner that they do.
- Is their thinking and behavior wrong? Absolutely not
- Is their thinking and behavior wrong for me? Most definitely yes.
[THERE ARE "MORE" MALES THAT NEED TO SPEND OR SERVE TO FEEL VALUED]
For whatever the reason is, there are males (of all races, colors, etc.) that feel IF they aren't spending money, catering to, pursuing or competing to GET or KEEP the female he is with that HE is OF NO VALUE to her or to any relationship.
[THEN THERE ARE A "FEW" MALES THAT THINK AND BEHAVE LIKE ME]
QUEENS do not exist in my world nor do I want a female that THINKS she is a queen or want to be TREATED like a queen.
Besides MY MOTHER and other FEMALES that SACRIFICED and DID FOR ME to CONTRIBUTE to the CONSIDERATE, RESPECTFUL and RESPONSIBLE person that I am today:
- NO FEMALE will be VALUED UNTIL SHE PROVES herself WORTH BEING VALUED.
UNLESS I am given a reason to think otherwise, I will ASSUME ALL females:
- ARE just as EQUAL and CAPABLE as I am
- WILL NOT be placed upon a pedestal
- WILL NOT be placed in the gutter
[VERY INTERESTING GROUP]
I searched and found NOTHING about the black woman doing anything more than RECEIVING. If anyone finds there THE BLACK MAN (or Men) EXPECTS the black woman to do JUST AS MUCH, please let me know.
If YOU are Proud and Ready to Serve then the "Good Strong Black Men with Equally Good Wise Women" group is waiting for you.
[CONCLUSION]
If you want a WOMAN that is thoughtful, easy to please, considerate and NOT going to EXPECT YOU TO CONSTANTLY COMPETE FOR HER, WEAR YOU DOWN and ALLOW YOU TIME to DO FOR YOU then I suggest that you AVOID any female that has been PROGRAMMED to receive that type of CONSISTENT treatment.
I'm sure that there will be a FEW of you that will TRULY not like what I'm about to say but IF you know me then you know I'm NOT about emotion but rather common sense LOGIC.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT promote, encourage or condone domestic violence upon anyone regardless of gender, race, etc.
I DO NOT promote, encourage or condone domestic violence upon anyone regardless of gender, race, etc. BUT I do understand CONSEQUENCES for one's WILLING poor choices.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I have stated this before and WILL NOT back down from it. Pretty females DO NOT appreciate, desire, put forth any effort or allow the opportunity to know (on a personal level) the everyday Joe UNLESS:
1. She has been severely abused physically or emotionally
2. She is in a position where she is FINANCIALLY NEEDY and can't get the other types to CONTRIBUTE or PHYSICALLY NEEDY (no thirsty i'm not talking about sex) and can't get the other types SHE LIKES to help her
3. Her MARKETABLE VALUE has DIMINISHED due to age, changes in physical appearance, children at home, etc.
4. The man that SHE WANTS does not want her in the same manner so she will ACCEPT YOU temporarily to kill time UNTIL that man is "again" ready for her
Those are just a FEW examples and I'm sure that you can supply more.
[WHAT HAPPENS TO THE ABUSED PRETTY ONES]
They USUALLY go through a physical, emotional or both RECOVERY period and MOST of them will either GO BACK to that same abuser OR get involved with another of the same type.
[MY PREDICTION BASED UPON DISCUSSIONS AND OBSERVATIONS]
Let's use the number 10 for my prediction just to keep it simple:
1. 5 out of 10 will RETURN to that same type
2. 3 out of 10 will be FUBAR (Fucked Up Beyond Any Recovery)
3. 2 out of 10 will have a 50/50 of chance being of any VALUE to you
That means ONLY 2 out of 10 ABUSED PRETTY females are going to be POTENTIALLY worthwhile, BENEFICIAL and COMMITTED to the DECENT, everyday Joe.
[A FEW SUGGESTIONS FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION]
1. Avoid ANY PERSONAL interest in a PRETTY female
2. DO NOT FOOLISHLY attempt to RESCUE a pretty female from her abuser (chances are YOU will get YOUR ASS WHIPPED or YOU WHIP HIM and eventually she will GO RIGHT BACK TO HIM)
3. DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with these pretty females LISTENING to their sorrow or complaints as to HOW they ARE (or were) being MISTREATED and ABUSED
4. DO NOT THINK that just because she is ALLOWING you to spend time with her AFTER SHE HAS BEEN ABUSED that YOU HAVE A CHANCE at a relationship with her
[WATCH OUT FOR THE "CHURCH" HUG]
One of the MOST OBVIOUS signs that YOU AIN'T GETTING HER is when she gives you that "CHURCH" HUG:
"Turn Her Face To The Side and Quickly Press Her Cheek Against Your Cheek - Don't Try to Press Your Chest Against My Tits - Booty Out To Keep Your Johnson Away From My Thighs - 3 Pats On His Back And Pull Away" Hug (if she even gives you that)".
THAT IS her way of thanking you for all of the time and effort YOU PUT IN to help RESTORE HER to a functional level FOR SOMEONE ELSE and NOT YOU.
[WHAT OPTIONS DO THE EVERYDAY JOE HAVE]
ATTRACTIVE (which means one that YOU are attracted to) FEMALES are who you should show some interest in and SPEND YOUR TIME with.
There are FAR MORE attractive (to you) females that will be GENUINELY interested in you and WILL WORK WITH YOU than that are pretty females (which will NOT GENUINELY want you anyway) so LEAVE THE PRETTY ONES to their ABUSERS.
[CONCLUSION]
If ANY of you everyday Joe's decide to IGNORE this post and PURSUE (really waste your time and money) or REHAB an abused pretty female, DON'T BE MAD at her AFTER she thank you fwith that "CHURCH" HUG and that is all you get.
I'm sure we've all heard females say, "This is what I am bringing to the table so what is he bringing".
Well, that statement is MORE of an IN YOUR FACE statement rather than WHAT SHE WILL CONTRIBUTE statement.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to every female that makes that statement.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
It's time to tell females to "DO or SHUT UP and GET AWAY FROM ME" when it comes to them ADVERTISING THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS (i.e., education, career, savings, etc.).
You don't need to hear any of that SELF INDUCED EGO BOOST IF she is NOT going to use it to CONTRIBUTE TO the relationship you are in or will be in with her.
[HOW TO RESPOND TO THAT STATEMENT]
When she begins to talk about HER ACCOMPLISHMENTS you need respond to her in a MATURE and LOGICAL manner such as:
"So how will any of YOUR accomplishments BENEFIT ME as a friend to you or BENEFIT US in a RELATIONSHIP"?
Say nothing else and wait for her response.
[WHY ASK THAT QUESTION]
Most females are NOT accustomed to hearing a question like that AND most females are NOT EXPECTED to apply those accomplishment towards YOU as a friend OR in a RELATIONSHIP with you.
[IF SHE "CLAIMS IT" THEN HAVE HER "USE IT" WHILE DATING AND FOR THE RELATIONSHIP]
If she has all of those accomplishments and qualities, then it's IMPERATIVE that she uses it to benefit the relationship and not just herself.
Most females will ADVERTISE what they have (i.e., bring to the table) and then REMOVE it from the table to USE LATER for themselves and REPLACE what has been removed with EXPECTATIONS of YOU PROVIDING the resources to sustain the relationship.
[WHY DO THEY DO IT IF THEY AREN'T GOING TO USE IT FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE RELATIONSHIP]
They are BEHAVING in an IMMATURE, CHILD-LIKE manner.
It's like a little child SHOWING OFF to the other children what their parents bought them. They will show it off but WILL NOT ALLOW any of the other children to use it.
[WHAT IF SHE ADVERTISES BUT DON'T APPLY IT TO THE RELATIONSHIP]
Get rid of her IMMEDIATELY. It's just that simply and needs NO FURTHER EXPLANATION.
[WHAT IF SHE SAYS THAT SHE NEEDS IT FOR OTHER RESPONSIBILITIES]
Then she is simply a SELFISH LIABILITY rather than a VALUABLE ASSET so get rid of her.
[CONCLUSION]
STOP ALLOWING these females to FLAUNT their ACCOMPLISHMENTS and ABILITIES if you aren't going to REQUIRE them to APPLY them TO YOU.
If you (males) choose to ASSUME the MAJORITY of the RESPONSIBILITIES in a relationship WITH A CAPABLE FEMALE that can CONTRIBUTE just as much as you, then BLAME NO ONE if it ends up in a DISASTER FOR YOU.
Class is dismissed.
I saw this comment on a female's post and had to place it here with my response.
Let's keep it related to american women (since HER comment was in reference to american women SCRAPING BY) but if you have anything to contribute that REFLECTS american or non-american females as well feel free to contribute.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ANY female that agrees with the female's comment about "scraping by" and "average maternal leave of 10.3 weeks".
This DOES NOT APPLY to mentally RETARDED females who are not capable of making MATURE, RATIONAL and RESPONSIBLE decisions when it comes to PLANNING her maternity situation.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Some females WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED or BE RESPONSIBLE so males need to be aware of these types and AVOID THEM COMPLETELY.
Males SHOULD NOT AGREE with this BITCHING about not having enough time off of work for MATERNAL PURPOSES. If females are whining, complaining or BITCHING about NOT having enough time off then she should PLAN HER LIFE in a more MATURE and RESPONSIBLE manner.
[DON'T WANT TO "SCRAPE BY"]
If you don't want to scrape by (which has to mean financially), then why not think and behave in a MORE MATURE, THOUGHTFUL and RESPONSIBLE manner. Here are my suggestions:
1. WORK FIRST. Get yourself a job and spend some time being financially responsible for yourself.
2. SACRIFICE. Live BELOW your means. Learn how to do without and I don't mean do without because YOU CAN'T HAVE. Learn how to do without EVEN THOUGH YOU CAN HAVE.
3. SAVE MONEY. Save for at least 5 years and stop spending your money JUST BECAUSE you can or JUST BECAUSE you see something on SALE. Remember that 100% off (no spending) saves far more money than 70% off and especially with you DON'T NEED IT as opposed to you WANTING IT.
4. STOP THE STUPID SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. YOU CONTROL getting pregnant and not the male so STOP allowing deadbeats, men already in a relationship, wealthy men or married men to EJACULATE INSIDE of you and then YOU USE his sperm to GET KNOCKED UP and want to BLAME HIM.
NOTE: Just because YOU are saving money DOES NOT MEAN you should expect some man to fill that void of you NOT SPENDING by having him buy it or spend money on you during that time.
[THE HUMAN POPULATION WILL NOT BECOME EXTINCT BECAUSE YOU DECIDE TO WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE BETTER PREPARED]
I know that YOUR EGO is SO BIG that you believe that YOU MUST REPRODUCE and AS SOON AS POSSIBLE or humanity is in danger of becoming extinct.
Believe this or not, THE WORLD CAN SURVIVE without another copy of you.
[WHAT'S YOUR HURRY]
Now here are JUST A FEW of the EXCEPTIONS as I see it:
1. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that you have a TERMINAL ILLNESS and YOU WILL DIE before the age of 25 and you want to have a child BEFORE you die
2. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that you will NOT be able to bear a child or children AFTER the age of 25
3. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that your mate is RAPIDLY becoming IMPOTENT and you better get KNOCKED UP before it's too late
4. You were told by the CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM that IF you DON'T HAVE a child by the time you are 25 then you will GO TO PRISON.
[AVOID ANY FEMALE THAT CONSTANTLY TALKS ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN OR STATES SHE WANTS TO BE A MOTHER AND SHE AND YOU IS NOT PREPARED]
If a female is SO DESPERATE or SO CONCERNED about having a child, DO NOT HAVE SEX with her because in most cases SHE WILL get knocked up by you or someone else and claim, "You Are The Father".
[CONCLUSION]
If you DON'T CHOOSE WISELY in your selection of a woman, the MAJORITY (if not all) of the mental and financial stress will be placed upon YOUR SHOULDERS.
THERE ARE WOMEN who PLAN PROPERLY to have, PLAN PROPERLY to financially contribute and PLAN PROPERLY to raise a family WITHOUT placing a man in an UNCOMFORTABLE or STRESSFUL financial position. Those are the types of women you should be interested in if you are interested in a HAPPY, HEALTHY and MINIMALLY STRESSFUL relationship.
As always, I can only provide you with information to consider. In the end, the choice to apply (or lack there of) and it's consequences will be yours.
I have always stated to females that if you don't like what I say about your inconsiderate mindset and inappropriate behavior then CHANGE YOUR MINDSET and BEHAVIOR or I will continue to say the things that I do.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to the females that DO NOT BEHAVE in this manner.
This DOES NOT APPLY to the females that are CAPTURED, HELD AGAINST THEIR WILL and FORCED TO PERFORM or BEHAVE in the manner they are told to.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I have MUCH RESPECT for MOST of the rappers out there trying to make it because of 3 basic things when it comes to females:
1. They say what's on their mind (although quite crude sometimes)
2. They tell it like they see it when it comes to a female's behavior (they are not politically correct when speaking)
3. Many don't conform to the EMASCULATION of males by this system JUST BECAUSE other males have done so
[I DON'T AGREE WITH ALL RAPPERS]
I believe that many of them are MISGUIDED which creates a SELF-DESTRUCTIVE and at times DISRESPECTFUL mindset and behavior.
I also believe that many of them are SIMPLY STUPID just as many of the guys (non-artists) that I talk about that will do stuff that THEY KNOW they should not be doing yet they do it anyway.
[LOOK HOW THEY DISRESPECT WOMEN IN THEIR VIDEOS]
A rapper CAN'T disrespect (as you state it) a woman in a video IF women would NOT BE IN those so-called DISRESPECTFUL videos.
IF they had RESPECT FOR SELF, they would ONLY be in those videos that would not be looked upon as so-called disrespectful.
[WHAT IS A DISRESPECTFUL VIDEO TO BEGIN WITH]
Many of you ENVIOUS females refer to ANYTHING as disrespectful IF YOU don't approve of it. Many of the so-called DISRESPECTFUL videos are simply doing what:
1) MOST OF YOU already do
2) WISH that YOU COULD DO or
3) WISH that you could STILL BE DOING but your AGE and/or BODY APPEARANCE is no longer marketable or desirable.
[TO THE WOMEN WHO ACCUSE THE RAPPERS OF DISRESPECTING WOMEN]
Don't get on the rapper's case. If you want to STOP the so-called DISRESPECTING of WOMEN in these videos, talk to the women that WILLINGLY VOLUNTEER or GET PAID to perform in those videos.
[CONCLUSION]
I don't have much to say about this but I will leave you with this final statement:
"Let's CONTINUE to support those rappers that SPEAK THE TRUTH".
I've read lots of these posts and lots of comments in my posts and it STILL APPEAR that many of you guys have NO SELF-CONTROL (too emotional and very little logic in your comments to females).
For whatever reason, you are MENTALLY FUCKED UP and IN NEED OF PROFESSIONAL HELP or IN DESPERATE NEED OF AN ORGASM (of any form) to RELIEVE YOUR STRESS.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to all males that behave in this manner.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
DUDE you can't act like you want her and then CLAIM she's a worthless piece of shit AFTER she does not want you or disagrees with you. Now HOW IMMATURE is that? If that's the case, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU for wanting her to begin with?
Sometimes you guys (those to whom this applies to) can give such VERY intelligent comments and responses but other times you can be SO STUPID, CRUEL and/or UNNECESSARILY VIOLENT VERBALLY in your comments.
[WHAT DO YOU MEAN I DO THE SAME THING]
I don't function on an emotional level and I don't LOOSELY call names. When I "label" not "call names", I do so BASED SOLELY upon that female (and even sometime male) response.
[EXAMPLES]
STUPID. When I use the label stupid, it's based upon something that they said or did that THEY KNOW BETTER or THEY KNOW THEY SHOULD NOT HAVE yet they chose to do it anyway.
BITCH. When I use the label bitch, it's based upon someone KNOWINGLY taking advantage of someone with NO INTENT of reciprocating.
HO. When I use the label ho, it's based upon someone EXPECTING compensation for the time or EXPECTING someone to pay their way in order to spend time with them (they are ho-ing their time).
IDIOT and MORON. When I use these terms, oh why am I trying to explain this one. If you don't ALREADY know what these mean then YOU ARE AN IDIOT or MORON and explaining this is meaningless because you WON'T UNDERSTAND anyway.
[REJECTION OR DISAGREEMENT]
YOU MUST learn how to handle rejection or disagreements with a female in a logical, mature and CIVIL manner. Here is MY SUGGESTION:
- REJECTION. If she IS NOT PERSONALLY interested in you and that is what you want then DO NOT ACCEPT her friendship COMPROMISE and move on. SHE IS NOT the only woman that is available and you should be focusing on someone that has a MUTUAL PERSONAL interest in getting to know you.
- DISAGREEMENT. If you can't engage in a conversation, debate, etc. WITHOUT getting upset and VERBALLY ABUSIVE because she don't agree with you then CEASE the interchange and move on.
[CONCLUSION]
NO FEMALE is worth getting angry or violent over. It's a waste of your time and energy.
Let me be the FIRST to OPENLY admit that I've BEEN THERE (in my distant past), DONE THAT (financially rescued females) and NEVER going to do it again because it's NOT WORTH the sacrifice.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to any male that feel the NEED to RESCUE a female from HER troubles THINKING or HOPING that she will START and REMAIN in a relationship with him afterwards.
This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are simply RAISED to RESCUE females just because they are females with LITTLE to NO EXPLANATION by her or NO EXPECTATIONS from her in return.
This DOES NOT APPLY to females that are FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE or females that RESOLVE their own problems by SACRIFICING just as they expect the male to do.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
MOST females that fuck up their lives (financially especially) KNOWS that there are males (like I used to be) that have been RAISED and SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED to VOLUNTARILY come to their rescue.
[THE PROGRAMMING IS SO GOOD THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO ASK]
All MOST females have to do is MENTION that they are having problems in THEIR LIFE and MOST males (if he has a personal, intimate interest in her) WILL VOLUNTEER HIS SERVICES (physical labor or financial assistance) to help her THINKING or HOPING it will BENEFIT HIM at a later time which in MOST CASES it does not.
[BEWARE OF THE "FRIEND" ZONE]
Whether she tells you or not, YOU WILL be a GOOD FRIEND once or after you begin HELPING her out of HER problems.
You may (not guaranteed) receive BENEFITS (a little pussy) now and then WHEN SHE needs something but in MOST CASES all she will do is SMILE and MAKE YOU AWARE of HER problem and SHE KNOWS you will be THERE FOR HER.
[YOU SHOULD "NEVER" FINANCIALLY HELP A FEMALE OUT OF DEBT]
The ONLY help you should GIVE a female that is in debt is VERBAL ADVICE on how to BETTER MANAGE her finances. Getting her out of debt sets a PRECEDENCE for ANY future debt problems SHE WILL AGAIN get herself into whether she gets into a relationship with you or not.
YOU WILL BE looked upon as ONE of her OPTIONS (if not the only) as HER financial SAVIOR.
[A QUESTION REGARDING MONEY WAS ASKED ME ABOUT IF MY WOMAN NEEDED FINANCIAL HELP]
I was asked the question, "What if my woman NEEDED $200 and did not have it, would I help her out"?
My response was, "There's a difference between NEED and WANT. I would NOT have a woman who's financial status or credit was SO BAD that she NEEDED and could not obtain $200.00 on her own AND I don't pay for pussy from my woman UNLESS she admits that she is a HO".
[SHE HAS TO WANT YOU FOR YOU AND NOT FOR YOU TO HELP FIX HER PROBLEMS]
NEVER try to FIX a female's problems thinking or hoping that she will be your LOVING, CONTRIBUTING, RESPONSIBLE mate afterwards because the ODDS ARE AGAINST you.
NEVER try to BUY your way into a relationship by helping her with or paying off HER bills because that is DEFINITELY no guarantee that she will REMAIN with you. As a matter of FACT, you have now FREED HER from her debt, FREED HER from her depression which is probably THE ONLY REASON she was WITH YOU to begin with.
[CONCLUSION]
THERE ARE responsible women out there that ARE NOT BROKEN or NOT LOOKING for you to FIX their problems because they fix their own problems.
MANY of you will NOT take my advice and proceed to fix them anyway. If so, blame no one (no even her) AFTER she gives you an EXCUSE as to why the two of you SHOULD NOT be together.
I don't believe in queens nor do I want one that THINKS SHE IS or WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE a queen in my personal life.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to the wealthy/rich but rather the EVERYDAY males and females which are the MAJORITY.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I found it quite interesting that NONE OF THE QUEENS in the audience would agree with these females sitting in the chair.
I wonder why?
[MY STATEMENT THAT I WILL NOT BACK AWAY FROM]
The EVERYDAY Joe has a BETTER CHANCE of getting a female that HE:
- Finds physically attractive
- Is MUTUALLY attracted physically to him
- Is MORE COOPERATIVE and ENJOYABLE to be with
- Is WILLING to contribute FAIRLY financially
- Will posses LESS of that TYPICAL BAD or ENTITLEMENT ATTITUDE
[THE GUY IN THE CHAIR]
That guy REFLECTS the average looking, everyday Joe and I'm telling you that YOU can get an attractive, cooperative woman INSTEAD of wasting your time tying to BUY or CONVINCE some wanna-be Queen to be cooperative, financially responsible and thoughtful of you.
[CONCLUSION]
It's your choice because there is a RAINBOW (brown, white, yellow, red and mixed) of options AVAILABLE if you would simply RID YOURSELF of that closed mindset and think outside of that HUE box you were probably RAISED to REMAIN IN.
Regardless of what comes out of their mouth, SOME FEMALES actually need EDUCATIONAL assistance because they DON'T APPLY LOGIC to what they say or do and SOME FEMALES simply need to be AVOIDED.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to anyone that thinks and behaves in this type of manner REGARDLESS of gender, religion, economic status, educational status or color.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Does anyone still wonder why I place NO VALUE on pussy and MORE VALUE on who (or what) is ATTACHED TO that pussy and HOW SHE BENEFITS ME?
Sooner or later (hopefully sooner rather than later) you guys better WISE UP to who you are dealing with DURING THAT GET TO KNOW PHASE.
[DON'T ALLOW THE MEDIA TO "MIND FUCK" YOU]
DOMESTIC ABUSE comes in 3 forms and especially when it's done to the male:
1. PHYSICALLY. This affects BOTH male and female.
2. EMOTIONALLY. This affects BOTH male and female.
3. FINANCIALLY. This PRIMARILY NEGATIVELY affects the male the MAJORITY of the time.
(SPECIAL NOTE: Yea I know that SOME female are negatively affected by this as well but UNTIL that negative impact happens to JUST AS MANY females as males, I am NOT CONCERNED about them. Once it begins to happen to just as many females, contact me and I will be on the FRONTLINE supporting you).
[THE IGNORANT AND MISGUIDED NEED TO BE EDUCATED]
When it comes to helping the NEEDY, I am all for it and I truly believe that MANY people need to be re-educated based upon their words and behaviors.
[THIS SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO PUNISH MALES FOR STUPID BEHAVIOR AND REWARD FEMALES FOR SCANDALOUS BEHAVIOR]
MALES need to be re-programmed (not just educated) because of how this system is NOW designed to PUNISH THEM for their STUPID and MISGUIDED behavior.
DECENT, CONSIDERATE, LOVING FEMALES need to be educated to help PREVENT THEM from making decisions that HURT THEMSELVES by choosing the WRONG TYPES of males and having children for them.
ENTITLEMENT MINDED HO's and INCONSIDERATE BITCHES need to be AVOIDED and ABANDONED (if you discover that you are in a relationship with one).
[IGNORANT AND MISGUIDED FEMALES MAKE POOR MATES]
We need to SHOW COMPASSION for these types of females but DO NOT get into a relationship with them and DEFINITELY DO NOT HAVE SEX with them.
They are to be EDUCATED ONLY.
[CONCLUSION]
All I can do is provided you FOOD FOR THOUGHT. In the end, YOU have to decide YOUR FATE.
REGARDLESS if you are the male or the female, you should ONLY get out of a relationship or marriage what YOU ACTUALLY put into it.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES NOT APPLY to sexual exchanges. If you are a PAY-PER-VIEW HO then get your money when you are giving up the pussy.
This DOES NOT APPLY to the foolish males out there because IT'S OBVIOUS that you will WILLINGLY select the "Bitch Version of Feminism".
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
I have NO PROBLEM with the OLD FASHIONED tradition BECAUSE the woman (back then NOT NOW) put in just as much WORK at home to keep the HOME CLEAN and FOOD PREPARED for HER MAN when he got home JUST AS the man did in order to keep that roof over THEIR heads, utilities functioning and food in the house in order for HER to prepare it.
[WHAT DOES OLD FASHION IS SUPPOSED TO MEAN TO HER]
DO NOT ALLOW these BITCH FEMINISTS to DEFINE what old fashioned behavior is FOR YOU when they DON'T COMPLY with how WOMEN of that day and time behaved.
UNDERSTAND CLEARLY that in the old fashion tradition THE WOMAN lived based upon HIS INCOME rather than HER DESIRES which mean HE DID NOT HAVE TO work himself to an EARLY grave to please her. SHE ACCEPTED whatever INCOME he made, LIVED IN ACCORDANCE with that and made the BEST of what was there WITHOUT additional expectations.
[DON'T EXPECT ANY MORE THAT WHAT YOU PUT IN]
If you put a CERTAIN PERCENTAGE into a relationship then I truly believe that you should GET THAT PERCENTAGE out of it whatever it was.
EXAMPLES:
1. If you put 30% financially into that relationship then you should receive 30% if the relationship dissolves
2. If you put 50% financially into that relationship then you should receive 50% if the relationship dissolves
3. If you put SEX into that relationship for a number of years then you should receive SEX for at least that SAME number of years if the relationship dissolves IF you expect to receive something BECAUSE you gave up the SEX
4. If you MOSTLY sat on your ass then you should GO ELSEWHERE and sit on your ass AGAIN if that relationship dissolves AND you find someone that will ALLOW you to do so
5. If you get into a relationship and ALLOW that person to live off of you and don't have the PARTICIPATE financially then EXPECT nothing FROM THEM and EXPECT MUCH to be TAKEN FROM YOU if the relationship dissolves
[TO THE HUSTLING HO'S AND BITCHES]
I already know you will probably say, "You CAN'T MEASURE a certain percentage of what one gives".
My response to all of you is BULLSHIT because you surely will measure HOW MUCH he will give during that relationship so why not measure what YOUR SCANDALOUS, LAZY, INCONSIDERATE asses put into it while he was in it?
[CONCLUSION]
If you want a REALationship, get yourself a REAL woman.
That is how I describe being RESPONSIBLE during a relationship and FAIR if the relationship dissolves.
What do any of you think?
