This DOES APPLY to any male that have IGNORED the obvious simply because YOU WANTED HER SO BADLY.
This DOES NOT APPLY to considerate, responsible, man-loving women that ACTIVELY participate and contribute to dating and relationships.
[END OF DISCLAIMER]
There should be NO EMBARRASSMENT in admitting that YOU CAUSED yourself MOST of the pain, disappointment and financial loss when it came to your interaction and involvement with a female you were attracted to.
[MOST FEMALES DO NOT NOW AND WILL NEVER CARE ABOUT OR RESPECT THE DECENT MALE]
MOST FEMALES, if you observe them closely enough, have that spoiled, irresponsible, child-like mentality and will BORE EASILY which is why THEY are ALWAYS STRESSING YOU OUT to entertain them or bail them out of some situation THEY GOT THEMSELVES INTO.
The MAJORITY of females in the USA and MANY females in other countries have been EVOLVING into what I call PAY-PER-VIEW HOS and their sisters knows as "Inconsiderate, Selfish, Entitlement Minded, Scamming BITCHES".
[MOST MALES WERE PROGRAMMED FOR SELF DESTRUCTION BEFORE THEY EVEN REALIZED IT]
The MAJORITY of us males (as young boys) were BEING PROGRAMMED for SELF DESTRUCTION by being RAISED to eventually provide and protect those EVOLVING Ho's and Bitches.
The males that WERE NOT DAMAGED were those ABUSIVE male types that DID NOT GIVE A SHIT about a female and though of them ONLY in a manner of WHAT CAN THESE Ho's and Bitches do for me (i.e., Pimps, Players, Pretty Boys, Thugs, etc.).
[WHAT TO DO "AFTER" YOU'VE EXPERIENCED THAT DOWNFALL AND "TRULY" READY TO PICK YOURSELF BACK UP]
I mentioned a "3 Step Plan" on the back of my first book which is easy for ANY male to do ONCE he's really decided he's had enough and want to change for the better.
Step 1. Admit to yourself that YOU (not her) are the BLAME for what happened to you. (EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: If you don't ACCEPT THE BLAME FOR YOUR CHOICE you will continue to behave in the same manner thinking it's someone else's fault and therefore YOU don't have to make any changes).
Step 2. Take some time to CLEARLY understand what you did and why you did it.
Step 3. Take whatever means necessary to RID YOURSELF of that mindset and behavior to make sure that you NEVER EVER REPEAT that SAME BEHAVIOR again no matter who she is or how good (you think) she looks.
NO FEMALE is beyond scrutiny or expectations and should NOT BE ALLOWED to simply lay on her ass and RECEIVE in a relationship.
There SHOULD BE EXPECTATIONS of just as much participation and responsibility in dating and relationships as YOU ARE EXPECTED to do and IF SHE DON'T DO then you must GET RID OF HER.
If YOU CHOOSE to do practically everything for her or give practically everything to her then BLAME NO ONE (not even her) for the PAIN, DISAPPOINTMENT and FINANCIAL LOSS that will eventually occur.