IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED 101: "FixHerUppers: Are They Really Worth The Sacrifice"?

Let me be the FIRST to OPENLY admit that I've BEEN THERE (in my distant past), DONE THAT (financially rescued females) and NEVER going to do it again because it's NOT WORTH the sacrifice.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that feel the NEED to RESCUE a female from HER troubles THINKING or HOPING that she will START and REMAIN in a relationship with him afterwards.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are simply RAISED to RESCUE females just because they are females with LITTLE to NO EXPLANATION by her or NO EXPECTATIONS from her in return.

This DOES NOT APPLY to females that are FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE or females that RESOLVE their own problems by SACRIFICING just as they expect the male to do.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

MOST females that fuck up their lives (financially especially) KNOWS that there are males (like I used to be) that have been RAISED and SOCIALLY PROGRAMMED to VOLUNTARILY come to their rescue.

[THE PROGRAMMING IS SO GOOD THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO ASK]

All MOST females have to do is MENTION that they are having problems in THEIR LIFE and MOST males (if he has a personal, intimate interest in her) WILL VOLUNTEER HIS SERVICES (physical labor or financial assistance) to help her THINKING or HOPING it will BENEFIT HIM at a later time which in MOST CASES it does not.

[BEWARE OF THE "FRIEND" ZONE]

Whether she tells you or not, YOU WILL be a GOOD FRIEND once or after you begin HELPING her out of HER problems.

You may (not guaranteed) receive BENEFITS (a little pussy) now and then WHEN SHE needs something but in MOST CASES all she will do is SMILE and MAKE YOU AWARE of HER problem and SHE KNOWS you will be THERE FOR HER.

[YOU SHOULD "NEVER" FINANCIALLY HELP A FEMALE OUT OF DEBT]

The ONLY help you should GIVE a female that is in debt is VERBAL ADVICE on how to BETTER MANAGE her finances.  Getting her out of debt sets a PRECEDENCE for ANY future debt problems SHE WILL AGAIN get herself into whether she gets into a relationship with you or not.

YOU WILL BE looked upon as ONE of her OPTIONS (if not the only) as HER financial SAVIOR.

[A QUESTION REGARDING MONEY WAS ASKED ME ABOUT IF MY WOMAN NEEDED FINANCIAL HELP]

I was asked the question, "What if my woman NEEDED $200 and did not have it, would I help her out"?

My response was, "There's a difference between NEED and WANT.  I would NOT have a woman who's financial status or credit was SO BAD that she NEEDED and could not obtain $200.00 on her own AND I don't pay for pussy from my woman UNLESS she admits that she is a HO".

[SHE HAS TO WANT YOU FOR YOU AND NOT FOR YOU TO HELP FIX HER PROBLEMS]

NEVER try to FIX a female's problems thinking or hoping that she will be your LOVING, CONTRIBUTING, RESPONSIBLE mate afterwards because the ODDS ARE AGAINST you.

NEVER try to BUY your way into a relationship by helping her with or paying off HER bills because that is DEFINITELY no guarantee that she will REMAIN with you.  As a matter of FACT, you have now FREED HER from her debt, FREED HER from her depression which is probably THE ONLY REASON she was WITH YOU to begin with.

[CONCLUSION]

THERE ARE responsible women out there that ARE NOT BROKEN or NOT LOOKING for you to FIX their problems because they fix their own problems.

MANY of you will NOT take my advice and proceed to fix them anyway.  If so, blame no one (no even her) AFTER she gives you an EXCUSE as to why the two of you SHOULD NOT be together.