Saturday, November 26, 2011

Never Allow Yourself To Become HER Convenience Store Victim

There is a tendency for MANY females to INTENTIONALLY want to treat the good man that has or had an interest in her as her personal CONVENIENCE STORE without any regards for how it impacts him physically, emotionally or financially. 

She will ALLOW him into her space and CONTROL him when CONVENIENT for her or when she's bored because the male that she is WILLINGLY catering to is treating her like SHIT and not giving her the kind of attention and respect that the good men give her. 


This DOES NOT APPLY to those males who LOVE being taken advantage of, stepped on and treated like a convenience store.
My STRONG position is, "Never allow yourself to be HER convenience store".  I've been there and done that many, many years ago and trust me when I say, "It only benefits HER and YOU WON'T get from her what you desire IF you have a personal interest in her so WHY WASTE YOUR TIME"?
There are males that will argue or have argued this point with me but I say if you want to be number one with her AND she does not want to be number one with you then you have two options:
- move on to someone that will have you as their number one, or
remain there FOOLishly HOPING she will change her mind which she won't.

Skeezers will APPEAR to treat you with respect ONLY IF they have no other options. Even then, they will only be with you UNTIL they find what they want and then they will DUMP YOU or place you in the WILL CALL bin.  They will NOT treat or give the decent, common, average Joe males the kind of attention or do for him like they do for males they are truly interested in.

Far too many males have SURRENDERED their DIGNITY and PRIDE for the benefit of UNWORTHY females.  They need to restore that which they have willingly surrendered in exchange for something THEY WILL NEVER RECEIVE.

Your pledge:
I AM HAPPY WITH ME and not weak, desperate or lonely,
- I WILL VALUE ME before any desire for female companionship,
- I WILL STRENGHTEN MYSELF mentally, physically and financially,
- I WILL DEMAND not expect to be treated FAIRLY if you want my time,
- I WILL NEVER ALLOW any female to DISRESPECT or DE-VALUE me again,
- I WILL LEAVE any female that attempts any abuse or violence against me or attempts to LURE ME into any form of abuse or domestic violence against her and will NEVER RETURN TO HER AGAIN.
THERE ARE decent, man-loving women that WILL VALUE YOU and not treat you as a convenience store.  STOP wasting your time with inconsiderate, MAN-USING females.


  1. My buddy turned me on to your blogs after I began complaining to him about my marriage. I have been reading your blogs for the past year and I felt I needed to proceed with eliminating what I should have not done 2 years ago. I just want you to know that I am proud to say I recently served that skeezing bitch of a wife of mine with a beautiful, pre-christmas gift which was divorce papers. Thank God we don't have any children. We've been married 2 years and that was 1 year, 11 months and 29 days too long. I married for all the wrong reasons, "her pressure, family pressure, married friends pressure, society's pressure, etc." and the sad part about all of this is that I was really happy, less stress in my life and more productive being single and unmarried. You now have a believer and follower for life my friend. Keep the wisdom flowing so hopefully others like myself will see their miserable relationship for what it is and get out of it. I will certainly share with others.

  2. Maria - God's ChildNovember 26, 2011 at 9:15 AM

    I just read Phil's comment and I have to say that you, J. Duval, will burn in hell for what you have done. No man is supposed to intercede between God's union.

  3. @Maria. Even if the entrance to hell was a 5 lane highway there are so many religious fanatics and hypocrites that SELECTIVELY use their religious doctrine when it's CONVENIENT and look the other way when it's INCONVENIENT ahead of me and already in hell that I would probably be given probation due to over crowded conditions and a long waiting line. Nice try anyway!!

  4. This is some good stuff. I got to it through your facebook posting and I love it. I have come across so many women that think I'm their convenience store. I get these calls all the time complaining about no good men yet they refuse to stay away from those types. My relationship ended, thank God, about 4 months ago and I feel so relieved to not have that holdiay pressure on me. We were together for 4 years and every year about this time I was so stressed out. I suggest last year that we should not spend so much time buying gifts and that sent her through the roof. The relationship was never the same after that although when I think back the relationship was never beneficial to me. It was all about her. Thank you for your wisdom and honesty. Keep the messages coming because I will be reading more of your material.

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  6. I swear you blogs are right on time. Chick wouldn't answer the phone twice when I called the other day, I sent her a text and told her to "have a good evening". Now she's calling and I ain't answering the phone! Now YOU can wait until I FEEL like speaking to you. Matter of fact, if we gotta play these games, I'm feeling like I don't even need to be bothered. Life doesn't revolve around you chick!