CLASS IS IN SESSION: "What MOST of Them Bring to the Table is For Advertisement Purposes Only"

I'm sure we've all heard females say, "This is what I am bringing to the table so what is he bringing". 

Well, that statement is MORE of an IN YOUR FACE statement rather than WHAT SHE WILL CONTRIBUTE statement.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to every female that makes that statement.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

It's time to tell females to "DO or SHUT UP and GET AWAY FROM ME" when it comes to them ADVERTISING THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS (i.e., education, career, savings, etc.).

You don't need to hear any of that SELF INDUCED EGO BOOST IF she is NOT going to use it to CONTRIBUTE TO the relationship you are in or will be in with her.

[HOW TO RESPOND TO THAT STATEMENT]

When she begins to talk about HER ACCOMPLISHMENTS you need respond to her in a MATURE and LOGICAL manner such as:

"So how will any of YOUR accomplishments BENEFIT ME as a friend to you or BENEFIT US in a RELATIONSHIP"?

Say nothing else and wait for her response.

[WHY ASK THAT QUESTION]

Most females are NOT accustomed to hearing a question like that AND most females are NOT EXPECTED to apply those accomplishment towards YOU as a friend OR in a RELATIONSHIP with you.

[IF SHE "CLAIMS IT" THEN HAVE HER "USE IT" WHILE DATING AND FOR THE RELATIONSHIP]

If she has all of those accomplishments and qualities, then it's IMPERATIVE that she uses it to benefit the relationship and not just herself.

Most females will ADVERTISE what they have (i.e., bring to the table) and then REMOVE it from the table to USE LATER for themselves and REPLACE what has been removed with EXPECTATIONS of YOU PROVIDING the resources to sustain the relationship.

[WHY DO THEY DO IT IF THEY AREN'T GOING TO USE IT FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE RELATIONSHIP]

They are BEHAVING in an IMMATURE, CHILD-LIKE manner. 

It's like a little child SHOWING OFF to the other children what their parents bought them.  They will show it off but WILL NOT ALLOW any of the other children to use it.

[WHAT IF SHE ADVERTISES BUT DON'T APPLY IT TO THE RELATIONSHIP]

Get rid of her IMMEDIATELY.  It's just that simply and needs NO FURTHER EXPLANATION.

[WHAT IF SHE SAYS THAT SHE NEEDS IT FOR OTHER RESPONSIBILITIES]

Then she is simply a SELFISH LIABILITY rather than a VALUABLE ASSET so get rid of her.

[CONCLUSION]

STOP ALLOWING these females to FLAUNT their ACCOMPLISHMENTS and ABILITIES if you aren't going to REQUIRE them to APPLY them TO YOU.

If you (males) choose to ASSUME the MAJORITY of the RESPONSIBILITIES in a relationship WITH A CAPABLE FEMALE that can CONTRIBUTE just as much as you, then BLAME NO ONE if it ends up in a DISASTER FOR YOU.

Class is dismissed.