REALITY CHECK: "DIVORCE: The American Dream (For Her Not You)"

DIVORCE.  What's LOVE got to do with it?  LOVE ain't got shit do with DIVORCE.  As a matter of FACT, LOVE don't even show up during the divorce proceedings.

Why do I tell guys that want to commit to REQUIRE females to contribute EQUALLY in non-marital and marital relationships?  This image says it all.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to males who decided to get into a committed relationship and FOOLISHLY BELIEVE that IF it is dissolved that SHE will simply leave ONLY with what SHE BROUGHT into the relationship or what she FINANCIALLY contributed to that relationship while you were together.

This DOES NOT APPLY to IDIOTS, FOOLS and MORONS because you will not listen and take my advice anyway.

This DOES NOT APPLY to the MENTALLY CHALLENGED because you are INCAPABLE of making RATIONAL decisions sometimes and cases like this just may be ONE of those times IF you are even LUCK enough to get married.

This DOES NOT APPLY to dead beats, players, pretty boys or thugs because IN MOST CASES you are the one living off of her as opposed to her living off of you and in that case YOU SHOULD MARRY HER as soon as possible.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I laugh EVERY TIME when I hear guys say, "I'm am THE MAN and I WILL BE the PRIMARY PROVIDER of MY HOUSEHOLD and therefore I don't expect my woman (or wife) to CONTRIBUTE EQUALLY or CUT BACK on the things that SHE DESIRES (not need) in this relationship".

[QUESTION]

How many of you guys reading this still think and behave in that manner?  Come on now.  Don't be EMBARRASSED to say so.

[AT LEAST 60% OF YOU DELUSIONAL MARRIED GUYS ARE GOING TO END UP IN DIVORCE COURT BECAUSE OF YOUR POOR CHOICE IN A MATE]

It's a STASTICAL FACT that there is at least a 60% chance that YOU will be divorced at some point in time and especially if that is your first marriage and YOU WERE pressured into getting married OR you are under 30 years old and believe that YOUR MARRIAGE is immune from that happening.

[IF IT HAPPENS, YOU WILL LOSE (IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING OF VALUE) AT LEAST HALF OF THE ASSETS IN THAT MARRIAGE]

It does not matter if she didn't work a day during that marriage AND in most cases it does not matter if she did work during that marriage cause THE COURTS, in most cases, will GIVE HER at least half of the assets acquired.

[IF GIVING UP AT LEAST HALF (IF NOT MORE) IS WHAT COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN THEN WHY NOT HAVE HER CONTRIBUTE HALF OF THE INCOME TOWARDS THE MAINTENANCE OF THE RELATIONSHIP]

Not only is it the SENSIBLE thing to do but is is also the RESPONSIBLE thing to do IF she is going to be married to you and CLAIMS to be a responsible, considerate and loving (of you) person.

[DON'T PUT A LOT OF FAITH IN PRE-NUPS]

First of all, MOST Ho's and Bitches WILL NOT sign a pre-nup.  Secondly, even pre-nups have been overturned in court and the ones that win at that time are HER and the ATTORNEYS.

Most females find it to be INSULTING and DISRESPECTFUL to ask them to sign a pre-nup.  If you do so, MAKE SURE YOU SEEK LEGAL COUNSEL BEFORE you create and get her to sign (if she agrees to even signing) one.

[THE 2 MOST INSULTING REQUEST BY A MALE PRIOR TO GETTING MARRIED]

I can hear them now, "Why would you ask something like that of me?  Don't you trust me?  Don't you think that I love you"?

1.  Will you sign a pre-nup?

2.  Will you FINANCIALLY contribute equally in this marriage?

[CONCLUSION]

I can ONLY provide information for you to read and consider.  The final decision as to what you are going to do IS UP TO YOU.