Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Beware of those FixHerUppers

I can NOT express this one enough to you LONELY, WEAK and DESPERATE males out there to "Leave those TROUBLED females alone".  SO MANY males have ruined their lives getting personally involved with what I call FixHerUppers. FixHerUppers are unstable females that are riddled with emotional, financial and physical problems. 


This DOES APPLY to any male that feel the need to come to the assistance of a female in need THINKING she will be obligated to pay him back or commit to a relationship with him afterwards.


The common, average Joe male foolishly believes if he comes to the aid of a female he has a PERSONAL interest in that it will secure a relationship with her and eventually make his life better having her around. 


The truth of the matter is that in most cases it will not improve his lifestyle but rather bring a burden into his lifestyle and improve the quality of her life while she dumps her responsibilities, burdens and attitude onto him.


After all, SHE CHOSE to IRRESPONSIBLY spend her money and get into financial trouble as well as SHE WILLINGLY CHOSE to be with that (or those) types of ABUSIVE males that got her in that trouble-some position to begin with.


Never reduce your quality of life by allowing a trouble-some female into your personal life and don’t allow her or her problems to move in with you. If you are going to allow her into your social life then do so at an emotional distance. Being social is fine as long as you are in control, not getting emotionally involved, not paying her way or helping her with her financial responsibilities.
The moment that you begin to lose control or foolishly think of giving up that control; it’s time to toss in the towel and get out of that ring.


You, in most cases, are simply a means to putting an end to her burdens and responsibilities. She will generally cater to you or allow you to spend time with her in order to get you to bring her into your comfortable lifestyle. Once she’s gotten in and you have relaxed she will place her burdens and responsibilities on you and probably cut back or quit doing the things she did initially to trick you into making that stupid decision.

Once you have relieved her burdens you will no longer be of any use to her and she will either take total control of your life or dump you and move on. That move is usually to an ex or someone that she has been seeing while with you. If she had not been seeing anyone she will move on to be available to have multiple men cater to her until THE ONE she will submit to comes along that she knew all along DEFINITELY WASN'T YOU.


There is a very good chance that FixHerUpper will be sweet and cooperative while she is in the process of getting herself back together because SHE NEEDS YOU.

There is ALSO an even better chance that she will become UNCOOPERATIVE or even LEAVE YOU AFTERWARDS because she NO LONGER NEEDS YOU.


NEVER get involved with a female because SHE NEEDS YOU.  Only get involved with a female that HAS HERSELF TOGETHER and SHE WANTS YOU.

As usual, all I can do is provide you with information in these classes and you have to decide for yourself.

Class is dismissed.


No comments:

Post a Comment