TO THE SELFISH, INCONSIDERATE, SCANDDALOUS, SKEEZING FEMALES, feel free to bring out YOUR BAD ATTITUDE on me. I am here to "Attempt To Inform and Encourage The Good Men to Avoid YOU". Feel free to place your comments below. I will excuse all typos and grammatical errors since I know MOST of you CAN'T control your emotions and type CORRECTLY at the same time (LOL). I am quite sure the SENSIBLE, RESPONSIBLE WOMEN will understand that I am attempting to get the Good Men to see the QUALITY in them as opposed to the CORRUPTION in you.
This blog applies ONLY to those females that have IGNORED, DUMPED or DE-VALUED Good Men in the past as well as TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF their TIME, RESOURCES or FINANCES and now think these men are WEAK or STUPID enough to allow them back into THEIR personal life.
PSA (Public Service Announcement)
It's time for Good Men to stop picking up these BANGED UP, KNOCKED UP and TOSSED OUT party girls. Time to start sending them a message, "You didn't want us then, we don't want you now".
THERE ARE RESPONSIBLE women out there that have raised and are raising THEIR child(ren) without expecting financial support from males who AREN'T the father. They are seeking COMPANIONSHIP, WILL respect you and DON'T want you to financially support them. Now those are STRONG, INDEPENDENT women and the types you should be attempting to develop a relationship with.
Why would you SHARE YOUR PROSPERITY and comforts that YOU sacrificed and worked hard for with someone like this who DID NOT VALUE YOU, IGNORED YOU then went off and PARTIED with and FREELY GAVE UP THE BOOTY to other men in the past and now want YOU to be FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE for the IRRESPONSIBLE FUN she had WITHOUT YOU? Does she really think you are that STUPID, DESPERATE or WEAK?
YOU ARE NOT responsible for her or that man's (or those men's) child or children. SHE needs to serve as an EXAMPLE to all the other females out there that has NOT yet put themselves in a situation like her and choose to OVERLOOK YOU. The message to these types, "WE ARE NOT GOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU OR THE RESULTS OF YOUR POOR CHOICES AND IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR". This is no secret and is not rocket science to know raising a child ALONE is hard.
If women are SUPPOSED to be so intelligent, strong and independent then why do they do something STUPID like bring a child into this world ALONE IF they can't INDIVIDUALLY AFFORD to support that child with the proper TIME and FINANCES? Why can't they wait until they are in a healthy relationship with a man that WANTS to have, WILLING and ABLE to mutually (not solely) participate in supporting a family? The answer is very simple. They do it out of SELFISHNESS, STUPIDITY or a SCANDALOUS attempt to trap the man (they should not be with) to be with her with NO CONCERN for how it's going to negatively impact the child. It's ALMOST NEVER about the child for if it were so, she would display some INTELLIGENCE and develop a healthy relationship before doing so. It's just that simple.
Am I saying ALL FEMALES reflect this selfish and stupid behavior? Absolutely not. There are instances where 1) She may have been in a mutually loving and caring marital or non-marital relationship and UNFORTUNATELY the GOOD MAN died, 2) She is MENTALLY INCAPABLE of making rational decisions and 3) She was TAKEN against her will, RAPED and FORCED to conceive, REMAIN pregnant and GIVE BIRTH. Notice I said GOOD MAN died and not, "Abuser, Player, Baller, Thug, Bad Boy or Pretty Boy" died because if that was the case then SHE made a poor decision to begin with.
Be RESPECTFUL towards her. Now respect has notihg to do with FINANCE or SERVITUDE. You should ONLY give her CONSTRUCTIVE and PRODUCTIVE advice towards a better life in raising her child. DO NOT allow her and her package to MOVE IN with you NO MATTER how much SEX she may attempt to give you or trick you into believing you are going to get. Remember, these types are RAISED with to MANIPULATE through the ILLUSION of you being constantly satisfied SEXUALLY. You SHOULD NOT be giving her recreational information, inviting her out to parties, etc. cause that is what got her where she is today. NEVER ALLOW some female from your past that's rejected you to come into YOUR life with HER responsibilities and disrupt YOUR comfortable lifestyle. The BEST that she should be is a PLATONIC friend to spend LIMITED time with when YOU (not her) have free time to kill. A female in this condition should NEVER dictate what YOU do. Let me repeat it, NEVER dictate what YOU do. If she made the so-called mistake(s) then let HER fix HER mistakes.
I know in RARE cases, you will encounter an attractive or very attractive female that's been BANGED OUT, KNOCKED UP and FORCED into compromising HER values due to her dismal situation. DO NOT allow yourself to get caught up in the LOOK or the TEMPORARY catering she will do to get you to SUPPORT her and her child(ren). ADVICE is the only thing you should be giving a female that comes to you or expects you to HELP (as they like to say it) her in her times of NEED.