Friday, June 28, 2013

MOST of the Young Women You Meet Will Be a Reflection of Their Mothers

I just love how the MOTHER GETS the PRAISE when things go good with the child or children and the FATHER GETS the BLAME when things go bad. So why can't the mother be blamed IF things go bad?
 
 
[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to every situation where the father IS NOT in the home and GET BLAMED for shit he had NO CONTROL OVER.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

The mother, whether or not the father is living with them, is the PRIMARY influence of how her daughter or daughters BEHAVES when interacting with males and especially a man that has a personal interest in her.

[GOOD MOTHERS]

They teach their daughter responsibility, unselfishness and consideration:

1. Responsibility. I am capable of taking care of and supporting myself so I will do such. I am responsible for me and will not be a financial liability or burden.

2. Unselfishness. It's not just about me and what I want. I will be understanding and I will sacrifice sometimes (for the good) and I must give if I expect to receive.

3. Consideration. Since I expect him to be thoughtful of my time and other obligations, I will be thoughtful of his time and obligations as well.

4. Fair. I will expect no more from someone than I give to someone.

[RATCHET MOTHERS]

They teach their daughter one rule and one rule only:

1. It's about you so get what you can anyway that you can while you can.

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

1. Just as there are deadbeat, no good males (that your mama decided to fuck), there are responsible, good males (that your mama avoided OR ran tricks on knowing that she was not going to fuck) so let's give credit where credit is due which is YOUR MAMA'S POOR CHOICE IN MEN.

2. Since your father (or who she CLAIMS is your father) was never there or not there enough, one has to LOGICALLY CONCLUDE that your primary influence was YOUR MAMA.

3. IF you are having developmental problems and IF your father was not there, I suggest that you go to your mama and ask, "Why mama? Why would you FUCK a DEADBEAT and place me in this dysfunctional situation"?

[AM I PLACING ALL THE BLAME ON THE MOTHER]

Of course not. I want to be FAIR with this. I want to ONLY give the mother the SAME percentage of BLAME that you give PRAISE. So when it goes good and IF you give her 80, 90 100% of the praise then it's only FAIR that when it goes bad that you should give her that same percentage of blame.

[CONCLUSION]

The next time you come in contact with some irresponsible, selfish, inconsiderate and unfair female and think, "Man she is really FUCKED UP", don't think about where was the father. Think about:

"What did her mama PUT IN HER HEAD for her to end up that way".

Class is dismissed.

Good Men Finish Last and Stupid Men Don't Even Finish

I will never stop saying it and as long as you (the Good Man, Nice Guy) continue to date Pay-Per-View Ho's you will NEVER win a friendship or a loving relationship with any of those Ho's.


[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to females who pay for themselves when in your company.

This DOES NOT APPLY to male that feel the need to or love spending their money on Pay-Per-View Ho's.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males that are lonely, desperate or that have a very LOW LEVEL of self-esteem because I understand your need to pay.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Males that feel the NEED to spend money on Pay-Per-View Ho's in order to spend time with them SHOULD NOT have any expectations beyond the time purchased with these Ho's.  After the date is over and the Ho is gone, consider that to be THE END until the next BUSINESS TRANSACTION (you paying "again" to spend time with her) occurs because that Ho will simply move on to the next male that is willing to pay the ADMISSION FEE.

[PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S]

PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S are ONLY LOYAL to those who pay.  When your MONEY RUNS OUT, they are done and will move on to the next guys that will pay.

Females that EXPECT you to spend YOUR money and pay for the date IF you have any intent on spending time with them.  This is not a SEXUAL situation but simply a TIME SPENT situation.  Sex WILL NOT OCCUR unless the Ho find you attractive AND you've spent an acceptable amount of money on her.

If she has a job AND expects you to pay for her then SHE IS a Pay-Per-View Ho.  I would say that at least 90% OF THE FEMALES you will encounter ARE PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S because that is how they have been raised or socially conditioned to think and behave. 

They SELL THEIR TIME spent with you.

[ARE ALL FEMALES PAY-PER-VIEW HO'S]

ABSOLUTELY NOT.  There exist a SMALL group of responsible, respectable and considerate women that DO PAY their own way and they do so WITHOUT ATTITUDE towards you AND will enjoy their time spent with you.
 
[HOW DO I TELL IF SHE IS NOT A PAY-PER-VIEW HO]

If ANY female wants to argue this, simply go out on dates with her and IF she pays her own way CONTINUOUSLY then she IS NOT a Pay-Per-View Ho.  It's just that simple.

[WHAT ABOUT "THE MAN IS SUPPOSED TO PAY"?]

Yes you are THE MAN but you are NOT HER MAN.  You are only DATING HER and trying to find out IF she is an ASSET (not liability) and WORTHY enough for you to WANT TO be her man.

I've heard this bullshit before and I have to say "yes" IF you are still living in the 50's and 60's when females WERE NOT ALLOWED to work and earn a living.  In today's time, THANKS TO THE FEMINIST MOVEMENT, they work and earn a living just like you so why are you males still thinking and behaving as if it's the 50's and 60's.

[WHAT DO THEY DO WITH THEIR MONEY]

1.  They SAVE their money

2.  They spend their money on themselves

3.  They pay their own way with guys THEY LIKE and VALUE (which obviously is not you IF you have to spend your money on her)

4.  They spend their money on guys THEY LIKE and VALUE (which "again" obviously is not you IF you have to spend your money on her)

[SEEMS AS IF IT'S YOU WITH THE ISSUE JAI DUVAL]

Not at all because I don't waste my time or spend my money on Pay-Per-View Ho's.  I've been there, done that and NOT doing it again.

I post this because of little bitches like you that DON'T LISTEN to what men BEFORE YOU have gone through and then you COMPLAIN later about how you were USED.

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

If you don't take my advice and AVOID Pay-Per-View Ho's then don't blame those Ho's IF:

1.  Your money run out and so do they, or

2.  They just decide to move on because they have found a BIGGER spender.

[CONCLUSION]

I'm sure that at least half of you guys reading this will CONTINUE to foolishly and hopelessly spend your money and justify it in some manner.  I have no problem with that since IT'S YOUR MONEY.

All I'm saying is STOP the whining, complaining, bitching and BLAMING Ho's for something that YOU CHOOSE to do.

Class is dismissed.

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

JAI DUVAL PRESENTS: The Great Kings and Queens of America

It is difficult enough just being an EVERYDAY person trying to get or  hold down a job so I find it quite amusing when EVERYDAY people with NO ROYALTY EXPERIENCE or NO HIGH LEVEL LEADERSHIP SKILLS will PROMOTE themselves to such a HIGH LEVEL position of responsibility as a King or Queen.



[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to everyone male and female WANNA-BE king or queen.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

Why can't people simply ACCEPT themselves to be NO MORE or NO LESS than the rest of us EVERYDAY, (hopefully) WORKING people? 

I laugh to myself when I hear males talk about looking for their queen. I would think that it would be MORE SENSIBLE to look for a partner that will WORK WITH YOU as opposed to a queen that EXPECTS you to do work for her.

[WHO CAN CLAIM THE TITLE]

KING:

- IF you reign over a country you ARE A KING 

- IF your first name is King you can be CALLED KING 
- IF your last name is King you can be CALLED A KING (ex: Martin Luther, Don or Rodney)

Otherwise, I'm going to call you DUDE.

QUEEN:

- IF you reign over a country or married to a King you ARE A QUEEN
- IF your first name is Queen you can be CALLED QUEEN (ex: Latifah)
- IF your last name is Queen you an be CALLED A QUEEN

- IF you ONCE WAS a male and had THE CHANGE you can be CALLED A QUEEN

[WHAT DO AMERICAN KINGS AND QUEENS DO]

American Kings:

- Use EBT cards
- Live on Section 8
- Have car payments
- STRUGGLE with bills
- Live with their parents
- Have baby mama issues
- RIDE public transportation
- Have regular job or unemployed
- Apply for unemployment benefits
- Live in an apartment and pay rent
- PRETEND to be someone they aren't
- Live in a house and/or have mortgage payments
- Go to his friends and complain about his woman
- HANG OUT in clubs or other places TALKING SHIT and CHASING PUSSY.

American Queens:

- Use EBT cards
- Live on Section 8
- GET KNOCKED UP
- Have car payments
- STRUGGLE with bills
- Live with their parents
- Have baby daddy issues
- RIDE public transportation
- Have regular job or unemployed
- Apply for unemployment benefits
- Live in an apartment and pay rent
- PRETEND to be someone they aren't
- HANG OUT in clubs hustling free drinks
- HUSTLE MEN for free dinners and dates
- Prance around with their CLEAVAGE exposed
- Live in a house and/or have mortgage payments

- Go to the authorities trying to get child support payments
- Wear weaves that DO NOT RESEMBLE their own hair texture
- Become a public embarrassment with loud, profane behavior
- Fuck a deadbeat and FALSELY claim the child is for someone else
- Have OVERWEIGHT bodies and run around claiming how sexy they look

- Can't keep the same PHONE NUMBER cause they DON'T PAY or CAN'T FIND A FOOL TO PAY their phone bill

[WHAT DO SENSIBLE, RESPONSIBLE EVERYDAY PEOPLE DO NOT DO]

They DO NOT DO any of the above.

[WHY DO THEY PRETEND TO BE KINGS AND QUEENS]

I have no idea. The next time you see someone claiming to be a King or a Queen, ask them.

[CONCLUSION]

Are you one of those pretentious types? Have I upset you? You can put your crowns back on your heads and RETURN to your kindom.

Class is dismissed.

DATING: Are You Her Servant or Is She a Prostitute?


So often males will be expected to go out of their way during the dating process if he wants a female's company or eventual companionship. There is an old, out-dated expression, "A man has to prove HIS worthiness in order to be accepted by a woman". Well, what about her worthiness?
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any male that is dating or in a relationship that VALUES HIMSELF.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

I did a show last night talking about teenage dating. The panel consisted of 4 young males 17 - 20. What I learned, from those males, is that THEY have unknowingly been raised or conditioned to place LITTLE VALUE on themselves as well as have LITTLE EXPECTATIONS from the females they are dating or attempting to date.

This mentality and behavior simply REMAINS as they grow up to be adults.

[MY PREDICTION]

The number of males that expect and will express those expectations to a female will continue to diminish.

The number of males that serve with little to no expectations will continue to rise.

The number of males that see females as Ho's or will DISRESPECT and USE females will continue to rise. That number will MOSTLY come from those SERVANTS that was used and eventually TOSSED ASIDE.

[QUESTION TO THE YOUNG MALES ON THE SHOW]

Since you do all of those things for the female while you are dating them, what EXACTLY do you expect from them during that same time?

[ANSWER]

Collectively speaking, their answers were either "I don't know" or "I never thought about that".

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

Generally speaking, the male's behavior HAS NOT CHANGED much from the old days and males continue to GIVE and GIVE and EXPECT less and less. 

Even more ridiculous, MOST males don't even express their expectations or desires to a female when dating. They simple REMAIN SILENT and HOPE. that mentality and behavior is then EXPECTED to continue IF she allows him into a relationship with her.

[SERVANT or CLOSET PROSTITUTE]

SERVANT. If the dating is one-sided where you are applying much more effort towards her as she is with you then you are simply serving her.

CLOSET PROSTITUTE. If you have to spend money on her to be with her or she is not paying her own way then SHE is PROSTITUTING HER TIME. What she does with that time USUALLY depends on how much you spend and how attractive she is to you. You, in most cases, DO NOT dictate the action if you are spending money to be with her UNLESS she admits to you that she is a prostitute.

[PLACE VALUE IN YOU AND EXPECTATIONS FROM HER]

If YOU VALUE YOU, then you should have NO PROBLEM explaining to her that you will expect:

1. Her to INITIATE contact with you just as you INITIATE contact with her

2. Her to INVITE you out on dates just as you INVITE her out on dates

3. Her to PAY for the dates just as you PAY for the dates

The 3 expectations above are those that ANY FEMALE is capable of doing so you should NOT ACCEPT any excuses for her not doing them.

[WHAT WILL THIS PROVE]

First of all, IF SHE directly or indirectly gives an indication that she is NOT GOING TO meet with your expectations of her to WILLINGLY participate, you should DUMP HER and move on because this proves she has NO RESPECT for you and DOES NOT VALUE your company.

This will prove IF she has a genuine interest in you as well as prove her to be responsible for herself and capable of planning things AS OPPOSED to just sitting on her ass, smiling and EXPECTING YOU to do the most (if not all) of the effort.

This will ALSO PROVE whether or not SHE WAS RAISED to be a PROSTITUTE or RAISED to value a male for the contents of his character.

[CONCLUSION]

It is so sad how the DIGNITY of the MAJORITY of males have sunk so low as to ALLOW themselves to be devalued to a point of just being SATISFIED IF a females ALLOWS him in her company AFTER he has SERVED HER WELL or paid the ADMISSION FEE.

The really sad part is that the number of NO DIGNITY, NO EXPECTATIONS males are growing and partially due to THEIR FATHERS passing down that mentality and behavior to them.

Are you a Servant or tying to get with the company of a Prostitute? If so, you need to RID YOURSELF of that female and ONLY associate with females that will put JUST AS MUCH EFFORT in you as you wish to do in them.

Thursday, June 20, 2013

What Good Is a Mate IF SHE HAS The Ability To and Don't FINANCIALLY Participate?

So many males are STILL LIVING in the past thinking they are SUPPOSED TO financially support a female.  The INTERESTING part about it is that MOST of those females have jobs and are SPENDING THEIR MONEY on THEMSELVES and NOT ON HIM yet she STILL EXPECTS him to financially support her.
 

[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to any common, average Joe male that has an interest in investing in HIS future REGARDLESS of race, color, creed, etc.

I WILL represent or advise ANY common, average Joe MALE that seeks my advice and not just black males because MANY average Joe males of all groups are NOT GETTING the FAIR TREATMENT, CONSIDERATION and RESPECT they deserve when it comes to interacting with females nowadays.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

This is NOT the 50's and 60's where women CAN'T financially contribute and men better start thinking MORE about their future and getting a female for MORE than just companionship.

One of man's WORST INVESTMENTS is having a female that is a FINANCIAL LIABILITY.  THERE ARE women out there that WANT TO participate in the financial management of a relationship so why get one that will EXPECT YOU to financially support her?

[QUESTIONS and ANSWERS]

Q1. Why are so many common, average Joe males broke or struggling financially?

A1. Because the majority of them are out there financially supporting a woman that is quite capable of supporting herself and managing HER money properly.

Q2. Why are so many WORKING females broke or financially struggling?

A2. Because THEY KNOW males have been PROGRAMMED to financially support them so they don't have to be concerned about HOW are my bills going to be paid IF I can't pay them. Since they know this AND it has been proven time and time again, females WILL SPEND recklessly, foolishly and irresponsibly.

[END OF QUESTIONS and ANSWERS]

You can PRETEND all you want THAT YOU AREN'T ONE but when you wake up out of that pretentious state, the VAST majority of us will STILL BE that common, average Joe male hopefully with a decent job AND a respectable life. 

[IT'S YOUR LIFE and YOUR CHOICE]
This applies to the common, average Joe male:

SHORT-TERM. If you are looking to invest short-term then BY ALL MEANS find you a woman that YOU can financially support. That way SHE will FEEL good with you while you are SPENDING YOUR MONEY on her.

LONG-TERM. If you are looking to invest long-term then CONSIDER a woman that WANT'S TO MINIMIZE the financial responsibility placed upon you by PARTICIPATING in the financial responsibilities and management that is REQUIRED in order to INCREASE your chances TOGETHER of a life-long, planned COMFORTABLE life together.

[WHAT'S A FINANCIAL LIABILITY

1. She has a job but don't pay her own way

2. She has a job but don't FAIRLY contribute financially to the maintenance of that relationship

3. She has the qualifications and ability to work but she does not work or want to work

4. She has the qualifications and ability to work but he does not want her to work

When I speak, I speak of the common, average Joe male and not the financially well-to-do that can afford to have a woman in his life and NOT financially contribute.  The common, average Joe in these days and times CANNOT AFFORD to financially support a female and EXPECT to live a long, healthy, happy, somewhat comfortable and minimally stressful life.

[MY OPINION]

1. Let me first state that I am and try my best to represent the "Average Joe" male. If for whatever reason I would suddenly become elevated ABOVE the average Joe level, I know where my FOUNDATION came from and I would NOT ABANDON the rest of the Joe males.

2. I believe that women of today are quite capable of FINANCIALLY contributing to and assisting in maintaining a relationship AND should be expected to contribute.

3. I believe that two incomes, properly managed, will ALWAYS be better than one because you NEVER know what lies down the road FINANCIALLY or what may happen to that one source of income.

4. I don't believe in FINANCIALLY supporting a capable woman that I am in a relationship with which is why I DO NOT DATE women who DO NOT pay their own way. That dating behavior simply CREATES the support foundation that WILL BE transferred into a relationship.

5. I believe in a woman financially MANAGING herself so that she WON'T expect to place her financial BURDEN on me that she mismanaged.

6. I believe in INVESTING for MY future comfort rather than PAYING for HER present comfort.

[CONCLUSION]

My classes are for those common, average Joe males that seek answers that are REASONABLE, SENSIBLE and DESIGNED to benefit them WITHOUT being taken advantage of, WITHOUT sacrificing what they have OR WITHOUT taking advantage of someone else.

Class is dismissed.

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

IMAGE IS EVERYTHING: When It Comes To Marriage and Christianity

Everyone has a LEGAL right to do what they want to as long as it does not break the law and I completely RESPECT their right to do so. This post is directed at those HYPOCRITES who DO NOT PRACTICE the principles of that IMAGE they are SO PROUDLY DISPLAYING to the rest of us.

 
[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES NOT APPLY to all married or Christian people.

This DOES APPLY to the married and Christian people who are HYPOCRITES.

[DEFINITIONS]

IMAGE. A visual representation of the external form of a person that may not represent their actual status or behavior.

HYPOCRITE. Vowing to adhere to or claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform.

MARRIAGE VOWS. Binding promises each partner in a couple makes to the other during a wedding ceremony.

CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE. A particular principle that is taught with expectations of the followers to adhere to and practice.

EXCUSE. A reason or explanation put forward in an attempt to lessen the blame or justify a behavior.

[END OF DEFINITIONS]

What continues to AMUSE me are those HYPOCRITE married and Christian people who encourage (and sometimes harass) others to become a part of something that THEY DON'T ADHERE TO. Marriage vows and Christian doctrines are two of the LEAST adhered to and MOST excuse ridden that I know of.

[MARRIAGE VOWS]

MOST don't adhere to those traditional vows so why even say them OTHER THAN it's good for THE IMAGE at the wedding ceremony. Based upon all the lying, fornicating and other the other bullshit that goes on in marriages, those vows should be short and to the point so no one will be lying to God or the witnesses:

“(Man) I take thee to be my wife”, “(Woman) I take thee to be my husband”, “(Clergy) By the power invested in me I now pronounce you Husband and Wife”.

Now BOTH of you DO NOT HAVE TO PRETEND and are FREE to behave in any manner you see fit because there are NO CONDITIONS stated in your vows to VIOLATE.

[CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE]

*** WARNING ***

Religious discussions has a tendency to cause "Confusion, Confrontation and Alienation" with the person introducing religion IF you are attempting to have a LOGICAL discussion about anything. The only way to keep that person pleased or from getting tense or upset is:

1. Tell them what they want to hear, or

2. Agree with what they are saying.

*** END OF WARNING ***

This is the ULTIMATE religious practice because you can lie, steal, fornicate, covet YOUR neighbor's wife, etc. and all you have to do is:

"Pray and ask for forgiveness for your sins".

Now that's the shit cause SO MANY will sin, pray for forgiveness and guess what? That's right, "Sin again". I especially love these particular excuses:

1. "My flesh was weak"

2. "God is a forgiving God"

3. "I am not perfect. Only God is perfect."

[WHAT'S MY POINT]

YOU PEOPLE need to STOP that FALSE advertisement OR at the least STOP trying to get the rest of us to do something that YOU ARE NOT DOING.

[CONCLUSION]

I wish I could conclude this but it's been going on before me and will continue after me. I'm just saying what MOST are aware of and are doing but just KEEPING IT IN THE CLOSET.

Monday, June 17, 2013

VICTIM or ATTACKER: I Don't Encourage Violence But I Do Understand Self Defense

I will never stop saying this, "If you have to CONSTANTLY argue with a female, you should GET RID OF HER". Continual engaging in heated arguments, with manyfemales, will EVENTUALLY end up in some sort of physical response by her.
 

[DISCLAIMER]

THERE ARE sensible, non-violent women capable of engaging in a HEATED discussion or argument WITHOUT responding with physical violence.

This DOES NOT APPLY to women who can refrain from physically responding when engaged in a heated discussion or argument.

DO NOT RESPOND physically unless you are in danger of receiving CRITICAL body harm and if you have to respond physically DO SO ONLY with the amount necessary to distance yourself from her.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

MOST of the time domestic violence will be INITIATED by the female. I know you don't think so due to the DOUBLE STANDARDS that are applied for the SAME type of act. Let's keep it very basic to minimize confusion and diversion from my point.

[FACT]

There are females that simply LOVE violence, LOVE heated confrontations and the PHYSICAL, violent responses that result from those heated confrontations.

[SEXUAL FOREPLAY PERSPECTIVE]

There are many males and females that have the BELIEF that sex is more intense and much better AFTER a heated argument or a physical altercation. I guess for those that think like that it is true.

Guess what happens to you IF, for whatever reason, SHE DECIDES to "Call the police after the altercation" INSTEAD OF "Calling you daddy after the altercation"? Is that risk worth it?

[SCENARIOS]

These are 3 common scenarios:

1. COUPLE HAS A DISAGREEMENT. The two of them get into a conversation with opposing positions and it escalates into a heated argument. Voices get louder, tempers get hotter and they get closer to each other. Finally he says something that SHE does not like, EMOTIONALLY explodes and SLAPS HIM.

2. SHE SUSPECTS HIM OF CHEATING. She confronts him about whether or not he is seeing another woman. Initially he says no and walks away from her. She grabs him, turns him around, gets in his face (no contact) and constantly asks until he CONFESSES that he had been seeing another woman. All of a sudden she EMOTIONALLY explodes, SLAPS him in the face and walk away.

3. HE LOOKS AT ANOTHER WOMAN. They are out in public and this woman that is more attractive than her is walking ahead of them. She notices him watching her for more than just a glance so she pushed, slaps or punches him in his chest.

[QUESTIONS]

1. WAS SHE PROVOKED by him into responding in those manners?

2. Was those her ONLY OPTIONS available to respond?

3. Should HER responses be considered JUSTIFIED or a UNJUSTIFIED?

4. Should SHE be considered a VICTIM because he defended himself and she GOT HER ASS WHIPPED?

[DOUBLE STANDARDS]

People, generally speaking, considers the above responses by a female to be:

- Harmless,

- Acceptable,

- EXCUSABLE emotional response.

People, generally speaking, considers the above responses by a male to be:

- Harmful,

- Unacceptable,

- A criminal act,

- A woman hater,

- Domestic abuse,

- Emotional abuse,

- A woman abuser,

- A violation of her civil rights,

- Verbal abuse (heated argument),

- Behavior that is unbecoming of a man,

- A possible rapist if they engage in sex afterwards.

[WHY DOUBLE STANDARDS]

Abuse towards males are NOT taken seriously, in MOST cases, because most males are NOT seen as being of any value EXCEPT FOR the money and labor he can provide her.

SADLY, most males nowadays look upon themselves in the SAME MANNER as most females do which is simply a FINANCIAL PROVIDER and LABORER that is HOPING to benefit from his actions WHEN SHE FEELS the need to do so.

If you think this is FUNNY rather than SERIOUS, it's because you are either one of those INCONSIDERATE and ABUSIVE FEMALES that behave in this manner OR you are a male that has been PROGRAMMED through society for MENTAL ENSLAVEMENT and PHYSICAL ABUSE.

[SOLUTION]

You MUST think and respond in the same manner that females are taught which is:

1. Decide to NO LONGER accept that behavior.

2. REPORT that act of ABUSE to the authorities,

3. SECRETLY plan to or immediately (if you can) leave that relationship and NEVER go back to or communicate with her.

[CONCLUSION]

Females will CONTINUE to abuse and take advantage of you UNTIL YOU STOP IT from occurring.

I can only give you information that I believe will help you but it's no good IF you do not understand and apply it.

Class is dismissed.