This DOES APPLY to all males REGARDLESS of living with one or both parents.
This DOES APPLY to all males DESIRING to have a meaningful, loving and mutually FINANCIAL participating relationship.
This DOES APPLY to all males who have sons and are CONCERNED about what happens to him during his development and once he becomes and adult.
This DOES APPLY to all males who DO NOT want to get FINANCIALLY RAPED if they get married and it ends up in divorce (Seek qualified legal counsel prior to marriage).
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MOST MALES are destined for MAJOR disasters, FINANCIAL losses and RELATIONSHIP disappointments in life even before they leave the nest and go out on their own.
[DO YOU THINK THE FEMALE SHOULD "EQUALLY" PARTICIPATE IN EFFORT AND FINANCE DURING DATING AND MARRIAGE]
Many males have that "I am THE MAN" mindset and believe he is to bear the MAJORITY of the responsibilities during dating and marriage. Are you one of those males?
[FEMALES ARE JUST AS CAPABLE FINANCIALLY AS MALES NOWADAYS]
Females have the ABILITY to work and DO EARN an income so STOP ALLOWING them into your life if they DON'T PAY THEIR OWN WAY.
If she is earning an income AND married to you then DO NOT ACCEPT her spending that money on her PERSONAL PLEASURES before she has EQUALLY contributed to the NEEDS of that MARRIAGE.
If you ACCEPT her INCONSIDERATE behavior in that relationship, BLAME NO ONE (not even her) for the disappointing and disastrous consequences to you.
[THE MAJORITY OF THE DECENT, EVERYDAY JOE MALE LIFE PHASE]
This is typically what happens to the DECENT male:
PHASE 1 (Childhood). He is programmed to prepare himself to provide for and take care of a female he has a personal interest in or he is going to be married to.
PHASE 2 (Dating). He places NO RESPONSIBILITY upon her. He approaches, he ask for the number, he calls, he plans, he invites and MOST IMPORTANTLY he pays.
PHASE 3 (Marriage). She REPEATS the same behavior that she did when they were dating (which was little to nothing) and creates problems or develops an attitude during the marriage IF he expects more from her.
She DOES NOT EQUALLY contribute FINANCIALLY to the maintenance of the marriage (i.e., utilities, rent/mortgage, car payment and maintenance, groceries, taxes, insurance, etc.) nor does she contribute EQUALLY financially when it comes to the ENTERTAINMENT (i.e., dining out, trips, concerts, movies, etc.).
PHASE 4 (Divorce). THE COURT system MANDATES that she receives at least HALF of all assets acquired during that marriage (even though her contribution was not half).
Depending upon how long they were together and what SHE has done career wise, THE COURT can also MANDATE that she receive HALF of YOUR PENSION.
[DON'T BE DELUSIONAL AND SAY IT WOULD "NEVER" HAPPEN TO YOU]
At least 60% of marriages end in divorce which means at least 85% of the men getting divorced are GETTING RAPED FINANCIALLY if they have acquired anything of value.
[LOVE MEANS NOTHING TO 95% OF THE FEMALES BEFORE MARRIAGE, DURING MARRIAGE AND ESPECIALLY AFTER MARRIAGE]
DATING. If she VALUES YOU as a person then she will be considerate of you and display HER ABILITY to be RESPONSIBLE and an ASSET by calling, planning and initiating and paying her own way just as you should do.
MARRIAGE. Her opportunity to LEGALLY do nothing, steal whatever monies exist between the two of you and leave when she wants to and TAKE HALF on her way out.
DIVORCE. There is NO LOVE other than the LOVE to RAPE YOU FINANCIALLY and then MOVE ON to THE NEXT MAN.
FOR YOUR SON(S). Talk to your YOUNG son and ask him about dating, marriage and his expectations from the female during those times. Find out what HE THINKS he should be doing as well.
FOR YOU. Talk to yourself and ask yourself the same as your son(s).
Enjoy your weekend, class is dismissed.