Let's keep it related to american women (since HER comment was in reference to american women SCRAPING BY) but if you have anything to contribute that REFLECTS american or non-american females as well feel free to contribute.
[DISCLAIMER]
This DOES APPLY to ANY female that agrees with the female's comment about "scraping by" and "average maternal leave of 10.3 weeks".
This DOES NOT APPLY to mentally RETARDED females who are not capable of making MATURE, RATIONAL and RESPONSIBLE decisions when it comes to PLANNING her maternity situation.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
Some females WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED or BE RESPONSIBLE so males need to be aware of these types and AVOID THEM COMPLETELY.
Males SHOULD NOT AGREE with this BITCHING about not having enough time off of work for MATERNAL PURPOSES. If females are whining, complaining or BITCHING about NOT having enough time off then she should PLAN HER LIFE in a more MATURE and RESPONSIBLE manner.
[DON'T WANT TO "SCRAPE BY"]
If you don't want to scrape by (which has to mean financially), then why not think and behave in a MORE MATURE, THOUGHTFUL and RESPONSIBLE manner. Here are my suggestions:
1. WORK FIRST. Get yourself a job and spend some time being financially responsible for yourself.
2. SACRIFICE. Live BELOW your means. Learn how to do without and I don't mean do without because YOU CAN'T HAVE. Learn how to do without EVEN THOUGH YOU CAN HAVE.
3. SAVE MONEY. Save for at least 5 years and stop spending your money JUST BECAUSE you can or JUST BECAUSE you see something on SALE. Remember that 100% off (no spending) saves far more money than 70% off and especially with you DON'T NEED IT as opposed to you WANTING IT.
4. STOP THE STUPID SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. YOU CONTROL getting pregnant and not the male so STOP allowing deadbeats, men already in a relationship, wealthy men or married men to EJACULATE INSIDE of you and then YOU USE his sperm to GET KNOCKED UP and want to BLAME HIM.
NOTE: Just because YOU are saving money DOES NOT MEAN you should expect some man to fill that void of you NOT SPENDING by having him buy it or spend money on you during that time.
[THE HUMAN POPULATION WILL NOT BECOME EXTINCT BECAUSE YOU DECIDE TO WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE BETTER PREPARED]
I know that YOUR EGO is SO BIG that you believe that YOU MUST REPRODUCE and AS SOON AS POSSIBLE or humanity is in danger of becoming extinct.
Believe this or not, THE WORLD CAN SURVIVE without another copy of you.
[WHAT'S YOUR HURRY]
Now here are JUST A FEW of the EXCEPTIONS as I see it:
1. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that you have a TERMINAL ILLNESS and YOU WILL DIE before the age of 25 and you want to have a child BEFORE you die
2. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that you will NOT be able to bear a child or children AFTER the age of 25
3. You were told by a STAFF of physicians that your mate is RAPIDLY becoming IMPOTENT and you better get KNOCKED UP before it's too late
4. You were told by the CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM that IF you DON'T HAVE a child by the time you are 25 then you will GO TO PRISON.
[AVOID ANY FEMALE THAT CONSTANTLY TALKS ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN OR STATES SHE WANTS TO BE A MOTHER AND SHE AND YOU IS NOT PREPARED]
If a female is SO DESPERATE or SO CONCERNED about having a child, DO NOT HAVE SEX with her because in most cases SHE WILL get knocked up by you or someone else and claim, "You Are The Father".
[CONCLUSION]
If you DON'T CHOOSE WISELY in your selection of a woman, the MAJORITY (if not all) of the mental and financial stress will be placed upon YOUR SHOULDERS.
THERE ARE WOMEN who PLAN PROPERLY to have, PLAN PROPERLY to financially contribute and PLAN PROPERLY to raise a family WITHOUT placing a man in an UNCOMFORTABLE or STRESSFUL financial position. Those are the types of women you should be interested in if you are interested in a HAPPY, HEALTHY and MINIMALLY STRESSFUL relationship.
As always, I can only provide you with information to consider. In the end, the choice to apply (or lack there of) and it's consequences will be yours.
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