Wednesday, August 24, 2016

JAI DUVAL'S CONTINUING EDUCATION: "50+ CLUB: You're Never Too Old So Stop Waiting To Exhale. Get a Younger Woman and Live Your Life"

If you are 50+ AND have your life together (not living off someone) then THERE IS a (not some) younger woman out there for you. 
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[CLEAR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "NOT WANTING A WOMAN" AND "STILL CHASING WOMEN]
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If you are 50+ and still chasing women you are an idiot.
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I can understand a man 50+ opting out of the relationship scene because THERE ARE VERY FEW worthwhile women left and for many of them it's not worth the time SIFTING THROUGH ALL THE SHIT to find a woman of worth.
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Now if you are 50+ and still chasing women (i.e., PUSSY is your TOP PRIORITY)? Come on man, GROW YOUR STUPID ASS UP.
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[A YOUNGER WOMAN IS ALWAYS THE BEST OPTION FOR 50+ MAN]
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When I say "younger", I am not speaking about ANY younger woman. I speaking about a MATURE (which is virtually impossible in America) younger woman.
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AMERICA IS NOT the place to get a younger woman and THAT IS A FACT.
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[AMERICAN CULTURE REGARDING YOUNGER WOMAN OLDER MAN]
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The mindset of 99% of younger and older American women, when it comes to an older man, is "WHAT DO YOU HAVE and WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME"?
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The younger woman, older man relationship is a joke in the American mindset.
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[YOUNGER WOMEN OF OTHER CULTURES ARE RAISED TO RESPECT, LOVE AND WORK WITH AN OLDER MAN] 
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Don't confuse "other cultures" with "other countries" because MANY women (younger and older) have been POISONED with that Americanized mindset and are no better than American women.
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It's very important that you SCREEN THEM just as you would any other woman but your chances are STILL BETTER with a younger, non-American woman.
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[MOST OLDER WOMEN WILL NOT LIKE YOU BY-PASSING THEM FOR A YOUNGER WOMAN]
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Do not pay them any attention because when they were younger, they probably dated MULTIPLE older men or was in a non-marital or marital relationship with an older man (for whatever reasons or benefits) themselves.
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[CONCLUSION]
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The only thing that you should be WAITING ON is your paycheck and even then, you should know EXACTLY when it's going to arrive. That EXACT ARRIVAL DATE will not happen with a woman.

Monday, August 8, 2016

JAI DUVAL'S CONTINUING EDUCATION: "HER EMOTIONAL FUCK UP: Can Be Allowed Depending Upon What It Is (Or Was) AND WHAT SHE (Not You) Is Going To Do About It"

Let me first state that this particular class is for SMART men, MATURE men and men who are NOT MENTALLY FUBAR (Fucked Up Beyond Any Repair).
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[MEN NEED TO MAKE SURE THEIR DECISION TO NOT LOOK BACK IS NOT JUST AS EMOTIONALLY FOOLISH AS HER EMOTIONALLY FOOLISH DECISION WAS]
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For me, I would consider LOOKING BACK at a past relationship if it was a good one BEFORE the separation and DEPENDING UPON what happened.
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For other men, I realize that there is NO LOOKING BACK for whatever those reasons are. To them I say, make sure that what you REFUSE TO LOOK BACK AT is worse than what you are LOOKING FORWARD to.
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[IF SHE FUCKED UP IT'S HER RESPONSIBILITY TO CORRECT IT]
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It takes a MATURE woman to ADMIT her fuck up to that man and especially IF she separated from him and want him back.
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Men have to STOP feeling as if they need to do whatever it is they can to FIX a FUCK UP that the woman has caused. 
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It's HER RESPONSIBILITY to fix it not his and if she's UNABLE to fix it at that time AVOID HER until she can fix it BUT if she is UNWILLING to put forth the effort to fix it then NEVER communicate again.
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[IF SHE WANTS BACK INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP]
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Going back does not mean IMMEDIATE earning of one's trust and especially if it was because she went to another man.
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This is why CONSISTENT effort (to stay in), not just INITIAL effort (to get it) should be required.
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Let me ALSO STATE, the man is to NOT impose immature or unreasonable requirements or demands on her because she want to come back. He has to behave in a mature manner and not become immature with "pay back" in mind.
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[CAUSE AND EFFECT IS BOTH OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX IT]
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Now if HER FUCK UP was CAUSE (something he said or did) and EFFECT (something she emotionally did in reaction to it), then the responsibility is on BOTH of them to sit down like MATURE adults and decide 1) if they want to be together again and 2) agree to BOTH put forth the effort to fix and not repeat that fuck up again.
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[CONCLUSION]
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This is something that EACH man has to consider for himself.