FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Does She Really Think (or Know) She Can Come Back to You Whenever She Wants To"?

How many of you guys have been LOOKED AT and simply PASSED OVER because SHE FELT that YOU were NOT GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH or DID NOT HAVE THE ABILITY (or potential ability) to PROVIDE ENOUGH to satisfy her?

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all of you males out there that have been passed over BUT HAVE NOT YET been revisited by a NOW DOWN AND OUT female that passed you over.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Learn from those of US that had to learn the HARD WAY and are NOW attempting to provide you with WISDOM and EXPERIENCE so that you will NOT make the same STUPID mistakes MANY OF US made in our past.

[DISAPPOINTING and DAMAGING RESULTS]

If you REFUSE to learn from me and others then accept the consequences of your INEXPERIENCED choices and BLAME NO ONE if the outcome is disappointing and/or damaging TO YOU.

[CONCLUSION]

Move FORWARD with your life and DO NOT LOOK BACK AT HER.  There are QUALITY WOMEN ahead of you so why LOOK BACK at someone with FINANCIAL BURDENS or is now a PACKAGED DEAL that did not want you in the past.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Know How a Female Thinks BEFORE You Have Sex with Her"

This is a PERFECT example of "selfish" and "irrational" thinking that will WASTE a man's time and potentially RUIN his life IF he is STUPID enough.

My posts are intended to REPROGRAM males and enlighten them as to what NOT to get involved with when it comes to female interaction.

[CONCLUSION]

If you DO NOT APPLY logic and wisdom, YOU stand a greater chance of RUINING your life while some THOUGHTLESS, INCONSIDERATE female BENEFITS from your STUPID decisions and behavior.

Is that how you want YOUR LIFE (not her's) to end up?

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Stop Blaming the Male for Her Stupid Choice"

Males need to start holding females RESPONSIBLE and ACCOUNTABLE for their decision to get KNOCKED UP by some deadbeat INSTEAD of putting the fault on the deadbeat.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all females that are out there whining, bitching, complaining or BLAMING some deadbeat for her struggling situation as a parent.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I have NO PITY for females in a position like that because THEY ENJOYED the pleasure of fucking him so THEY need to ACCEPT the pain and struggle of ALL the responsibilities of being a parent WITHOUT HIM.

[CONCLUSION]

A RESPONSIBLE (not the bullshit term "real") and PROUD mother will NOT look for some other man to ASSUME the RESPONSIBILITIES of HER FUCK UP by helping support her and SOME OTHER MAN'S child.  SHE CAN be a companion to the other man WITHOUT being a DEADBEAT herself and a FINANCIAL liability to him.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Sucker Once Shame On Her. Sucker Twice Shame On You"

Blame NO ONE but yourself IF you REPEAT that same STUPID behavior and GET BURNED again.

[DEFINITION]

STUPID. Doing something that YOU KNOW you should not be doing yet YOU DO it anyway.

[END OF DEFINITION]

It's so interesting how males are treated so differently from females when EITHER OF THEM get BURNED (i.e., abused or taken advantage of) when interacting with the opposite sex.

MALE (gets burned).  Be quite about it.  Don't let anyone else know what happened to you.  Take it like a man because that's part of life.

FEMALE (gets burned).  Oh my God STOP everything.  She has access to all kinds of FEMALE support groups.  She even gets support from MALE support groups.  She has to be heard to INFORM and PROTECT other females from having that happen to them.  Get her on STEVE HARVEY, OPRAH and DR. PHIL to let all women know about those ABUSIVE males.  Go to COUNSELING sessions to deal with it to help her AVOID those situations again.

[CONCLUSION]

Most of us will have been involved in one or more of these situations. The key is NOT that it happened but rather YOU REPEATED it again and again.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Being a Cheap, Selfish, Asshole Benefits You Not Her"

Females have ALWAYS called me a "cheap, selfish, asshole" that will NEVER have a good woman in my life.

My response has and will always been, "My cheap, selfish, asshole personality will ATTRACT responsible, considerate women and IRRITATE and RUN AWAY Pay-Per-View Ho's and Entitlement Minded Bitches".

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

THIS IS about encouraging males to think and do for THEIR BENEFIT. They should obtain marketable skills, work hard and earn a good living and then:

- REWARD themselves

- BE GOOD to themselves

- SPEND their HARD EARNED MONEY on themselves

- SPEND TIME ONLY with women that PAY THEIR OWN WAY

- SPEND TIME ONLY with women that are RESPONSIBLE for themselves

- BUY THINGS that YOU want that will PLEASE YOU and NOT TO PLEASE some female

- TRAVEL to other places WITHOUT bringing a FINANCIAL LIABILITY with you BECAUSE you will ALWAYS have access to OTHER FEMALES once you get where you are going.

- USE PROTECTION when engaging in SEXUAL activity and DO NOT EJACULATE inside of a female or YOUR LIFE WILL become LIMITED and MISERABLE

[WHAT ABOUT THE WOMAN]

When MOST women are DEVELOPING or HAVE PRODUCED a lifestyle that will REWARD THEM GREATLY (or so they think), they WILL NOT have time for you UNLESS you directly contribute to what will EVENTUALLY BENEFIT HER (not you).

[QUESTION]

If she can think and behave that way KNOWING or at least BELIEVING she can ALWAYS get a man but CANNOT ALWAYS get opportunity, WHY CAN'T or WON'T you MALES think the same way?

[FACT]

IF you MAINTAIN a HEALTHY physical, mental and financial state, you WILL ALWAYS have the option to get companionship.

[WHY IS THAT SO]

MOST females are ALWAYS FUCKING their lives up either through:

- THEIR IRRESPONSIBLE spending of money and getting OVER-EXTENDED FINANCIALLY as well as RUINING THEIR CREDIT

- GETTING KNOCKED UP by DEADBEATS then looking for a DECENT man (like you) for companionship afterwards, or

- THEIR POOR selection of males that usually DUMP THEM after they get what they want OR get them and put them in HIS ROTATION while they STUPIDLY try to COMPETE for him.

[YOU "NEED" TO SPEND MONEY ON A WOMAN]

Good.  I have NO PROBLEM with that attitude.  Now go and find YOUR grand-mother, MOTHER, aunt or any other WOMAN that CARED for you, WORKED HARD to make life better for you, SACRIFICED her joys for you and spend as much MONEY that is reasonable WITHOUT getting yourself in a financial bind on ONE of SOME of them.

Spend YOUR MONEY on someone who has EARNED THE RIGHT to have it spent on them.

[CONCLUSION]

Live your life for you and if you come in contact with a woman that is NOT a Pay-Per-View Ho or Entitlement Minded Bitch cherish and love her because THEY ARE truly RARE.

REALITY CHECK: "Evolution of the Female"

Whether you ACCEPT REALITY or REMAIN IN DENIAL, this is what has occurred to the female over time.  You have a 1 out of 4 chance of finding a Loving and Cooperative Partner IF you are seeking a relationship.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to every female you come in contact with UNLESS she is physically dead.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

FEMALES BEGAN as unselfish, loving, cooperative partners but has evolved into 4 personalities today:

1.  Pay-Per-View Ho

2.  Scandalous and Inconsiderate Bitch

3.  Entitlement Minded Working Woman

4.  Loving and Cooperative Partner

DO NOT ASSUME that she is a Loving and Cooperative Partner.  She has to PROVE THROUGH HER BEHAVIOR over an EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME that she is:

1.  Beneficial (to you),

2.  Loving (to you), and

3.  Cooperative (with you).

Then and ONLY then should she be LOOKED UPON AS someone WORTHY of entering into your personal and private life.

[CONCLUSION]

Take my advice ONLY IF you are seeking a Loving and Cooperative Partner.  Otherwise, ACCEPT ANY "THING" that comes across your path.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: "Have You Surrendered Your Balls, Backbone, Dignity and Finances for a Female's Attention or Companionship"

Have you been MIND FUCKED and don't even know it because so many males have WILLINGLY surrendered their time, resources and finances SIMPLY to please a female with little to no reciprocation in return.

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to all males that ARE NOT receiving in an equitable amount in the same manner that HE IS GIVING.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This had to be posted because I talked to a buddy of mine this weekend that FINALLY came clean about his "one-sided" relationship.  He was GIVING a lot, she was RECEIVING a lot and she was GIVING only that which was necessary to get him to CONTINUE GIVING TO HER.

I knew that he was in trouble 3 years ago when she saw my 2 books in his apartment, read ONLY the first chapter and DEMANDED that he throw them away.

[HIS SITUATION TODAY]

Fast forward 3 years after getting rid of my books, he is stressed, financially struggling and she had him to GET RID OF any of his friends (male and females) that she did not like AND NOW he is ready to listen to me.

Fortunately there are NO CHILDREN between the two of them and there are only HER 2 children.

[MY RECOMMENDATION TO HIM]

1.  Take time to EXAMINE what you did and why you did it.

2.  ACCEPT the fact that YOU CHOSE to get into that situation.

3.  DON'T BLAME her for what YOU CHOSE to willingly do or you will NEVER correct yourself.

4.  Take back CONTROL over YOUR LIFE.

5.  DUMP THAT thoughtless, entitlement minded, inconsiderate, selfish BITCH and NEVER GO BACK to her.

6.  DON'T BE CONCERNED about the FATE of HER CHILDREN because THEY ARE NOT your responsibility.

7.  TAKE the APPROPRIATE MEASURES to NEVER REPEAT that behavior again.

[CONCLUSION]

Life is about choices so choose wisely when selecting a female to spend time with OR as a companion OR be prepared to pay a price for not choosing wisely.