FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "If Only I Had The Opportunity to Educate Them"

Many times parents will attempt to raise their daughter(s) with the mindset of responsibility and courtesy and even though they do.... SHIT HAPPENS!!!

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to every home but DOES APPLY to most homes.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is NOT the 40's, 60's or 80's.  We are moving closer to the year 2014 and beyond.  It is so PATHETIC that nowadays females have access to:

- Education

- Employment

- Independence

- Business Opportunities, and

- More Protection and Support Than Males Do Today

Yet, SO MANY of them HAVE FUCKED UP and are STILL FUCKING UP their lives with irresponsible,  inappropriate behavior and POOR choices in males (i.e., WILLINGLY choosing the player, pretty boy, thug, man ALREADY in a relationship or married man AND getting KNOCKED UP by them).

[WHAT'S THE PRIMARY PROBLEM]

It begins at home and how MOST (not all) of them are raised by their RATCHET mom or SIMP dad.

[CAN THESE FUCKED UP FEMALES BE HELPED]

I really don't think so and DEFINITELY NOT by the decent, everyday Joe because she will simply FUCK OVER HIM just like the LOSERS SHE CHOSE have FUCKED OVER HER.

[WHAT CAN I "JOE" DO TO HELP THESE DAMAGED FEMALES]

The ONLY HELP that you can provide is "help yourself" by STAYING THE FUCK AWAY FROM THEM and leave them to THEIR fucked up situation.

DO NOT (let me repeat), DO NOT get emotional if she have a child or children and THINK, "If I help her and her child she will feel obligated to be in a relationship with me".

[THE PRETTIER THEY ARE THE MORE FUCKED UP THEY WILL BE]

PRETTY FEMALES are going to be the MOST FUCKED UP because they are the ones that will have been SPOILED (as a child) and PRESENTED the most game by the players, thugs, etc so THEIR EXPECTATIONS are going to be much higher.

[MANY OF THE LESSER ATTRACTIVE ONES AND MUD DUCKS ARE FUCKED UP TOO]

The ONLY difference is that THEIR EXPECTATIONS aren't as high because they KNOW and HAVE NOT BEEN offered as much as the pretty ones but MANY of them are JUST AS FUCKED UP as well.

[CONCLUSION]

If you DON'T HAVE the experience AND you DON'T read and learn from my posts, YOU WILL eventually ACCEPT one of these FUCKED UP females FOOLISHLY thinking you can change/repair her or hoping she will change FOR YOUR BETTER on her own.

Get yourself a MATURE, RESPONSIBLE woman and AVOID those females that are FUCKED UP and EXPECT YOU to NOW DO what the man (or men) that SHE ENJOYED FUCKING HER has REFUSED TO DO.

DO NOT BE SUCKERED into what a "so-called" REAL man is supposed to do FOR A WOMAN IN NEED because once you ALLOW someone like that into your life (my friends), YOU ARE FUCKED!!!!!

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: How To Recognize and Avoid an Immature Attack During a Discussion with a STUPID Female

MOST females will NEVER ADMIT to attempting to USE some information you give them in an attempt to DIVERT from a discussion when they don't have any LEGITIMATE contribution to make OR to use that UNRELATED information to ATTACK YOU. 

Usually she will become DEFENSIVE and ask for UNRELATED information from you in an ATTEMPT to USE IT in a FOOLISH and STUPID attempt to ATTACK YOU.
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This ONLY APPLY to females that will attempt to do this.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

MANY females are accustomed to behaving in this manner (being NOSY or curious as many put it) because TOO MANY males simply comply with their NOSY request WITHOUT QUESTIONING their reason for asking such. 

Here is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of what I am talking about AS WELL AS how I responded to her.

[THE COMMENTS]

These comments are from one of my postings and my point of bringing this out is to encourage males to LEARN how to be aware of how a female will attempt to USE UNRELATED information to eventually come back at you with a STUPID comment.

(Her Name Removed) If you don't mind my asking, and out of pure curiosity, how old are you?

(Jai Duval) My age or my photo does not matter but for some odd reason I get both of those questions from STUPID women only.

Curiosity does not warrant information being given which is how I encourage males to think.

Curiosity without a valid need is typically used by black females to simply find a reason to ATTACK a man with something STUPID.

(Her Name Removed) I didn't ask for a photo but an age, which i gave my reason being curiosity, NOT to say something stupid, try to view each woman you encounter on the basis of their interaction with you not on some prior experience.

You are constantly defensive as though you expect every black female to attack you, and I say this without any malice... relax

My approach is not attackive, or if it is, it wasn't intentional, i inquire so that i gain a full understanding. I also tend to view things from unusual angles, as that is life, one explanation doesn't tell the full story

You don't have to reveal anything that makes you uncomfortable

Conversation does not have to be a battle, disagreement is not war, different perspectives promote growth

Enjoy the rest of your night

(Moises S. Salute) Orrrrrrrr his age had nothing to do with the subject at hand

(Jai Duval) NOTHING that I reveal or that is about me makes me uncomfortable. I simply DO NOT cater to the request of NOSY (i.e., curious) people. If someone wants information about me, I will give it ONLY if it BENEFITS ME and this is what I encourage other males to do when females come at them with CURIOSITY.

My point in NOT giving UNRELATED information is to show how MEANINGLESS it is to waste time giving that out. We need to focus on the point at hand as opposed to simply being CURIOUS and trust me when I say that "CURIOUSITY (by a STUPID female) is for a particular reason that many of them choose not to state UNTIL they BELIEVE they have something that they can RESPOND with AGAINST YOU after receiving that information". 

Again, their RESPONSE is usually in the IMMATURE "gotcha" response so I don't give ANY OF THEM the opportunity to come at me with such IMMATURE and STUPID responses.

The TRUE defensiveness is in the person that is CURIOUS for no legitimate reason which is really just being NOSY and I don't cater to a NOSY person's request and this is what I'm attempting to get other males to do.

I want you to enjoy your day. 

[CONCLUSION]

Part of what I will be attempting to do in my Fall 2013 classes is encourage males to STAY ON POINT and STOP ALLOWING females to BAIT them into USELESS or MEANINGLESS discussions when they (the female) realize what you are saying makes sense and what she tried to say is SENSELESS.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Is It Really HER Choice or THEIR Rejection of Her"

This will be presented in one of my Fall 2013 classes so we can go into this in detail but until then but PLEASE FEEL FREE to provide your comment here if you wish.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Stop Arguing or Debating Fairness and Responsibility with Her"

Males have to STOP this NONSENSE of constantly arguing or debating why a MENTALLY SANE and PHYSICALLY CAPABLE female should be FAIR-MINDED with him and RESPONSIBLE for herself.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any and all females REGARDLESS of race, religion, education and economic status that REFUSE to be fair-minded and responsible and ESPECIALLY the WORKING FEMALE.

This DOES NOT APPLY to the MENTALLY RETARDED or PHYSICALLY HANDICAPPED female.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The time for FRUSTRATING, MEANINGLESS and ENDLESS arguing or debating IS OVER. 

Either females IMMEDIATELY start behaving in a fair-minded and responsible (for self) manner towards you or it's time for you to ABANDON HER.

[CONCLUSION]

Choose one "YOUR DIGNITY, SELF RESPECT and RESPECTFUL TREATMENT to you" or "HER CONTINUAL DISREGARD, DEVALUING and DISRESPECT of you".

So what is it going to be?

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "This is Why I Don't Waste My Time with These Types"

You males can "like", "listen to" or "send" these types of females all of the "feel good, uplifting quotes (for HER BENEFIT of course)" that you want.

[QUESTION]

If these females are so STRONG, GREAT, INTELLIGENT, SENSITIVE and CONSIDERATE (obviously NOT when it comes to you), then why do they "sit on their asses" and NOT initiate contact, put forth continual effort or pay their own way when SPENDING TIME getting to know a DECENT male like yourself?

[VERY SIMPLE ANSWER]

They don't value you.  They value what they can get from you.

[BOTTOM LINE]

They don't value you because YOU have been socially programmed and raised to NOT value yourself.  If you valued you, you would NOT try to buy your time (i.e., pay her way) in order to spend time with her getting to know her.

[CONCLUSION]

I am ALWAYS looking for males that WANT TO RESTORE their value and dignity as opposed to BUY TIME in order to SPEND TIME with a female.

Leave the WORKING DEADBEATS (won't pay their own way) alone. 

THERE ARE WORKING WOMEN that are responsible and NOT DEADBEATS that will RESPECT you, BE CONSIDERATE of you and PAY THEIR OWN WAY.  These WOMEN may be difficult to find but WELL WORTH the wait rather than wasting time with DEADBEATS.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Tired of Kissing Ass but Just Don't Know What Else To Do"?

So many males have been RAISED TO KISS ASS to a point that THEY BELIEVE that is the ONLY way they are supposed to behave in order to get a female's ATTENTION or COMPANIONSHIP.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to QUALITY women who are responsible for themselves (i.e., pay their own way), considerate of a man's own responsibilities and is respectful to others.

[FACT]

Believe it or not, THERE ARE "responsible" women that will respect you and DO NOT want you to kiss their ass but rather just be respectful to her and others AS WELL AS responsible for yourself.

[WARNING]

THIS POST WILL irritate and offend females that are Ho's, Bitches, Ratchets, Deadbeats, Hood Rats, Skeezers to a point that THEY WILL call me "an asshole", "woman hater", "bitter", "idiot", "stupid", etc because that is simply how they think and I understand what SELFISHNESS and STUPIDITY is so those accusations do not offend me.

[CONCLUSION]

You can CONTINUE to KISS ASS or come to MY class and FREE YOUR MIND so that you will STOP that nonsense and spend time with QUALITY women.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Are You Ready for the Fall 2013 Class Sessions"?