Tuesday, February 18, 2014

ASK JAI DUVAL SESSION: "Why Don't You Date Black Women and Why Do You Hate Black Women"

Hate is a pretty harsh word.  I DON'T HATE any black woman although I will say that I am VERY DISAPPOINTED in black women WHEN IT COMES TO INTERACTION WITH ME and ESPECIALLY those WORKING black women.



[DISCLAIMER]

This DOES APPLY to ME and MY personal experiences.

This DOES NOT APPLY to males with LOW SELF-ESTEEM.

This DOES APPLY ONLY to those WORKING black women.

This CAN APPLY to ANY working woman REGARDLESS of race, color, etc.

[END OF DISCLAIMER]

At least 98% of WORKING black women have a BIG ISSUE with being CONSISTENTLY considerate (of the man) and responsible (financially for herself by paying her own way) when it comes to HER INTERACTION with a man.

I decided to date only WORKING women because women WITHOUT A JOB typically will have NO entertainment MONEY.

As MOST black women and ESPECIALLY those that have a job would say:

"I'm not taking care of a grown ass man".

Well, I feel the same about grown ass WORKING women.  I am NOT financially supporting their INCONSIDERATE and IRRESPONSIBLE asses.

[NEWS FLASH FOR THE IDIOTS AND MORONS]

If YOU CREATE an EXPENSE then YOU should PAY for it.

Any social event (i.e., dining, movies, concerts, trips, etc) that REQUIRES payment should be paid by the individual that wants to enjoy that event.

[DON'T BELIEVE THE "FALSE ADVERTISEMENT"]

MANY of these INCONSIDERATE females will say, "I pay my bills".  Well if that were the case then those social events that THEY ATTEND with a man IS A BILL and don't give us that BULLSHIT of "Who Ever Invites Should Pay".

[WHO EVER INVITES SHOULD PAY IS "BULLSHIT" AND THEY KNOW IT]

Just how many times do you ACTUALLY believe that THEY INVITE?  

I'm sure that out of 20 (for purposes of simplicity) dates that women have gone on, MOST of them have invited MAYBE 3 times.

Out of those 3 times they have probably paid 0.5 times (which includes tip).  So that's 0.5 times out of 20 THEY will have come out of THEIR pockets.

[SO WHEN DO THEY PAY THEIR OWN WAY]

That is ONE OF the EASIEST question I have ever had presented to me.

"THEY PAY their own way IF they see some sort of VALUE in YOU".

[WHAT KIND OF VALUE ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT]

Value can range from YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE, YOUR COMPANY all the way to YOUR WALLET and LIFESTYLE that they find VERY, VERY ATTRACTIVE.

[CONCLUSION]

I feel that it would be a WASTE FOR ME to spend my time trying to seek that 2% of black women that WOULD BE considerate (of me) and responsible (pay their own way).

I would prefer to NOT WASTE time in that WASTE of 98% of black women who WOULD NOT be considerate of me OR pay their own way with me.

By the time I would MAYBE find one of the 2%, I would be too emotionally and financially FUCKED UP from sifting through that 98% PILE OF SHIT to be of ANY GOOD to a CONSIDERATE and RESPONSIBLE black woman that belongs in that RARE 2% GROUP.

4 comments:

  1. Maybe you should date a man.

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    1. Take your own advice.

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  2. the one who said date a man is one of the 19.5 blk women. Please only date those who are at least willing to discuss the issue without name calling. Blk women have long given up on their men and this has made it very convenient for us to scoop them up, especially the ones that are educated and aware of the laziness of them to pursue their men. We who know the power and stroke of a blk man, will be glad to go out dutch, until we decide to touch. We can make better families because we respect your position and know our position as Queen.

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